M60
Old fashioned type swingers party
October 19 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
people can pick and choose who they want. We don't like being told who to do things with and who not to, i'm glad swingers parties have evolved past the keys in a bowl scenario. If Mrs Adelaide was lumped with someone who is old enough to be her grandfather Ie: you she'd pack her stuff up and leave.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not a fan of forcing myself to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to at all just because I was randomly matched with them in a bowl.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Are you meaning keys in the bowl as a hard "that is who you're fucking to start off with" or just as a bit of a game and conversation mixer to get people mingling initially? What if you and her had not gotten along after chatting?
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RHP User
8 years ago
There are many ice-breakers that can be used to get people talking but that sort of 'lucky dip' is not something I'm interested in at all. I love the social aspect of parties and will talk to most people. I would hate to be 'forced' to find something to chat about with people I might not naturally gravitate towards and thus would increase the 'awkwardness' I often feel at swingers parties. At a party you have limited time to form 'an attraction' to people, I rely on that attraction to determine who I might play with on the night! I don't go to parties to 'just have sex', i do have a type, that's what I look for :) I like the flirt, the tease, the build up and eventually the play. If I'm not physically attracted I will not play, I won't take one for the team so to speak. Playing by such rules would not be feasible for me, in fact I'd avoid the situation completely! Disclaimer, I'm about to generalize ... In my experience, quite often the sexy, good looking women far outnumber the sexy good looking guys at swingers parties. I feel that many men would love that situation you describe OP, especially if they were paired with a 'hot chick'. On the flip side, in the past, I have been on the recieving end of unwanted attention from men I don't find sexy at all at. Finding a discreet way to say 'thanks but no thanks' is easy when there isn't an 'expectation of sex with that person'. However if I was 'paired' with someone I found completely unattractive, I would unavoidably hurt their feelings by having to be more direct with my reasons for not playing with them. Just my opinion, Mary xx
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
The problem with the "keys in a hat /bowl" type of party, is that it's all about the males pleasure, and historically females had very little say in the matter, and just had to "bite the bullet" and have sex with whoever got her set of keys. Our answer therefore , is No. We prefer to have a choice as to whom we may decide to play with. No one will ever be allowed to make that choice for us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bazingal
8 years ago
I will play with whomever I have a mutual attraction with. No attraction, no action. ***However*** it doesn't always have to be an initial physical chemistry. As Mary said in a party sitation there is limited time. I won't rush it if the physical spark isn't instantly there. But I won't completely discount someone if we get along well, something may develop at a later time.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was just wondering if "Chevtrek" went home in a Ford escort at the end of the night too? ( LOL) Ah, the good old days
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chevtrek
8 years ago
I am much the same and prefer to pick who I play with butI am thinking maybe we have become to picky and missing out of some great fun and nice people.As for age I have no problem with younger wanting to be with meand when I was in my 20s I made love to women up to age 50besides I still know things that other men do not know and wontfind in any book.Women are so wrong if they think looks and age are keys to attractionbut yes they do help in the stimulation of a woman's mind.If all women worked on the attitude that looks, money or age are the keys to attraction then men might as well give up on sex after age 50.
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225Special
8 years ago
We wouldn't be comfortable with picking a number for a partner, as has been said, there needs to be some sort of attraction. Perhaps you could use the numbers for a speed dating kind of game to get people talking to others for 5 minutes, then draw out another round or two. Sort of like Stirry's lucky dip. Just ensure that everyone was aware it didn't mean definite play.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I went to my first party two weeks ago. A lovely couple I know and trust were hosting it. I felt comfortable attending as a single female because of this. All of the guests were people and couples they knew personally. There was no pressure to play and I was taken around and introduced to the people I didn't know (a few exceptions were already off having fun) I had no plans other than to have a great night. And ended up playing with a charming and charismatic gentleman and another couple I had met before. But that's the first time I've ever played with anyone on the night I've met them in my life! There is no way I would have felt comfortable doing this in any other environment or with any sort of pressure. I have to have a connection and attraction to someone first. So much so I didn't think I would ever play at a party with someone no matter how smoking hot or charming they were. It was the environment that allowed me to do so. If I wanted to fuck a random stranger I could easily go to the local club and have a large selection to choose from. And it would still give me more choice than what's on offer at a key party. Women have come along way since "those" days. They are empowered, independent, and know what they want. They also know that their body is their own and have complete control over who gets to have the privilege of being with them. It's nothing personal Chev, but if I ended up in the situation you're describing with you, I'd have to close my eyes and think of England.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Went on a double date once with a girl you could only describe as a plain. Her taste in fashion was nil , the flat brushback hairstyle and no makeup a close second and her silly laugh enough to make you cringe. But once in the bedroom what she had hidden under that unfashionable oversized dress was nothing short of fantastic. She processed a almost perfect body and the perkiest pair of boobs I ever seen and knew exactly what she was doing. So you can't always tell by appearances alone , but I must admit to being one who also needs a attraction. Just need to remind myself the most attractive isn't always the best choice..
