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Frustration of a guest contacting guests
September 30 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
Calm your farm. I wasn't attacking you, just sharing my thoughts. So aggressive atm 👎 I'm out with you, please don't speak to me anymore. I don't like being spoken to like I'm a child. I also don't like your aggressive tone of late. Sadly, you see it as assertive. You have a bit to learn there. Not in my company though, I will no longer speak to you on here. Copying this because judging by your form over the last few days, old habits die hard you old reporter you 😉 only way my friends will see it, is if I send it to them 😇
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RHP User
7 years ago
Will you please stop shouting with your text. WE ARE NOT BLIND
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angelbaby2017
7 years ago
I have to say I can relate to your frustration if they flirt I can flirt back if they send a message I can send 1 back but only 2 but can never send a flirt or message first always get sent to the upgrade membership page so if as a female and male if you are both guests you have no hope it sucks - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
A code. Crap I wish someone had a coupon code. I had to fork out a bit. I could have given the difference to the flying doctors or a charity that really needs it. Well lets keep this forum positive. Seems that there arrre so many unknowns in the different levels of membership. If anyone has any guet blues please feel free to chat. Newbies most welcome.
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jennychime
7 years ago
No idea why you couldn't..but good news for you about the upgrade..happy perving😉😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
😍👍👌💪😛
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you re viewing restricted pics. Well I had more annoying stuff happen last night. I discovered I couldn't log off the classic site, tried a few times and it said 'loading your preferences' and took me to the mobile app 👎 then I couldn't find how to log off there, I was stuck in the mobile app 😱 eventually did the IT Crowd thing, turned my phone on and off again 😀 was then able to log back into desktop site and see all 😎
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Explicit pics? As a guest I can’t see them. Thats OK, but is it common for a single person to have another unknown person with face pics in their explicit photos on their profile? For eg. Giving them a blowjob? I get sent them sometimes but find it weird and there’s that word again? Discretion? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cowboyinthecity
7 years ago
I became a member as I had people flirt with me and I couldn't reply. Funny thing is, I joined and the flirts slowed down. Not totally but one or two a week. Were these others fake profiles to "get you in"? The only thing that does get a bit trying is when you do message a profile that you match and they reply back with "we are interested, let's meet" then nothing. Not a gripe just time wasting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Will you please stop shouting with your text. WE ARE NOT BLIND You may wish to check the settings on your device, or you could send an enquiry to RHP tech support. I have seen none of @PeachyPearl's posts 'shouted' (in Caps Lock), or posted in larger than normal font...
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RHP User
7 years ago
I feel for the guys who are not likely to be offered gift memberships... Ima look at how I can offer 1 free month of premium to a man, the hardest done by sex on this sexist site. I'll get back to you. Thanks Ontology and Meander, it's great to know my text is okay for you guys. And thanks again Meander, isn't it funny how the obvious thing is not the thing that comes to mind when you're looking for answers! It was on the top of mine because I had to sign out to activate my updated status as verified yesterday... You're welcome to all the help Touch, my pleasure. Lol @ the dramas of signing out and back in on RHP... That sneaky rhpmobile is a pain... PeachyPearL, weekend starts again today... YaY!
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Man I would have never thought how hard things were being a guest. But it is a great forum to have issues surfaced Who here got the warning on their homepage.. Credi card is soon to expire,please upload your new one.. I let that slide for about 3 weeks still sending messages. And then the gavel came down... The RHP no soup for you episode! The good thing was I had no warning of how long i could let it ride. But hey a hard lesson learned😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
When in doubt, restart the phone. Usually fixes most things. If you get stuck in the mobile site again, the log out is hidden in the settings page. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Had that when l had instant posting reinstated. Sent a terse message to mod. Only to be told to you need to log out and back in..... Righto.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah I did eventually find the log out, switching on and off again lol is something I forget to do, phone is on 24/7, so it sorted the naughty pictures issue. Bloody pain though when you log off the desktop and it leaves you logged in and sends you to the mobile app. That may have corrected itself now, haven't had time to check
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RHP User
7 years ago
the naughty pics though 😛
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RHP User
7 years ago
we haven't renewed our membership and stayed as a guest because we were sick of all the hey so & so is traveling in your area be the first to message them. do the people who run this site know how big Queensland is. someone who is traveling to somewhere a 1000 kms away is not in our area, don't they know about post codes , would be happy to pay up again when they fix this
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's the main thing. Enjoy your perving 👅
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swingalingson
7 years ago
It is educational. Hey I travel alot and visit alot of locations around Australia. Sometimes I am lucky on rare occasions that I get invited by lovely hosts or enjoy a drink with like minded people when I travel. That is the great thing about the lifestyle. Sharing is def caring. Wow 7 pages and still going. Thanks to all the positve feedback.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You can fix your problem. row longer arms.
