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Is it ok for Heterosexual men to hit on women
October 30 2014
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beebs
10 years ago
Is for men to remember when they have found themselves in a rough part of town where they are not comfortable and on edge. They try to avoid eye contact with the locals and might even cross the street to avoid a group of people. All instincts are on high alert and things don't calm down until you are back on familiar ground. For woman this can be the constant reality no matter what part of town they can be in. There can be subtle threats even in the most innocuous shopping mall. It isn't fair and I hope that things improve.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Niceman101' I have met hundreds of women who wud love to be hit on by men. It's those women who have had the luck of nature to be blessed with beauty -a nice ass- good breasts who get uppity about this male practice. They shud stop getting up themselves and be glad of their lucky fate of nature. After all if we believe in Darwin these attributes are there for sexual attraction from men. If you do not believe ---go back to religion-- Moslem or Christian Are you actually saying I should thank my lucky stars I'm attractive enough to be hit on? And way to go, insulting two religions while you're at it. No Insults here --just the fact that most Abrahamic religions believe that all things on the earth were created [as they are ] about 30 thousand years ago----Over 25 % of the USA believes this---may be you are a believer too---Flat earth also??
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Niceman101' I hope to see some argument construction---but I never forget the current education situation in OZ as calculated by reputable research organisations that " forty per cent of Australians are illiterate I must be illiterate, because I have no idea what point you're attempting to make. I don't Know if you are----But you certainly don't understand the point I am making----There are no problems here either---Shall we say just a differences in our understandings---may be we cud get together and teach each a thing or two?---I am waiting for it!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Actually NM101, are you suggesting that men are like animals and hey have no control over themselves? I know we joke that men think with heir little head but you seem to be suggesting that's true. Hmm so I just thought somebody else who make that excuse you have out forward. rapists and pedophiles. Why are rapists and paedophiles treated with chemicals to reduce the production of there sex hormones---the public -as- usual pays for this and its heavy---maybe a well placed ligature would do a much less expensive job---what do you think Doctor
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RHP User
10 years ago
Looks like the moderators deleted my response to you when I hadn't even written anything controversial. Oh well, for this reason I say to you that rape has nothing to do with sex so chemicals are not going to be 100% effective in reducing violence against women And children. Since I am unable to speak freely I will also bow out of this conversation.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Actually NM101, are you suggesting that men are like animals and hey have no control over themselves? I know we joke that men think with heir little head but you seem to be suggesting that's true. Hmm so I just thought somebody else who make that excuse you have out forward. rapists and pedophiles. it would be patently absurd to suggest that there are not people with almost non-existent impulse control and they don't do stupid things without thinking about their behaviour first. That doesn't make their behaviour acceptable - it is just how their brains are wired. Quoting 'Splicey'The creepiest thing that happened was a guy followed her for 5 minutes, which she could have said something to, but for the experiment she was told not to. I think the video would be better if it was more tightly focused - leaving in the "hey" and "hows it going" takes away from the more aggressive approaches/calls. (the guy that follows for a while; demands for interaction, etc)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your not the only one being moderated. My posts of late are getting canned and still lost my instant posting. So I guess they do not like robust conversation. I guess also if another poster goes to mummy then she has to apply the smack fairy. I am Starting to think it's best not to reply a all on anyone's post that I know will leap all over me. Because I know some on here live fir that. Or just write a short but if humour or fluff. My member ship us due to Laps soon. Not a bad thing considering. Yes we all say the wrong thing on here now and again but I think the censorship is on the incline. I just enjoy the hard topics I guess. That challenge me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It does seem to be on the rise. I tried to post a topic about male rape a while back - I think it's a subject that needs some real acknowledgment and open discussion, otherwise how will men ever feel truly comfortable to report their experiences. If we can talk so much about the things that women have to deal with, it seems only fair to be able to talk about things men face. I was bummed the topic didn't get up. I assumed it was some kind of protection against liability by the site. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I feel like I'm watching a game of tennis
