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Gangbusters
January 10 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hate watching gangbangs on my wife. Guys have no respect and just fuck her like a whore. Of course she loves the attention and thinks that the guys are sweet. If only she geard the way they talk about her afterwards. One group who didnt know i was husband were calling her a dumb fucking slut, filthy whore, low life asian bitch and other things i dare not say. They all said she was filthy and comments about how they were happy not to be married to such a slut. I find her fucking other people a real disgusting situation. Particularly since they have such little respect. Maybe i am just too old, but i ask why would a woman do this? She thinks the guys love her and are there for her. But i suppose you all are going to say that im strange
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RHP User
8 years ago
https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Calling-all-Studs-It39s-Gangbang-time-52608 There a quite a few forums on the subject. The above is just one example. I have been to many, most are run by experienced organisers/parties/events and/or couples who repeat that type of play, and have known preferences for who they will invite (or a purely private invite list). It is hard to organise a one-off and get the right people, and to get them to show. In my experiences, the biggest problems are no-shows despite the men's apparent initial willingness. I've seen very little in the way of excessive "down talk" etc unless it's been in the situation where the female has expressed/requested that a certain level of "talking down" actually turns her on. Sometimes the lady has been submissive, other times they are simply spoilt (particularly for one recurring event run by a woman for the benefit of women - normally starting with a group massage etc). Often they occur spontaneously at single male friendly events, as the women/couples know (and they advertise as such) that this is the type of opportunity that is catered for. If you were in Vic you would actually be "spoilt" for choice, with the option of going to an event specifically with the participants and activities you are looking for; I can't say about other states but anecdotally they are hit and miss. There are a lot of opportunities, but the organisation of them is often located across different websites, so it can require a lot of time in networking. Yes it can be sensual as opposed to debauched, although I would say it's hard not to appear debauched in a DP/DV/TP/bukkake situation etc, despite how much the women may like certain activities! Certainly the smaller number, the better to start with, and the greater individual interaction, and the ability to be generically social also. In many cases, the group/party/event has social time before and/or after.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've been involved in a few, some as before mentioned aren't great, aren't sensual or anything more than one step up from masturbating. But, I've seen my then partner be totally adored my about 7 guys. I loved watching it, she was lost. It was great, they were really good guys, we found them on another site, they were highly recommend and deserved everything they got, they took care of everything. This is worth looking into. I've also been to ones where it's more husband, with three our for guys and his wife. This was amazing, two days of solid sex. Unfortunately, I've also been to ones where it's a line up. This isn't great. Search for your guys, I have a mate I play with occasionally, we have a few friends. It's fun. Choose your guys and you'll feel empowered. J - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Let's hope the comments are helpful and positive for others to follow ,rather than tune out, due to undignified comments Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
It was amazing to watch, her husband was there with her, she enjoyed herself very much and I enjoyed watching it. I didn't see any disrespect from the men that were there that day, maybe about 20 all up, they were all very attentive to her and her needs. Yes I have also participated in a very small one, only did it the once, (more of a bucket list kinda thing) yes I enjoyed it, yes I was nervous, I had a friend there to hold my hand he did a very good job, (I would recommend to take a friend to hold your hand and keep you safe). I wouldn't do it again, because my wants and needs have somewhat changed thoughtout my journey and its not something I need to do again. 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
Once again for the typos. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you for your candor. I do prefer the idea of a mmmf than 20 or so guys. I think that is a little too adventurous for me just yet. 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've been in a couple of MMF, FFM group situations, watched a few gangbangs and been in one myself. It's a lot of fun and takes a certain kind of mindset. You have to be committed to it. The dirty and debauched image of them makes them attractive and naughty, but they're really just about having fun. I'd hate it if the lady involved wasn't into it or was having a rough time, the point is for everybody to get their enjoyment. The one I was in was organised my a friend of mine with a woman he knew, Her fantasy was to be in a gangbang and his was to film it. There were 4 guys and one girl. We all just switched around positions and took turns at everything. We were nervous to begin with but we soon warmed up to the action and performing for the cameras actually made it easier. Everyone was smiling the whole time, especially the lady. It was an enjoyable experience. But I would tend to think that 3 guys and one girl is a slightly better ratio.
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RHP User
8 years ago
@CountryTouch Your experiences were very well articulated. It's how I imagined gangbangs to be like when I suddenly got asked by a friend on the weekend at a party - a couple who I trust. @johnandaimee That's a real shame that's happened :( it sounds like a miscommunication or non-communication of rules beforehand? Sorry, I could be wrong...I honestly don't like that sort of dirty talk myself and I would've told them to STFU or GTFO hahaha Couples/women should always have the upper hand here. I'd hope that you could open your mind again to a properly organised, no BS gangbang but if it's not your thing, then that's ok too. Thanks for sharing what could go wrong... I think that's equally important in a discussion.
