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MALE GUESTS!!!

February 19 2013

Are your arse's really that tight!?

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    what do you think about male guests who send endless flirts?

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit'what do you think about male guests who send endless flirts? If they are endless flirts? I block them on the 3rd flirt! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I will neither confirm or deny the OP's opening question.     But I will say, I have been on and off here for over a year and have had some time as a 'guest' in between paid up periods. Sometimes I want a rest from searching/screening/chatting/meeting and just want to read/add to the forums. I dont send many flirts in general and never when I'm a guest. If I see something I like I'll usually pay up again for a short time, but once it get's to exchanging numbers/MSN/Skype etc. I'm happy to let my membership drop back to guest status again and will occasionally use a flirt like a facebook poke ("usually the Nudge, nudge. Wink, wink" flirt) just as a keep in touch sort of thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That is along the lines of "if you are too stingy to pay for membership....."   Then block.   Msfun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I feel your pain..... I try and try to get my itsy bitty strapon in there. But it's hard going!! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i am a Guest but i have been a paid up memeber for a few years/ i just cant be fucked setting it back up.   forums are the best bit these days , and they are being swamped by the fun police more than ever

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Most of you ladies are guests. Why don't you pay up ? Are you happy with all the dross in your inbox ?You must be it's free. But that doesn't stop all the posts on crap mail from jerks, so pay up and have more choice. I am a guest because I have found a fwb and I like to hang out here, and yes I will send the odd flirt just to admire someone, so what.And I'll become paid up again too at some point of my choosing. Maybe here, maybe not As for my arse, thats a work in progress

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sometimes I go to the pub with friends and just order a water. No-one ever said to me, "What are you doing asking me if I come here often? You haven't even bought a proper drink!"Just sayin'....Paying sure helps with the profile views... even if they all come from bloody Perth!!Btw, does the 'hot or not' feature of this site generate a Flirt if I click 'hot'?

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    I DO HAVE a hankering now to stretch your work in progress a little more than you require. As a paid member I think I deserve that privilege touch your toes and i swear it wont hurt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I hate receiving flirts from a guest but out of common courtesy i reply with 'thanks dont see our planets colliding' in response.   When i realise they dont know how to read and continue to send them...... block!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Taking into account the huge number of men compared to women on the site, I'd be interested to see the odds between female and male guests as far as tight arses go. I've gone through several phases with flirts, right now, comme si comme sa. Most of mine come from Hot or What, I consider them compliments. Haha my block list (as useless as it is) has all of two members on it, neither of them are male.Thanks for the flirts guys, PeachyDares

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It costs me a damned sight MORE then the yearly subscription of RHP... When you take into consideration the COURT costs.. the FINES... and the time off work to defend myself... (PLUS hidden times and costs for sitting and a damned gaol cell)   I can score a heap better IF i go and get on the tear... BUT.. foorums are fun.. SO.. the fees are CHEAP entertainment!!   Fck the tightarses who think they can come on here.. message some poor defenceless girl with an inane message about his overinflated estimation of his capabilities AND cock size and get a fck!!   Fellas getting their battleship mouth mixed up with their canoe arsehole.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you want me you can pay $20 or so to contact me!! Unless I recognize you from having talked before, or you look like Brad Pitt with a killer profile I won't message you. The endless flirts are the most annoying thing on the site! Delete, delete, delete!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' It costs me a damned sight MORE then the yearly subscription of RHP... When you take into consideration the COURT costs.. the FINES... and the time off work to defend myself... (PLUS hidden times and costs for sitting and a damned gaol cell)   I can score a heap better IF i go and get on the tear... BUT.. foorums are fun.. SO.. the fees are CHEAP entertainment!!   Fck the tightarses who think they can come on here.. message some poor defenceless girl with an inane message about his overinflated estimation of his capabilities AND cock size and get a fck!!   Fellas getting their battleship mouth mixed up with their canoe arsehole.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Messolonghi' Btw, does the 'hot or not' feature of this site generate a Flirt if I click 'hot'? No, it just says that " rated you as hot".In terms of memberships, meh if they're lucky enough some chicky with a female hard-on might be out looking for herself. We are paid up from time to time, but right now have enough leads to go on that we don't need a subscription til next month

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' It costs me a damned sight MORE then the yearly subscription of RHP... When you take into consideration the COURT costs.. the FINES... and the time off work to defend myself... (PLUS hidden times and costs for sitting and a damned gaol cell)    That just made my night!

