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Old fashioned type swingers party
October 19 2016
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Haleakala
8 years ago
Do I know you? Have you swapped the North for the South? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Oh , don't forget trolling , it's a shit habit.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'temp_territorian' Do I know you? Have you swapped the North for the South? - Posted from rhpmobile Ha! Who else would know that exact scenario? Oh and Chev from what i understand you are telling the truth as i said "Sometimes you can never tell" not you're lying.But keep those stories coming it gives hope to some of the single guys around your own age and maybe even the younger ones.
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RHP User
8 years ago
A certain sexy fucker had mine. Nearly slipped off the seat I did. Made it hard to talk to people without dribbling. We all kinda knew each other though. We were all on the same page. 😻😻😻 * waves her keys at SOTL *
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RHP User
8 years ago
My post was in reply to OnSafari. Hellooooo darlink!
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Oldie1954
8 years ago
Mate those sort of swinger parties were all the rage in the late 60's and 70's where we had Woodstock, flower people and free love. The purpose of the get together was exactly what you say, get paired up with someone and have gratuious sex. People did not care whether you were single or married as long as you were clean and wanted to have some kinky fun. Man could I tell you some stories. Looking at the ages of some of the respondee's they were not even born then or too young to realise what mon and dad were doing on a Saturday night. These days Swinger Clubs are very bland. As some responses have stated they reserved the right to select (I noted that the majority were from females). Also I think some couples use Swinger Clubs as a cheap alternative to a motel room and generally do not involve anybody else. But who am I to bag "swingers", there are some genuine players out there, I know, because I have met some. Perhaps people who get involved in this lifestyle need to loosen up and see it for what it really should be about. Gratuious sex with other people looking for the same thing. You keep at it Chevtrek because I am still for the "keys in the bowl approach". It is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you will get, which adds to the fun of it.
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chevtrek
8 years ago
But do know what you mean however in my 20s and 30s I was involved in such parties so even up to the 80s people were more open and fun.
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
More open and fun?? Chev.... If a gay guy couple (or for that matter a bi couple) tossed their keys in the bowl, and you drew their key...... what would you do??? How you answer either supports of sinks your argument 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm open and fun now, but would I have sex with the owner of a set of keys, regardless of how disgusting he is hahaha Trick is to find the needle in the haystack, there might be one or two women in the world who don't mind The other option of course for all those men who have arrived in that unhealthy, unappealing place, is to get fit where you'll find yourself more appealing, just a thought instead of waking up one day and expecting women to believe that's how it used to be and take one for the team
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RHP User
8 years ago
The most unappealing thing I can imagine. To fuck a complete stranger you havent even said hello to. Add to that the chance that they may not have showered and you may not be at all attracted to them...why would you. Id rather watch some porn and satisfy myself. At least Id respect myself in the morning..... Yes we have the right to select. Rather that than go gung ho at any old naked form.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' More open and fun?? Chev.... If a gay guy couple (or for that matter a bi couple) tossed their keys in the bowl, and you drew their key...... what would you do??? How you answer either supports of sinks your argument 😊 The beauty of this idea for me is the freedom of choice to involve myself or not. I'm not into women so I wouldn't be interested in same sex couples myself.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think swingers parties should go back to the old style of doing thisevent as they were far more fun and got all involved. To go on the initial 'statement'... I would not agree with the idea of swingers parties being anything more than what suits any individual group at the time. hehe And more fully Mischieviouslad melad... Can't you imagine how same sex couples would have been out of place in Old fashioned type swingers parties?
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Plenty of popular private swingers parties about where the average looking hosts get a pity fuck by attendees to ensure they get an invite to the next one, male or female. Discussions between different couples as to who's turn it is to entertain the hosts.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well! It would seem like a party for people at the end of their swinging life, taking what they can get! We like to choose thank you!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Plenty of popular private swingers parties about where the average looking hosts get a pity fuck by attendees to ensure they get an invite to the next one, male or female. Discussions between different couples as to who's turn it is to entertain the hosts. Which is why I won't go to a couple of these types of parties in Brisbane. I know I'm no Margot Robbie but that doesn't mean I have to fuck the Steve Price who's running the gig.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have a friend who is in a closed swingers group. 12 couples I think, over the years they have all fucked each other, and played any number of games, including the keys in the bowl thing..... Personally, I think it could be fun indeed..... so if you like it, then go for it I say....