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Katkat
8 years ago
But I'm not a submissive person I don't think I could take 20 that would be way too much. May be 10 the most lol but they have to be someone that I have known I just don't have the time previously have been asked few times from different groups just the thought of so many guys u don't know it's like insane. Plus I'm too picky 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
So if thats how you feel why would you let her do what she does? Personally i think a woman being ganged banged is disgusting ;Maybe im just abit old fashioned. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Very well articulated. The one sentence that stood out to me was ... I don't like the idea of being the submissive in a group situation- rather perfer the notion of being throughly spoilt. I agree , providing your pussy for pleasure should be a two way street. Being spoilt should be the only way. There's no way I could just stick my dick in just because I could. I still need to have interaction . It's about mutual pleasure isn't it ? Personally , ive never been involved in a gangbang even though I've had the opportunity , specially in my footballing days where girls making themself available was quite common.
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cat_n_the_hatter
8 years ago
Humans are strange creatures and they behave differently when in packs than when they are alone. What some women think they are getting is not always what men think they are giving. (Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
John shared his experience, leave him be and share yours. 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not a very happy guy by the sounds of it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes it is true i do not believe in swinging. I have only had a few partners and infrequent sex. On average probably 2 times per year for my adult life. I dont see sex as important But my wife does. Such is life. What i have learnt from this, however, is the lack of humanity that exists in the scene. Especially the disrespect shown towards women. To me sex is about love and respect, but that is just me. What i find amazing is how defensive some on here get. Im not passing judgement just a perspective. What you do is up to you and you can answer to your God when your time comes. I am condemned by my involvement and know that i will need to pay for my sins. In reply, i have attended these events to try and salvage a marriage. Maybe that is wrong. Maybe i should have walked but i stayed. I read about women who swing for their husbands and my heart bleeds for them. No woman should have to do that. At least i am a man and as such must do what i can for my wife no matter how distasteful i may find it. I have observed that some women are just as degrading of guys who " dont meet expectations". I was at one party (as an observer) and listened to a wife discuss "her pathetic small cocked husband" when he was having sex in another room. I could not understand how people could be so hurtful to their partner. Later he approached my wife with an opening line " so how about you come over here and suck my cock". So in short, yes i find swinging disturbing. I find people see others as meat not as a person. And yes, it has deminished my interest in any type of sex. I M not judging, just demonstrating that people are more than cock tit ares and pussy. They have a soul. Aspirations. People who love them and who rely upon them. All i ask is to show some common respect because the real pain lives with their loved ones who cant do anything except be dragged along for the ride and live in a world where they cant talk about their heart ache or find peace. No doubt i will recieve further complaint. She who persecutes me shall say further hateful things. And i will be a lone voice in the wilderness. If it is a consultation to you, our membership is almost up and wont be renewed. At least that is something we agree with. That RHP is a BS site and that it is not worth the annual subscription.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love it want it more - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
John I'm sorry that happened. I would definitely be bitter and/or scarred if that happened to me. Shame some posters have zero empathy. I have watched a few gangbangs and generally they are not like that. Although there are certainly men that just stick their dick in as some have said. Not everyone has respect for women's sexuality which is a real shame. Jayme, are we really offering up our "pussies" for men's pleasure !?!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Small group sex, say up to 5-6 people can be a hugely sensual activity in my experience. Add some baby oil and 5 uninhibited people and just sliiiide...... 😊
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Seachange
8 years ago
Never done it. Had an opportunity once or twice before. Once in Sydney when I was invited to go spend time with a group of guys who will rent out a nice hotel in the city and will have 2 -3 women and about 10-12 men Said no then because I didn't know nor trust anyone there. So maybe as a couple of people said above, do it with someone who can hold your hand throughout the process and keep you safe. Been on several mfm and that kept us busy enough. maybe mfmm but anymore than that, it doesn't interest me. Personally I think anymore than that can lose the intimacy as it becomes a race to get a chance to bang the woman before the cock gets flaccid. Lol People queueing up for a fuck just doesn't do it for me. Nor bukake. But that just me. If it.works for others, go forth and multiply. 😉 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can understand why you see the scene in this way I have certainly seen that sort of behaviour myself. This Life style certainly is not for everybody and it seems like it is strongly against your moral code and how you view relationships and that's okay. Maybe you need to make the decision for yourself and your sanity to not be involved in this lifestyle any more. All the best I hope things work out for you.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lots of girls liked us bikies When someone came uo to you and hand you a pair of knickers you knew it was your turn. Then she would tell you who to pass them on to next.