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    12 years ago

    Fed up with guest guys and their flirts asking me to initiate a message with them ...... I pay a membership so that I CAN search and chose ....... not so you can be cheep... and expect me to use my few messages because i paid and you didnt .... Standard answer " if you cannot afford a membership - you can't afford me" twice is my limit .... depending on my mood .. I will either block ... or .. send a stern "get lost" message ... and then block them ... my blocked box is fast reaching 30 guys .... all bsr two .... are guests...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There are more female guests than men! And they just sit back and expect 100's if not more emails to fly their way,What happened to equality and all that shit! How about more women pay and send emails for a change.. This has been a primal announcement...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Primal_InstinXXX' There are more female guests than men! And they just sit back and expect 100's if not more emails to fly their way,What happened to equality and all that shit! How about more women pay and send emails for a change.. This has been a primal announcement...- Posted from rhpmobile did you count the ratio as well primal all i wannaknow is do the have tight arses

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'uneventful' Fed up with guest guys and their flirts asking me to initiate a message with them ...... I pay a membership so that I CAN search and chose ....... not so you can be cheep... and expect me to use my few messages because i paid and you didnt .... - Posted from rhpmobile though I do like a tight arse hehehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' what do you think about male guests who send endless flirts? Quoting 'inspirit' what do you think about male guests who send endless flirts? And say exactly this...Are your serious??Why would I be interested in contacting a man that is a guest?It screams "tight, arse big time"Also, you're not verified.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've been a paid up member briefly, but these days I don't do much searching or approaching people on the site - I find most women's and couple's profiles on here pretty uninspiring when I go trawling through the pages of profiles, so most folks I talk to I meet through the forums or find me when I post.Besides, women get 1 free message a week. Having convinced myself I'm the most interesting person in the world, I don't think it's entirely unreasonable for them to want to use that one message contacting me*.Sincerely,ND* "Dear Mr Drift. Fuck off (and not with me). Sincerely, Everyone You've Ever Sent a Flirt To."

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' Most of you ladies are guests. Why don't you pay up ? Are you happy with all the dross in your inbox ?You must be it's free. But that doesn't stop all the posts on crap mail from jerks, so pay up and have more choice. I am a guest because I have found a fwb and I like to hang out here, and yes I will send the odd flirt just to admire someone, so what.And I'll become paid up again too at some point of my choosing. Maybe here, maybe not As for my arse, thats a work in progress I am close to 900 messages since joining in December (let's say 450 realistically)It still doesn't stop the dross.Guest + Man = tight arse or not serious, or bothGuest + Woman = because she can or not serious, or both

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So that I make choices , and I can respond to flirts in a nice way at times.   I get a bit suprised when paid up members send me a flirt to ask will I message them?   why?   I sent my very first flirt the other day normally I just wait, as I have the bait in my little canoe   Truth is, I love the dirty pictures   Old pervert that I am.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Otori' Quoting 'Messolonghi' Btw, does the 'hot or not' feature of this site generate a Flirt if I click 'hot'? No, it just says that " rated you as hot".In terms of memberships, meh if they're lucky enough some chicky with a female hard-on might be out looking for herself. We are paid up from time to time, but right now have enough leads to go on that we don't need a subscription til next month Yes it does... if the rater (that sounds naughty LOL) ticks the box while rating hot or what pics, it sends a flirt to people that are rated hot. Visit the page and see for yourself!!! PeachyDares

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'Primal_InstinXXX' There are more female guests than men! And they just sit back and expect 100's if not more emails to fly their way,What happened to equality and all that shit! How about more women pay and send emails for a change.. This has been a primal announcement...- Posted from rhpmobile did you count the ratio as well primal all i wannaknow is do the have tight arses Ladies.. what do you think about male guests who send endless flirts?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What does annoy me is a flirt that says " your hot what do you think about me". you go to profile no pic, read the profile its one of those generic phase ones.If you don't want to pay fine but make an effort in the profile and pics or maybe paying actually makes you interested in making more of an effort.Ms Silk

