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Frustration of a guest contacting guests
September 30 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
But as a couple, we really didn't need to pay when we were on here to play. As a fora follower I found it more frustrating though. I'd want to message people but couldn't. I mostly got around that in the long run and have contact with the people who matter to me most these days. Having also had a female profile, we get special privileges, so it's a lot better for us. I haven't bothered to verify my profile, but these days if you have... Last I heard... women get to send one free message to male guests with 7 days in between each. They get into the chat rooms for free too. You didn't need to be verified in the past but I think too many people were taking advantage. Guests can also message matching platinum members the last I heard. But yeah, no blues here. I'm not a big messenger at the best of times. It's perving on the pics I miss most!!! PeachyPearL
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
There are no free lunches in the world these days. Male guests..... Full of their self importance to get something for nothing. Expect women to pay a membership so they can messsge the tight arse.
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
Always a guest and never a doorman ☹️😋😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
Considering the male to female ratio on RHP, I can't see realistically how men can ever survive on here as a guest. Even as a couple seeking other couples it's frustrating. Unless you're a single female, a subscription is necessary if you want to be able to connect with others successfully. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Like so many things, you get what you're paying for.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't get free messages. I keep trying and it takes me to the membership page. Last one I had was months ago. I can only message platinum
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Isacruising
7 years ago
But for those who pay Are the benefits worth it Is it easy to use etc
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RHP User
7 years ago
Paying for? Why dear Sir, what are you implyyyying??? (Southern lady drawl..."Two Moon Junction" style) PeachyPearL
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Folks do not mention anything about male to female ratios On forum got lets say....closed or delete at the mere mention and title of the topic. Lets not talk about he who can not be spoken of....
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's good to know RHP has finally caught up to the present. The girls have been doing it for themselves for a long time now. PeachyPearL
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
When you run out of flirts and that bossy little message tells you to become a member. Fun police.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Is being a member worth it?? It's entirely a subjective answer as I feel it depends on how you define that worth. If your worth is defined by how much success you'll have in seducing someone, well that's gonna lead to disappointment I feel as being a member only allows you to send messages....and view restricted pics in the public profiles....so for some it's not going to be worth it.... But.... If your definition of worth is merely having the option to send someone from the forums a quick message to say "hey, I really loved your take on (insert thread name) topic" before elaborating further into some small talk, with a view to have made a new friend, then it's entirely worth it..... I've always tried to have membership as I like to hang a bit of shit on people in a light hearted, fun way, as well as being able to message someone that has piqued my interest..... Sure I don't always get replied to, but that's about them, not about me, and I still see it worth having a few messages each day to send..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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gedsaid69
7 years ago
He ok very hard - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You're kidding? Not another one? 👎
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RHP User
7 years ago
Slut shaming caused a melee 😉
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
And all it got me was an eyeful of cockshot profile pics and a bunch of tight-arsed flirts from guys saying "I'm a guest please message me I'm keen" lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
And I'm coming back on here as a lesbian :)
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Well guests are shit out of luck with me. They can flirt all they like (as per Ellie's comment) but I'm not messaging them. I've always paid for membership as I like to be in control of my own destiny on this site. Guest blues are their own problem; cough up some dosh and they don't exist. Simple really.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Dr Hook memories in the heading... There are many reasons people might not be paying for membership beyond being viewed as a tight arse. To put expectations on a man (for eg) to make all the effort is unreasonable to me considering women (for eg) are perfectly capable and the last thing we expect is to build up entitlement. But On The Topic of Guest contacting Guest blues... It's been a while since I bothered looking at other profiles closely but there used to be a fair few with hidden email details last I looked. Too funny. Happy to be corrected if the situation has changed. Thanks! Happee Sundee, PeachyPearL