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joanne1991
7 years ago
Checked out the free message for woman appears you can only send to some people not all, bit of a gimmick really, still won't cause me to be a paying member again happy staying a guest
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'joanne1991' Checked out the free message for woman appears you can only send to some people not all, bit of a gimmick really, still won't cause me to be a paying member again happy staying a guest After posting that it used to be that female guests could contact male guests, I worked out for sure that these days a woman guest can only send a message to a paid up male. However you look at it, I don't see it encouraging anyone to join, lol. PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
I only just read your comment about explicit pics with another in a profile. I feel the same, saw some yesterday and you do wonder if they have gained permission to show them?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe when Rhp fix the video function we will renew our membership - until then kik and other chat devices are easier ways to verify real couples xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'EarthQueen' Explicit pics? As a guest I can’t see them. Thats OK, but is it common for a single person to have another unknown person with face pics in their explicit photos on their profile? For eg. Giving them a blowjob? I get sent them sometimes but find it weird and there’s that word again? Discretion? Some do have permission, impossible to know unless you ask and the question has been asked in the forum in the past. But yes, discretion... Aside from the profile holder any other person in the photo should be identifiable according to the photo guidelines. That would be a fail by the mod then. I don't see the point of including that sort of picture at all myself... It hasn't been a popular idea in the fora that I've seen... There's a whole topic there, lol. PeachyPearL https://redhotpie.com.au/help/photosHelp.aspx
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RHP User
7 years ago
*unidentifiable*
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
One of the reasons I asked was that when I first joined there was a glitch and I could see all pics on my phone even the ones that were members only. It was a good way to vet people because some pics were 😱. So that’s another advantage of being a member I guess. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have been so busy... and gathering info was part of that. I really do like solving puzzles and this has to be the best one ever. Thanks to RHP and their patience, I have an explanation that it is ALL guests who get that (7 days apart, down to the hour and minute) free message which can only be sent to paid up male members including Platinum (it used to be guests who could receive as well but that has changed). Experimentation details for the timing might follow. I want to see if replies effect the timing. PeachyPearL PS: EarthQueen, we used to find seeing all the pics handy too but more on the positive side if you get what I mean. But then different angles can create deceptive impressions. Lord of The Rings is a great example of tricking the eyes. Another of my interests in the world, it is such a fascinating place.