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_silk' What does annoy me is a flirt that says " your hot what do you think about me". you go to profile no pic, read the profile its one of those generic phase ones.If you don't want to pay fine but make an effort in the profile and pics or maybe paying actually makes you interested in making more of an effort.Ms SilkThere are two flirts similar to what you describe here, one of them is from the standard flirts (Damn! You sure are hot! What do you think of me?), and the other is from Hot or What? (I think you're hot, what do you think of me?) as mentioned by me above. If you get the second one, it means your profile pic is being rated hot on the amateur pics page. I'd like to see that one say something different so it's more obvious where it comes from and doesn't ask, what do you think of me? I hope you feel a little bit better about those flirts now. PeachDares

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Why is it that in this day and age woman want equal pay and still want men to pay for everything?Have you ever thought that a man would find it nice if the female took the lead...for once?

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'LOVERloverxxx' Why is it that in this day and age woman want equal pay and still want men to pay for everything?Have you ever thought that a man would find it nice if the female took the lead...for once? you have a tight arse << is on equal pay and do not expect men to pay for everything - I actually like my independence. My question really relates to all the flirts from guests who I assume would like me to contact them as I am a paying member. Clearly they wish to make contact however do not want to pay for membership.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'OneEmerald' Quoting 'inspirit' what do you think about male guests who send endless flirts? And say exactly this...Are your serious??Why would I be interested in contacting a man that is a guest?It screams "tight, arse big time"Also, you're not verified.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachyDares' Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'Primal_InstinXXX' There are more female guests than men! And they just sit back and expect 100's if not more emails to fly their way,What happened to equality and all that shit! How about more women pay and send emails for a change.. This has been a primal announcement...- Posted from rhpmobile did you count the ratio as well primal all i wannaknow is do the have tight arses Ladies.. what do you think about male guests who send endless flirts?

  • blond_gypsy

    blond_gypsy

    12 years ago

    I say let it continue, the more cheap asses who don't know how to make a decent and respectful impression the better it is for the rest of us.I mean let's face it, if you like him you'll message him anyway, right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am a guest and I send out flirts to see if anyone bites. I do tend to have a lot of Scottish woman messaging me so I guess they like people prudent with money (ok, I am going to get a lot of flack regarding that stereotype. It is a joke and a bad one but hey, everyone is excused one bad joke, right?). But seriously though, I took me a long time to get the idea of paying separate bills. I grew up the guy has to pick up the bill. I am currently enjoying the forums so will keep on being a guest for a while. I also need to revamp my profile and add a few photos in the public profile. After that, we will see. As for flirts, it would be nice if I get feedback. So I would know not to send flirts anymore. Some people put in their profiles that they do not respond to flirts while others send a reply that they are not interested. For the majority, I hear nothing back. So, I send another flirt. Wait a while (typically a few days or a week or so...not 30 seconds in case your definition of a while is different) then send another flirt. If a few flirts are unread, then I don't bother anymore. Oh, so far I have only got compliments regarding my arse. So it can't be all that bad ;)

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'blond_gypsy' I say let it continue, the more cheap asses who don't know how to make a decent and respectful impression the better it is for the rest of us.I mean let's face it, if you like him you'll message him anyway, right? Depends. On the cock pic hehe