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RHP User
10 years ago
Saturn, and here... Help yourself to some popcorn... 😄😄😄 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think that would have been a good topic. Pity it never got up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
To the question, slightly adjusted...... Hetero man, bi man, gay woman, bi woman, or even hetero woman....... the detail isn't as relevant... as the method. How people respond is a function of the method, AND the person making the approach... in conjunction with external factors such as her schedule, her mindset and her availability. So...... to ask......"Is it OK to approach women?" Well.....we are approached all the time. "Excuse me, what time is it please?""Hi, do you know where the post office is?""Sorry mate, do you know if there is a Commonwealth ATM nearby?""Oh wow, I love that dress... where did you get it?" These are every day occurrences.... so are these questions acceptable to ask?The majority of us would clearly say..... Yes... because these questions are socially acceptable, expected even...... and because majority of us are not blatantly unfriendly to ignore someone like that. Why then.... is it not acceptable to mutually engage in conversation after a socially appropriate question or comment IF the person showed signs of availability towards communicating?! There isn't a "No" answer to that... unless a person clearly have no time to talk, display signs you don't want to talk, or are just unfriendly. And if they clearly appear that way, you just wouldn't ask them anyway. So the answer to the question "is it ok to approach women?" Ofcourse it is. How you do it...... is the determining factor. The video subject of this topic........ offers clear examples of unacceptable communication, and those guys deserve to be criticised heavily..... and lets be honest..... not once did it succeed in gaining her attention in a positive way. Id say chatting, laughter, and an exchange of contact details... or even a mini-date right there and then over coffee to talk further, would be proof positive that approaching can be just fine. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
That would have been a great topic.. also the issue of men and domestic violence....emotional and physical abuse...there is still a double standard around these issues..male suicide rates are so high in this country, these are issues that we need to talk about xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thats a very important and rarely discussed topic, it's a shame the thread didn't go. There is a huge social stigma surrounding the abuse of men, particularly when the perpetrator is female, hell, it seems to be taboo even to discuss women sexually abusing anyone. OP: "So is t wrong to hit on a woman?" In of itself, hitting on a woman is fine for as long as she is comfortable. The moment you've made her uncomfortable or feel unsafe then no, it's not okay. Dissapointingly this isn't even a problem that is confined to the USA. Whilst the video was shot in New York I know many women who are made to feel unsafe or threatened in public on a regular basis and I cannot for the life of me fathom how anyone can think that kind of behaviour will get them a positive response. Instead women become less likely to engage with and interact with any part of the male population they don't already know and trust.
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bianca_dd
10 years ago
It is probably more acceptable than homosexual guys hitting on a woman at least you know what it's about. the other is possibly to borrow a handbag or shoes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't think it's about behaviour towards men or women in particular. . There isn't a single topic on RHP with the word 'rape' in the heading, I checked. . There are topics with 'abuse' in the heading, but none relating to spousal abuse since 2007. One from 2007 is posted by a man with a few responses, one of those responses is by our Ms 'Wild'. . http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/spousal-abuse-17371
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've watched the video, I'm real grateful I don't live in New York. . The attitude displayed by the woman walking reminds me of those profiles on here that proclaim, 'NO SINGLE MALES'. The man walking alongside for several minutes seemed to take that as a challenge. Am I defending him? No. That's just what came across to me. I do wonder that there seems to be no women included on the video, because they're not exempt from hitting on other women in my experience. . I am a flirty person when I'm out and about I've decided since posting on Freya's thread recently, hehe :-P. Could men (and women) have a case against me if I were to behave in such a way (ahem)? Have I been taking serious threats to my safety too glibly all these years? When I have a laugh and a giggle to think of approaches, by men AND women. I can say it hasn't been the passing people on the street who I've found to be the most threat over the years. . Not to say he's a threat, but I do love to relate the story of a friend of Mr Ps who got a bit too familiar when he came up and threw his arm around my shoulder while introducing himself for the first time. I bit his thumb hehe... hard! It was from him I got the... Beautiful Intelligent Talented Cunning Horny... card I like to display on my profile sometimes.