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Livingandloving2
8 years ago
No thanks!!! I'm not into being assigned to someone randomly.... Just yuck.... Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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BacioCouple
8 years ago
We agree with the comments made. For both of us there needs to be an attraction for play to occur. Everyone has a choice and no one should feel pressured. We've had some awesome nights out with people who are great fun, but not our type sexually - and we're sure we weren't their type either! Just because you don't want to jump into (on?) the bed with them doesn't mean you can't connect mentally with like-minded people. There are some great ice-breaker games out there which may involve no (think the nut and bolt game) or limited touching (balloon games) which many people are comfortable playing, and can promote mixing and socialising. But it depends on the type of party and whether the crowd wants to join in. These are even better if there are prizes!
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
There were no young girls involved this time........
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Geez, that's so ewwwww. No way in the world would am I having sex with someone I hadn't chosen for myself. Like seriously, that's fucked up, Ewwwww. 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
As you get a little older you tend to look back quite fondly at the good old days...when couples could afford a house and the mortgage wouldn't take most of their wages. The days when jobs were easy to come by and the way you met people was face to face. Not sure that going to a party and getting stuck fucking some random who picked my name out of a hat is looked at as a better time for any person who needs connection, chemistry and a whole lot of hotness to get their juices flowing. If that is considered fun I will gladly stay at home and satisfy myself.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' I went to my first party two weeks ago. A lovely couple I know and trust were hosting it. I felt comfortable attending as a single female because of this. All of the guests were people and couples they knew personally. There was no pressure to play and I was taken around and introduced to the people I didn't know (a few exceptions were already off having fun) I had no plans other than to have a great night. And ended up playing with a charming and charismatic gentleman and another couple I had met before. But that's the first time I've ever played with anyone on the night I've met them in my life! There is no way I would have felt comfortable doing this in any other environment or with any sort of pressure. I have to have a connection and attraction to someone first. So much so I didn't think I would ever play at a party with someone no matter how smoking hot or charming they were. It was the environment that allowed me to do so. If I wanted to fuck a random stranger I could easily go to the local club and have a large selection to choose from. And it would still give me more choice than what's on offer at a key party. Women have come along way since "those" days. They are empowered, independent, and know what they want. They also know that their body is their own and have complete control over who gets to have the privilege of being with them. It's nothing personal Chev, but if I ended up in the situation you're describing with you, I'd have to close my eyes and think of England. Amen to that Sista!
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RHP User
8 years ago
How does one get invited to these events? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
When did that come into it? And looks and age? So what you're saying we should fuck people we find really unattractive because they have a set of keys, and we never know what might surprise us? An arsehole is an arsehole whether he gets me off or not.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' I am much the same and prefer to pick who I play with butI am thinking maybe we have become to picky and missing out of some great fun and nice people.As for age I have no problem with younger wanting to be with meand when I was in my 20s I made love to women up to age 50besides I still know things that other men do not know and wontfind in any book.Women are so wrong if they think looks and age are keys to attractionbut yes they do help in the stimulation of a woman's mind.If all women worked on the attitude that looks, money or age are the keys to attraction then men might as well give up on sex after age 50. Chev, that is bloody priceless coming from you!! So... if you were paired with a woman in her 70's you'd be ok with that? I think you're lucky that less women work on the attitude that respecting women and their choices is important, or you'd be in trouble...