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can you imagine back in the day? Naked twister and a whole bunch of hairy winking butt holes. Haha
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chevtrek
8 years ago
All you will be getting is pity sex.Talk about saying the wrong thing when your near that age group.LMAOQuoting '2xGirls_1xGuy' Well! It would seem like a party for people at the end of their swinging life, taking what they can get! We like to choose thank you!
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
No pity sex here But then, I'm not after teenagers......
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Can you imagine back in the day? Naked twister and a whole bunch of hairy winking butt holes. Haha I bought a bunch of comics the other day and found an old porn mag in the middle omg it's full on, close ups, as if you're watching porn, with the sexy story to go with it, but VERY hairy and lots of blue eyeshadow and sultry sad looking women, they really had the slutty look going on haha and the men, yeah not my cup of tea but that's what it was at the time, and people pay big money for that stuff now. Vintage porn. I think I'll stick with modern porn
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chevtrek
8 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' No pity sex here But then, I'm not after teenagers......
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chevtrek
8 years ago
Stick to the topic please.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry there's no photographic evidence I'm prepared to display but maybe that's because even with the old fashioned type party I get to choose whether to partake or not. Unlike a lot of other popular kinks like public sex which are nowhere near as considerate of people who may not wish to be involved. Each to their own? Isn't it great? Peachy
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Stick to the topic please.I did..... and notice youve decided answering was too difficult. Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'More open and fun?? Chev.... If a gay guy couple (or for that matter a bi couple) tossed their keys in the bowl, and you drew their key...... what would you do??? How you answer either supports of sinks your argument 😊 So....?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Quoting 'chevtrek' Stick to the topic please.I did..... and notice youve decided answering was too difficult.Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'More open and fun?? Chev.... If a gay guy couple (or for that matter a bi couple) tossed their keys in the bowl, and you drew their key...... what would you do??? How you answer either supports of sinks your argument 😊 So....? I see an opportunity for a whole new thread based on the whole idea of of "new aged fashioned type swinger party". Peachy.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not going to a party to force myself to do ANYTHING with someone I didn't chose. That's just not my thing. At all. Maybe some people, like the person who posted this, doesnt realise that people go to swingers parties/clubs for MANY different reasons. Some want to go with their partner and have sex where others can see them. Some want to meet a new person to join them. Some just go to chat, dance and have a few drinks. Some go because they can dress in a sexy outfit, and feel desirable. Some people go to meet new friends and hook up elsewhere. Not everyone goes to find someone to fuck on the night. I know I certainly don't (but it sure is a nice bonus if I do meet someone and we have fun). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It sems to be a point that many have missed, this has nothing to do with forcing anyone to do anything. I believe Chev is talking about a closed group and everyone at the party agreed on the terms. I hope they have a fuckload of fun. Thanks for sharing Chev.
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chevtrek
8 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' It sems to be a point that many have missed, this has nothing to do with forcing anyone to do anything. I believe Chev is talking about a closed group and everyone at the party agreed on the terms. I hope they have a fuckload of fun. Thanks for sharing Chev.