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Dr Hook memories in the heading... There are many reasons people might not be paying for membership beyond being viewed as a tight arse. To put expectations on a man (for eg) to make all the effort is unreasonable to me considering women (for eg) are perfectly capable and the last thing we expect is to build up entitlement. But On The Topic of Guest contacting Guest blues... It's been a while since I bothered looking at other profiles closely but there used to be a fair few with hidden email details last I looked. Too funny. Happy to be corrected if the situation has changed. Thanks! Happee Sundee, PeachyPearL Agree with you . But it's male guests that whine about having no luck. So buy memberships to increase your chances. I have no issue messaging guests after a flirt but that's just me
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
As a single male you send messages and get nowhere anyway.. this site is more for couples and single females - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
I disagree with that. 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You are so sexy when you talk like that 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well said. If you are too tight to fork out a few dollars to talk to someone, then you weren't that interested in talking to them in the first place.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway'Quoting 'PeachyPearL'I didn't hold anything against guests when we were members ;-) Dr Hook memories in the heading... There are many reasons people might not be paying for membership beyond being viewed as a tight arse. To put expectations on a man (for eg) to make all the effort is unreasonable to me considering women (for eg) are perfectly capable and the last thing we expect is to build up entitlement. But On The Topic of Guest contacting Guest blues... It's been a while since I bothered looking at other profiles closely but there used to be a fair few with hidden email details last I looked. Too funny. Happy to be corrected if the situation has changed. Thanks! Happee Sundee, PeachyPearL Agree with you . But it's male guests that whine about having no luck. So buy memberships to increase your chances. I have no issue messaging guests after a flirt but that's just me Men should have the same rights as women to not have to pay. It's not like they are buying a service. But to go beyond that.. Ima label women who are guests as tight arses and proclaim if they want a better experience that they have to pay for it... Double standards... Pffft, Peachy, still on weekend mode... The topic is still supposed to be about Guest vs Guest blues... but it's only the men who are disparaged...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Like antichrist I'm mainly a paid member because I like messaging people when what they said on a forum, or something in their profile strikes me in some way. Plus, I'm a perve and like being able to see the x-rated pics Ok yeah...a lot of those pics are, shall we say, not all that visually appealing (I'm not even sure what some of them are actually pictures of, no joke some remind me of some sort of dead sea creature that's washed up on the beach), but there are some that are definitely worth paying the $ to perve at
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RHP User
7 years ago
Bahaha There are definitely photos on here that you wish you hadn't traumatised your eyes looking at.
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chamelions
7 years ago
Pay your money you may get lucky... But then lots of picture hunters on here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't think anyone has any right to name anyone a tight arse because they won't pay. Really. Regardless if you are a member or not. Whether you're male or female. I find the whole approach negative. If you're a member and you don't want to contact guests? Don't... but don't blame it on them being a tight arse because you just don't know. I'm sick of seeing the men vilified so regularly. How would it be if a man said the same thing about a woman? Seriously. There's be Hell to pay. The double standards have been like that as long as I've been here... and some might say that is too long ... And I don't pay because I like to put my money where it's going to do some good. Part of that being the standards for pictures that gets more vanilla/boring all the time. Hehe, principal Peachy
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Quoting 'AnnieWhichway'Quoting 'PeachyPearL'I didn't hold anything against guests when we were members ;-) Dr Hook memories in the heading... There are many reasons people might not be paying for membership beyond being viewed as a tight arse. To put expectations on a man (for eg) to make all the effort is unreasonable to me considering women (for eg) are perfectly capable and the last thing we expect is to build up entitlement. But On The Topic of Guest contacting Guest blues... It's been a while since I bothered looking at other profiles closely but there used to be a fair few with hidden email details last I looked. Too funny. Happy to be corrected if the situation has changed. Thanks! Happee Sundee, PeachyPearL Agree with you . But it's male guests that whine about having no luck. So buy memberships to increase your chances. I have no issue messaging guests after a flirt but that's just me Men should have the same rights as women to not have to pay. It's not like they are buying a service. But to go beyond that.. Ima label women who are guests as tight arses and proclaim if they want a better experience that they have to pay for it... Double standards... Pffft, Peachy, still on weekend mode... The topic is still supposed to be about Guest vs Guest blues... but it's only the men who are disparaged... And women should have the same rights as men. But they don't. So chalk a win for the chicks on rhp........