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Seachange
10 years ago
after all that drama, it has compelled me to perhaps look into the video and make my own judgment so I can see both sides of the argument. I still think that if a woman or a man does not want to be harassed then people should respect that. Basic stuff really.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' after all that drama, it has compelled me to perhaps look into the video and make my own judgment so I can see both sides of the argument. I still think that if a woman or a man does not want to be harassed then people should respect that. Basic stuff really. Thats the obvious point, miss Lily. NOONE wants harassment. But being approached, does not automatically align with being harassed. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Has been forced to leave Australia..he is of course the extreme result of the Pick Up Artist indoctrination. ?
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Has been forced to leave Australia..he is of course the extreme result of the Pick Up Artist indoctrination. ? Saw that in the news. Finally, am all for free speech but what this man stands for is violence against women. Not on. Happy for him to be kicked out of this country.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Has been forced to leave Australia..he is of course the extreme result of the Pick Up Artist indoctrination. ? has anyone actually been to the seminars, or anything? I've read the articles and seen the stuff posted - but I have to wonder if it is a bit of a beat up in some senses. Like, is that 'choke hold' stuff genuinely being promoted as something to do, or is it all a bit of hyperbole? (to try and draw simile with more common scenario, the coach of a team tells his players to get out and there and kill em this half - he doesn't mean actually kill them, but taken at face value it sounds terrible) Do they _actually_ advocate assaulting people?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ready to come back to this thread. :-) . What he was promoting is totally wrong. I can't believe that anyone, for one moment of time, really thought it was appropriate to have a seminar based on this guys style of treating women. Put it this way, if a man were to approach me and put their hands around my throat. I know to bring my arms up together on the inside of his, and out, and then, or maybe before... I'll go straight into my self-defence routine of... grab, squeeze, twist and pull... I'm assured this will give me a few moments to get away from my attacker. . Touching, is totally out. I won't be scared to try and make you feel the fullest consequence of the law either. Bullying might be an effective tool, but it is still bullying, and bullying is just using your power over people who aren't in as strong a position as you.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'lilyorchid' after all that drama, it has compelled me to perhaps look into the video and make my own judgment so I can see both sides of the argument. I still think that if a woman or a man does not want to be harassed then people should respect that. Basic stuff really. Thats the obvious point, miss Lily. NOONE wants harassment. But being approached, does not automatically align with being harassed. DG I get hellos and how are you all the time from both men and women. With the men, I get it more when I am wearing more shall I say, flattering clothing. I do not mind the hellos and how are you. It is the tonality of the greeting which can give away the intent behind the approach. I take no offence or I totally ignore the greet if I was rushing to some place. Now that I have just watched the video, there are some pigs there indeed worthy of shaming. Other greetings of HI or 'How are you' is not bad at all. I do that all the time to people, both male and female of all ages and with a big cheery smile. I get a smile and a hello back most of the time. We can not let every little thing affect us and find blame. It would simply drive us insane. Find the battles worth fighting.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Did you see the Male equivalent of the video. A male model in a tight shirt and jeans walks across NYC in 3 hours. He got same reactions from both men and women! The reactions range from hellos to the 'DAMNNNNN' in the woman's video. The worst one was from a woman who approached him and touched him and asked for his number for 'her' girlfriend. Bollocks. Men also hit on him, wolf whistles, et al. So what does that say about our society? What does it say about us?
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was one woman who launched a petition that garnered 29,000 signatures to request Melbourne's Como Hotel cancel Mr Blanc's 'appearances. . hehe and . Mr Blanc’s next US seminars, in Seattle and Austin, have also since been cancelled.