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I find it hard to believe that everyone at said party would be happy to fuck anyone else there. If not, then they'd have to force themselves to do it. I'd be interested to see if a party like that EVER happens, I just can't see it ever working out. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Kisskiss80' But I find it hard to believe that everyone at said party would be happy to fuck anyone else there. If not, then they'd have to force themselves to do it. I'd be interested to see if a party like that EVER happens, I just can't see it ever working out. most of the world finds it hard to believe that much of what goes on on this site is done by happy people willingly "no, but that's your husband - how can you let that woman fuck him?!" etc
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Quoting 'Kisskiss80' But I find it hard to believe that everyone at said party would be happy to fuck anyone else there. If not, then they'd have to force themselves to do it. Well..... Even the author and his *shagee* had to find at least a little bit of inner force ...After all, in chevs words... *The lady I was lucky dipped with was not my type nor I her type*
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Kisskiss80' But I find it hard to believe that everyone at said party would be happy to fuck anyone else there. If not, then they'd have to force themselves to do it. Well..... Even the author and his *shagee* had to find at least a little bit of inner force ...After all, in chevs words...*The lady I was lucky dipped with was not my type nor I her type* Sounds like taking a chance to me, and this experience for the author and his match was a positive learning experience. The main message I believe the thread was making a point of. *shagee* is your word and more demeaning than anything in the OP in my opinion. Thanks on behalf of women who take the right to fuck who we want the way we want. A person has a choice to put themselves in the position to begin with, or not. :-P And I imagine the right to not have sex if they really don't desire. But some people like to take a risk, more power to them and their right to do things their way. One of the things I have been aware of with this thread is the possibility other people from the group that night are tuning in. I believe so. *waves* If so, I'm rapt you guys found each other and that your group thrives. Peachy
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chevtrek
8 years ago
Quoting 'Kisskiss80' But I find it hard to believe that everyone at said party would be happy to fuck anyone else there. If not, then they'd have to force themselves to do it. I'd be interested to see if a party like that EVER happens, I just can't see it ever working out. - Posted from rhpmobile No one is forced we are adults that have chosen to explore notgo by looks or to judge.There was no one forced and it was a pleasant night.
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RHP User
8 years ago
in my opinion, there's a big difference between taking risks, which I do regularly, and having sex with someone you're not attracted to? Why would you even want to force yourself to have sex with someone you're not attracted to, that's what paid sex workers do, we're here for fun, to be turned on, not turned off I'd rather have sex with myself personally, no different to dogging I suppose, in it's true form, so do you and chev like dogging? That's where you turn up somewhere and just have sex with anyone while everone else watches, not for me, but you must see the similarity, so are you into that sort of thing? Just curious
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RHP User
8 years ago
Our experiences before RHP and the excitement of which was what led us here in the first place. We had some hot times here but nothing that compared to those early moments. I experienced hot desire for people I would not have expected to be attracted to in the first place. Even advertising through the personals in the local paper, pmsl. On first sight no, but I'm still not sure that wasn't part of what made yes so hot for that first guy. Mmmm mmm. mmm mmm mmmm. Memories... Not someone I would have said was my type but... Dogging/public sex is not my thing for several reasons but like any sex act there are standards and respect that a woman (or man) involved chooses how far she (or he) gets involved. Respect is a given in my eyes. Peachy
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chevtrek
8 years ago
The best sex she ever had was a guy she did not desire andto top it off he had a 3 inch cock.She nearly decided to end the sex but decide to finish what she startedand found she had a great night.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Did anyone refuse to go with who they were paired off with?