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MsSexyDeviants
7 years ago
I'm a female unicorn and I still pay for my membership. I can't understand why people don't. But hey... That's just me. I don't tend to message people who flirt me ten times but are guests and keep reply 'I'm a guest please contact me' But that may be because of my above perspective. Meh...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway'Quoting 'PeachyPearL'Quoting 'AnnieWhichway'Quoting 'PeachyPearL'I didn't hold anything against guests when we were members ;-) Dr Hook memories in the heading... There are many reasons people might not be paying for membership beyond being viewed as a tight arse. To put expectations on a man (for eg) to make all the effort is unreasonable to me considering women (for eg) are perfectly capable and the last thing we expect is to build up entitlement. But On The Topic of Guest contacting Guest blues... It's been a while since I bothered looking at other profiles closely but there used to be a fair few with hidden email details last I looked. Too funny. Happy to be corrected if the situation has changed. Thanks! Happee Sundee, PeachyPearL Agree with you . But it's male guests that whine about having no luck. So buy memberships to increase your chances. I have no issue messaging guests after a flirt but that's just meMen should have the same rights as women to not have to pay. It's not like they are buying a service. But to go beyond that.. Ima label women who are guests as tight arses and proclaim if they want a better experience that they have to pay for it... Double standards... Pffft, Peachy, still on weekend mode... The topic is still supposed to be about Guest vs Guest blues... but it's only the men who are disparaged... And women should have the same rights as men. But they don't. So chalk a win for the chicks on rhp........ My reply-with-quotes were something I got in told off for in the past... because it took so long to scroll through, apparently. Totally made amends with that forumite. There is a fantastic example in the forum of how awesome they can be when you get it all right. That was a fun time... They're a bit dicky these days though. A win? I'm looking at win/win. PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
can't afford a membership so to all those implying non paying members are tight asses, well though my ass is tight 😉 so are my finances. When I could afford it, I paid for a membership, and when I can again, I will but it's not a choice for me at this point in time. Not complaining, very happy, just take offence at the assumption women, or men for that matter, are all too tight to pay for a membership. There are other reasons people can't pay, men for example might be on numerous sites, you can't blame them for that, cast the net wider because it's so much harder for them. They can't pay for every site, add to that they have to pay more when they go to clubs or events, it can get costly for them. I was very happy to message guests after a flirt when I was paid member. Because of my situation, I guess I don't judge but I also figured I was here to meet men, so go get 'em tiger 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Plenty of rational points here, I think, for having a paid membership.This is a personal decision based on financial reasons. I mean, what else would it be? An ethical one..? My $18/month allows me to rub online shoulders with hot women all around the country who are often smarter than me.Who wouldn't pay a six-pack of reasonable beer for that monthly challenge..?! And it also gives me the online tools to connect with people closer to home. If I can be bothered. Bonus.