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
big sigh.... exhale. Why...... ...would anyone.... ... want to have sex.... ... with someone they're not into........ and to do it because of some strange predetermined decision that everyone MUST fuck. Its not like Fight Club, sheeeeeeeeeeeeeesh The judges give this topic a big 2
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Damn straight I'm picky and I'm not going to apologise for being so either. I am not going to let someone else dictate to me who I will be fucking tonight. That's because I have far too much respect for myself, my body and my mind. 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
No such thing. To have sex with a random you have no attraction to or connection with is being immensely disrespectful to yourself. Not for me either thanks
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
I have a vision of Chev chucking in the keys to his motorbike. Picking up the lucky dip winner, straddling her on the tank with reckless abandon in 5th gear, his pants lowered, the loud hum of the bike. Suddenly the bike stand gives way and they tumble onto the garage floor, smashing that vacuum cleaner on the way down.........
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chevtrek
8 years ago
But for me I now acknowledge that attraction couldmean missing out on very special occasions.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If I had a dollar for everyman who said 'they knew things no other man knew' or 'could do things no other man could ' ... well I'd be a rich and satisfied woman lol ;) Attraction can be physical, mental or emotional, it's not defined by status or age - we women are complex creatures. I happen to have some very gorgeous male friends, over 50, who are sexy as fuck. Luckily they're still very sexually active and the women who play with them have an awesome time :) Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Women are so wrong if they think looks and age are keys to attractionbut yes they do help in the stimulation of a woman's mind.If all women worked on the attitude that looks, money or age are the keys to attraction then men might as well give up on sex after age 50. Looking forward to seeing you comment on the ???? thread about how attractive you find over 50s women...given that you don't care about age or looks at all
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RHP User
8 years ago
... I was always wondering why my Datsun keys were always still in the bowl at the end... :P
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can TRUTHFULLY say....I know things OTHER men don't know about sex..... and I know things OTHER Women don't know about sex either....Of Course.......They are ALL things about MY sex personally....AND.. I am FCKN glad no one knows about them too.... I might add.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nope, not something I'd give any energy to at all. What's wrong with some people not fucking, but sitting on the sidelines? It's not a competition.
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soretongue
8 years ago
Way to spoil the fantasy! I was hoping a wink n a little Marvin Gaye "Lets get it on" would get the magic happening 😜
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Opened your mind??? Seriously my mind is more open than most, but I'm still not going to be having sex with just anyone, what because their number matched mine, I don't think so.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' The problem with the "keys in a hat /bowl" type of party, is that it's all about the males pleasure, and historically females had very little say in the matter, and just had to "bite the bullet" and have sex with whoever got her set of keys. It takes two to tango - "A finds B unattractive and doesn't want to fuck". A and B could be _any_ gender. "her set of keys", women allowed to drive? oh DC, you card ;)
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Quoting 'jayme2' Went on a double date once with a girl you could only describe as a plain. Her taste in fashion was nil , the flat brushback hairstyle and no makeup a close second and her silly laugh enough to make you cringe. But once in the bedroom what she had hidden under that unfashionable oversized dress was nothing short of fantastic. She processed a almost perfect body and the perkiest pair of boobs I ever seen and knew exactly what she was doing. So you can't always tell by appearances alone , but I must admit to being one who also needs a attraction. Just need to remind myself the most attractive isn't always the best choice.. OK... so before you get defensive... hear me out, because Im genuinely curious to know the process in this story. She made you cringe, and you found her visually unappealing in every way..... .... so... given that you lastly said youre someone who needs an attraction.... .... what led to changing your mind about this woman and getting intimate with someone who you found unappealing??? DG
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Yes, she drives a classic red 308 GTS Ferrari - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Couple of questions if I may???? "it's all about the males pleasure" - SINCE WHEN & WHO SAID? "females had very little say in the matter" - SINCE WHEN & WHO SAiD?
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' ... I was always wondering why my Datsun keys were always still in the bowl at the end... :P a 120Y ??
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RHP User
8 years ago
That does sound interesting to me... Exciting and Naughty... Risky. To explore outside my traditional boundaries and open my mind and body to experiences I might not have considered. Peachy even
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
I does not really matter who the keys belonged to : him or her. If woman A chose a set of keys that belonged to male B, then at those parties, she was supposed to have sex with him. If male C chose a set of keys that belonged to female D then she would have to have sex with him. If male E chose a set of keys that belonged to male F, then male E would get to have sex with male F's wife/girlfriend. The males, at those parties, were generally always the winners as they generally always were guaranteed to get some "pussy" Its like the game "spin the bottle".
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Simple .. It was double (blind) date with a good mate 'his GF and her cousin.. Out to dinner ,show, then back to their place later for a coffee. They peeled off leaving me alone with the cousin. Me being me could not just get up and leave so decided to make the best of the situation.. and happy I did. Purposely finished my post with what I think in everyday terms.. Not that hard really.. It's what you want to read into that made you curious.. No detective work needed.
