How do I tell him I'm kinky as fuck?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Baygirl.... I honestly couldn't imagine having a relationship with someone off RHP..... Seriously.... I would much rather something relaxed and easy going.... :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Genius_Ironman

  11 years ago

  "geeky" and "vanilla" don't typically go together. Trust me on this one!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I suggest you try asking him "Darling, are there any special fantasies you'd like to try? I'll do my best to bring them to reality for you."

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  So I'm finding out:) happy days.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Only a small step from rimming to strap-ons! What's next on the exploratory agenda or are you just going with the flow? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I wish I could find a woman like you. I was married for almost 12 years and together for over 5 years before we got married. My wife decided that she didn't love me anymore and left me mid 2012 I'm still not over her but want to have some fun in the meantime... who knows, it may even help me forget about her. She NEVER initiated anything sexual, so I always had to work for it. She didn't enjoy giving head and stroking me. She wasn't flirtatious but I finally convinced her to have phone sex with me (although she wasn't great at it). We also sent each other nude pics. I still have one of her tits but I'm annoyed that I deleted the others. Some of them included her face. Anyway, I would love to meet someone who likes sex and initiates things and I don't mind how kinky they are. I'd love to have a 3some (MFF or MMF) so the more she was into the better. Where do I find such a woman? Preferably in Darwin. Haha!

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  Fitnhorny4u

  11 years ago

  We would have to ask you what is more important to you? Let us explain, we have both come out of very vanilla relationships. We both tried to kids ourselves that we didn't need to attend to our wants and desires of more than just regular sex, same old same old, both our ex's were lovely people and we loved. But their idea of spicing it up was to have sex on the lounge instead of the bed. For some people sex is a small part of their life, yes they like it, but do they need it? No! For us, it is a need not a want, now that we are together, we can openly discuss our desires and fantasies, we cannot believe how different life it, we are both more relaxed, happier and just loving life so much more. So our thoughts on it are that you need to ask yourself, What do I need to do to be true to myself? Life is too short, If you hide your true self, it will come out sometime, sooner or later! But it will come out! That's our thoughts! Good luck

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I am the opposite, I have all the desires to try anything, but no one to try them with.

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  northshorebabe1

  11 years ago

  I have the same Issue with my Boyfriend.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Think you should wait to establish a bit more of a bond, and in the meanwhile give away only bits and pieces of this aspect of your life... And perhaps if it is early days, he might slowly give away something of his fetishes/ or weird likes... If you act with acceptance towards him, then he will have to act the same way towards you... But make it clear that you were in a sexless marriage and that you could never put up with that again, and that you'd rather be experimental than bored... Maybe that'll give him a hint... Good luck... You never know, he might be dirtier than you deep down... Lol! Sometimes the ones who are meek in real life are the exact opposite behind closed doors... E

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Having come out of an 11 year my self it took a little time for me too getting back with you ladies. Communicate; continue to add a little kink to what you do. Maybe start of by blind folding him. You'll need to get him to trust you more. It will take time, lots of it. My ex never wanted it at all. She only wanted sex in the bedroom. Maybe try different locations. Go for an evening walk and shag him in a park somewhere discreet, so that he feels comfortable or go down on him on a long drive, or pull over somewhere have a set of cuffs with you and ask him to arrest you or arrest him and have your way with him, then continue on your way. Pushing the boundaries a little bit every time. Until you can introduce more and possibly a 3rd person.On the other hand he just may not be wired up that way!!! So you'll need to choose what you need; someone that loves you and is a little boring or someone that blows your mind and want to shag everything else too. Theres very few that would blow your mind and settle. Best of luck and stay safe. Koz.

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