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swingalingson
7 years ago
I only flirted you 9 times..bahahahah
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MsSexyDeviants
7 years ago
Better grow a vagina then, maybe that will work 😏
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RHP User
7 years ago
That $18 a month might seem like a pittance to you, but it'd money I don't have and I imagine I'm not on my own there. I agree it's a small amount to join, well done to the website for keeping the fees low 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
Touch, the only people who have said non paying members are tight arses are women and they're talking about men. So you'll be right. And Kool... Personally, I think it's entirely up to the individual whether they want to be a guest or not. I know I am... and I've given my ethical reason why I choose not... regardless of how many good reasons there might be. I'm still laughing that the topic is supposed to be based on the Frustration of a Guest Contacting Guests. Because hey, if they don't pay they are tight arses and there is no attempt at understanding for why they would choose not to be members. I can tell you that some have gotten sick of footing the bill to contact women who don't bother to reply though they have done all the right things... Each to their own... There aren't that many people I want to be in contact with and the majority of messages received from forumites has been from people who want to gossip about something I said in the fora or to support me in a disagreement I am having with another forumite. Spare me. Different people have different experiences and YaY for everyone whose way is working for them... But Please, Don't assume it will work for anyone/everyone else. That's the beauty of the individuality of the fora if we would just let it be... Persistent PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
The subject of men's approaches to women, and payment of membership fees has been raked over so many times, it's a wonder the coals continue to smoulder. You'd think the fuel load would have been exhausted by now. (Actually, examination of previous forum topics and posts suggests it was exhausted long ago). The tenets of gender equality surely suggest there is no reason women can not, or ought not take charge of there own experience of sites such as this by initiating communication with those in whom they are interested (rather than hanging back on a guest membership with a sparsely populated profile, and awaiting contact from the fabled Messrs 'Darcy', 'Right', or 'Right Now', then loudly complaining in the forum when they're contacted by any and every poor bastard incapable of guessing precisely what to say to impress said woman/women, or those poor bastards naive enough to take a blind stab in the dark anyway !) Even in the case of those women who do pay for membership, and who do thoroughly populate their profile, I can see it may not necessarily be enough (or effective, much less actually attractive) to stipulate long lists of do's and don'ts. Sometimes I think people's expectations of one another are set unrealistically high. Human interactions and relationships of all sorts involve a degree of negotiation requiring give and take. Recognising "you can't always get what you want", I think it worthwhile to consider what (and how much) of life will pass you by if simply you reject everything that does not meet your precise specification. For many and varied reasons, both men and women are quite poor at presenting themselves in interview situations. Internet dating is very much a form of interview process, but without benefit of all that may be conveyed in person (body language, intonation, timing etc etc etc). Perhaps the greatest issue with this site is that it currently caters (or is perceived to cater) to a very small demographic, and therefore is unlikely to attract a large volume of paid advertising/click through to subsidise subscription/membership fees. It's all got to be paid for somehow, and there must be certain privileges attaching to paid subscriptions over and above guest memberships. Whilst $18 to $37 may be small potatoes for some, for others it would be a bit hit to the monthly budget (noting wage stagnation and/or decline relative to cost of living). It becomes a question of what you want for a dollar.
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jennychime
7 years ago
I wasn't aware that as a female guest I could send a message once a week . Well that is good news! I just sent one to a friend to check if it was working..Yesssss! Thank you for your post PeachyPearL and thanks for starting the thread Swingalingson
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a couple it's been hard, especially considering we are looking for a single woman. We would happily sign up if it were more affordable but we can't afford to drop $100 to be able to send a message. The price of membership is far tooff high. - Posted from rhpmobile
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markgreggson
7 years ago
I've been both at different times. Currently full member and really don't see it as expensive. I could spend more a month on Foxtel or a fraction less for Netflix. Definitely know what's more interesting than tv just saying. For those wondering why not try paying for a membership using the time to find connections stay a little longer get other forms of contact. Then go back to being a guest and continue to enjoy the site. Simple really. I'm guessing most of those complaining could afford a nice meal or a few drinks a month otherwise I'm guessing your dates are few and far between. My opinion only but I definitely see the value in having the choice to make first contact and in turn the opportunity for first impressions. Mark.
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markgreggson
7 years ago
I also have within my profile a part that says if your current membership doesn't allow you to message me send me a free flirt and I'll get back to you. Now judging the number of new and also longer term guest members I receive messages from I'd say having the ability to message them back is added value. Again don't really see it as expensive.
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RHP User
7 years ago
We agree with Frolic, single males don't do well on this site because they see it as access to a bunch of loose women who love to sleep with strangers. This is not the case and women on here do have standards, and so they should. Males will have to pay as we know plenty of RHP users and we all generally ignore single, non paying male members (no pun intended). As for poor pommyfucker, if you are wanting to cancel your subscription perhaps you should. You never responded to the messages or flirts we sent to you and your ex partner on our paid up profile. People who live in glass houses.......