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RHP User
10 years ago
An eBook is about to be published, called "Enlightened Pick-Up" by Andy Debenham. I haven't read it and have no idea of the cost (Beta version available for free right now I think if you email him at g male via Debenham.andrew) but he combines views on picking up women with lessons learned from exploring Tantra and spiritual sexuality. Could be a very interesting read. His FB page Andy Deb is public and there's a pretty interesting back story to how he came to write the book. - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
no abuse is acceptable I am an anti-violence activist. I have worked in a Women’s shelter and was the victim of domestic violence myself. No violence is acceptable regardless of who the perpetrator is or what medical condition they have. Have you read Maureen Watson;s "Don’t Bash the Lovin Out of Me"? If you are someone who does not want the relationship to end, but you want the violence to stop you need to let the person know you are thinking of leaving because of the violence and insist they get professional help to manage their anger issues. You might even leave for a while while your partner gets their life back on track. Don’t hang around otherwise you are colluding with bad behaviour. Talk to a professional DV counsellor and get your own life happening how you want. Don’t be embarrassed because you are a male victim of Domestic Violence. We know it happens but because men are too ashamed to admit it the statistics are low. As I said earlier, it does not matter who the perpetrator is, violence has to stop. Don’t tolerate it. Leave.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good to know that one person can indeed make s difference xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Burning_Love' I really appreciate flattery and it's nice to know I'm attractive to men. I've enjoyed a wolf whistle from time to time. And as a result, I get that this is a really tricky issue. But here's the thing ... Anywhere and everywhere a woman goes, there's a chance one or more males will comment on her physical appearance. From a compliment, to a leering and creepy comment, to an insult because of her fat gut/muffin top/great bod shame about the face or whatever. In part the problem is WHAT is said, but mainly the problem is that anything is said at all. Women are more than their physical appearance, more than something to be commented on and leered at and flattered and insulted and hit on and so on in public. Until you've lived in a world where you simply cannot walk down a street anywhere, at anytime, without some man thinking it's his birthright to comment out loud about you, this whole thing might be very difficult to understand. Yes, a lot of the comments are completely harmless. But the sheer volume of them, for years and years from when puberty hits until god knows when, is not harmless. The impact of having to be on alert to know when a comment has an element of threat or risk attached to it, or to brace yourself against an embarrassing insult, or against the shame of being commented on as a sex object in public with your children or colleagues etc - that impact is greater than people bother to recognize a lot of the time. I remember being 15 with large breasts and having 40, 50 year old me leer at me and make comments when I passed them in the street. Comments that other people could hear. Comments that embarrassed the hell out of me. What gave those men the right to make a 15 year old child in her school uniform a sex object?! I'm a confident, bold woman, but I walk down the street - day or night - always with at least a small amount of alertness about the men that are about and what they might say or do to me. It's a natural instinct a lot of women develop, to be on alert and to protect themselves. Because everywhere we go, men are saying things and doing things to us and at us that they don't need to - and that make a woman's experience of walking through this world VERY different to a man's experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When will they learn to be adults.......???It is all about being a human............to love, appreciate and respect.this sort of behaviour embarrasses me thought those days were over!lovegrant x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' So what does that say about our society? What does it say about us? There is now an NZ version too. The woman in it gets approached twice, once by a man asking for directions and by a guy asking if she was Italian (whether he was tying to pick her up is debatable). There were no catcalls. I think it was a great response to the American video and showed it's not men in general who are guilty of harassing women, but a select group. I do believe society has a lot to do with it and that some countries are more "female friendly" than others. (Talking about culture, not religion.) Just like these forums there are both genuine men and arseholes everywhere. I totally agree there's a big difference between being approached and being harassed. An "May I say I love your smile?" is completely different compared to a "Heeey... niiiice arse....." Still, I don't think a woman should be expected to stop in her tracks to say thanks. (When it's a pleasant remark I like to say thanks, but whatever response a woman decides on is her prerogative.) Yes, I said I'd bow out, but I also said I was a lady.