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RHP User
8 years ago
up to you
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's so sad that it all went a bit too far for your comfort here. I hope you can find the healing that you need to find joy again. I wish you all the best, whether you go for good or come back later. People can be a bit brutal on here but there are some that are kind, no matter what. I hope you take it easy on yourself and your marriage. Take one day at a time. Not many people are stayers, so you are doing the right thing, whatever you decide. I agree somewhat with your sentiments but I'm capable of so much more sexually, so when the fun stops, there's no point. It's disrespect and inhumanity that ruin it for people. I don't care how cool people think their rude comments are. They aren't cool at all! You're right not to listen to them. Some people even flip from kind to rude to kind to rude. Cray cray and unstable IMO. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Very well said. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I think u will agree, a gangbang is when a woman allows herself to be pleasured by a certain number of men at any one time. Which would mean the woman being penetrated is offering her pussy for the gratification of herself and the men involved. I'm not saying all women , just those who have enjoyed or dream of being gangbanged. Like I said already , I don't like the idea of just sticking my dick in because it's a pussy.. I need to be attracted in some way.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' People queueing up for a fuck just doesn't do it for me. It's not my preference either, and normally not how it operates anyhow. But people seem to do it all the time in the bank, queueing up waiting for them to f*ck you :P
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RHP User
8 years ago
you get gb events that come together well, and you get ones that don't. I've been to a few, and while they're not now my preferred type of encounter, I do occasionally rock up if I know a good friend is being the centre of attention. The most mechanical 'line up for a fuck' event was one time with a girl who was deliberately 'going for the record' of the group. She took on 44 guys over 3 hours that day (and did break the record). I really didn't like the vibe of that encounter at all, but she seemed to be loving the challenge. Some of the encounters I've quite enjoyed were with about 7-12 guys. That's not too big a group that it gets mechanical, and not too small that it loses the excitement of a mass of bodies. ct (and others) are right though ... it's all about the people you're with. As long as you have a small group you trust, you don't have to know everyone. As the female in the middle - you can set the tone, as long as you're ready to be clear about what you want. If it's sensual, then the boys who step up had better be ready to do sensual ;) lily - I think I know the Sydney organiser you're speaking of, and yes - he throws good gb events.
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Seachange
8 years ago
Ahhh. 😁 Getting fucked by 'bank queue's (use French slang) is not my thing. there's a thing called online banking. If I'm going to be.fucked over, might as well get it over and done quickly? 😝
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think this is often an over simplification of what is happening, like people can over simplify football by saying it's just men running around chasing a ball. I consider myself a part of a whole experience for the woman/women. I do not consider anything a "line up", any more than I consider being in "a line" when I am just with a couple but currently still watching, and not physically interacting at that particular moment.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your sexual wants and desires are 100% misaligned with your wife's... Rather than spending time speaking down to the community that she aligns herself with, why not spend time try mend what's clearly breaking - your relationship. Respectfully stated.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
G'day John... I have to agree with Summer here that this is not the appropriate place to express your concerns, it is a swinging site for like minded people after all. In no way am I making light of your predictement as I felt the pain in your words and I hope you can work your differences out real soon. The thing you need to understand is peoples wants and needs can be differ from person to person. Your biggest hurdle is for you to come to some sort of compromise . Either you or your wife need to find some common ground and be happy with that. It's when one person try's to change or take away another persons indivuality the problems will continue to persist. Whatever it is , I wish you a satisfactory outcome..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'johnandaimeee' What i find amazing is how defensive some on here get. Im not passing judgement just a perspective. What you do is up to you and you can answer to your God when your time comes. I am condemned by my involvement and know that i will need to pay for my sins. Yet you follow that statement by basically telling the people on here that they are sinners and will have to answer to God. Sorry but rubbish like that makes it difficult for me to have much sympathy for you. It's a good thing that you won't be renewing your membership, you have a lot of work to do on your relationship and working out what you want from it. Hopefully you are successful in finding some sort of peace whatever you do, but in the meantime I'd strongly suggest that you refrain from insulting and taking out your own frustrations on others (particularly with the religious crap). (Anyone who wants to tell me I'm being too harsh on John, just save it. I'm not interested).
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Seachange
8 years ago
Agree with some of the above posts This site may not be the right vehicle for you to save your relationship. It may exacerbate the problem. There are lots of individual sexual and personal issues you need help with in order for you to achieve a level of stability in your relationship. Respectfully speaking. There is a total disconnect between your beliefs and your actions resulting in your pain and anguish. Sorry to hear that. This site is full of liberal, open minded people of varying degrees of sexual preferences and needs. We try not to judge as.the outside world do that already, and very harshly. This is our solace and a fertile ground for us to forge friendships and explore our sexuality, free from the judging of the conservatives. It just shows you may not be in the same mindset as most of us. Judging us for exploring our sexuality is more a reflection of your frustration. I hope you seek some professional help in addressing your personal, relationship and sexual issues. I say it with all kindness and care. I wish you the best in.the future. Take care
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your being abit harsh on the poor man. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I get that you love the girl......more than any of us could imagine. But.... At what point is the love you have for her, disproportionate to the love you have for you, to be constantly putting yourself into such clearly toxic situations?? No need to answer to anyone here but yourself.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