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RHP User
7 years ago
No you don't get a free message every week, well I don't anyway, unless they give it to some and not others
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RHP User
7 years ago
The no reply thing again, major eye roll
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RHP User
7 years ago
...is offering a service and employees need to be paid. The site doesn't seem to have ads, so i assume that's where our payed membership has to make up the difference. Unlike free sites like Fb. Maybe the lack of advertising is a legal hurdle or doesnt offer enough to pay the expenses of running this site. At less than a dollar a day, I appreciate that RHP have kept it affordable.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'jennychime' I wasn't aware that as a female guest I could send a message once a week . Well that is good news! I just sent one to a friend to check if it was working..Yesssss! Thank you for your post PeachyPearL and thanks for starting the thread Swingalingson Great to know it's working for some! Thanks for letting me know jennychime, I really appreciate it, I love having my finger in the pie'. 'Scuse the pun? You might want to contact RHP then Touch... your profile is verified, so your 1 message, 7 days after the last one you sent is still working and you should be getting it. Mmmmaybe I'll verify my profile, it might just be worth it after all... Thanks Swing and jennychime... Hehe, PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
To be specific... It is not a weekly message exactly... but is a free message available 7 days (down to the hour and minute) after the last one was sent. You can swap it back and forth to your heart's content! So you can contact one new person every time your message clicks over I didn't see your post there when I posted Touch, but yeah, it may well pay to check it out. Hahaha, and guys... now you might get that message back from the occasional woman who knows the power she has for free at her hands! PeachyPearL
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
There are plenty who believe that sex is free on this site. I must say I am a little disappointed in the way they describe it...using bolds, using capitals, emphasising Free Sex, rather than Adult Dating (which may or may not be a euphemism for s.e.x.). The spiel certainly explains why many dont bother with paid membership....
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jennychime
7 years ago
I sent one earlier..was surprised I could!!! Wonder if my friend received it..will find out and let you know... I had tried before and couldn't even access a text box...so let's see😊 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well I'm a guest.....thats my choice and I'm not being cheap or disrespectful. Hypocrites are everywhere. Good things come to thoughs who are patient and respectful. The line's of communication are so much greater when everyone is comfortable. Nothing wrong with being a guest. This is RHP girls and guys ,people are always going to have something to say or not. Just remember treat people the way you want to be treated.Choice .....to be a Guest or not ? That's the question. - Posted from rhpmobile
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abab1
7 years ago
It's true that average guest profiles will be passed by but awesome guys with good pics and description will catch our attention :) If you want/need a boost, pay for membership. It's easier and looks better. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You should be able to see if they received it by looking at their profile and looking at your contact history on the right hand side. It will also show if they read it or not... PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes thanks peaches we all know that there are men and women on this site accommodated by encouraging others to use this site .Wheres my free text a week lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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jennychime
7 years ago
Tx for the precision..you're a champ.😘👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Letsgetcrazy09
7 years ago
I have been a member on and off over the years. Depends on what you are here for. Have met a number of peeps in person from here as a result. I still like catching up once in a blue moon and seeing what they are up to.......which reminds me I must really do that again....been a while.
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RHP User
7 years ago
There is some truth in it... As a couple, I know we never needed to pay membership to get our end away, so the advertising worked for us as a couple... That's why we joined in the first place. Our money we had went on paying for our outings because we paid our own way when we went out so there was no confusion. Clear messages and boundaries was the way that worked for us. And lack of was the reason a lot didn't work for us. Still some great memories... Jenny, thank you so much. The pleasure really is mine. Thank you for the positivity. Each to their own, and times change... I/we did pay for 2 profiles at one point for privacy (PeachyPear) and the forum (Peachy)... Maybe I'll decide I want to pay again one day but it for sure won't be till I can get a good discount. Likes to make the most of her money, PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
Letsgetcrazy09 there's something wrong with you. PEEPS. ON AND OFF OVER THE YEARS. Red flag - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'SAC15'Guess the Guest Yes thanks peaches we all know that there are men and women on this site accommodated by encouraging others to use this site .Wheres my free text a week lol Yeah, I know right... I commented on the uneveness of it further back, but it's not all bad... Your hope for a free message lays in a woman wanting to contact you and her knowing she can! I don't know if it can be posted in profiles or anything but I do mention it when these types of topics come up. Spread the word!!! Matchmaker PeachyPearL
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itsjustsex13
7 years ago
We tend to lean toward the thinking that the only reason a single male profile would not be a paid member is because they are in fact not single and cant have a rhp membership show up on the credit card. Our suspicions have been right on more occasions than not. In saying that we were once paid members on 3 sites until we decided we prefered rhp so let the other 2 memberships slip so we do not judge guests for being so as we are guests on 2 sites - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
All good chickie....fire sale lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I said earlier in the topic I do NOT get free messages, did you not understand that? Why are you telling people they'll get a free message and how would you know given they change it every 6 months or so?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Didn't realise you were a guest. So when did you last get a free message?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Something for nothing. The amount of guests (mainly males) who can't be bothered with membership.....even basic membership such as premium. We get heaps of views and flirts from male guests and won't respond....buy some membership you cheap arse and stop whining.
