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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'LemonDance'I rarely send out messages despite being a paying member.... I just hate not being able to see the pictures, so I pay up! :o)Lem x Hehe, that's really the only reason I pay too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Some of us girls like to answer every flirt as well as every message! The only Flirts I don't reply to as I feel there is no reply is "I just want to say I love your profile" and "I think you're hot what do you think of me"! I just don't like when a guy flirts me constantly even after I have replied that our planets won't collide 3+ times more! xFunlovingxWhat Funloving said.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont see a problem with it personally
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' claws are good right....you know depending on the um moment and welcome back to Hotel California I'm thinking your claws and my back and since i'm back at the pub,hows about a drink thank you jsk
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Primal_InstinXXX There are more female guests than men! And they just sit back and expect 100's if not more emails to fly their way,What happened to equality and all that shit! How about more women pay and send emails for a change.. This has been a primal announcement...- Posted from rhpmobile Double Standards... YES THERE ARE Especially when you see the same person on different sites with complete different personalities (profiles) and they look so surprised when you they're found out. (obviously hiding something if they dont want you to know about it) Seriously... so what if you're getting flirts that you dont really want, thats what this site is about, all the undesirables as well, along-side the people that you might want to speek to. ( There are more female guests than men! And they just sit back and expect 100's if not more emails to fly their way ) Pay-up, simple as that, and you can choose what you want.
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RHP User
12 years ago
of women on here get the impression that male guests are tight arses, why wouldn't you take that on board if you're not having much luck?That's just the way it is.I've had a few guys on here that keep sending me flirts & they're guests. And I don't read them.Like I said after the 8th time I will send them a "no flirt" do you think they listen?One guy after sending me 8 flirts, I read the flirt, "contact me, I'm interested" that was it!I messaged him and asked if he was "serious"? Why would I contact a man that has no photos, who is a guest, and his profile is boring as batshit?His response... wait for it...I promised myself I would never pay for a membership! I explained to him, that if he did he may have more success as it gives a bad impression. He said he'll think about it.Guess what? The idiot, sends me 2 flirts yesterday!! He is now blocked.Fuuuuuuuuck me, but some guys are not only tight arses, they are bloody thick!Especially the guys that are, these do exist in vast numbers & have all of these traits, togetherMale guestsNo photosAren't verified, Boring as batshit profileKeep sending dumb flirts, like "you're hot, what do you think of me", how would I know if you are all of the things above???Now I've vented, do you think they will disappear? Nope
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RHP User
12 years ago
why is it just the men who are to stingy to be paying guests
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RHP User
12 years ago
it's really that simple.If you want to get laid on here - you get a membership.If you don't want the RHP subscription charge to show up on your credit card statement, you buy a pre paid credit card from woolworths.We all know sending flirts as a male guest is a massive waste of time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I only pay when I need to contact someone! Most of times I get messages of singles and couples willing to catchup! So why would I pay, unless I need to contact someone!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You should take up fishing, as the snapper is in plentiful supply!!! :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's all guest can afford is flirts Male or Female as they never meet when you ask, so they cant put fuel in their car ether (LOL)GT
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'jsk6767' Quoting 'inspirit' claws are good right....you know depending on the um moment and welcome back to Hotel California I'm thinking your claws and my back and since i'm back at the pub,hows about a drink thank you jsk
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'ThunderBuster' You should take up fishing, as the snapper is in plentiful supply!!! :p Well why do I suck at big time.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a good thing ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'jsk6767' Quoting 'inspirit' claws are good right....you know depending on the um moment and welcome back to Hotel California I'm thinking your claws and my back and since i'm back at the pub,hows about a drink thank you jsk As long as they have a life time stock of bourbon then thats cool,and as for the back well umm yes or no my dear lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No use complaining.... If you sign up to a site of convenience, you cant expect not to encounter a lot of non-committed types. If the flirts bother you, disable them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Tight arses.lol.I thought you meant the real thing.I love licking out a guys tight arse.
