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July 17 2014

. Guys: What chance to I have of getting a male cuddle buddy. God and HOW hard is that going to be to filter! How would you even prevent getting into a situation where they didnt change their mind I've been trying to find posts on cuddling and I am surprised to find that no-one has tagged a post with cuddle. What are the chances that you would get a cuddle buddy? Yes I'm serious! :P My profile covers a reasonable variety of things, but for the last 6 months or so I've been thinking about a cuddle buddy. I guess usually it might be the person you've just slept with. But that's not my question. So many things to think about so Has anyone done this or been one???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just cuddling up with a female friend and just going to sleep, nothing sexual. Just comfort and warmth. I started a thread a while ago about whether my man licence should be revoked for doing this with two different ladies in consecutive nights.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I would love to find a cuddle buddy, tho I think it is easier to win lotto.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My hands tend to wander in my sleep and one thing will lead to another, so I doubt this arrangement would ever work with me lol Good luck in your search, OP :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I could do it at night but as soon as morning came around ...... so would I wouldn't be able to just cuddle first thing in the morning , is that a problem ? Are there others like me out there ? I'm sure there is

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    10 years ago

    I am doubting that they would not want more than cuddling.It may be okay once or twice but I doubt that anyone is going to sign up for being assigned to the friend zone on a permanent basis. That being said, if you happen to find someone who just wants cuddling and nothing else then power to you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    & there you have the Male Unicorn ! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just buy a giant cuddly teddy bear.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    that might work?

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    If you only want to cuddle..... Ask your GBF, a same sex straight friend....... or someone with mutual lack of attraction. Good luck with that last one though. . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    doesn't sound possible for a straight guy. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It doesn't work

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'YoungAndMarried'Maybe find a gay best friend who likes to lay about with you that might work? I think Y&M has hit the nail on the head head here with this one.Sure there are the cuddly wuggly type guys out there, but in reality, I think you will find that most guys, if not all, will promise the cuddles n snuggles and no fuck scenario but in reality that is just a blatant lie to get into yours panties. Having said that though, I have been in the cuddle me only situation a few times and I have found that it has not been me that has pushed things further but it has been the woman initiating "stage 2" lol.The progression from "stage 1" snuggly wuggly huggly time to rampant and uninhibited raw sex may have been due to the fact that my rock hard throbbing cock was pulsating away against the womans bum and crack and leaking a rather large amount of pre cum at the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes I can confirm, the position is still available. However, I'm currently investigating new markets and have uncovered this one, right under our very noses! What about all the post-sex-people (PSP) who have just done the business and want cuddles, but don't want to fall for the person they've just done the business with....? Yet, they don't want to go home to an empty bed...? I think I'm onto something here. And I think that something is going to be called... The Reverse Cuckoo! What a suitably unsexy name!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "I'm off to Cuddle the Cuckoo" Mark my words, 12 months from now that's going to be synonymous with 'thanks for a good night, but it's bed time".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'tulips4u'k My hands tend to wander in my sleep and one thing will lead to another, so I doubt this arrangement would ever work with me lol Good luck in your search, OP :) - Posted from rhpmobile I couldn't do it......don't get me wrong I love cuddling...spooning...but the minute I feel a guy pushing in behind me...that's it....I have to grind back....I cant resist...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Constitutes a cuddle buddy Abby?...Because there are all the precuddle scenarios to consider...will you have dinner first,watch a DVD together, and then retire to bed?....Will you sleep together naked or clothed?....Will you cook brekkie in the mornoing or shove them out the door?.......How many times a week will you cuddle?.....And what happens if one of you wants to take the cuddleationship further.....what if you or Mr.Cuddles wants to meet outside of the bedroom...what then Abby?xxQ:-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I know I'm a little different but really?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Funlover71' I know I'm a little different but really? You're not alone Funlover... tis possible, I too have done the cuddle only before... and retained the man card! The hardest part is if you are attracted to someone and they push the man-button for "more please". We are only human. SG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I had a female freind (no attraction on my part) come over for drinks and a fire last weekend, I let her have my bed and I was gonna take the couch. She insisted I jump in with her. I quite enjoy a snuggle so I did, I never tried any funny buisness as 1. Im not attracted and 2. Dont want to ruin a perfectly good friendship. But when I woke up with an errection I think she got the wrong idea and tried to take things further. So in short yes its possible. To those saying youd have to be gay? Bullshit, learn some fucking self controll! Sure a fuck buddy would be great, but if cuddles are all that's on offer beats being alone and freezing my arse off. Shame I dont meet your requirements, goodluck with your search :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A cuddle buddy sounds so tempting right now. It's freezing and it has been a hard, shitty week. I would love to have someone to just hold me and play with my hair.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'looking4quality' A cuddle buddy sounds so tempting right now. It's freezing and it has been a hard, shitty week. I would love to have someone to just hold me and play with my hair. hahaha sorry just had to add that.