John, sorry you put yourself through that, but if you're personally getting by having sex only 2 times per year and you're relying on your faith in a mythical being supposedly judging us all at the end of all this, mate you really are in the wrong place, and swinging isn't for you at all. Maybe just agree with your partner that she is allowed one or 2 lovers you jointly interview, for them to give her what you can't? Putting her in front of an unqualified mob is bound to have you encounter some idiots who don't respect either of you. My partner is also an Asian lady, and maybe some people at the grotty end of the swinging scene think certain stereotypes are true of Asian women. Just as a tip, I don't care how big or strong you think you are, I wouldn't suggest you try "sucky sucky five dollar" comments at my little 5 foot dynamo, she'll tear off one of your nuts and shove it down your throat before beating you with your own floppy member. As another article on here pointed out, most ladies who are into swinging are horny empowered queens of their domain, not some slutty piece of trash to be talked to like filth. Mine likes to be in charge as much as she likes to be dominated, but there needs to be respect both ways. Life is too short to be a horrible asshole, whether you choose to swing or stay celibate. We have only really had 2 swinging experiences, and the first one involved me watching and sometimes participating with another couple. It surprised me how much it turned me on watching her take it from behind on all fours, receiving the biggest dick she'd ever had. She did a sterling job, and I don't think the guy had ever been f*cked quite so hard before. His wife and I enjoyed the show. A lot. I couldn't be prouder or more turned on by my girl. I actually don't think the guy was super respectful, I think she may have just been a (very tight!) hole for him, but he wasn't rude or too rough either. We were a bit better prepared for our next time, and had set boundaries for what we'd do on this night out. I watched my beautiful girl tease 4 blokes with dirty chat (they were getting back as good as they gave) - and other guys came and went if they weren't able to say anything intelligent - there are obviously sometimes single guys there just to treat the girls like a cum dump. Anyway, eventually she chose two guys she liked to join us in a private room. She picked them based on their ability to have a sensible and humorous conversation, not on being suave or a bullshitter. The 3 of us had a great time (she gave them amazing oral while I took care of her) and at the end of the time when everyone had been, ahem, satisfied, the guys thanked us for being so understanding (and she thanked them for turning her on so much). It was a great time, she felt spoilt and enjoyed, I felt incredibly happy for her seeing her feel free and sexy. The more we chat, the more we are working out what our next experience will be. She definitely wants more, at least in her fantasies, and I get turned on by seeing her explore her boundaries, and helping her do it. A gangbang is definitely on the list of next possibilities, and I agree with the other points 3-6 guys is probably a manageable number in our world. If anyone tried to talk about my beautiful girl in the way John described, I can tell you they would be identified and sorted well before they had any chance of touching her beautiful body. I can picture a well organised group of guys wanting to share in the pleasure of pleasuring her could be one of the sexiest nights ever. So in response to the original post, I say go for it, provided you recruit carefully within guidelines YOU set. See you out there LaFemmeFontaine!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_in_Sydney' Quoting 'johnandaimeee' *Hands John a hankie for the faux tears.* I've seen him around in the forums word bashing the lifestyle and his wife, in one post he said she left him but yet he's still got her in his display photo? Troll on John, troll on.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Might I suggest you not be on a site like this. With all due respect, I don't feel sorry for you, I feel frustrated. It's taken me everything to undo the brainwashing of a religious, guilt ridden upbringing. If I wanted to be shamed for being a progressive woman, I'd go to fucking church. Respectfully, perhaps you should join Christian singles (once your wife finally breaks the shackles and absconds with her freedom in sight) and kindly jam your judgement somewhere between your own sins (shame hole aka arsehole). Your god is not my god and your religious scar does not apply to me. I find you controling at best and manipulative at worse. Fuck you very much. - Posted from rhpmobile
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HighlandFox
8 years ago
Participated in a MMMMF group (not quite a 'gangbang' as such) and found all the guys extremely respectful and attentive. Everyone knew their "role" and made sure our lady got everything she wanted. We had all been with her as individuals and I think that's the key; screen your gang 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Like most things in life - The experience is only as good as the people you share it with.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The only way for it to work successfully is to have a dominant male there that you trust who doesnt play but just controls the action. She tells him what she wants and he tells guys what to do. If a guy is unruly the others will soon pull him into line as they want to play. Also always have nearby contact with 15 min messages to ensure safety. Have had many and all successful. - Posted from rhpmobile
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ajaussie
8 years ago
I have attended in many gangbangs and haven't seen any of all the us guys disrespecting any lady. We respect her decision and if she's not comfortable in doing something we don't force and neve use dirty language. Always ask before proceeding to do something....and I have seen all the ladies enjoying the gangbang....and they volunteer again for it. Cheers AJ
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hahaha to "Fuck you very much" at John from LaFemmeFontaine. Probably the fact no one's done that to him very much at all is what's causing his problem. Love seeing a strong woman hit back hard. Those guys in the future gangbang aren't going to know what's hit them! And yeah, fuck John for killing the vibe. Here's to gangbangs for everyone who wants them! - Posted from rhpmobile
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justlook2500
8 years ago
I have been in quite a few gangbangs in my time in the swinging scene. As others have said the dynamics can vary quite dramatically depending on the people involved and what they are after. The kind of scenario's I have been in are; 3-5 guys and 1 girl where she was submissive and aim was for her to be treated roughly and almost like a sex slave. Again similar scenario of guys to girl but not roughness/submissiveness in the play. Also done larger ones where there were say 20-30 guys and 2-4 girls. These are trickier. What works best is when the couples/women in the parties knows all/most of the guys that way the general vibe of the what the women want will be achieved. As always different things rock different peoples boats. Some women want to be submissive and fucked hard/rough by 10-12 guys and some don't. Generally speaking from my experiences, the women/couples who enjoy the larger numbers are looking for a more rougher style were the female is submissive whereas smaller parties is where they want a more controlled/sensuous style of play. Of course there are exceptions to the rule but generally that is what I have seen. Lafemme I would suggest if you are interested in gangbangs maybe trying with 2-3 guys you know/trust. That way you are comfortable and can clearly explain what you want to try/do/experience and if things not going right then you can stop and re-calibrate the evening to your liking. In doing that you can explore the kind of things you want to and possibly push your limits in safe space. Then depending on things you can make things rougher/more sensuous or add more depending on your experience.