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RHP User
7 years ago
The restricted pics get the $$ out of me every time because I feel like I'm missing out on something when I can't see them, then I find myself seeing angles of people I really would rather not see and am completely put off by men who represent themselves as dicks and find myself wishing I hadn't bought a membership after all.
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RHP User
7 years ago
killerh how do you know so much ?This whole blog is a discussion. Who's whinning ....he he he he lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think it was Q I remember last mentioning in the forum that women needed to be verified to get that free message now. So, as far as I know, I don't get free messages because I am not verified... I did see your post that you weren't able to send a message and I did reply directly to you thanking you for that. Then Jennychime thanked me, and also told you that she was able to message a friend. You are, like me in wanting accuracy, so I'll make sure to check and get back to you! I am not sure what you mean about "them changing it every 6 months or so", I've never seen that mentioned in the forum. Historically, the first post I found with a mention of free messages for women was from 2007. That's probably where I read it first and started sharing the info around, lol. https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Guest-Members-18738 PD PeachyPearL
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
The female guest messsge is still active as of a few months ago. An ex playmate messaged my male profile. She was a verified guest as was the male profile which was a member.
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RHP User
7 years ago
isn't now? I'm verified so don't see how that would help. Like I said, no free messages here so maybe not accurate to be telling guests they can get that free message? As far as it changing, they do change it a few times a year. You might get one free message and then, as is the case with me now, not for another 6 months or more. I'm not sure though whether they randomly allow the occasional free message. Maybe a bit of bait to join lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Nope, not for me, though I may have got one through about 3 months ago, I can't remember the exact time frame but it has been quite a few months. Do you think it would have made a difference if the recipient was also verified? I might put that to the test and report back. I'm not confident but I'll give it a whirl. Now I'll trot off and find someone to hit up 😎 Maybe you could ask your friend to try again with someone? Be interesting to know if I should be getting it. Naughty corner perhaps 😜
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am a real single male, and I have noticed that most female profiles on here are fake, But in saying that I have met some real women and am enjoying talking to them, I am not after a "wham bam thank you mam" I just wanted to out my 2 cents out there
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RHP User
7 years ago
Also I forgot to add but I am a paying member and not married as most of you seem to believe we all are
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RHP User
7 years ago
No, just tried to message a verified guest and keeps taking me to the membership page
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yep plenty of fake profiles, male and female
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RHP User
7 years ago
Come on...you haven't really got in touch with more than half the women on RHP and disproved they're real, have you..?It's not that bad here, I'm sure. Y'know...I think things feel different here at first, because when you join, you go from being a man in a mans world...to suddenly being a man in a woman's world. And that's not going to translate well for all men. Some will take it badly.