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'jusssi' Tight arses.lol.I thought you meant the real thing.I love licking out a guys tight arse. have been waiting for a MM to post that one.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mine is... For now any way, kind of the reason i just signed up on this site lol in search of a strapon woman haha... As for my membership not being paid i forgot to bring my wallet home from work (likely excuse i know) but i plan to pay my fee's straight after i get home tommorow :D
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
Each to their own but most guest members I treat with a little caution male or female, I think if they are only guests they are just trolling and not really interested. The boys cause they maybe tight arses. The women because they may think that the man should pay for everything. Even in this day and age. when they could be highly paid. Remember we have a female prime minster and her man is a hair dresser.ok not for long but thats a different issue. I guess we haven't truly knocked down all the barriers yet. Its like when I used to go into the mothers room to change my son's nappy my god if looks could kill. That was twenty years ago when all the change rooms were for mums. Or when you would struggle with two kids through a door and the girls wouldn't hold it open for you. Like Bob Dylan said the times are a changing. On the subject of tight arses nothing like big cock to free it up
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ThatKinkyOne' Mine is... For now any way, kind of the reason i just signed up on this site lol in search of a strapon woman haha... As for my membership not being paid i forgot to bring my wallet home from work (likely excuse i know) but i plan to pay my fee's straight after i get home tommorow :D I love it - you don't have access to a credit card but do have access to a picture of you in a sissy outfit...
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platinumblonde69
12 years ago
I get frustrated by paying members who send flirts too. If you wish to speak to me, Im worth an email. I find that type of guy more frustrating than a guy with guest membership.....hahah..Maybe because Im a paying member...I like to pay so I can email who i would like to contact, not to just sit here like a sitting duck...hahaha....xoxoxPlat
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hardnslow
12 years ago
I am a paid up member but sometimes will send a flirt to see if I get a response. I notice most of the women on this site are guests, and cant email you anyway. Why is it a female guest can get on chat but a male has to be a paid member? Because it is the power of the pussy that attracts the men and they will pay for it. No offence to those females that are members you guys are the serious ones but there are people out there that just ccant afford the membership.
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hardnslow
12 years ago
You are worth a thousand EMAILS Plat lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
But what is the reality....I've been on and off member for now nearly 10 years...yup! way back in 2004 I joined and I dunno how I came across this site:)I send flirts if you are not verified or have a pic available.Saying that, I have received flirts from FEMALE "guest". Apparently they can send one message a day only. Double Standards? Yeah I'd say so...If you are being harassed by one flirt and block them (like really, is there such a flirt saying that comes across as harassment?), I'll agree with "xfunlovingx" if you dont get the hint the first time as well as the second, 3 strikes and you are out policy is a good one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been on and off this site for many years main reason I absolutely love playing with couples and that simply is difficult to find out and about. Im a young professional male who has paid membership at Platinum level for some time but recently allowed it to lapse as I was not on here a huge amount just from time to time to see who was new! Of course the response rate is not nearly as good with a flirt as often they are not seen but I would only send a flirt to a couple that are specifically of interest if they dont reply then no worries thats their prerogative just like the rest of you complaining about receiving flirts from guest males on here If you dont want to reply end of story DONT!!! But is there really a need to get on here and have a bitch and a moan about it? Reality is those who use generalisation like is the case here have their blinkers on to someone who simply might have a different story to whats stuck in your one way mind! Hope everyone else enjoys this site and the occasional flirt from someone who is just sharing their interest if you dont like it maybe this site is not for you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Inspirit Thanks for the Topic..:) Thankyou to all the Guys who send me flirts I really appreciate them .. However it's useless asking me to MSG you .I'm a guest and get 1 msg per week. .It's very hard to keep up contact with Guys who don't have MSGs There's only so many times one can wink before they get a permanent twitch.. Frankly Guys who are actively seeking and don't pay for msgs /a membership enjoying the benefits, have a snowballs chance in hell ! of being successful... I look forward to receiving more flirts and Msgs from you Guys ..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Was a paid member but couldn't be stuffed paying for sending messages that people couldn't be stuffed replying to so if the ladies can be tight ass guests why cant the men
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gave me (us) more choice when it mattered. The reality is... There is still no true equality. A huge percentage more of female tight arses than male tight arses compared to a much larger percent of men than women. Too Precious. Thanks to the guys who send their flirts from 'Hot or What?'. Peachy