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RHP User
7 years ago
"Thanks to RHP and their patience, I have an explanation that it is ALL guests who get that (7 days apart, down to the hour and minute) free message which can only be sent to paid up male members including Platinum (it used to be guests who could receive as well but that has changed)." Nope, in all the time I've been on the site, few years now, only ever been able to send a free message maybe half a dozen times? I've found it very random. I'd actually like to hear from more guest members who have been consistently using a free message every week. Could have been simply a glitch with my account which they may or may not have corrected if I'd contacted them. I think I did at one stage and was told guests could only message platinum, it does change every so often. Not something that can be relied on, not in my experience. Disclaimer: I am not attacking you, just talking more about the subject 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' "Thanks to RHP and their patience, I have an explanation that it is ALL guests who get that (7 days apart, down to the hour and minute) free message which can only be sent to paid up male members including Platinum (it used to be guests who could receive as well but that has changed)." Nope, in all the time I've been on the site, few years now, only ever been able to send a free message maybe half a dozen times? I've found it very random. I'd actually like to hear from more guest members who have been consistently using a free message every week. Could have been simply a glitch with my account which they may or may not have corrected if I'd contacted them. I think I did at one stage and was told guests could only message platinum, it does change every so often. Not something that can be relied on, not in my experience. Disclaimer: I am not attacking you, just talking more about the subject 👍 I didn't feel like you were attacking me at all. 👍 Okay, I'm sharing what I have been told and the time span is something I'm not entirely sure about. I did ask but that wasn't answered, so have asked again. Another thing I've thought of but haven't asked is if there is a limit over a time span. Eg: 6 messages per 6 months? I did do an advanced google search on free messaging in the fora and found a thread where you mention you like Platinum members a lot because you can message for free. I do know messaging a Platinum member uses it. Could that be your problem? PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
"I did do an advanced google search on free messaging in the fora and found a thread where you mention you like Platinum members a lot because you can message for free. I do know messaging a Platinum member uses it. Could that be your problem?" Huh? You're searching the archives for my old comments? No I haven't been messaging platinum members, that's not my problem. Shocked you're searching for my old comments. Why would you do that? You obviously have more time than I do. I find that a bit intrusive to be honest. That might have been a comnent I posted 2 years ago? I don't even remember saying it. Can I ask you not to be digging up old comments
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL'I did do an advanced google search on free messaging in the fora and found a thread where you mention you like Platinum members a lot because you can message for free. I do know messaging a Platinum member uses it. Could that be your problem? PeachyPearL https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Guest-members-54554 In trying to find an explanation, I guessed from your post there that you messaged Platinum members but didn't assume entirely, that was why the I asked if that could be your problem. There's a lot of guesswork but I am happy to say I am already learning more including that I never knew anyone but female guests got free messages I'll just wait until I can test with my own profile over a period of time cos while RHP is happy to offer the description of an Easter egg for the free messages they are not offering any more details beyond what I have been given. PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
The post I saw was from August 2017. PeachyPearL
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RHP User
7 years ago
Which topic was that?
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
We are happy to pay its not a big cost compared to a night out for dinner or partying
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Which topic was that? Your answer is in my first post.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Seriously, this is what you found? This comment I made was a general positive comment about platinum members. You do seem to put your own spin on things which I don't appreciate btw, not when you're twisting my words. I did not say I had been messaging platinum members. Please don't make it up as you go along, particularly searching the archives to do that. This was my comment back in August. This and other comments I made within that topic cover exactly what I've talked about here, not all guests get free messages. No matter what they say, that is bolony. Here was one of my comments, which followed the others> "If they're platinum, guests can message them which is awesome, gotta love the platinum guys 😘 any other levels only if they decide to allow the one free message a week. In the few years I've been on here, my experience with that is that it kicks in for a short while, then stops, after which I haven't had a free message over a long period. I think they probably change it up to frustrate us and lure us into joining 😉 my theory anyway. But I've only ever sent about 6 free messages I would think, been on here for about 2 1/2 years? I was a paid member for part of that though. There just doesn't seem to be and continuity to it. I can remember flirting with this one guy for months, we madly flirted, I couldn't message him during that time, not until I upgraded" And that followed an excited post from me after finally getting a free message, but note that free message was the last free one I got. None of this is a complaint, I never felt entitled to get a free message. But why do you have to have the last say, you refuse to except there are variables, same when you pushed your point about how many pages the Everything & Nothing thread had. Who cares if you're right or not, are you after a gold star for solving the puzzle? Sorry but no gold stars, there are grey areas/variables/even different views on those variables, and you need to let people speak, and listen. You don't listen, it's like talking to a brick wall 👎