  • Almost_Ready

    Almost_Ready

    10 years ago

    I like to cuddle.. But only after! Perhaps we could do each other a favour?

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'looking4quality' A cuddle buddy sounds so tempting right now. It's freezing and it has been a hard, shitty week. I would love to have someone to just hold me and play with my hair. Like reigns

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Would I do it again??...you betcha! Foxy

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    10 years ago

    Yeah I don't know about a cuddles only buddy.. Like a human version of Elmo ..I've never really experienced that, apart from the normal relationship stuff, where cuddles are part and parcel..... with options every now and then !......but like everything else , a cuddle partner would be out there somewhere ?...... like someone else said, some might say yeah I'm your cuddle guy. but being a guy, good intentions can change when we have erections....lol Love and peace Tam

  • brent3250

    brent3250

    10 years ago

    I defiantly see where your coming from and i understand the need for such a person, sometimes it's nice just to have that human contact that we all crave from time to time doesn't have to be sexual or become sexual just to be close to someone, plus it is getting pretty cold at the moment PlaywithAbby i hope you find what your looking for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Mainly I want to spoon but sometimes I am forced to fork (or spork) in order to spoon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was going to reply to you in "Messages" Abby.. then when I went and read your profile....?? I thought.. WTF is this??? Anyway... to the "Naysayers..." I have 2 Cuddle friends.. both attractive females.. AND I am NOT gay.We set the rules.. and we stick by them.. When it comes to sex, they both know what I "Get into.." and they leave me to get "That" elsewhere...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Don't have a go about someones profile. I understand why it might confuse you but I think you can see I'm pretty open and anyway... god too early in the morning to be defending or explaining myself. Anyway, looks like an edge case but still possible. I don't remember me saying it would be easy for me LOL I LOVE sleepy morning sex when you're all snuggled up and not quite awake.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    I'll take one of these please.....tried to negotiate a cuddlebuddy but apparently I'm too sexy to resist (shrugs) go figure....Cavey can you fly over once a week and hold me? ~ Indy needs someone to spoon and cup their hand over a breast so I can sleep.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've been looking for a coffee buddy come cuddle buddy for long time but no one is keen lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I had one. We recently stopped. He gave the best cuddles and loves to spoon. Unfortunately we were both extremely attracted to each other took it to the next level and ruined it... How I miss his snuggles. We are still buddies and he calls to chat but we stay away from each other. He was my cuddle buddy and my chat on the phone for hours buddy.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    im a straight male and i have a few friends that we just cuddle n spoon together nothing else! yeh every straight male cracks a stiffy when an ass is pressed up against ya but not every lady you feel the need to fuck, its a comfort thing and you will find one eventually!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yay im not alone! I REALLY wish I had a cuddle buddy... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'hendorules' im a straight male and i have a few friends that we just cuddle n spoon together nothing else! yeh every straight male cracks a stiffy when an ass is pressed up against ya but not every lady you feel the need to fuck, its a comfort thing and you will find one eventually!! I agree! For me, it's not about "fucking" it's more about the deep shared intimacy I have with that person - a soul connection. I have had men in my bed where I just don't want to "fuck" them, because I 've respect for them. Not only that they've respect me for saying "I 'm enjoying this moment in time with you". it's an awesome feeling, I've done it fully clothed and naked as well. To me it's more than just "cuddles"... I call it "Naked soul sex". Oh course it's a turn on to have that human touch and temptations...boners come one, damp vajays, who wouldn't?? LOL!! Ya just know when you have this connection, it's unforgettable and describable, and it truly is a beautiful thing. :) Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Damn Hendorules! I thought I was about to get me one before we hit two pages of comments! There's Clearly a market opportunity emerging - Sounds like you gots the contacts and I gots the goods... Meetya round the back in 10 and I'll cut you a sweet finders fee...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    short term maybe but in the end both will Sercombe to the desire especially if you are regularly doing it I had a cuddle buddy lasted 4 months before our resolve failed

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    10 years ago

    .... It is so nice to have friends you can cuddle and curl up with and talk and muck around with- without the intensity & drama that sex can bring with it. They are definitely around but mine have developed to become that way with time- they are people I trust totally :) Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There was that guy that caused a world wide following by hanging a sign in front of him saying FREE HUGS , now , If you apply that idea to FREE CUDDLES , you may get somewhere in your quest of receiving a cuddle buddy .