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'inthekink' Was a paid member but couldn't be stuffed paying for sending messages that people couldn't be stuffed replying to so if the ladies can be tight ass guests why cant the men Nice tatt by the way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inthekink' Was a paid member but couldn't be stuffed paying for sending messages that people couldn't be stuffed replying to so if the ladies can be tight ass guests why cant the men I think it's a 6:1 ratio in WA and the national average 5:1? So why should they? Why would they? LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
ummm did have a cheeky reply to your , We can have a tight arse as well ;-) but thought better of it Lol And how are things in sunny KTA use to live up that way
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RHP User
12 years ago
this is the second time i have forked out my hard earned to be a paid up character on this site . im not sure why i paid up the second time "maybe too many refreshments" because it appears to me that there a lot of dodgy profiles on here to get suckers like me to part with our hard earend cash.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'bert0546' this is the second time i have forked out my hard earned to be a paid up character on this site . im not sure why i paid up the second time "maybe too many refreshments" because it appears to me that there a lot of dodgy profiles on here to get suckers like me to part with our hard earend cash. If you had a profile, maybe it wouldn't be a waste of money then.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some females on here can be pretty nasty as well Ill put my hand up at the moment yes I'm being a tight arse. I kind of dont have a choice I've had a pretty rough year and a half and well the money is going on more important things but I'm getting back there and learnt to appreciate allot of things in life that you can end up taking for granted and well if I don't get to meet anyone ill have a strong right arm I do wish I was loaded though cause there are allot of gorgeous lady's on here sounds like mrs palmers and an imagination for me then oh well more fishing and kitesurfing coming up :-)
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'inthekink' ummm did have a cheeky reply to your , We can have a tight arse as well ;-) but thought better of it Lol And how are things in sunny KTA use to live up that way is heating up
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe you really meant both male and female guests. If not the question is a hell of a turn-off.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Consider it is not just the money sometimes. I've been a paid member on some sites also and there was little difference - yes I could message women but in majority of cases that lead to no replay or some blast from someone who did not bother reading my profile and just accused me of being fat liar and cheater. I make it clear I'm married and looking for someone in same situation - if single ladies who are looking for a ring donor cannot get past that sorry... those who were after intelligent conversation and some fun found a suitable way to respond... plus this is not the only place where people meet - it's like you'd only have one choice of a bar to meet people in :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes very sad,if they can't pay a couple of bucks to meet nice woman I am sure there not going to spend the time pleasing us either just get there little rocks off and go. But my fav is when I get a cheap ass flirt saying "what do you think of me" when they don't have anything to say in there profile and they don't have a picture. I would love to tell you what I think of you but I think you can work it out yourself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am a guest. I don't like the endless flirts and everyday there is 20 or so. I don't have tickets on myself but no longer answer them. I do take the time to answer messages though. I have met some very naughty but nice people on here and hide my profile from time to time. I do take the time to read the forum it's quite entertaining :) I have not had the need to spring for membership just yet.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well..i have been a guest here for a couple of months now and have been considering becoming a paid member. I have sent a few flirts but am not receiving much in return. By that i mean i have only received two or three responses. It is not the green light i was expecting to becoming a paid member. Will being a paid up member be more beneficial? I dont think its my profile. Any thoughts?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
that's what I thought-I have a nice arse and want you to flirt with it then how about I'll send you a message!! all bases covered ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
until the day that women want it as much as men and are as desperate to get some......deal with the fact that we can pick, choose and expect you to pay for the privelege of getting any......it's still cheaper on here than going to see a prostitute so don't expect women who are giving it away to make things any easier on you than absolutely necessary....or any cheaper....even women in a bar expect you to buy them a drink first....and that just gets you the chance to chat....at least on here you know the girls are looking to get some
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BJVAN69
12 years ago
Quoting 'mkmkj'Tight arses.lol.I thought you meant the real thing.I love licking out a guys tight arse. Im waiting mkmkj. Absolutely love giving and receiving are play.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i've been a paying member on this site and met a couple of girls, we had fun and went our seperate ways, after a break i have rejoined but im still in the process of decicding wether to suscribe or not. im no brad pitt, but not a complete trun off (I hope!!) im just unsure as the number of genuine females on here, i dont mind paying, but i do mind getting ripped off, i use my flirts to get an idea of what someone thinks of me, and i do only flirt guests that match my search and i match theirs. yes my profile is generic, but that will change in the next few days, i guess i am waiting to see if being a paying member is of any advantage or am i just wasting my time?