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piediluvva
8 years ago
Quoting 'Kinky_Ds_Slut' The only way for it to work successfully is to have a dominant male there that you trust who doesnt play but just controls the action. She tells him what she wants and he tells guys what to do. If a guy is unruly the others will soon pull him into line as they want to play. Also always have nearby contact with 15 min messages to ensure safety. Have had many and all successful. - Posted from rhpmobile As has been quoted, I've experienced many in my time, as well as the 'intimacy' of a 3sum many times over, and can vouch for all that is said with Kinky_Ds_Slut. Fortunately for me, I was usually the 'trusted' one, and at times you really do have to pull rank. if the guys are there for YOU and not just themselves, the sensuality that can come with such a meet is overwhelming at times. The focus (in almost every meet in fact) is on YOU as the core pivot for the focus of the men involve. It is therefore VERY important to have men that are on the same level. Even a 3sum MFM is on the same level playing field as a MMMFMMM. All in all, it boils down to respect. If everyone can respect one another, and respect the lady involved, and focus on HER pleasure, then ALL involved will be for the better of pleasure. As a side note Kinky_Ds_Slut - i have no other way of contacting you off this site, but really do want to. Membership will come soon, but not soon enough in our case I think. Any ideas how? R xx
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Renegades
8 years ago
I have to say firstly, that we have met amazing people here on RHP and I can't credit it enough as a legit swingers site, but in saying this, we have only ever explored the couples and together experiences as opposed to hosting single men, and to be honest we never will. It sounds as though you are unwillingly walking a dark path to please someone else and to this I say, find the light and walk away. People often do things for the wrong reasons or it is very one sided and they are quite easily picked out in our experiences. Take a knee, acknowledge that this is not for you and find something that is. I wish you all the best in love and life but it sounds like you're not going to find it here and may need to stop pretending or convincing yourself that you've found it in your current partner. Surely there are many conservative, naturally intimate and loving women out there looking for a down to earth, honest and what sounds like religious man such as yourself. Well wishes to you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
when are people gonna realise any woman that allows men to mount them are going to be bagged out and criticised. men dont give a shit abt her, shes living in a fantasy if she thinks they give a shit abt her. shes gonna be called a dumb slut for letting them mount her reality check people
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RHP User
8 years ago
It could go really well with the right frame of mind and the right people (what are the odds) but it could also go very wrong. My man fantasises about me having a gang bang. In my head I think it could be good, but in reality... a bunch of strange men... No thanks. I agree with above posts... If you do go ahead with it, have someone there who can look out for you. It's a very vulnerable situation. Miss Femme, I don't think you should feel dirty or bad about your fantasy. Whether you have sex with multiple men at various times or in one sitting, what's the difference?! It's a hot fantasy, you don't need other people's okay. No matter what you do, some people will always raise their eyebrows and think badly. Don't bother... They don't need to know. One day when you are old and grey, you can look back and say, "I dared to do it". Even if it didn't turn out well, I reckon you will be pleased that you dared to give it a go. And if you love it, you'll want to do it again and again and look back on your Godess Moments with happy memories ;) Go Girl! Gang bang in 2017! Have Fun xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Naughtydouble
8 years ago
With the husband thats 3 and it can be very sensual and a lot of fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That is all 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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seppopom
8 years ago
very interested but nightmare to organise even coordinating two people to turn up on time! Interested in any events specialising in this that can be recommended by couples Screening for reliable, attractive and experienced guys is a challenge for us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We have found that human interaction involves. Initial contact, communicating then doing an activity. We have met guys used this strategy, had 3 somes with each, then my girl contacted each individually, said she had a fantasy and asked if they are interested. I then organise it and ask each involved individual seperately what they think she wants. Did you ask her? We then do the gang fuck.....she loves them. Essentially establish it, pace and lead the involved parties into what you want. Excuse me for saying this, empowered women guide males in, by pacing and leading. Given that most men and women in contemporary Australia don't actually ever achive mental maturity, you would be well advised to guide with a reward baced approach. Much in the way you would train a young virgin male on how to seduce and subsequently fuck a women so fully that she is dizzy from pleasure. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
sensual never do guys care abt you nooooooooo take a walk or organise yr own with respectful guys try 2 guys first
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fantastic that you have shown your true feelings here. Feel sorry for your wife. Or is it wifey talking? Just to let you know, I would mount your face and ride to you all the way to hell and I would still respect you just as much as I do now. Haha
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MRcracker
8 years ago
also seen this couple on cam he is a sub at times doing as she wants, seen her with a strap-on and on cam when she was pregnant. also seen her in chat room run john down pretty badly. Maybe that is how they like it
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RHP User
8 years ago
