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Dishonesty on this site
November 17 2014
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6exxy
10 years ago
Yep that would be a lie!
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RHP User
10 years ago
We just had the reverse situation of being accused of being a single guy pretending to be a couple! A couple had contacted us and I was messaging with the female half, swapped pics etc (I found her attractive but was unsure if Mrs HnH would fancy him) and then let her know I'd have to check in with my wife before going any further. So I let her know we didn't want to proceed and get accused of being a lying single male because I won't give her my wife's phone number for a chat! Some people just can't accept no for an answer.....
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'mischievouslea' Twice in the space of a week I had two men basically say they never lied about their relationship status...they just failed to mention that they were attached. Apparently if I had asked the question they would have told me...hmm didn't think to ask since profile states the person is single - Posted from rhpmobile the lengths some people go too, to cover up their status! Then they try even harder when caught out.... LOL! It's hilarious when...they've got away with for so long, that they don't even realize they're doing it anymore...they start to believe their own bullshit and single status! Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I haven't been on here long and have met up with a few people and also on dating sites and I am astounded at how many people look nothing - and I mean nothing - like their photos. Why do people do that! That is completely dishonest too. Met a lady tonight who was very attractive in her photos. Real life - black teeth, stained clothes, and admitted -I've put on a bit of weight since the photos - yeah that's right - about 20 kilos! Looked absolutely NOTHING like her photo. Learned my lesson, am going to Skype first or ask for a current selfie on my phone. That dishonesty is easy to pick out at the first meeting, it is the hidden dishonesty that is really hard. The married men who proclaim to be single, the ones who say they don't smoke - but then you start getting this whiff of smoke on their breath - and they claim they had stopped but started again. Well update your profile then - my profile says - not interested in smokers. Don't all these people realise they will eventually get found out - and are just wasting there and my time. Rant over.
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RHP User
10 years ago
ps my photos are from a week ago! Not photoshopped either!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe they are lonely and will say/do anything to go out and spend some time with another person. Perhaps it is hope that makes them do it. I have no idea. I would love to go out with someone but since there are no takers, I will just make do with reading a few novels and I really, really want to practice my Charleston. Oh well, it is Shim Sham week so that will be fun. Quoting 'Larapl' I haven't been on here long and have met up with a few people and also on dating sites and I am astounded at how many people look nothing - and I mean nothing - like their photos. Why do people do that! That is completely dishonest too. Met a lady tonight who was very attractive in her photos. Real life - black teeth, stained clothes, and admitted -I've put on a bit of weight since the photos - yeah that's right - about 20 kilos! Looked absolutely NOTHING like her photo. Learned my lesson, am going to Skype first or ask for a current selfie on my phone. That dishonesty is easy to pick out at the first meeting, it is the hidden dishonesty that is really hard. The married men who proclaim to be single, the ones who say they don't smoke - but then you start getting this whiff of smoke on their breath - and they claim they had stopped but started again. Well update your profile then - my profile says - not interested in smokers. Don't all these people realise they will eventually get found out - and are just wasting there and my time. Rant over.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My first actually..... Big downer, makes me question myself..... All going great, right up to the meet up. I guess he had somewhat of the decency to let me know he was cancelling, well sort of, he asked if I could give him a bit to shuffle some meetings, then that was it.......... Boohoo feeling very sorry for myself :((..........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry to hear that Bigmamma1. Been the recipient of it so know how it feels. It is his loss. Quoting 'Bigmamma1' My first actually..... Big downer, makes me question myself..... All going great, right up to the meet up. I guess he had somewhat of the decency to let me know he was cancelling, well sort of, he asked if I could give him a bit to shuffle some meetings, then that was it.......... Boohoo feeling very sorry for myself :((..........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh yes they lie. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Myjourney
10 years ago
Had a guy from Wollongong msg me, he was a new sign up. His profile stated his status as 'ask me', so I did. His reply "oops didn't know that".! He then proceeded tto say he was a professional athlete and didn't want anyone to know he was on here. Wouldn't show pictures, then he removed his pictures all together and now they have re appeared!..... The icing on the cake is, I asked him to use email which we did and guess what he used his full name and I was able to look him up on Facebook. Surprise, surprise his cover photo is of his GF or wife and has been that since 2012!...wish we could name and shame. So girls of Wollongong get ready for this one to message you. 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
But her profile said attractive and just a few extra pounds, OMG she lied ! She was HUGE with a head like a dropped pie ! She lied ! We had been chatting and she sounded honest so my mind just ran away, was she the one ? Now I'm devastated and it's all her fault, she lied !How can I ever trust again ? "Please note that these opinions are sourced solely from my own personal experiences with some women, and I fully and explicitly recognise that #not all women will engage in this behaviour and I do not intend this post to apply to every woman in the world. Furthermore, yes I am very aware of the fact that men can also behave badly but unfortunately I do not have the personal anecdotal evidence of such behaviour to include in this post.".