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swingalingson
8 years ago
Swinging....Just be yourself....if an opportunity comes up...just BE..enjoy a moment. Mainly no regrets before and after. If it don't feel right, don't do it. It is hard to bring new swingers into the scene. Make them feel comfortable and they will run with it. If the experience is not so good there goes future experiences for everyone. Like it or not those who have been in the scene... are judged as the scene. LOVE SHARE ENJOY the lifestyle and what our double life has to bring. After all in the real world the fact that we share our partners is soooo tabooo.
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RHP User
8 years ago
yuck is all I can say, another man over a certain age expecting the swinging scene to fill the gaps so to speak, wanting women to take one for the team, worse, using the forum to try to promote that, nice try and good luck with that
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can't believe I'm going to say this *coughs - but agree with a lot of what you're saying from a historical perspective. And yes the males probably far outnumber the females on here. However as far as being the influencing/controlling party goes these days, I'm going to take a line from the movie My Big Fat Greek Wedding: "Let me tell you something. The man is the head, but the woman is the neck. And she can turn the head any way she wants."
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm sure it's explained when you're invited, so you choose to attend or not so I don't see any issues - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
8 years ago
The group is new but have all been to many swingers clubswith to many guys and many who sit and just watch.Will say that I like this groups ideas and at least all get involved.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
There are most definitely exceptions. I was cringing reading this. I'm laying here naked feeling like I'm on a show ride, abdomen all swirly, horny, could grab my bullet and finish myself off, might do that in a sec, but for me it's sexual, some level of intimacy yes, but straight in for the physical, because I need that, and my body and mind are well prepped beforehand, even with quick random, I'm very sexual, more so than most guys. Lot of guys I won't hook up with because they're not horny enough. You did say there are exceptions, but for those of us who don't fit the normal female sexual mould, as you say, we are so far removed from what you have said here, you have no idea how far removed, just sayin Yes we know you are different and very much a sexual "creature" and we admire you for your honesty & openness :)
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Lol yes I agree with you re the head & neck quote Women power is not to be underestimated - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' yuck is all I can say, another man over a certain age expecting the swinging scene to fill the gaps so to speak, wanting women to take one for the team, worse, using the forum to try to promote that, nice try and good luck with that To hear that from a woman almost my age.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We have just ventured into the world of swinging this year and part of the reason we are loving it so far is that we have the choice to either play or not play with others. For us, not only do we need to have some mutual chemistry between us and the people we play with, but we also need to know that people we play with are going to respect us, the way we play and the boundaries we put in place (as those boundaries are there for good reason!), just as we reciprocate that respect ourselves. While we are not knocking the ways swingers parties and events use to happen as we are sure that works well for some people, to say that swingers parties NEED to go back that way isn't completely correct. Vive la variety!
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RHP User
8 years ago
That wasnt the question, it was what people thought of the concept? Not for me, but obviously some people like the idea
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RHP User
8 years ago
obviously missed the thread before cleanup, don't know what was said already so cant make the post I intended. WTF (the W stands for "Why" in this instance) is DC's quoted post left in the thread, but their original post itself deemed so heinous it must be deleted? Slow clap for that one.
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soretongue
8 years ago
The f*cking catalina wine mixer all over again!