  • blond_gypsy

    blond_gypsy

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'zu7bcv' I am a guest and I send out flirts to see if anyone bites. I do tend to have a lot of Scottish woman messaging me so I guess they like people prudent with money (ok, I am going to get a lot of flack regarding that stereotype. It is a joke and a bad one but hey, everyone is excused one bad joke, right?). But seriously though, I took me a long time to get the idea of paying separate bills. I grew up the guy has to pick up the bill. I am currently enjoying the forums so will keep on being a guest for a while. I also need to revamp my profile and add a few photos in the public profile. After that, we will see. As for flirts, it would be nice if I get feedback. So I would know not to send flirts anymore. Some people put in their profiles that they do not respond to flirts while others send a reply that they are not interested. For the majority, I hear nothing back. So, I send another flirt. Wait a while (typically a few days or a week or so...not 30 seconds in case your definition of a while is different) then send another flirt. If a few flirts are unread, then I don't bother anymore. Oh, so far I have only got compliments regarding my arse. So it can't be all that bad ;) As a Scot I resentfully...agree with said stereotype.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And some of the lads get bollocked for whining and whinging... You don't have to even go near your flirt inbox if you don't like flirts. What's the big deal?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think its fair to say then that the woman guests are lazy, tight arse, gold diggers.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' I think its fair to say then that the woman guests are lazy, tight arse, gold diggers. << waits for the entourage.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I wish my ass was tight, and I'm too fucking lazy to dig for anything.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    *tosses popcorn in her mouth* I still think RHP have got to do something about the way flirts are worded. BLECH! As for male guests? Meh, its like buying bras ... you get what you pay for ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some guys are genuine but just dont hve the flow. Some of us just got started and want to test the water so to speak. IF I met a yung lady and found out that she was as shallow and neer sighted as some of you ladies seem to be I'de kick her to the curb! Grow up. As for the guys who cant get the hint after one flert or message BOLCK! My two cents!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Can't see how a chap just sending flirts is going to get anywhere, it's hard enough as it is even when you send messages (please note when I say message I don't mean 5 word messages) At the end of the day these sites are always going to be more beneficial for the ladies , no point moaning about it. You have to be in it to win it.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting '1SWEETASS' Some guys are genuine but just dont hve the flow. Some of us just got started and want to test the water so to speak. IF I met a yung lady and found out that she was as shallow and neer sighted as some of you ladies seem to be I'de kick her to the curb! Grow up. As for the guys who cant get the hint after one flert or message BOLCK! My two cents! Care to sit on our cyber couch and tell us all about it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    *grabs a handful of popcorn (thanks paint me) swigs on a nice ale* yaaaawn. Cmon ladies isn't it all about the profile?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hey Cavey is that because the court ordered ankelet starts beeping? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '1SWEETASS' . IF I met a yung lady and found out that she was as shallow and neer sighted as some of you ladies seem to be I'de kick her to the curb! Grow up.

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    12 years ago

    I have messaged male Guests on here and have to say...I never met any of them at all! It just seemed to fizzle out with the messages...I get bored too quick! Now, I may still message a Guest but he has to be something I want to fuck tonight! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    LOL. I may be lazy, and yes my arse is tight. Very very hot and tight. But you Sir, insult me. Gold digger you say! Ha! :P Now, did I mention my arse is very tight? Very very tight! You just think about that young man.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just from my perspective,maybe im wrong..But i would put money on that the ones who are guest(male and female) are cheating on their partners.Hence bank records showing etc......Am happy to be single myself..lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I chose to pay up for a membership to send messages to both members and guests, given you like to receive messages, would it be polite then to reply, even if not interested, seems that there are unfortunately more attention seekers here than there are genuine women. Have fun, this is message is paid for by Burleighman...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '1SWEETASS' Some guys are genuine but just dont hve the flow. Some of us just got started and want to test the water so to speak. IF I met a yung lady and found out that she was as shallow and neer sighted as some of you ladies seem to be I'de kick her to the curb! Grow up. As for the guys who cant get the hint after one flert or message BOLCK! My two cents!***sigh***

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well I'm one of those guys who has been on & off as paid up or guest due to any number of reasons, tight arse not one of them.....Bugger it might as well get back on paid up, but ladies commenting on here expect some mail from me, lol!! Question tho, what about flirt from paid up member, such as " If I sent you a message would you reply" As we all know with male/ female ratio, quite often after writing an email you don't even get a courtesy thanks but no thanks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I block the ones who flirt endlessly.....but i also ignore the one off flirts from men (and couples) as they're not what i'm looking for on here