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inspirit
12 years ago
To the guys who have actually said why they are guests and not attacked me for this post. I aimed my OP at the guys who send endless flirts clearly wanting a message back so they can make contact. Yes.. I have read your comments "just delete them" "don't read the flirts" "get over it you trumped up bitch" etc etc. Unfortunate as it is these members have not come forth and said anything. I guess I needed to ask more in the OP. In essence I was wondering why, when a guest clearly is VERY interested in a person why do they not become a member. Instead you hope the paid member messages them. Well... I can only think of several reasons so far from feedback and these are that they.....> are not really genuine and think that foreplay is having a wank in private> are a bot bot bot so not real identity here huh> are opportunists and will sneak over the fence and quickly mow the neighbors grass> feel there is to many scams on sites like these and refuse to pay though never take a chance on life> never got caught playing hide and seek as a kid so not really interested in meeting, just like the chase> not trust paying for anything on the internet but will carry wallet in back pocket> really are terrible voyeurs. In secret they do want to be noticed. > doesn't know how to purchase a CC from the post office so as the wifee doesn't find out his on a sex site.> or really is just a tight arse and need some luvin with the lube.. > or just on here for fun, really do have a life outside RHP and "come what may"I am a paid member most of the time. Sometimes I am not as it depends on financial priorities. My reasons for being a paid member is so I have a choice in contacting my likely matches and of course the pictures! When I am a guest my choices are limited. Anyhoooooo..... Have a great day!!!
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badboyhere
12 years ago
Women control what happens or doesn't happen on here anyway. So weather you are paid up or not paid up makes no difference, to most couples (with a lady that calls the shots), or a single lady. From what I have found on searching the profiles most women (and couples looking for guys) are guests on RHP, and some even say in their profiles the 'if your not paid up you wont hear from me' speech. Only a select few pay and I focus on searching for these ladies or couples. For guys we are dammed if we do and dammed if we don't when it comes to hooking up on RHP.......unless your bod looks like Arnold Schwazenneger, (then you get wet panties flying around everywhere) !!!
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badboyhere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sub_jennifer' until the day that women want it as much as men and are as desperate to get some......deal with the fact that we can pick, choose and expect you to pay for the privelege of getting any......it's still cheaper on here than going to see a prostitute so don't expect women who are giving it away to make things any easier on you than absolutely necessary....or any cheaper....even women in a bar expect you to buy them a drink first....and that just gets you the chance to chat....at least on here you know the girls are looking to get some Dissaggree, with a prostitute you get sex, with RHP you get none.