That's a terrible shame John. You should probably divorce your wife if you feel that way mate. Not worth the pain man - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some of the comments in here are so highschool... just because someone doesn't agree on a swinger site cos they tried and had some really bad experiences, it doesn't give ANYONE permission to beat and kick someone when their down. Try to empathise and ask why. You just start off on the wrong foot with people. Understand instead of criticise. Benefit of the doubt. People have feelings. Even you! Show some empathy to someone who attempted to give and love generously only to be screwed over. Put yourself in his shoes. What some seemingly "positive" people here do is put on their ego hat that comes with a bullshit/insensitive persona and fools nobody who can just rip that hat off and leave you bare naked. The forum rules are to play nice that means show some compassion. Forums are here to share experiences and support, not to kick people when they're down. I would be scarred if I had the same sort of situation as @Johnandaimee. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
So you are saying that John is a sissy sub? Really? Have I understood you correctly? And the plot thickens. :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I believe it depends of who you are ,who are the others and what everyone expect from each others.For ME it has been a great experience and the men I dealt with are very respectful.we catch up sometimes and still now they leave me the choice to be submissive or not, blind fold or other things involved. I have the choice.If one of them misbehave or break my rules I decide to do not let him in anymore.In general way we get along very well and I love it.This experience helped me also to have more confidence in myself,to know my body a bit more.A nd tbh I don t mind to be called by naughty name sometimes,so I let them know when I feel like,if I want my hair pulled or not and so on.those guys are making my fantasies coming true and it s one of the best step I ever done it.When I feel like "let s get wild,let s get the animal instinct out of me, let s be myself as I feel like now"...whenI have those thoughts and I can get them to do me it s fkn awesome. I m straight but if you feel like talking about just text me.it s a natural thing.Nothing is wrong .Just let s be yourself,don t pull back If you feel you want it, try. Bye for now :) I could do it right now... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We all have different tastes, beliefs and desires...what seems pleasurable to some might not seem the same to to others ,like anything in life...I always think as long as those involved enjoy whatever they are participating in...then nothing is "dirty or degrading"Steve x
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm in exactly the same situation as u femme! I think about them ALOT! And I want to be spoilt! Not submissive. - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
8 years ago
I too have seen the cam of J and A and also had a serious discussion with J about this. J made it clear to he hated it. His wife's behavior in the chat room..putting us all down calling us ALL lies while she's hunting for a extra large cock & I'm trying hard to be polite she is was disgusting and J Won't Leave because he doesn't want to start over.. Pathetic. How many times J did u get in chat trying to find your wife also whilst your child was sick. I have no empathy for you and actually was happy to see you both had not been in chat for a while ... As you can see I battle with stupidity - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
8 years ago
Back to the topic. I haven't yet had the multi GB ooh wait yes I did think it was 4/5 one night silly me, I now remember one guy was called donkey for a reason lol . However I look forward to the day of 4/6/10 Guys of my choice for a whole night...sorry numbers went up after watching a particular video 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The MMFs I've been a part of have always been about spoiling our ladyfriend, not dominating her. (Though if that's what she wanted and asked for, I'm sure that could be arranged as well.) I can only imagine it would be the same situation with a few more guys. Like a few of the members suggested earlier in this thread, if you choose your men very carefully and communicate your needs, there's no reason why it can't be exactly as you've imagined in your most explicit fantasies. That said, it is notoriously hard to get enough men to show up at the right time. (Getting one can be a challenge, amirite ladies?) So in that way a swinger's club may be a viable option, depending on comfort levels.
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JamesTKirk
8 years ago
I have been to a few gangbang parties (was at one last night.....awesomeness). The Ladies have always enjoyed themselves. They were spoilt at every turn by guys trying to impress (and get invited back for more). AND they were always in control. Yes....there are some Ladies who enjoy the Dom/sub play. But ultimately the action could all stop at the voicing of one word "no" (or stop....or you're on my hair....you get the picture 😉). Organisation is the key. If you inviting a bunch of new unknown guys to a bigger party, make sure you have some other more experienced guys there to exert peer pressure. If it is the first time you enjoying the eager attentions of multiple guys, start small. Can be intimidating for the beginners. Although some beginners dive in and go 😁. If it's a smaller gangbang, "interview" them over drinks beforehand or even just prior to moving onto the fun. Also, chatting with potential candidates online to set ground rules, state likes/dislikes, no go activities, particular fantasies to be explored, etc helps full the deadwood and make sure everyone's on the same page when it comes to the main event. So....Ladies....if you have fantasies about gangbang fun....it can be fun.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've been following this post as the subject I find very intriguing. Unfortunately some struggle to find our understand their own kinks and desires.I know what floats my boat doesn't others, we need to be adult, this is a site where by we help others, we pah or own limits and find ourselves. Otherwise, it's been a pleasure trading the other comments, some different, but great. J - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
umm i wrote this my hubby knows nothing of what ive done and this has nothing to do with my guy, so there is no one to blame but me for doing this shit. im honest and outspoken, and say what most people will only think.