  • PL1963

    PL1963

    10 years ago

    You both fall in the "Deliciously Superb" catergory! I spooned my ex every nite, one of the reasons we split was she no longer liked it. It's probably the only thing I really miss now I'm single. I'm afraid even if I saw either of you in person I'd be "harder than Chinese arithmatic". Wouldn't be possible, but I wish it was. Cheers P.L.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    hats what I want a cuddle buddy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A mixture would be nice as in a true FWB who you can hang out with at times, have a hug or cuddle, then at times go further. Must admit that waking up with a guys morning wood in my back may be a little hard to resist.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That you claim to be a bi-curious female but not into single or bi men. I smell a fake profile... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • vodkaontherocks

    vodkaontherocks

    10 years ago

    cuddle buddies are great but also having a fwb who from time to time just wants to spoon and cuddle works aswell. ive had friends for both - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Being Me.... I smell a naughty troll! That's the second time today someone's questioned my profile. Not nice. We haven't even spoken, spooned or cuddled. And yes I'm unusual, not boring a bit quirky but very real. In any case, look how many people are talking about cuddle buddies! We weren't sure, most thought no at the beginning of the discussion but we're slowly coming out and putting our hands up so I think it's an interesting chat if nothing else. xx I'm heading out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I included cuddles in my profile. It's so nice, especially in this weather, but why stop there? ; ) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Being_Me' That you claim to be a bi-curious female but not into single or bi men. I smell a fake profile... - Posted from rhpmobile Because Abby is only looking for couples, she's a fake? Is your ego that fragile?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Cuddle buddies are great!

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    lol

  • Maverick24

    Maverick24

    10 years ago

    Isn't cuddling foreplay? No issue with hours of cuddles. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • lovman8

    lovman8

    10 years ago

    If I found you to be interesting , intelligent and good company I'd be happy to be your cuddle buddy and accept any limits But I expect if the "arrangement" continued happily for any length of time I'd find myself wanting more.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm a very tactile person and I couldn't live without physical contact. Cuddling, stroking and just being in someone's arms is not necessarily foreplay for me at all. It makes me feel warm and safe.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    That's nice of you. I suk at any kind of maths unless it's rythmic 😄

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Maybe your nose is just too close to your arse. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    10 years ago

    Make him wear one if those kick restraints and tease the living fuck out of him. Hugs Gazp - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    10 years ago

    The new word for cock, according to apple spell check - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not everything is about ego. As for other jealous keyboard warriors on this forum who enjoy attacking my every post, nice to see Im so important to you... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I would think a hobble might be fun too:-) xQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think cuddle buddy can be the best thing if the other hasn't had a std check yet. Good test for both parties - do they value their long term health or is temptation too great? Luckily temptation hasn't been great in my cases. All I had to do was think of my dick dropping off. That was enough to prevent anything from happening. I would not recommend average people do it though. It does require a strong man/woman who can look past 8-10 hours of sleep.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    more than cuddles but absolutely I would love someone who wants to hang for cuddles with sex on the side. I couldn't resist because how adorable is a man who knows how to treat you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'BevHills98210' I think cuddle buddy can be the best thing if the other hasn't had a std check yet. Good test for both parties - do they value their long term health or is temptation too great? Luckily temptation hasn't been great in my cases. All I had to do was think of my dick dropping off. That was enough to prevent anything from happening. hahahah that really made me laugh! :) A lot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Interesting in theory but me thinks hands wander both sides of the sheets xxx That said very cold ATM not a bad option ,all power if u can resist temptation lol

  • blkcapricornday

    blkcapricornday

    10 years ago

    but, it never works :( Me and a close friend had this arrangement, and it was so nice. I mean, we never said 'lets be cuddle buddies' or anything, but whenever we'd go out, we'd end up in each others beds. No sex, that was a line - but eventually it became blurred and we crossed it and things were never the same, and it was really sad because hurting your friend is never anything you want to do. Sorry to sound so glum, but I think it just goes against human nature!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Lol you can pick me I'm a good cuddle buddy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    they make great cuddle buddies.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    You might want to do something about your profile then....From what I see it still says no single blokes - so getting a male cuddlebuddy just ain't gonna happen, shorty.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What's on my profile is my business and it actually works for me believe it or not. Its quite entertaining seeing who needs to comment on it and who doesn't. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    I just read your profile for the first time. No wonder it works for you! I have never read a more detailed and specific profile. And if it ain't broke, don't fix it!

