M55
New here...body shape...should I even bother?
November 15 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hey thanks for the thoughtful words. ☺ I am very comfortable with myself, but sometimes I do get a bit self conscious when surrounded by what I perceive most women to be attracted to. I just didn't want to hang around here if there was never going to be any interest. So...well...I'm still here. 😉 Once I establish a connection with someone, however small that connection, I am totally comfortable and certainly not lacking confidence. In any department. I'm well aware of my many talents. 🙄 Having said that, I do want to change, but mostly for personal fitness reasons. It's more about being disappointed with myself for temporary losing sight of the goal. To be the best that I can be. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile
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seducemebbw85
8 years ago
Everyone's attracted to diffetent things. I prefer big guys. Just not attracted to skinny buff guys. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's a sea of torso's which all look the same anyway. Personally, until i can see someone's face pics and see their eyes, it doesn't matter how good the "bod" is... chemistry it different for everyone. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well that's great. Not sure how your friend with 1400 friends would find the time to fit you in, they must be busy 😀 and your other friend is interstate. I'm sorry, here I am again having a go at you, but I call bs, you just rub me the wrong way. I'll bugger off now and find someone else to annoy 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
If I was single, I would gladly show my face on here and probably get more profile views. Not full of myself, but I just know it's one of my best assets. As a guest member, I can only respond to messages and then grant access to my private galleries. So...feel free to message me, ladies. 😉 You may even like what you see. Or find that I am indeed, a great conversationalist. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I responded to a comment that appears to no longer to be here, now you see it, now you don't, bit like the op, disappeared and returned about 5 times at last count. I can't keep up, I need a drink 😜
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RHP User
8 years ago
*sighhh* Thank you darling. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I haven't gone anywhere after rejoining... I left once and came back....and here I still am. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
John meet Summer. Summer...John. I can see sparks flying already. Youre welcome Summer :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
John meet Summer. Summer...John. I can see sparks flying already. Youre welcome Summer :) darlink
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' We're not even getting to read your posts now as they're being deleted right away, seems the mods have some issues with what you had to say. But if you really see yourself as "the poor sap married to Aimee" (the part still visible on my feed) I'm thinking perhaps this is not the place for you? thank you for you insight summer, always love hearing your worldly advise, you know that I didn't read anything offensive in their messages so who did you say you thought was deleting the posts, the mods?
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RHP User
8 years ago
John and summer, perfect match
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' We're not even getting to read your posts now as they're being deleted right away, seems the mods have some issues with what you had to say. But if you really see yourself as "the poor sap married to Aimee" (the part still visible on my feed) I'm thinking perhaps this is not the place for you? Tipping that hubby John (Aimee's troubled other half) doesnt read the forums. Maybe he's been sent to the gym and off to the surgeons office for an enlargement.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
Willow, you're closer. ;-)
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RHP User
8 years ago
And just changed my avatar back to my face to see if it makes any differences. But not holding my breath. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Don't know if that's sarcasm or not, but I like the thought.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That was supposed to be a reply to your matchmaking comment. Clearly my expertise in the forum is lacking.
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I will fuck your wife, and we might let you watch.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not really one for spectator sports. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have no advice for men on this issue but...Its nice to be with a lady you are attracted to but it is not what matters most. If you both hot for sex and want the same things that is the most important. Sexual confidence, lust and even sex greed is a better turn on than looks.
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RHP User
8 years ago
While it's been an enlightening thread, I'm actually well and truly over my concerns in the original post. 😊 Not breaking any records, but not sulking in a corner either. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well thats great that you are happy and content with your pie endevours. I notice your profile is worded a little differently to your originsl profile. Taking out that you are married and looking for discreet extra, might get you some more interest. Especially if you are happy to see women on weekends and at night. Thats typically when we have time to socialise. Oh and I like how you added that trust and respect are important to you.... Love your honesty. :)
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Is so over rated
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RHP User
8 years ago
And under valued. Lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
If someone wants to message me, that is the first thing that I will tell them. I prefer to have the chance at a bit of conversation, rather than just being overlooked for one reason or another. There is more to me than this forum and what can be portrayed in my online profile. I'd like the chance to prove that. But, thanks for taking the time to look at my profile...discreetly, in order to pass judgement in the guise of righteousness...veiled by sarcasm. You assumed that I only had time for a "quick daytime fuck in my lunch hour"...yet you have only read my profile and what has been said here in this thread. If you actually talk to a person, you get to know them a little better than judging a book by its cover. And lastly, my contentment is not based purely on my "pie endeavours". Thanks again for assuming. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thankfully, not all the women on this site are as judgemental as others. We all have our needs... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My bad. I was just going off your post on page one of this thread. I mentioned that married guys cant spend quality time or sleep overs with others, so that limits it to working around getting away from the wife for some stolen free time. And you actually replied that you cant do all nighters because thats the time you spend with your wife. So no assumptions from me there. And yes I read profiles.they are public. Nothing discreet about profiles. And it is exactly like judging a book by its cover. But I do hope you find something that can work around your wifes time. There is something for everyone on here. Fortunately.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Since signing up with RHP, I have refined my requirements and expectations and have a clearer idea of what I'm looking for. That is why I've changed the wording in my profile. When I fist started here I was like a bull at a gate, just wanting sex with whoever wanted it. But I've settled a bit and understand that's not how it works...most of the time. I am able to meet at various times and occasionally have other interesting possibilities available for meets. So, I won't necessarily be dropping in to visit someone after work in my sweaty work gear. I do prefer to make time especially for new friends, however difficult that is in my current situation.
