RHP

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Gangbusters

January 10 2017

I'm not going to lie. Gangbang. I fantasize about it. A LOT. I struggle with wanting it, while admiring the women who are free enough to bask inthe pleasure of this, I war with myself, like somehow this makes me less of an ethical person. The sometimes ongoing battle between my desires and my self judgement droves me nuts! I experienced one multipartner experience and the men involved got a little beasty and I didn't enjoy it. So, I've not done it since. But god I want to. Does gangbang mean just that, 'banged' or can it be sensual as well as debauched? I don't like the idea of being the submissive in a group situation - rather prefer the notion of being thoroughly spoilt. Have you participated in them? Were you nervous? How did you get past it? How did you feel afterwards? Guys, thoughts? Please can you bust some of the bs misconceptions I have about this? Femme 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    8 years ago

    But many clubs can make this happen guys willline up if you want a gangbang.Most women do it so they can say been there donethat but some adore the attention of many guys.

  • johnisfun3

    johnisfun3

    8 years ago

    I think I would leave them for porn movies. I have not been to one so can't say I am saying this from experience. Personally I find it little degrading to the woman. But each to their own. I think MMF will allow the female to have enough attention and could be sensual with the right guys.

  • MadhattersCat

    MadhattersCat

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'CUM_QUEEN70' I'm a cum Queen sticky creamy delious cum all over me . I'm looking for a gangy with 5 guys filling All my holes mmmmmmmm I love sucking heaps of cocks being tied down so fucking hot . That's what I want and believe me with communication time fate it will happen . 2017 is the year of the Gangbang 👸 - Posted from rhpmobile I love this response. Cum Queen, the realm of the gangbang does belong in hands like yours. Not in the hands of someone wanting a sensual multiple partner experience.Keep up the great work.

  • Minx99

    Minx99

    8 years ago

    I had a gb organised for my birthday by Sydneygangbangs and was so happy about it. Really well organised, all the guys respected the rules and noone wants the fun to end so why would they break them?! Lots of lovely hot young things giving me all of their attention for hours.. Honestly fantastic. Went back for round two :) For me I love the idea of being taken - but everyone knows it's the woman who is ruling the event, no matter how sub. If I say no, everyone has to leave. Simple. I don't know if I'll ever do it again.. The memories are so good!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hey femme ive been involved i a sensual one like the one you are seeking it was furthet helped by the woman involved and organises it having been with the 4 guys involved on seperate occassions prior too having them all togethet and i must say she was.in control at pretty much all times until she was close too cumming each times she was close too orgasm she would hand control over too enjoy the ride so it can be the sensual but debauched exoerience u desire if you set it up and pre trial all involved is my advice - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Personally i love gang banging a woman and never do i think anything but the highest respect for the ladys involved and on the rare occasions ive heard anything degrading i always nip it in the butt immediately and ive never been the only one to say something so please embrace her love of cock and dont let a few dickheads ruin it for her, you or me,,,,,ps i love slutty asain women the most,thank you both and if we are ever at the bar together then its my shout

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You're obviously a strong, successful woman who doesn't take shit from anyone, so would it be fair to say that your dilemma around gang bangs stems from the idea of seemingly subjugating yourself to the desires and control of a group of men? If so, I get it. But my feeling is control in sex isn't the same as control in everyday life. Giving yourself over to your sexual fantasies is in itself a form of control, not of the situation maybe but certainly of your own self. And as long as you have a safe word and all involved are aware of it, then you have control of the situation. We're only ever stronger and fuller human beings for embracing our sexuality and our desires.