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RHP User
7 years ago
Seriously! I've had enough of your accusatory tone which is more of your posts at me than not lately. I am simply trying to solve a problem, no gold star needed, just the satisfaction of knowing I've done my best not to take in as many variables as possible and come up with an answer that satisfies me. Try understanding I Am Me.. Not You! I do things my way and not because you and other people keep telling me I should do them differently. Sooo supportive around here! How many pages the Everything and Nothing thread had??? Oh yes, that passive aggressive discussion where I wasn't addressed directly... and I wasn't given an explanation just supposed to accept that I was wrong after I'd tried to give a congratulations. Churlish describes that behaviour. I did work out precisely what was going on there to My satisfaction in the end and that really is the only thing that matters. The fact that it was only the 2 threads over a 1,000 that were affected and that it had NOTHING to do with deletions as was the explanation that was being forced onto me. There is no way the Word thread has had as many deletions as it shows. What is Empirical Evidence?Definition: Empirical evidence is defined as the data and information obtained by creating assumptions over a specific topic, observing the collected data and experimenting to prove or disprove a theory. Empirical evidence is how I like to go about things... Take it how you like it and while you're judging me... don't forget that you aren't a big supporter of variables. Peachy PS: Swing... On the topic, I am still trying to find out what I can!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've done my best notto take in as many variables as possible and come up with an answer that satisfies me.Strike out NOT in the above sentence and it will make a lot more sense
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RHP User
7 years ago
I didn't realise our messages were time stamped... I was just wishing they were and there it was, literally right in front of my face... Too funny! That's going to make my experimentation easier... But who to message hmmm... Peachy
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Having I-touch-myself2 and Peachy Pearl in the same bed. I think things would get HOT. Oh and bring on the pillows!!! Love ya both and your work!
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swingalingson
7 years ago
The new form of birth control for 2017!😉 ain't nothing gonna happen peeps! A guest being so frustrated that they cant contact another guest. How will they ever meet? 2 parallel worlds that are on a set path never to collide.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes and we can't blame the site for that. We're lucky to be able to have a non paid profile at all 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
I sent it to someone who happened to send a flirt from Hot or What? as I was looking for my victim. I just explained that it was a free message (did not go into the idea of it being an Easter Egg) and that I was saying thanks for the flirts he had sent from HoW? over time. We're a feisty pair Touch. I appreciate that you do 'actually' talk to me above all... Keep on keeping on... Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes feisty we are 😉 I do spend a fair bit of time just chattering away to myself 😀 Considered a minor annoyance, largely get ignored lol doesn't stop me though does it? 😁
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RHP User
7 years ago
I talk to myself at home sometimes, my son caught me out the other day 😀
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
Good Lord this forum has gone gangbusters! 😱👍🏻🤓 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I talk to everyone and everything!... And I have a LOT of great convos... in my mind... Peachy
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
Flirt all you want even when we reply to a flirt generally nothing happens even with a message! A lot of tyre kickers
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
We do get a lot of messages from guts where it's there fantasy to see there wife with another woman but it may not be hers! Lots of yes she us bi curious but if she even knows about what he us trying to arrange or exists her story is completely different! Communication people please!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I_touch have tight finances, I have too but for a different reason - pensioner and not a self funded one ether
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well said, it's not always a choice and the bias shown towards guests is quite shocking
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am in my mid seventies
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PatchworkGirl
7 years ago
There are many reasons people stay guests, and whilst a lot of them are financial, there are plenty of others too. If I wanted to prioritise being able to message people on here, I’d find the money for a membership, but quite frankly I have no interest in seeing all the explicit pics! If there was an option to turn them on or off in profile settings I’d be more inclined to think about it. I’d rather be able to choose if I wanted to check out people’s junk or not. That does mean that sometimes I see a profile that’s interesting, or a comment on a forum, and think that I’d like to connect with them but am unable to as we are both guests - I’m ok with that.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sent a message last Thursday <3Thank you to the powers that be that I get to say thanks for the ratings on HoW? It's a bit of fun. Peachy
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swingalingson