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Yes we see our original comment is gone, but the quote from i_touch is still there. We don't think admin had a problem with our comment , but rather with someone else's (that became very personal towards us) . Their comments were removed and also a few others. So many angry, fragile egos out there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Yes we see our original comment is gone, but the quote from i_touch is still there. We don't think admin had a problem with our comment , but rather with someone else's (that became very personal towards us) . Their comments were removed and also a few others. So many angry, fragile egos out there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Quoting 'jayme2' Simple .. It was double (blind) date with a good mate 'his GF and her cousin.. Out to dinner ,show, then back to their place later for a coffee. They peeled off leaving me alone with the cousin. Me being me could not just get up and leave so decided to make the best of the situation.. and happy I did. Purposely finished my post with what I think in everyday terms.. Not that hard really.. It's what you want to read into that made you curious.. No detective work needed. Ahhhhh..... so her look didn't appeal to you, and her behaviour and mannerisms made you cringe.... .... but you just wanted a shag. LOL You shouldda just said that
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's easy to disguise your own feelings towards others with all encompassing, generic and sweeping statements such as 'so many angry, fragile egos here.' In my opinion, that's equally inappropriate as a message directed at someone specifically on a forum topic 👎 Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Chev, what does I_Touch's age have anything to do with her comment. I agree with her comment, as i too have been on the receiving end of men who think they're entitled to certain things and yes mostly from older gentlemen, whether IRL or on here. Furthermore, we have been subject to your incessant stories here on the fora, nearly always referencing younger women in a positive light and older women more negatively. I'm starting to think your ageist :( Mary xx
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
You probably missed the offensive thread , directed at us, that was removed by admin. Sadly there is a lot on back stabbing and bandwagoning on here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know that wasn't the question it was my opinion if it was to be a turn up and groped by who ever picks your keys or number. I love it when someone tries to explain I'm wrong good to see the forums haven't changed😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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SoSoPretty
8 years ago
No, just no to this idea...I can't imagine what it would be like to have sex with someone you aren't sexually attracted to. How does it even start? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Forums indeed, where we can input our opinions, comments and whatever we feel like writing on a topic or post. . So no, they will never change
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mexicans
8 years ago
Matching keys , numbers ,lollies etc , was just an ice breaker ,at the time we started swinging and , was not expected that you had to have sex with the matching person . Lots of socialising took place and later down the track , opinions of that person could have changed . We go and at times play or just socialise and , if we play , its by our rules as its our bodies .
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Really, I thought it was mearly pointing out the obvious, I'd be surprised if it hasn't been said before. Definitely no back stabbing from me either, I say it how I see it, oops that's right that's what you found offensive. SorryI will bugger off and pester someone else now...💋
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Haleakala
8 years ago
I can never work out wether Chevtrek is trolling, his posts certainly get a lot of attention. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
8 years ago
temp_territorian Every time I see your pic I think you have a gimp mask on 😜 Kinda gives me a little thrill
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Damn...you made me look at his profile 😜
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting Itm2 "o respond to the topic yuck is all I can say, another man over a certain age expecting the swinging scene to fill the gaps so to speak, wanting women to take one for the team, worse, using the forum to try to promote that, nice try and good luck with that" I couldn't agree more..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Missb4u' temp_territorian Every time I see your pic I think you have a gimp mask on 😜 Kinda gives me a little thrill Me too! :)
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Sawadee
8 years ago
You asked a question I gave the answer. In your usual twisted manner you decided to try and make a negative of it ... If you didn't like the answer.... Stiff... I have the memory , you achieved ???
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek'Please no mud slingingThe group is new but have all been to many swingers clubswith to many guys and many who sit and just watch.Will say that I like this groups ideas and at least all get involved. Oh, well I like the idea that it is a group of people with like minds. Great to hear several people had a good time, so to speak. :-D Do they have an event listing or group profile on RHP Chev? I do wonder how things would go if a woman posted this... Probably not something that would happen (you know, because of what could be said about her). Ah well, each to their own, it's obviously not something for everyone... and the forums are obviously not the place for recruiting. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some get off on gimp masks but I find them creepy... Ordinarily I wouldn't say anything but thought it pertinent to the idea that we all have different tastes and that's not what the OP is about. Sorry Temp, I do not mean any offence to you. I don't believe Chev is a troll and it does make me wonder why people respond so strongly. It's like they got nothing better to do. Peachy
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PrivatePartiesWA
8 years ago
REALLY !! swinging is not just about sex, its about freedom to choose even when in a relationship or marriage.. There is a huge difference between sex and love but there still needs to be some connection and attraction, to be put in a situation with out choice is archaic and dated. there are plenty of parties and events out there so pic them smartly and dont get put in a situation you are not comfortable with.....it can destroy your swinging expectations in a second......look at peoples and clubs validations and read there profiles well :)ITS A GREAT PLACE TO BE IF THE PARTY IS RIGHT XXX M & G
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Haleakala
8 years ago
I do actually have a gimp mask ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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PartyOrg
8 years ago
Totally agree with the above comment (private parties). Partying with the right people. These guys know how to throw an awesome event. Can't wait to be at their one on the 26th November.