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RHP User
12 years ago
They just got to join, can't expect to get something for nothing! ☺- Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'swordsmanforsex' Only a select few pay and I focus on searching for these ladies
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have u guys ( yes male genders) read this the whole way through ???? ... Maybe then U might perhaps understand why the women do what they do ......Always protect your privacy.When using a dating site, do not ever give out personal information such as where you work, where you live, or even the email address you use most often. A good tip is to create an email account via Hotmail or Gmail specifically for online dating. This way, if you don't want further contact with someone they can’t contact you through your regular channels of communication. It’s also a good idea to not use email addresses or usernames that may positively identify you in some way (ie - don’t use your actual name or year of birth such as janinehayes78@hotmail.com or JaneCinManly). Do not let someone pressure you into revealing any information you are not comfortable giving out. If you do not feel comfortable with a person’s line of questioning, cease contact or block them immediately. Use RedHotPie’s messaging system where possible.RedHotPie provides you with an anonymous messaging system whereby you can conduct lengthy conversations with potential matches without having to disclose any personal contact details. You can share photos and video intros via our messaging system, and even go on webcam chat to check each other out through instant chat or the webcam chat room (if user is eligible). All this preliminary interaction can be achieved on RHP without divulging your phone number or email address. Our App (rhpmobile.com) for mobile devices further helps you to stay in touch with RHP users while on the go. Until you have chatted or messaged another RHP user for some time, we do not recommend sharing personal contact details. Consider turning your Caller ID off if you agree to call another person on their number. Be careful when first meeting someoneUnder no circumstances should you meet people at their house or give out your address. If you are lining up a social date, ensure that you have chosen a safe, public venue to meet such as a cafe or well frequented bar. Even if you are only looking for a sexual encounter, you should meet at a public venue first and if comfortable, a hotel is the best place to get hot and heavy. It’s also ideal to take along a friend to a date to ensure you are extra safe. If you are not comfortable at any time then do not hesitate in leaving. If you are having an enjoyable time though, just keep your mobile handy and get a friend to call now and again to check in and make sure you are OK. ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS - If you don’t feel comfortable or warning bells start ringing, remove yourself from the situation as soon as possible. Make sure they are who they say they are.The word 'misrepresentation' is something people can do on dating websites to make themselves seem more appealing to more people. They may use words such as curvy when they mean overweight, or deduct a few years off their true age. If you want to avoid these types of misrepresentations, ask your potential date to photo verify their profile or ask them to appear briefly on webcam in the RHP webcam chat rooms. If other misrepresentations such as marital status matters greatly to you, ask them if they are willing to appear on webcam or speak on the phone at any time of your choosing, rather than when their spouse is not present. Beware of scammers.If a pretty young thing sends you a link to click on (possibly to see more of her on webcam), seems to be soliciting (offering services for financial reward), or asks you for money, do not reply to the message. Please report that user to us via our Abuse Report form. We will investigate further and save you the potential hassle of getting swindled or harassed to join other website. For more information about scammers, please click here. Be your own mediator.The team at RedHotPie does our best to ensure that our website is a safe and friendly environment to make contact with others and have a great dating experience. Ultimately however, as you are all adults, you should be able to take personal responsibility and all necessary measures to ensure your personal safety. If you are simply unsure about something, the best thing to do is to move on. There are many fantastic people to meet on RedHotPie so don’t take that step until you feel 100% comfortable.And yet again I come back to RESPECTBe nice!!! and please check in AFTER a meet up if interested ... women expect it :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sub_jennifer' until the day that women want it as much as men and are as desperate to get some......deal with the fact that we can pick, choose and expect you to pay for the privelege of getting any......it's still cheaper on here than going to see a prostitute so don't expect women who are giving it away to make things any easier on you than absolutely necessary....or any cheaper....even women in a bar expect you to buy them a drink first....and that just gets you the chance to chat....at least on here you know the girls are looking to get some I am very disgusted by the attitude. I am not a whore so pay or no pay makes no difference for me. If I meet the person, I meet the person regardless of he or I that paid.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm still a guest at the moment i just signed up yesterday to sus this out , I'm only 19 but i'm really considering buying an account . I'll stretch another week , If all goes good what the heck i'll go for it :)
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Mr_DarkChocolate
12 years ago
IT'S A TRAP! *clenching ass with a smirk*
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Mr_DarkChocolate
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sub_jennifer' until the day that women want it as much as men and are as desperate to get some......deal with the fact that we can pick, choose and expect you to pay for the privelege of getting any......it's still cheaper on here than going to see a prostitute so don't expect women who are giving it away to make things any easier on you than absolutely necessary....or any cheaper....even women in a bar expect you to buy them a drink first....and that just gets you the chance to chat....at least on here you know the girls are looking to get some you've pretty much relegated every woman on the planet to being a whore with that one statement, bravo.
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