7 years ago
What happened? Telll..Tell...Tell.... Or are ya gonna leave us hanging/
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RHP User
7 years ago
Call me blonde 😀 but I didn't understand your comment. What did you mean "the ratings on how"?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Touch, HoW? is the acronym for Hot or What? on the amateur pics page. I get a fair few 'Hot' ratings and flirts from there, so I thought I'd break the mold and actually say, thanks! while I was testing the messaging boundaries. So far Swing, I've sent 2 messages. Both have been read... I got a reply back from the first one with compliments on the profile and an invite for hubby and I (loved that he DID read the profile) to catch up because he was in Perth for the weekend. It was a late reply but I did say thanks and in a nutshell, that obviously it was a no (because I replied so late) but thanks for the invite and to have a great time on RHP! This is what I sent for the second message, who I haven't heard back from) to hopefully avoid confusion about my intent, "Hi, how ya doing? I am messaging you today because I wanted to say thanks to you for your flirt through Hot or What? I'm not after further contact but do wish you well on RHP. :-) Peachy" I'll refine the message I send as I go... I thought it would be nice to send out positive messages. I have to admit I'm shit scared of those abusive messages I have the misfortune of reading so much about in the fora. I'll let you know how I go. I am so behind on my social messages, I apologise to anyone who thinks I've forgotten them!!! Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
do you know if you've been voted hot?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'how do you know if you've been voted hot? There are so many ins and outs on that particular topic that it would probably be best to advance search "Hot or What" (Topic)! Cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's the whole idea of the site, ins and outs 😆 You do have the option of checking the box to send an I think your hot flirt with a hot vote but I don't know if it says it is linked to a hot vote. You and ITM will both get my hot vote if I see you on there 😈
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RHP User
7 years ago
I know I'm hot 😄
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RHP User
7 years ago
You picked up on my pun. I love slipping them in there... You're right that there is a choice to send a flirt if you 'rate' the person hot. Touch, I've explained to you a few times about the "I think You're Hot, what do you think of me" flirts... That they come from HoW? The real time info box at the top tells you when someone rates you hot (and doesn't send a flirt) too. It's something I've posted a lot about over time. And yes, you were rated Hot the last time I passed by your photo. Peachy, I should totally stick by the last pic I had up
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RHP User
7 years ago
and yes, it does say it will send a flirt if you rate the pic hot.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't talk to me like I'm a child. If you don't wish to answer the question, just don't, but speaking to me like that won't do you any favours. You really are a bit crotchetty since you came back
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why would they rate you hot when you don't have any pictures up? Just wondered, or should I do an advanced search? 😉
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swingalingson
7 years ago
of guest options contacting others via desktop or via mobile app? One maybe more or less beneficial than the other as guests contacting or guests or non guests?
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's a very good point. Not limited to the mobile app, even maybe using full site on the mobile. I know on other sites, non related like ebay, there are limitations
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RHP User
7 years ago
I gave you the answers you wanted, and you're welcome. I'm sorry they weren't gift wrapped with a cherry on top. Nobody wants to make any effort for anything around here do they... Sorry I have no idea what your last post @ me means. Is it based on something I have said? Because a profile pic can't be rated if there isn't one. Swing, thanks for the extra level of checking I feel I need to do now... My 7 days ticks over later tonight... I'll check it on the mobile app but I doubt it has anything to do with Touch's troubles (if that's what you were thinking) because she doesn't use it. You can tell because her posts don't have that - posted from RHP mobile - sign off at the bottom. So, I'll leave y'all to it. Maybe I'll drop in again next time I feel like being questioned and derided. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think we should get the both of you in the jelly pool to wrestle it out 😂😂 I could sell tickets 😆
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RHP User
7 years ago
When someone is nice to you, try responding nicely instead of talking down to them. Or don't respond if it's too tiresome for you. Seriously, not interested in engaging with you any further
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RHP User
7 years ago
I also don't need you to talk about mebin the third person, or to solve my previous free message dilemma. You worry about you, just leave me out of your little problem solving exercises
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Love it when a wrestler talks in the third person. The best best one for that is Duanne Johnson a.k. a "The Rock" Forget the pillow fight or jelly pit. BRING ON the chocolate filled octagon.
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RHP User
7 years ago
No thanks 😏
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RHP User
7 years ago
Clean up could be fun. They might enjoy the tongues 😛😛😛😜😜😜
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's all better better than mud I suppose you two! I was a bit late, but I did send my message this morning. I'm thinking I'll get a reply from that one. He looks like he has a good sense of humour! Peachy
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