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Missb4u
8 years ago
temp_territorian Now that would make a hot photo 😍😍😍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ewww no way would i be told who i was hookking up with. I would rather play with no one than be told. Mind you each to their own. If this is what gets you off lol. Just wish i had the courage to go to a swingers party lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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TandT4fun
8 years ago
Sex its about making good frends - Posted from rhpmobile
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TandT4fun
8 years ago
No no wrong - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' yuck is all I can say, another man over a certain age expecting the swinging scene to fill the gaps so to speak, wanting women to take one for the team, worse, using the forum to try to promote that, nice try and good luck with that isn't it also expecting men to take one for the team? I fail to see how you can turn what he said into a gender issue. Just as there will be men at a party that a woman might not want to fuck, so too will there be women at a party that a man might not want to fuck (assuming a purely hetero party). Not every hole is a goal, so to speak. Quoting 'Hotwives_Inc' Chev, what does I_Touch's age have anything to do with her comment. Be fair Mary, I_Touch referenced Chev's age too - what is good for the goose should be good for the gander.
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RHP User
8 years ago
There will always be things that ppl are into but majority say eeewww. There is a niche target audience for so many different ways we do our "own thang" in the very diverse swinging world. I know ppl who have a fetish for glory hole action. They have no idea whats on the other side. Thats an eewww for me personally. I have lots of eewws. But it doesnt make it any less appealing or satisfying for the people who are into it. Apparently some of my "things" I get off on are eewwws to lots of other ppl. And thats cool too. Thats why we are so diverse. Great isnt it?
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RHP User
8 years ago
No I wouldnt play this way. Doesnt interest me. Although if we threw our strapons into a box and guys had to pull one out and it gets used on them.... That might be kinda fun.
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Haleakala
8 years ago
Do the participants have to pick the strapons blindfolded so they don't know what size they're letting them selves in for? ;) I do like the sound of that party! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Haleakala
8 years ago
I wasn't questioning the validity of the original topic, I'm well aware that lots get off on anonymous or pure stranger interactions, glory holes, suckatoriums, grope boxes etc. I was merely suggesting that Trevchek seems to be able to get plenty of negative reactions to his posts. I wonder if the intent was discussion on this type of party or just to stimulate a reaction. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Even blindfolded, it would be easy to grope around and find the one you wanted, just by feel. Lol, so maybe need a 3rd party to pull it out. So theres no cheatsies. I know a few ppl on here who would rumage through the box trying to get their mits on Big Bertha. Haha
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Haleakala
8 years ago
Very true. Personally I'd be looking for goldilocks size, not too big, not too small! You could always just put the harness in the lucky sip, dildo a surprise. - Posted from rhpmobile
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bianca_dd
8 years ago
I am a am a believer in all swingers/sex parties having additional guys. Certainly some of those guys can be a pain and quite annoying but nowhere near as annoying as being a female and stuck with some deadshit or worse still being left like a shag on a rock and receiving no attention at all. Sex is never compulsory but really who doesn't love to be flirted with and have 2/3 guys all trying to out do themselves in the hope of getting into your panties (if you wear any that is ) lol. Long live the imbalance in numbers.
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
To the grump in the corner
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RHP User
8 years ago
Really. Saying ewww to some thing is how adults react? If you're not into something fine. No need for the added rudeness. *SMH* Chev, probably not my thing but depends on who is at the party tho. Willow's strap on party I would def attend. Spanking and slamming butts. Okay. I'm in. Lol.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
smartest move ever.. 👍 👍 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'bianca_dd' I am a am a believer in all swingers/sex parties having additional guys. Certainly some of those guys can be a pain and quite annoying but nowhere near as annoying as being a female and stuck with some deadshit or worse still being left like a shag on a rock and receiving no attention at all. Sex is never compulsory but really who doesn't love to be flirted with and have 2/3 guys all trying to out do themselves in the hope of getting into your panties (if you wear any that is ) lol. Long live the imbalance in numbers.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...someone doesn't get as much as action as they feel they deserve. Sorry dude, like all of us, if the outside isn't appealing (age, looks etc.) you're simply not going to have as much luck in what is essentially a meat market. Perhaps you need to develop your scintillating personality - we all know guys who can charm the pants of a chick, despite not being conventionally good looking. "Keys in a bowl" might be a good way to force people to talk to each other and that's a good start for you but random assignment of chicks who have to fuck you, despite their attraction to you (or lack thereof) is creepy and entitled.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AbnormallyNormal' we all know guys who can charm the pants of a chick, despite not being conventionally good looking.awww, thank you... sort of :P
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mvagusta9
8 years ago
I like swingers parties that invite single guys I agree some guys can be a pain but the single guy must be patient and respectful it is a privilege to get an invite to them as I do and just be myself and not force myself on couples just go with the flow and hope all goes well.