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Mr_Invisible
8 years ago
Been involved in a coupleAs a hired gun so to speak... not sharing my partner I enjoy other men's wivesBut I prefer a smaller group... not 10 blokes standing around trying to get involvedI prefer smaller more intimate gatherings
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GingerNinjer
8 years ago
Fuck me bi boy gang - Posted from rhpmobile
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GingerNinjer
8 years ago
Oh dear how sentimenral some get .... Hey ... Gangbangs are hot .... if you are soo vanilla do not post!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't see why someone should not post on the topic if that is how they're feeling. For you Femme, good topic. As a woman, I'd want the certainty of a wing man for a gangbang. Someone to have my back making sure the men are treating me the way I want, using their condoms and what not. I envision a swing and blindfold (for me :-D) and a total spoiling. I don't think I'd want too many men though, hubby would be one, not so they're forming a queue anyway, LOL. Enough to keep everyone busy. Sensual it is and sexy. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Femme... sorry to hear about the men from your experience. I've had far better experiences than that and you can too. Peachy ;-)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I liked your comment. Agree re not being degrading if all are enjoying it, but it had damn well better be dirty 😜😛😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
Don't go throwing your bible at us in here. Femme articulated her response to that perfectly. I'm a sinner and I fucking love it, oh my sweet lord, praise the lord, love being on my knees 😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
Liked your comment too. Hope you're okay 😃
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larocker00
8 years ago
My wife started it with 3 hot men as they were getting busy with her a fourth guy joined. My wife found the new guy more hotter than the other and gave him a fastpass, lol. They were good to her and she managed to keep all of them occupied. It was very hot to watch though it was my wife who had most of the fun. She told me that she was ready for more ;)
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Machariel
8 years ago
Firstly I have never been to one. It is on my bucket list of this to witness this year. How does one find a an event? Are on lookers aloud to watch? How is safety treated? Whats the etiquette? I have. Lot of questions that would probally just vanished if I was to witness an event like this Not really interested in joining in more of a curiosity thing. Heck if I finally see one I might like it and join in on the next.. Le FEM.👍 Thanks for being open about your dreams/desires. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
is the guy with his face wedged between my thighs 😊 I worship him and anoint him 😉 Amen 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
I haven't been to a specifically organised gang bang however a few parties that I have been to over the years would regularly turn into gang bangs as women who are interested in that would often attend these parties. And yes they would be queues of men waiting their turn, others watching, and a whole lot of other smaller groups everywhere else having fun. Big parties! So I am not sure if what I am saying is right however from what I know. Although people can just watch if that is their thing I would assume that having lots of people turning up just to watch a gang bang would not be what the organisers nor what the women would want. The amount of newbie's might be limited. New people have a habit of not performing on cue.. that sort of confidence can take time to develop. I have been to a couple of private parties and observed older men who remained fully dressed and just had their cock out (just their zipper opened) stroking it while they watched everyone else... and they got right up close too. I found that super creepy. If you go at least undress or be similar attired as everyone else at the party. Personally I never went back to those organisers parties if they allowed that sort of behaviour. Sorry, you never even asked that! LOL I think that would be a great question to ask. Why don't you start a thread about it?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I may be thinking about it for a long time and trying to break out of the goody-goody-two-shoe thoughts that are burnt into my subconscious mind. In reality, a good one seems to be hard to find and/or organise. I do wanna watch a well organised GB before deciding - observe how the guys fuck and if I like it or not, which positions they do and how they treat the woman. I am ok with exhibitionism/voyeurism, just want to make sure the guys are respectful (would love to see hot, young guys - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
(What happened to the rest of my post? *scratches head) Hot, young guys I wanna make sure people respect my privacy, as at big house parties - everyone knows someone so it should be ok and lots of understanding husbands that look after all girls, as well as their wives :) Life only gives you so many opportunities to take or pass up... if I was drunk and in the moment, I'd probably get down and dirty... sizzle fo shizzle! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
What the? You are the person being banged and therefore you say what you want and how you want it..... not the line of men!!!!! You control the play, the positions, the number of men you do at one time. Seasoned women in the scene (that I have watched) basically were on their back and accepted man after man and they would sometimes have a cock or two in their hands and one in their mouth as well. This is what they wanted and how they wanted it though. They go for an hour or so. Have a break then get back into it. The whole scenario gets them very excitied, its their thing. How do you imagine it? Or in your fantasy how would it be? Curious :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think I may know why you made that comment. Perhaps you have watched rough GB on pornhub, etc? You can have it rough if you like, but the name calling, slapping, rough play is invited by the woman if she wants it. Any guy that treats women that way uninvited is quickly shut down by the rest of the group. Although I have certainly observered some behavior that John describes in his first post, that in my personally experience (for what is it worth) is absolutely not the normal.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've only half watched rape gang bangs when I was ~10yrs old it was just part of a movie we watched as a family hahaha yeah I know - awkward. I did discuss it with my school friend the next day, but I knew it was "just a movie") but obviously organised ones where the female/couple is in charge is different. Hence, my questions... I must seem naive to you but I don't think I am. It's not something I fantasise about, I'm more curious than anything. So much more to life than dark, dirty sex fetishes - but they do make life interesting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This sadly is A-Typical of a lot of Aussie males... I've noticed (and been surprised by) how open, wonderful and sharing a lot of men are on here with their ladies... I personally feel that if a couple decide to do this then the 'suitors' need to be highly respectful of both him and her... In this day and age it seems clean well spoken performers are few and far between for some... I for one would happily respect ur wife had I been there and more then likely wrestled any 'lad' who treads over the line... we need to bring back the wooden spoon:) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Due respect but you say you're fine with exhibitionism, but only if you're drunk? You shouldn't be having a gangie if you're drunk, sorry but I'd strongly advise against that for safety, but also confused why you would bother if you have to be drunk 😃 What form of exhibitionism have you engaged in?