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I have messaged male Guests on here and have to say...I never met any of them at all! It just seemed to fizzle out with the messages...I get bored too quick! Now, I may still message a Guest but he has to be something I want to fuck tonight! xFunlovingx GOLD!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Where not that bad :( - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' LOL. I may be lazy, and yes my arse is tight. Very very hot and tight. But you Sir, insult me. Gold digger you say! Ha! :P Now, did I mention my arse is very tight? Very very tight! You just think about that young man. Er... I er... Erm... Damn, I was going to say something but... I can't seem to... Ah fuck it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '1SWEETASS' IF I met a yung lady and found out that she was as shallow and neer sighted as some of you ladies seem to be I'de kick her to the curb! Grow up.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'switch1' Well I'm one of those guys who has been on & off as paid up or guest due to any number of reasons, tight arse not one of them.....Bugger it might as well get back on paid up, but ladies commenting on here expect some mail from me, lol!! Question tho, what about flirt from paid up member, such as " If I sent you a message would you reply" As we all know with male/ female ratio, quite often after writing an email you don't even get a courtesy thanks but no thanks. I did reply

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting '1SWEETASS' Some guys are genuine but just dont hve the flow. Some of us just got started and want to test the water so to speak. IF I met a yung lady and found out that she was as shallow and neer sighted as some of you ladies seem to be I'de kick her to the curb! Grow up. As for the guys who cant get the hint after one flert or message BOLCK! My two cents!***sigh*** << Gobsmacked.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'adamhere2' Just from my perspective,maybe im wrong..But i would put money on that the ones who are guest(male and female) are cheating on their partners.Hence bank records showing etc......Am happy to be single myself..lol You have the cutest toosh Now Shina that is worth the look!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    why thank you inspirit...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Wow,has anyone thought that maybe the financial pressures that come and go in life might mean putting food on the table/a roof over ones head eta take priority.Just maybe some of these "single guests" are solo parents that want to put shoes on there kids feet instead of paying-up on a "sex" site,who knows there reasons.What I'm saying here is we haven't any right to judge others based there membership status considering we no nothing about there life situation.What does it matter?

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    12 years ago

    For being here, that's for sure. But I think it shows that I'm invested in the process, as difficult as it may be sometimes, of finding like-minded people on this site. Call me crazy, but it's a demonstrated commitment being a paid up member - as opposed to being a guest and sending out millions of 'hay let's fuk' messages. I take the ladies with memberships much more seriously than the guests, right or wrong. To me it shows that they're less likely to waste your time, tell you straight out if they're interested or not and more likely to actually turn up to a coffee, drink or meet. And yeah, my arse is pretty goddamn tight ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think due to the fact that there's so many more guys to girls, I send a couple of flirts out & if I get a response then I'll join. I was here a couple of years ago & found that its very rare to get a response from messages. By the time the lady sifts through the messages your membership may have expired & can longer respond lol. As for the ass thing, if the lady knows what she's doing, it's a brilliant experience!! 😈😈- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You will defo get more responses from females/couples!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'wowwow11' i am a Guest but i have been a paid up memeber for a few years/ i just cant be fucked setting it back up.   forums are the best bit these days , and they are being swamped by the fun police more than ever   I have been a paid member for a very long time. And i have now cancelled as i have had a 1 in a 10000 chance of getting a reply. I can understand why guys are not wanting to pay up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Paintme, I read from other posts that paid members can and do send out churlish messages. So, I guess price does not necessarily mean quality. Oh, speaking of bras, please don't ask me to unhook one with one hand. I have a very high failure rate in that department :( Anyone want to volunteer for practise? Quoting 'paintme' *tosses popcorn in her mouth* I still think RHP have got to do something about the way flirts are worded. BLECH! As for male guests? Meh, its like buying bras ... you get what you pay for ;-)

  • MrJingles

    MrJingles

    12 years ago

    There should be no guests, if you cant afford a few dollars per month you shouldnt have access.   Will sure weed out the fakes!!