  • newlife66

    newlife66

    8 years ago

    Great range of opinions and emotions here. For us its about common respect and clear communication. We have been involved in some gang bangs now as a couple and as singles. We haven't found the rank disrespect mentioned in some posts but we are sure it happens. On the whole we have had a great time. So long as we are both on the same page and understand each other then Mrs newlife is free to safely enjoy as many men as she wants, but also as few as she wants. Its only her choice. We echo some of the advice already given here and say perhaps meet some of the guys before hand and 'hand pick' your crew. Anyway it can be an amazing experience!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    John I feel so sad for you. Why on earth would you be here if you don't think it's ok? You say you don't believe in swinging and that you are sinning. I won't bother going into all the god stuff, because I don't believe in that crap. But if you are doing things you don't like, watching your wife do things you think is immoral and disgusting, you will not come out if this happy. You'll resent your wife, you'll be disappointed in yourself and that will eat away at you. It is not ok to allow yourself to be treated badly, or to think you are worth less than your wife. I can't even fathom why you think you have to just suck it up and do what your wife wants, regardless of your feelings. I'm assuming either she doesn't give a shit about you, or she has no idea how you really feel. Both are very sad. Your view of RHP is rather tainted by your experiences with your wife. It can be great fun and bring so much to someone's life. I'm single, and I get so much more from the scene than just cock. I get friendships, conversations, laughter and good fun times. I always have a connection with the people I choose to play with, so they are not a "piece of meat" at all. I care about their enjoyment, I'm respectful and thoughtful. I sometimes play with another woman's husband (with her consent) and I could never do that without having a relationship with both parties. I get the human contact and cuddles I need, while feeling desired and valued. But none of the domestic emotional BS. 😜😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Such a sweet idea for a birthday treat! How many guys were there?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I haven't read all comments here - only have a general idea. I have seen two gangbangs, was involved in one, and of course we all have seen them on video. What I see is a NOT A slut or someone offering her pussy for guys' pleasure. I see truly powerful, beautiful woman - like a tigress, Cleopatra re-lived. it's an obsolete, throwback vision to undermine a woman's desire or practice of taking multiple men in a go. Look at it this way - one woman can handle 5 men a hell lot better than the other way round. I have respect for every gangbanger woman! Be proud!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Such a sweet idea for a birthday treat! How many guys were there?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Exactly. That's been the case in my experiences. I haven't seen the other, more using, more degrading type of event. But maybe because I see the women as being in control and getting exactly what they ask for; and sometimes what they ask is to be used, so then is it still the case? (Note the same thing can play out as such one on one). As for the reverse scenario, most comments here from women have been along the lines of - what's in it for them? I guess which shows some core differences between some people and their interests and/or motivations. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Another aspect which I reckon is somewhat missed here is that an event like a gangbang or an orgy can be (and are) as unnerving (if not intimidating) for men, as they are for the women. That said, in gangbangs, when you can tag team, you can last much longer without disturbing the momentum of the play. The woman meanwhile can have multiple hits of orgasm. For men, gangbang has more of an exhibitionism/watch value, than it is for the women. As for the women, the feel value is a lot more than men. Makes sense?

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    8 years ago

    Lol. Oh dear me. I love how you speak on behalf of all women. 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    An event of this sort run by a woman for the benefit of women, ensures that women are described as and treated as "Goddesses".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    :/ Well, I make effort trying to understand the opposite gender, why not. But then, yes, we can only guess I suppose.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Elegant Prey If you write like this, think like you do, and look like you are, Will you marry me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Being involved in a gangbang is a huge fantasy of mine, but in saying that...I would love the girl to either be my partner, or a FWB so I could connect with her and the pleasure she's getting from it. I guess the whole situation comes down to what the girl is into because obviously some want the experience to be a loving type of situation with multiple guys and some want to feel and be treated like a complete slut... I would be happy with either of those situations because I'm all about the girl being happy and that is what would turn me on the most about the whole thing. The guys need to be respectful no matter what the situation though. You can't turn up and just be a dickhead!! I was involved in a relationship where we would invite others to join us and everything was organised according to what she wanted. We had 2 guys turn up one night, but she wasn't into one of them, so he left and we just went ahead with the usual threesome...I'd love to be in another relationship like that and I guess that's part of why I'm on here (to meet like minded people when it comes to sex).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Ive always wanted to do a gangbang...to treated like a slut!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I would love and respect my partner for having the courage and determination to fu fill my fantasy of her getting gang. I love seeing her getting worked and completely being free to really enjoy the moment. That's so hot!! I love seeing her centre of attention and not worrying about what Im thinking. I love it when she gets that carried away she screams screw me harder - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think you should message me - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    What’s everyone’s favourite foreplay? Toys? Oral? Rimming? Fingering? 69? Facesitting? Kissing? Whipped cream/choc syrup food fun? Anything else? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    There’s something seriously sexy about you 🤔 ... I’d love to be the one to treat you like a slut, I’m pretty confident I’m qualified... What do ya think? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FloozieandHim

    FloozieandHim

    6 years ago

    As you can probably tell by our pictures, I am a bit of a fan... Having a group that is trustworthy, polite and clean is important. Have been with guys we have decided not to play with again, and have had to get Mr Him to have a quiet word with an over enthusiastic participant at times. It’s about knowing your boundaries and comfort zone and sticking to it. We recently posted a story about out GB adventures here... Miss K - Posted from rhpmobile

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