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'Freya79' Has been forced to leave Australia..he is of course the extreme result of the Pick Up Artist indoctrination. ? has anyone actually been to the seminars, or anything? I've read the articles and seen the stuff posted - but I have to wonder if it is a bit of a beat up in some senses. Like, is that 'choke hold' stuff genuinely being promoted as something to do, or is it all a bit of hyperbole? (to try and draw simile with more common scenario, the coach of a team tells his players to get out and there and kill em this half - he doesn't mean actually kill them, but taken at face value it sounds terrible) Do they _actually_ advocate assaulting peopleQuoting 'S_OnTheLoose'has anyone actually been to the seminars, or anything? There are many of his full seminars on Youtube and I just tried to get through one (it was over an hour and I had to stop after 15 minutes.) My favourite bit: Him saying (multiple times) that it doesn't matter what is said about him, he'll "just reframe it all, and make it click in the girl's mind". His tip for when a girl says: "Hey, you're that dick!": "Yes, but I've changed..." He swears it works every time. Douche.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Watch the video,....he is litetally showing men how to choke a woman.....Look at his chart.. It is a chilling how to assault and instil fear into a woman...very sociopathic..The VictorianPolice Commissioner has even spoken about him xx Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I choke all my women out just cos it's too tiring to run after them!!! His techniques are quite effective lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander'Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose'has anyone actually been to the seminars, or anything? There are many of his full seminars on Youtube and I just tried to get through one (it was over an hour and I had to stop after 15 minutes.) My favourite bit: Him saying (multiple times) that it doesn't matter what is said about him, he'll "just reframe it all, and make it click in the girl's mind". His tip for when a girl says: "Hey, you're that dick!": "Yes, but I've changed..." He swears it works every time. Douche.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Listening to your posts makes me cringe in embarrassment.No wonder I choose to be who I am........
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RHP User
10 years ago
I attempted another version of this topic, with more generic language - no mention of 'rape', just sexual and other violence and some questions about stigma and reticence to report. Again, it didn't make it through the mods. I chose my words carefully enough, I thought, that they weren't in any way more confronting than this thread here. My goal was to simply open up a hypothetical discussion. I'm a little outraged at the topic being censored once again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SoSoPretty
10 years ago
What an assumption to make. All people are not the same. I cannot stand people like you with that kind of thought process...
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
There are some sensitive sounds in here Stir, who won't see the humour in your comment about choking. In any case..... a club works way better before dragging back to your cave lol
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
(Souls... not sounds... damn auto correct)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Do they _actually_ advocate assaulting people? Frankly whether his intentions (hyperbole or not) are debatable is of less interest to me than the fact that he posted a D/V behaviours chart with the byline"May as well be a checklist". Anyone promoting those abusive and violent behaviours needs to be kicked out, no questions asked, in my personal opinion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think 'sensitive' among other things was what they labelled blacks who resisted racist jokes, people with disabilities who resisted retard jokes, and so on. There's a good reason some jokes are inappropriate. They're especially inappropriate coming from the most privileged of all - white Western men in their 30s/40s (not sure what I mean by most privileged? Do your research ;)) It's easy to joke about such things when you've never had to personally face the threat of them. And as always, there's a time and a place. A lewd comedy show might suit such a comment. A forum discussing harassment, not so much. Call me sensitive if it makes you feel better though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Burning_Love' there's a time and a place. A lewd comedy show might suit such a comment. A forum discussing harassment, not so much.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
As you're aware miss BL.... harassment takes many forms..... even within the cyber walls of RHP, or beyond. Even those priveliged single white western 30-43 year old can be victims of it. ;-)
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Seachange
10 years ago