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On_Safari
8 years ago
The girls had bullets and we all went and placed the remotes into a bowl for the men present and the guys had to figure out who they were vibing. 😂 lots of laughter and fun had by all in a very public place in the middle of Sydney. Great party Meeks, SummerSolstice and Paintme!! ~ Indy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL'Funny innit? Some get off on gimp masks but I find them creepy... Ordinarily I wouldn't say anything but thought it pertinent to the idea that we all have different tastes and that's not what the OP is about. Sorry Temp, I do not mean any offence to you. I don't believe Chev is a troll and it does make me wonder why people respond so strongly. It's like they got nothing better to do. Peachy Quoting 'temp_territorian'On topicI wasn't questioning the validity of the original topic, I'm well aware that lots get off on anonymous or pure stranger interactions, glory holes, suckatoriums, grope boxes etc. I was merely suggesting that Trevchek seems to be able to get plenty of negative reactions to his posts. I wonder if the intent was discussion on this type of party or just to stimulate a reaction. I thought I answered the question you asked as well as introducing that the topic is in the Original Post and not about the Original Poster. Maybe if more effort was made to address the Original Post instead of the slippery sucker that are the thoughts that spring to mind, setting off reactions that have nothing to do with the topic at hand. It would be exciting to see people like yourself take the risk of posting new topics. Peachy Old fashioned type swingers partyLast weekend I and 2 female friends went to an old type swingers party.Matching numbers in 2 bowls, one for the ladies and one for the guys and ifyou ended up with your partner you tried again.Most swingers parties these days has been left for couples to choose whothey decide to swing with and most times a third of the couples do nothingbut sit and chat or have sex with there partners and I feel this type of partyis a flop. The lady I was lucky dipped with was not my type nor I her type yet, aftersome chat before sex we got on great and the night was a great night.Joining back with some other couples later that night sparked even morefun with more swapping with even a 3 some. I think swingers parties should go back to the old style of doing thisevent as they were far more fun and got all involved. Naked twister is a riot for any swingers party. .
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Makes people respond in very predictable ways
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'temp_territorian' I can never work out wether Chevtrek is trolling, his posts certainly get a lot of attention. - Posted from rhpmobile You can never tell with some of the stories!Imagine you telling everyone you showed up to a random Bali hut in Broome to find a Asian woman tied up to 4 poster bed sitting on a dildo..... Nobody would believe you! ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Adelaide3some'Quoting 'temp_territorian' I can never work out wether Chevtrek is trolling, his posts certainly get a lot of attention. - Posted from rhpmobile You can never tell with some of the stories!Imagine you telling everyone you showed up to a random Bali hut in Broome to find a Asian woman tied up to 4 poster bed sitting on a dildo..... Nobody would believe you! ;) The topic has to do with Old Fashioned Type Swingers Party... Not what you think of the OP and what he shares about what he gets up to. Keep it up and the topic will likely be deleted. Not a problem for me of course but it would put your agenda into question if you were to continue carrying on. I suppose you'd never believe I'd been to Hong Kong with my foster-father where he brought a prostitute back to our room... she refused to perform with a child in the bed. At least some people have decency. I see you're another who has never posted a topic (under this profile at least). I'd like to see you put yourself out there and start a topic and see how it feels on that side of the fence. Peachy
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chevtrek
8 years ago
Quoting 'Adelaide3some' Quoting 'temp_territorian' I can never work out wether Chevtrek is trolling, his posts certainly get a lot of attention. - Posted from rhpmobile You can never tell with some of the stories!Imagine you telling everyone you showed up to a random Bali hut in Broome to find a Asian woman tied up to 4 poster bed sitting on a dildo..... Nobody would believe you! ;) I do like to post topics to make the mind think however for those that know me and things I have doneI am no fake or would be.If you have read previous posts I have gone through heartbreak with a girl far younger than me and atpresent I wont even date a girl but still enjoy sex so I went with friends to a swingers party.I have been before to these events and as stated in this topic see many sit on the side lines so because this party was different and all got involved I thought it a good post but, should have known that some take more interest in attacking me as usual.
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Rubyx
8 years ago
Sounds like a single mans heaven. Not keen. We will choose who touches us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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