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RHP User
8 years ago
"So much more to life than dark dirty sex fetishes" Nope, that pretty much does it for me 😉😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
I never said you were Naive. I wouldn't know. I just thought your comment about watching how they fuck a curious one. You and LaFemme are close to each other and sounds like you are in the same phase of exploring what's out there in the land of swing and kink. You should both totally hook up and go to some parties or swingers clubs just to observe. It can be lots of fun going with a friend. For research purposes of course! :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
@I_Touch - by drunk, I mean tipsy, just to enhance the experience and not think too much (it can be tough to shut off the brain sometimes) not stumbling all over the place/can't hold myself up drunk lol @CandyDelicious - thanks for the tips :) I dunno I'm just picky with guys... we've all had duds or even ones that get a bit of stage fright, hell even I get stage fright with a massive dick. Incompatibility is no fun. Firsts should always be fun, otherwise people are reluctant to try again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MadhattersCat
8 years ago
To me the real issue of this post comes down to definition. For those that don't know, a bell curve is a representation of data that displays one extreme to the left and one extreme to the right. Usually most of the data is more central and ends up displaying a line looking like a bell. In this instance I would put orgy on the left and gang bang on the right. Orgies could simply be two couples and partner swapping. Then moving onto multiple partner consensual swapping, and so on. The top of the curve would probably be something like MMMMF - when it gets closer to the gang bang extreme add more Ms. Pack mentality then gets stronger. My point being the term "Gang Bang" is definitely the extreme on one side. For me it invokes images of a woman on her back and a queue of men. This is going to have pack mentality repercussions. If a more sensual experience is what you desire I would suggest the term multiple partners at the same time has a much softer connotation. For those that like the idea - imagine where on the bell curve you desire and express that clearly. Then enjoy the ride.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't actually understand your logic. What parameters are on the x & y axis? Left is orgy, right is gb... there is no left & right axis, so going back to highschool maths.... I'm rusty and lost by your post. Coming back to forums, makes me realise how important highschool and memory really is/was lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
the science of the female squirt or the mathematics of volume of cum one pussy can hold in her creampie...as her pussy expands from arousal before she climaxes and pushes it all out again 🤔 to bring it back to the topic of GB 😬 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MadhattersCat
8 years ago
Quoting 'FlyGirlC' I don't actually understand your logic. What parameters are on the x & y axis? Left is orgy, right is gb... there is no left & right axis, so going back to highschool maths.... I'm rusty and lost by your post. Coming back to forums, makes me realise how important highschool and memory really is/was lol - Posted from rhpmobile There is no x and y axis in a bell curve. it is simply the line drawn to represent data, lets say the data is the comfort factor of multiple partners. Entry point on the far left would be First time I had two in one night in the comfort of nice peoples home. On the other end of the scale is Gang Bang, the outer limit of no fear come fuck me. All I am saying is that there is a comfort point for everyone on this scale, Most will be in the middle of the bell. When looking for multiple male partners be careful of the term Gang Bang because that is where the rules run out.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'happy_fun' My point being the term "Gang Bang" is definitely the extreme on one side. For me it invokes images of a woman on her back and a queue of men. This is going to have pack mentality repercussions.not to say it doesn't happen, but I don't agree that this generally happens re: some nasty pack mentality you could argue the opposite, that it's a self policing group since nobody wants the fun to stop - and that if someone isn't behaving properly it'd get nipped in the bud quick smart.
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Imhereforjoy
8 years ago
I have participated in few gangbangs and also hosted gangbang for two curious girls who want to live their fantasies..every time the number of guys wasn't more then 6 and I make sure everyone is respectful and know how to please a girl without treating her like a piece of meat .. i always heard from girls after gangbang that they enjoyed it a lot .. I think it just depends upon the people who participated in that event .. rules need to set up before meeting and only genuine guys should get invite , trust me it's always fun .. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Andyjayyy
8 years ago
Well I think I know what I'd prefer to think about lol You have a deliciously naughty mind FlyGirlC.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm a cum Queen sticky creamy delious cum all over me . I'm looking for a gangy with 5 guys filling All my holes mmmmmmmm I love sucking heaps of cocks being tied down so fucking hot . That's what I want and believe me with communication time fate it will happen . 2017 is the year of the Gangbang 👸 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'CUM_QUEEN70' I'm a cum Queen sticky creamy delious cum all over me . I'm looking for a gangy with 5 guys filling All my holes mmmmmmmm I love sucking heaps of cocks being tied down so fucking hot . That's what I want and believe me with communication time fate it will happen . 2017 is the year of the Gangbang 👸 - Posted from rhpmobile ...you could do 7 with the right guys and a bit of imagination. Shhhhh don't tell as there might be completion in that space. As it were.Luv ya......
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RHP User
8 years ago
Want some - Posted from rhpmobile
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