  • brenbob_68

    brenbob_68

    12 years ago

    you are just pissed off cos ur all sweaty and mildly pished in karatha ......................and want some cock.................sta

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Perhaps. As OP has essentially asked us to make a generalisation, here's mine, knowing full well that there are always exceptions to the rule. Male guests may be trolling anything up to six or so different sites in order to pick up girls, which probably infers that the swingers scene isn't neseccarily their thing, just another means to an end. No pun intended. Female guests seem to be in the enviable position of being spoilt for choice, and as such probably have no real need to purchase an ongoing membership. As for being a tight arse myself, we've always had a paid membership, and in our relationship, we've always believed in (and loved) it going both ways.... ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Must be bored, have nothing better to do,Get A job. Ones enough,they see your online and havent responded,so keep sending you one,annoying!!!!!!!!

  • BJVAN69

    BJVAN69

    12 years ago

    I was a paid up member and let it lapse. I cum back and they bumped the membership up 20 bucks a month. Its very quiet in here and i believe quite a few profiles have been initiated by the people running this site. A lot of the profiles appear to be manufactured or people are so lazy they just cut n paste instead of actually descibing something about themselves.   And you wonder why blokes wont pay?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This my first time on here.. I have been reading some replies and I thinks cool to have your say. I have only been in this site for a few days and I have been overwhelmed by the response it's quite flattering. There seem to be some genuine guys some are better than others and it's cool. I have received a lot of repeated flirts and I think it's ok although I can't say I replied to them all but some are really cool. There's definitely a lot more men than women. I am not a pod member but I find quite good although I can't reply to too many which is great as I only replied to those that catches my eye with their photo. I think this site is great, that's all. Happy searching guys :)

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'TimnJenn' Perhaps. As OP has essentially asked us to make a generalisation, here's mine, knowing full well that there are always exceptions to the rule. Male guests may be trolling anything up to six or so different sites in order to pick up girls, which probably infers that the swingers scene isn't neseccarily their thing, just another means to an end. No pun intended. Female guests seem to be in the enviable position of being spoilt for choice, and as such probably have no real need to purchase an ongoing membership. As for being a tight arse myself, we've always had a paid membership, and in our relationship, we've always believed in (and loved) it going both ways.... ;) Both ways is always a bonus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' LOL. I may be lazy, and yes my arse is tight. Very very hot and tight. But you Sir, insult me. Gold digger you say! Ha! :P Now, did I mention my arse is very tight? Very very tight! You just think about that young man. Wow, thank you sexy arse girl.Better get that cheque in the mail hadn't I !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have probably been on here longer as a paid member than my current stint as a guest but the experience is pretty much the same.If some lady or couple decided not to contact me purely because I am only a guest then no great loss I think.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MrJingles' There should be no guests, if you cant afford a few dollars per month you shouldnt have access.   Will sure weed out the fakes!! there are quite a few fakes and if there has been no activity for 3 months or more from guests then they should be deleted as it is annoying when you search, send an email and no response.

  • cremecaramel

    cremecaramel

    12 years ago

    In our case it means they can't read. 3 strikes and blocked- Posted from rhpmobile

  • hornyguy112

    hornyguy112

    12 years ago

    Hell id be happy to even get a flirt.!! Spare a thought for us who are not blessed with stunning looks or swagga. Lifes tuff hmmmm? :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • LemonDance

    LemonDance

    12 years ago

    are forever hopeful.... but not often successful!I rarely send out messages despite being a paying member.... I just hate not being able to see the pictures, so I pay up! :o)Lem x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Who cares? really, it's their right to flirt to whomever they want- so block them if you need to.Stupidest forum ever

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Offthecuff' Wow,has anyone thought that maybe the financial pressures that come and go in life might mean putting food on the table/a roof over ones head eta take priority.Just maybe some of these "single guests" are solo parents that want to put shoes on there kids feet instead of paying-up on a "sex" site,who knows there reasons.What I'm saying here is we haven't any right to judge others based there membership status considering we no nothing about there life situation.What does it matter? I love your statement.Because someone choose to spend his money differently means that he is prohibited from socializing?

  • indulge_you

    indulge_you

    12 years ago

    It is Ok for a huge number of women to be Guest members on this site but if a male chooses to be a Guest member he is a tight arse?

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'LemonDance' are forever hopeful.... but not often successful!I rarely send out messages despite being a paying member.... I just hate not being able to see the pictures, so I pay up! :o)Lem x Shoosh don't give away our real reasons why.