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Aimtoplease83
7 years ago
I’m pretty sure you’re aware your subscription was cancelled, pay the fee and get messaging.....here’s a Kleenex 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
So why did your membership get cancelled? Doing the wrong thing, were you? 😂😂😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You're not a guest, Swingalingson........a bit sus... - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
When you first sign up rhp takes that number and date expiry. They put it into a thing called database. When the card expires at a certain date. Then a person who prevously has paid becomes a non paid member. Until the person feeds the new input of the new card into the membership payment they go back to being a paid member. Unless a person is lucky and given a free premium membership through charity or a competition. Yawn😪😪😪😪.....Anyway Wow this forum is ticking away lovely!
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' No, just tried to message a verified guest and keeps taking me to the membership pageIt has to be a member that you message. You can't message a guest. Apparently she can't message a TV
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've tried messaging members also, with no success but will try again and report back lol You know the last time I successfully sent a free message, the first sentence was sharing my shock that I was able to do it because at the time I had also been continually trying, but not a lot are verified so will test again. All in the name of research 😛
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RHP User
7 years ago
They have to be platinum for guests to be able to contact them, just tested it again, anything else reverts to membership page
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RHP User
7 years ago
I upgraded so that I can send polite messages to people to see if they are interested but I have found that the vast majority of people don't even bother to read them.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'2007 isn't now? I'm verified so don't see how that would help. Like I said, no free messages here so maybe not accurate to be telling guests they can get that free message? As far as it changing, they do change it a few times a year. You might get one free message and then, as is the case with me now, not for another 6 months or more. I'm not sure though whether they randomly allow the occasional free message. Maybe a bit of bait to join lol 2007 was headed by historically and finished with when I started sharing the info. I don't get what's so hard to understand about that? I did put it at the end of my post to avoid confusion... If you don't understand what I am saying and want to pick at everything, don't waste my time anymore. I doubt it's a bait to join considering it is not a well known piece of information. PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
In the interests of accuracy I've messaged RHP and asked them. I have also put through my verification photo anyway... figured I might as well. I'll get back to you and Touch with what I hear back and/or find out for myself. Message replied to... OH! Well, that was a quick response, thank you Rebecca!!! Thank you for your response. Please note that sending a 'free' message was not how the system worked. Rather, a Guest male was able to receive a message from another Guest. A Guest male must now upgrade in order to receive a free message from a Guest. If you wish to contact a Guest male, we suggest that you send a flirt indicating your interest in them, or send a message to an upgraded male member. You can now send a message to any upgraded male user, not just Platinum males who you are a match with. Regards, Rebecca Daniels That means women can no longer contact male guests, only paid up members. Meh, a flirt used to solve that problem for me... So sorry to any male guests I misled, Ima going to add that guest males were only ever able to receive messages from females as far as I know and I never heard of a male using it to contact another male. But there you go, that's RHP's word on it. I did ask about being able to get into chat too but did not get a specific answer on that... I'll follow up when I'm verified again... Oh WAIT, I have been verified already... RHP are on their toes today!!! So, yes I can send messages to paid up men but not guests... SO SORRY Male Guests, I don't see the use of it considering a flirt usually got a paid up member to contact me anyway... but there you go. I can get into chat for free too. The non-verified guest women can send messages but not enter chat... there you go... All for the sake of accuracy. PeachyPearL, never did waste a lot of time in chat
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RHP User
7 years ago
I hated being a guest. I like to see the restricted pics. To like contacted people when ever I felt like it. So I fixed that. I paid for a subscription. Easy fixed 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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jennychime
7 years ago
I sent an email, as a guest to a paying member...been received and read..but you must all know about the subject by now..Tx again Peachypearl.. great postings!😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
that is how I like it. Very educational and resolves a lot of unknowns when a person is in the "guest twilight zone". Or the "guest doldrums" waiting for the slightest unpredictable wind or storm to start. Wow so there is a difference in how messages and if messages can be conducted in the world of guest the being if you are a MALE or FEMALE guests.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm a paid member and get no contacts back lol , am I doing something wrong ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Suits me perfectly and keeps me out of trouble, well except for the censors, but you get that living on the edge. 😝✌️ Those who have wanted to contact me have. Happy Guest. Sailbadthesinner 🌊 💨