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RHP User
10 years ago
50zcool, she thought she was attractive. Nothing wrong with that. It's quite subjective. If she was the one, does it matter what she looks like?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know you were taking the piss (you won't want to know how many times i had to correct my autocorrect to put that word in) out of this topic. It wasn't a criticism or any thing like that. I should have worded it better.
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greengsxr
10 years ago
This site allows us to be totally honest and open with what we want and how we wish to achieve it doesn't it? It provides an opportunity to step outside the known /public self to a truer reflection. So why pretend to be something other than what you truly are? That's why I'm here! Isn't it the same for you? So much wasted time! It's quite sad I think.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'kaliopejane1' This is not a dating site love .. Actually, it is. It even says so on the home page. And I must say I've heard more lies on the vanilla sites than I have here. and i have been told by some guys they get more sex on the vanilla sites. it does not matter which site you join, I have been on most of them, but I get more messages on the Adult sites...go figure.....I suppose it is the old"SEX SELLS" calling.
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eukie
10 years ago
There are plenty of ladies on here that also do the same... A profile pic you took 10 years ago, saying you're DD when you're lucky to be a C.. Saying you are 5'10" when you're 5'0"... saying you don't smoke when you are infact a chimney... Same applies - it's not always the guys...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't forget those that simply assume and judge others but sadly (for them) get it wrong
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'greengsxr' This site allows us to be totally honest and open with what we want and how we wish to achieve it doesn't it? It provides an opportunity to step outside the known /public self to a truer reflection. So why pretend to be something other than what you truly are? That's why I'm here! Isn't it the same for you? So much wasted time! It's quite sad I think.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The internet allows us to be what we want (wish) to be like rather than how we are in reality. Unfortunately, some people might blur the lines between the myth and reality and I would say are dishonest with themselves. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, Cannot help but think it is only the honest ones that actually contribute to this post regarding dishonesty. There came a time in my last relationship where I actually said to my partner I didn't want to be lying to myself about the unhappiness within that the relationship. After having to elaborate further just on the concept of a person lying to one's self to another mature adult, separate to looking again at solving the unhappiness, it dawned on me that it could simply be that some people may in fact be unaware of their own real truths through fear or ignorance. Does that make sense? It may not necessarily be that they are motivated by deceit or other particular negative motivations, though possibly an inability to construct or generate that internal dialogue to therefore have them recognise further who they are and what they are about. Concepts or realities that others may very well have come to accept or "own". Guess through my own ignorance or nativity I've taken it for granted that just because I for instance, as a 42 year old bald male (insert mature and self aware adult here) have reached a point to be honest with one's self it doesn't mean that my peers are necessarily at the same point. To be understanding and accepting of this allows me to be more patient with others and to operate without judgement or from closing one's self off from further opportunities to engage in positive experiences with other people. How does that sound...poppy cock...psycho-babble...bullshit or maybe just maybe an honest and genuine approach.
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