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Sounds like taking a chance to me, and this experience for the author and his match was a positive learning experience. The main message I believe the thread was making a point of. A person has a choice to put themselves in the position to begin with, or not. :-P And I imagine the right to not have sex if they really don't desire. Peachy Peachy... if you go back to the original topic... the only choice the author wants.. is whether you choose to turn up or not. This sounds very self oriented and expectant to me. In his words..... He said.... *I think swingers parties should go back to the old style of doing thisevent as they were far more funand got all involved. Which means if you choose to turn up.... * it is effectively expected that you'll play* it is expected that you'll play with whoever you are randomly paired with* and that the (taking a chance) option and replacing it with obligation by just being there, overrides any opportunity to say NO. He also said that he and the woman he had sex with werenteach others type. Meaning, not typically attracted to eachother. Why you would want to have sex with someone you're not attracted to, I will never understand.But logic says you do it simply to get some sex. Why you SHOULD have sex with someone youre not attracted to simply because of an expectation that you will play by the very nature of your attendance at a party.... .... well...... there are many in here who would shout that attitude down as having an attitude of *entitlement*. DG
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chevtrek
8 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' Did anyone refuse to go with who they were paired off with? It was only a rumour but he insisted only having anal sex andshe refused and went and had a 3 some.Please note I have no idea if this is true just rumour.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Would be a No from me. I just couldnt get it on with someone I had just met and felt zero connection with. Im not talking about looks. Theres a certain chemistry you get with people. However I know when I was younger a group of local lads used to chuck money in a pot at the start of a night out. Whoever shagged the "ugliest" women that night won the money. So you will always get people having sex just to get their end away no matter what.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's like you haven't read what I've already said that answers some of what you are asking. It was hot for me to fuck a stranger I'd never met and it was not at the result of any ugly woman contest or pity sex. A pig in a poke so to speak. :-P It sounds quite innocent to me... Chev has put across his idea that old fashioned swingers parties are the way to go because he thinks sitting and chatting is a flop. He had a great night and saw other people who had fun and were happy at the end of the night. One who was unhappy who said no and had a good time with others at the party instead though we only know this nowAnd then 'he' posted his excitement in a less than perfect way to fit the format of the fora. I touch, my thing about public sex is that accidental onlookers don't get any choice in the interaction. I like to show off but in an atmosphere I feel confident is adult only. Peachy
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Haleakala
8 years ago
I wonder about the logistics of these sort of parties. Is it a closed group of people where everyone already fucks each other anyway and so the lottery isn't so much that you will draw someone you would rather not be having sex with. How does a new couple join? Does every member have a veto on the new couple. It's hard enough arranging three or foursomes where everyone is attracted. If it's sort of random, the host invited couples and the couples coming may or may not already know the other guests the logistics are simpler. However I wonder how many people are willing to.simply accept they may end up having sex with someone they would rather not. Perhaps it just comes down to trusting that your host only invites people you know match whichever criteria is important to you for a play partner. So the hosts got good taste, I'm happy to duck whoever he is likely to invite. - Posted from rhpmobile
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wannabyummymummy
8 years ago
Not for me in a random setting but a few years ago hubby & I hosted a party that was "swinging 70's" themed for my birthday, all guests were friends of ours and all knew each other (and had played together before) and we did do a keys in the bowl game as a bit of a joke and it got things started and was fun as a one off in the situation that it was in. If I went to a party with people I didn't know at all and this was the practice we'd be leaving because it's just not for us. Maybe you could test your theory OP and post an event describing the type of party you want and see who registers? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Quoting 'wannabyummymummy' Maybe you could test your theory OP and post an event describing the type of party you want and see who registers? Just don't make it a school night
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'wannabyummymummy' Maybe you could test your theory OP and post an event describing the type of party you want and see who registers? Just don't make it a school night Nothing like a bit of infantile humour. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think the whole point is to step outside your boundaries and allow an experience you might not normally choose. It can be extraordinary if you allow it. 8 pages and only Peachy gets it. Amazing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I prefer to choose my sexual partner. Not a fan of the bowl idea at all
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RHP User
8 years ago
Awww, hi! Peachy
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chevtrek
8 years ago
After watching 2 dvds sent from UK and USA this swingers party was mildcompared to those 2 country's.Long story short each woman fucked at least 4 guys and some 6 all in onenight plus some bdsm went on.Also any woman who feels looks make it good sex puts on a gimp maskand is put among the men and women and after watching both the dvds it makes swinging in Australia look regressed and not so open.The dvd end with the ladies wearing masquerade masks and talking oncam about the night and all said they love it and would be back again.Ages of the ladies was 25 to 55.So if you think this party was to hard or to open then think about thosewho are more open and love sexual pleasure.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not sure what sort of parties you go to or what the scene is in Perth but in Sydney that's nothing extraordinary, in fact, it's probably quite ordinary at good parties. That still doesn't mean that women are having sex with men that don't turn them on, there still has to be some chemistry happening. Even if it's the wild party vibe getting their juices flowing.
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