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Messolonghi'And some of the lads get bollocked for whining and whinging... You don't have to even go near your flirt inbox if you don't like flirts. What's the big deal?- Posted from rhpmobile Some of us girls like to answer every flirt as well as every message! The only Flirts I don't reply to as I feel there is no reply is "I just want to say I love your profile" and "I think you're hot what do you think of me"! I just don't like when a guy flirts me constantly even after I have replied that our planets won't collide 3+ times more! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...yes. Yes, it is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    maybe they are hoping for a cosmic shift, and that the possibility of a collision has increased, us guys live in hope

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'indulge_you' It is Ok for a huge number of women to be Guest members on this site but if a male chooses to be a Guest member he is a tight arse? was it mentioned woman do not have tight arses

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's quite simple.... The female guests get free messages to distribute to the plebs... The male guests get unlimited free flirts to try and entice the princesses... If you don't like the attention don't look in your flirt box... beyond that block? Quite a simple way to manage your over inflated ego don't you think???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Diablo1111' It's quite simple.... The female guests get free messages to distribute to the plebs... The male guests get unlimited free flirts to try and entice the princesses... If you don't like the attention don't look in your flirt box... beyond that block? Quite a simple way to manage your over inflated ego don't you think???

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Diablo1111' It's quite simple.... The female guests get free messages to distribute to the plebs... The male guests get unlimited free flirts to try and entice the princesses... If you don't like the attention don't look in your flirt box... beyond that block? Quite a simple way to manage your over inflated ego don't you think??? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Diablo1111'It's quite simple.... The female guests get free messages to distribute to the plebs... The male guests get unlimited free flirts to try and entice the princesses... If you don't like the attention don't look in your flirt box... beyond that block? Quite a simple way to manage your over inflated ego don't you think??? Im sure you will do so so well!!   There must be many a 'pincess' out there just waiting for you to arrive in her inbox!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lol i just got the planets colliding response. Im new here and not sure if its worth paying for yet. See what happens. Basically as it stands men do the requesting and the women pick and choose. From dating All the way to marriage.How many women that u know of have proposed to their man Zero. So if guests had full access or every guest paid the thread would be about all the stupid msgs your getting. At least this way you can ignore the flirts and just check ur inbox. That is where ur money is going.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    nice to see more faces/tight arses in the forums lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hate to say it, Diablo may be harsh but he is correct- but I'd rather see the op use reasons to defend her opinion rather than just change subject to making fun of him etc.After all she started the discussion so it'd be nice to see actual discussion rather than just another pointless generalize attack on others.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Dieselnoi' Hate to say it, Diablo may be harsh but he is correct- but I'd rather see the op use reasons to defend her opinion rather than just change subject to making fun of him etc.After all she started the discussion so it'd be nice to see actual discussion rather than just another pointless generalize attack on others. I do not think I have an over inflated ego in fact I know I do not! I asked a simple question which is actually in reference to guests who send endless flirts in the hope they will receive a message in return to make a formal contact. I asked the ladies as a generalization of opinion. I do not see how I have attacked any one either except for make light of some the agro that has been displayed. However I did make a comment on Diablo's post and the comment was straight of Diablo's home page. It appears it is ok for some of you to attack woman however when some mild sarcasm is thrown back you get all huffy. It is no big deal. It was just a question and so what if they have tight arses or moths in their wallets. Sheesh lighten up By the way my name is not "she"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Away for a couple of weeks and i come back to find that da claws are still out and being used,BTW Jensman i do agree with you though jsk

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am a guest,I receive very few messages and the ones I do receive are mainly from women or friends that I have made here.I have one message a week and sometimes don't even use that. The only reason that I am still here is because I enjoy the forums and post on a regular basis....a forum tragic really.I must be the only woman here who is not inundated with flirts and messages according to what others are continually saying. However ,fortunately there is another site that I belong to where the reverse is true,and so my sex life is still flourishing. Do not let lack of success here make you twitter and bisted,perhaps like me,you just aint anyones cup of chai but there are chai aficionados elsewhere.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    claws are good right....you know depending on the um moment and welcome back to Hotel California

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