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swingalingson
7 years ago
yo bro how are you? Hey thanks for putting input on this forum. Input is always welcome. I can be a titt for tatt kindah dude...... I took time to read you profile....yes you are a couple. Nice pics too... But and there is a BIG BUT in your profile. reading it all I read was I, eye, eye, eye,I me me me....since you are a couple and have great pics perhaps put more information about both and perhaps use we. Also fill in all the fields and tabs. Yes this is a sexual website. So if I asked a friend to look also at your profile and she said to me.... "Dude they are a couple looking for a woman, I like couples, but I want both, but his profile say it would be all about him(the guy). Who is to say that he is not just a single guy with a pretend couple's profile. That when you do go out for a meet and great he does not do the old..ah she had to work today but she said it was okay for us to meet kindah trick. That old chest nut!" That is what she said to me, so that is from a girls's point of view. Repook you are a couple on this site, so maybe your journey should include both so that both can capture a woman or even a unicorn. So maybe tweek your description and you may get contacted more. oH maybe start going to events in your city, great way to meet people and sometime MEAT folks too that way you get to meet like minded people in the scene that can varify that BOTH of you are real. Best of luck buddy Your PAL Swinga P.S. enough of other people's profiles, back to the original forum at hand!! Guest not getting any action because guest to guest message are a no go. A big fat nothing burger!
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swingalingson
7 years ago
you like perving, watching huh? do not tell no one, but I do too. Yeah not being able to see restricted pics or who is going to a social night, meet and greet or party sucks cause one can not put a face to a profile. Then it is a guessing game through the night especially when I am not wearing my glasses. It sucks the big fat elephant doodle.
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Trust me it is very easy to do. Then you wonder why are people not contacting you. Then you take a squizz at your profile and it reads guest. That sucks cause a few days absence in this rhp world people start wondering how is life. But they can not contact you because they are guest and you are back to guest mode. anyway I have 2.5 years before this one expires. So game on!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm sorry but both men and women are on this site voluntarily - why should just the males pay for memberships? If you want to find someone and be able to be in a position to contact them that takes your fancy then all parties need to cough up the cash. I'm on here as a guest, but I would love to be able to afford the membership fees so that I can contact the men that appeal to me, but I can't so I accept that if someone contacts me and is a member, I'm riding on his coat strings, so to speak, but I'd be riding on something else.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting '51_and_Fabulous' I'm sorry but both men and women are on this site voluntarily - why should just the males pay for memberships? If you want to find someone and be able to be in a position to contact them that takes your fancy then all parties need to cough up the cash. I'm on here as a guest, but I would love to be able to afford the membership fees so that I can contact the men that appeal to me, but I can't so I accept that if someone contacts me and is a member, I'm riding on his coat strings, so to speak, but I'd be riding on something else. Think you answered your own question. No one Has to pay. Isn't that great! We can be here for free.!!You get more results if you pay for a membership, true. Women get enough results to not have to pay. Men don't have to pay either. Totally the user's choice. Can't get any fairer than that.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah it's still confusing. So if that's the case, how come I couldn't message a paid member? Unless I've missed something? Anyway no longer a problem I was gifted a membership, I'm now a premium member. Thank you sooooo much 😘😘😘 you're amazing. Now I'd love to stay and chat but I have some perving to do 😎
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RHP User
7 years ago
Question for you. I upgraded with a voucher code, it immediately upgraded so it was shown on my profile but I can't see the rudie pictures 😊 Do you know why, is there a delay with that? I'm on the mobile, on the full classic site. I don't need to be on a computer do I to see restricted pictures?
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RHP User
7 years ago
No you don't. I'm a premium member and I can view them on the mobile site.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yeah it's still confusing. So if that's the case, how come I couldn't message a paid member? Unless I've missed something? One of the things you didn't acknowledge is that I've suggested several times that you might have the problem with your profile and to contact support to find out but you were Hell bent that it was us with the problem. Too late for you to work it out now of course. Not any sort of guarantee but try signing out and back in to see if that 'activates' your membership. PeachyPearL
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