I agree with you BL. Why would anyone say something that inappropriate. Almost a cry for attention IMO.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought intelligence and manners caught on?No wonder I am who I am......Polite and gentile........with a fun streak......)))love to you all xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think the video is a mock up. Who is filming it for instance? No one seems to ask that question. Keep honking.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Two wrongs don't make a right You can't rail against harassment on one hand and then encourage and laugh about it on another. Or you can, but I'm afraid that then calls into question everything you apparently stand for. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'surfsmurf' I think the video is a mock up. Who is filming it for instance? No one seems to ask that question. It's quite clearly shown in the first five seconds of the video. I'm guessing you didn't actually watch it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' It's quite clearly shown in the first five seconds of the video. Who's filming it, I mean.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Do they _actually_ advocate assaulting people? Frankly whether his intentions (hyperbole or not) are debatable is of less interest to me than the fact that he posted a D/V behaviours chart with the byline"May as well be a checklist". Anyone promoting those abusive and violent behaviours needs to be kicked out, no questions asked, in my personal opinion. if it is hyperbole, are they _actually_ promoting those abusive and violent behaviours? if we don't care whether it is hyperbole or not, and whether it is genuinely intended that people engage in those behaviours, then should we also be kicking out half the forum people here, and majority of people commenting on this topic on Facebook/media sites? I _very_ frequently see people advocating all sorts of violent behaviours - but I don't think they're a danger to the world because I assume that it is just bluff and bluster.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I haven't seen the video but I have never been inundated with men just throwing themselves at me while going about my daily business other than at work but it is a sexual environment. I guess I must just be ugly but I appreciate when someone makes an effort to approach me even if they aren't my cup of tea, as the saying goes, you never never know if you never never go. I suppose if I was drop dead gorgeous (clearly like everyone else seems to be on here besides me coz it is such in an inconvenience in your day being told how appealing you are) then it could be a little annoying but I have never had that luxury. One of the perks of being a fat ugly slag I guess.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose'... should we also be kicking out half the forum people here, and majority of people commenting on this topic on Facebook/media sites? Julien is a public figure, with many paying to learn his teachings. I think with that power come responsibility.
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
The hash-tag “#KeepJulienBlancOutOfCanada” began circulating on Twitter last week after it was revealed Blanc planned to visit with his “pick up” workshops next year. The campaign received support from Canada’s Citizen and Immigration Minister Chris Alexander on Tuesday, tweeting that he would consider following in the footsteps of Australia and deny him a visa.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The hash-tag “#KeepJulienBlancOutOfCanada” began circulating on Twitter last week after it was revealed Blanc planned to visit with his “pick up” workshops next year. The campaign received support from Canada’s Citizen and Immigration Minister Chris Alexander on Tuesday, tweeting that he would consider following in the footsteps of Australia and deny him a visa.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meander and BL.... While my arse points downward I pull no punches when it comes to taking the piss. Especially when it's directed at Julien Blanc for his ludicrous techniques; but I thank you for your advertisement :) LilyOrchid...... Your attention is most appreciated as clearly there's no one for you to shame this week??? :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Meander and BL.... While my arse points downward I pull no punches when it comes to taking the piss. Especially when it's directed at Julien Blanc for his ludicrous techniques; but I thank you for your advertisement :) LilyOrchid...... Your attention is most appreciated as clearly there's no one for you to shame this week??? :) - Posted from rhpmobile LMAO. typical....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I haven't seen said clip but I'd assume it's doctored in way or another ? As for your question I think it's ok for any sex to let the other know of there interest in them :) but if it's met with a simple rejection let it go and move on because that's the line in the sand for harassment ???
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69' I haven't seen said clip but I'd assume it's doctored in way or another ? As for your question I think it's ok for any sex to let the other know of there interest in them :) but if it's met with a simple rejection let it go and move on because that's the line in the sand for harassment ??? how many women love all the love story movies where the guy chases the woman for her affection and the happy ending or whether they think that is harassment? I think the definition of either romance or harassment depends on who is doing the chasing.
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