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RHP User
8 years ago
This is just too funny, come on John, you can't leave us hanging like that 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
mate i to believe work is more then enough to keep me fit i focus my spare time pleasing in the bedroom not pumping in the gym if you own your shit as you are it will always shine through - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mate there will always be someone out there who will find you attractive. Warts and all. Doesn't matter if you carrying some weight. There is more to someone then there size,including penis size. You will always come accross someone who isn't attracted to you. Just keep clicking your mouse and saying hello. Bond to find someone. Be patient and yourself. What's probably more important is your health. Heart disease,diabetes and other health related problems from carrying to much weight should be more of an issue. Did you know Australia has the highest obesity rate in the world. ? If you can mate try to get in some exercise and look at your diet if possible. Never to late to try and just trying to be proud active. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
fucking auto correct on mobile - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi John, I can completely understand your slight lack of confidence here. I was a foot size 10 in April last year but steroidal therapy due to being diagnosed with Lupus saw me go up to a size 20. I'm working my tits off, as my industry is unforgiving of a woman my age who is fuller figured and I'm down to a size 16. The problem is, I'm still me, my mind, my bloody big heart, my insatiable sex drive and debauched nature - I'm told I have a pretty face but I get overlooked a lot because of my health. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't hurt, I'd also be lying if I said I didn't refuse quite a lot of invitations feel men who would usually be my 'type'. I sometimes feel unworthy since I developed curves. What Lupus has given me, is a swift lesson in how not to be a superficial arsehole. I've learned that sexy is a state of being. Now a man's walk (swagger) will get me wet, the stories his eyes tell will entice me. His laugh & smile and ability to make me do the same are dead sexy. His mind will captivate me long before his muscles will. I've always been a woman who needed her head eloquently fucked but now I no longer make a decision about inviting or dismissing a lover based on his looks alone. You fellas are all sexy in your own way and there is always something that gets me feeling amorous. Good luck. Femme 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Absolutely agree Summer. Never a easy topic to discuss without someone getting offended even if your intentions are good and from the heart. What's attractive to one person won't be for another. Even if you have a brain, muscles,sence of humour,single and your own place. Your never going to be everyone's cup of tea. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
2016 was a year of reality checks, medically speaking, I've lost nearly ten kilos and have another five or so to go. I'm told I'm starting to look good...for an old fart.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nice one 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Anyway I'm doing it for me. If that attracts another lover that would be great... The thing I've found about healthy lifestyle choices is how easy they can be to adapt once the decision is made. This is in contrast to how hard it is without the mental backing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hello John, Mate don't stress to much about "muscle ups "... your already winning. Most but not all of the rigs you've seen around these sites, their more likely interested in their selfs rather then what the lady wants! You've just got roll the dice ... and risk it for the biscuit .
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hey everybody...I just created a new account so I could get this off my chest. While I appreciate all the nice comments and am pleased to see that there are so many nice people with positive things to say.....I do have to say this... I AM NOT OVERWEIGHT! Haha. Sorry for yelling, but there seems to be some misconception that I am a fat guy. I am definitely not! I suppose my original post could be applied to any body shape that doesn't fit the "Men's Health" model benchmark. But as for me, I'm slender, slightly toned and tanned Aussie dude with a young looking body and face. And certainly not lacking anything in other areas. ;-) I'm not lacking confidence in real life, nor am I lacking "swagger"...it was just in this RHP arena where it's like a supermarket, I felt like I wasn't even in for a chance, due to my thin build. I'm well and truly over that and laughing at myself. As for my account on RHP...well, let's just say that I just needed to get it out of my system and I am now behaving myself. I'm really enjoying life and couldn't give a stuff about muscle/ fitness guys. Good for them! I'm glad I've given you guys and girls something to discuss and have enjoyed reading the replies. Thanks (Not) John
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'LaFemmeFontaine' Hi John, I can completely understand your slight lack of confidence here. I was a foot size 10 in April last year but steroidal therapy due to being diagnosed with Lupus saw me go up to a size 20. I'm working my tits off, as my industry is unforgiving of a woman my age who is fuller figured and I'm down to a size 16. The problem is, I'm still me, my mind, my bloody big heart, my insatiable sex drive and debauched nature - I'm told I have a pretty face but I get overlooked a lot because of my health. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't hurt, I'd also be lying if I said I didn't refuse quite a lot of invitations feel men who would usually be my 'type'. I sometimes feel unworthy since I developed curves. What Lupus has given me, is a swift lesson in how not to be a superficial arsehole. I've learned that sexy is a state of being. Now a man's walk (swagger) will get me wet, the stories his eyes tell will entice me. His laugh & smile and ability to make me do the same are dead sexy. His mind will captivate me long before his muscles will. I've always been a woman who needed her head eloquently fucked but now I no longer make a decision about inviting or dismissing a lover based on his looks alone. You fellas are all sexy in your own way and there is always something that gets me feeling amorous. Good luck. Femme 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile Judging by your pics, I'd say that you are quite gorgeous! Thank you. ;-)
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