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'PlaywithAbby' What's on my profile is my business and it actually works for me believe it or not. Its quite entertaining seeing who needs to comment on it and who doesn't. - Posted from rhpmobile Those who comment and have nothing really to say...jealous haters! It's true - Abby is the little perfect cuddle buddy! Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have a gay friend, we sleep together occasionally and cuddle happily all night long. It works for me and it works for HER. Where do I sign up !! to not PLaywithAbby

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    PlaywithAbby is EVERYTHING she claims on her profile and more....... I would volunteer as your cuddle buddy, however I think hubby would get sooooo jealous that I'm with you and he's not lol........... Seriously though, I've actually had cuddle buddies in the past, who were just amazing friends, I only suggest that pyjamas are worn, it just makes life a little easier ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well its nice to have a cuddle . I did it with my ex for a very long time and it feels so good on the couch after a nice Chinese and a good movie but one always its frisky and play time starts ha ha ha and u miss half of the movie ha ha ha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have been on RHP for almost a year now, and while playing hard to get, have found myself up my neck in pussy and cream. I was struggling to keep up. I really didn't know what I wanted, or who I was. The sex was great, but it didn't quench the thirst. I was questioning myself just what was it that I was thirsty for? Then I discovered Cuddle Parties. Pretty much an orgy, just clothed, and without the sexual charge. The chance to explore touch, and basic human need, in safety, and friendship at sensual healing dot com dot au. My question is, do you think I'm weird, and do you think there is a chance that you and I might, like, get it on? Yours sincerely, C_S

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The above post is a farce, but with a cleverly disguised effort to steer you in a possibly helpful direction...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It just banter. Please disregard it. I only posted here cause I think I'm funny. Yes, there are such things as cuddle parties. Good luck in finding a good spooning.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Where does one sign up? I want to attend a cuddle Party! Foxy

  • prettyinpurple45

    prettyinpurple45

    10 years ago

    All I can say is good luck in your search... A cuddle buddy would be awesome to have :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Google! SensualHealing has one planned in Sydney on the 12th of September and organise them in Melbourne too. Haven't found one in Brisbane yet. Not sure they'd be for me though, I think I'd prefer one on one in my own bed.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Google! SensualHealing has one planned in Sydney on the 12th of September and organise them in Melbourne too. Haven't found one in Brisbane yet. Not sure they'd be for me though, I think I'd prefer one on one in my own bed. That's a BIG yes from me, if there's one Brisbane. :) Yes, I do like one-one in my own bed too! ;) Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It IS possible to have a cuddle-only relationship, and even with all parts attracted to each other (after all, I doubt you would be interested in cuddling with someone you're not attracted to, and vice-versa)! All would have to have a very strong will and very clear boundaries (as is required by any kind of relationship)... Depending on how they manage (or ménage? ), it could develop in a very interesting platonic-and-yet-not-quite relationship, where there is attraction, there is cuddling and there is no sex between them. It would be very interesting to follow the outcomes of it, where all parts would be teaming with desire, sleeping right next to each other and, yet, would have to resort to other partners for sex... Judging by your profile, since you're NOT considering single guys, I presume that you would be looking to be cuddling the male between you and his partner (that's the only possible way to link this topic to your profile), so I wish you good luck in finding a nice, attractive couple! Having said that, I would settle with a warm body by my side in this cold weather, even without sex involved. I'm looking for someone to give me honest feedbacks to my masseur abilities as well, so that could go really well together!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Q - What chance to I have of getting a male cuddle buddy? Big chances! I don't know, because I didn't see more of you, but you seem attractive, and your profile is interesting, so I guess you'll have plenty of options to pick here at RHP. Just be sure to profile them carefully, and try to measure their self-control by their eagerness in the messages... They WILL need plenty of that. Q - How would you even prevent getting into a situation where they didnt change their mind? This is very tough on guys, specially if you are attractive. To lay beside an attractive female, feeling her warmth, her scents, her hair and her smooth skin and not to become (super) horny takes a man well satisfied (or gay). And it is not confortable for guys to be horny for long and not having sex... Q - Has anyone done this or been one??? I've had a cuddle buddy for nearly 2 years, but I mostly went to sleep with her once or twice a week, usually (after both sattisfying themselves with other partners). Even then, at the end, we began fantasizing about us fucking, after fucking other people, and after that we couldn't keep "just cuddling" anymore.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Classic Aussie piss take right? You guys are funny!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Crossing_Swords' I have been on RHP for almost a year now, and while playing hard to get, have found myself up my neck in pussy and cream. I was struggling to keep up. I really didn't know what I wanted, or who I was. The sex was great, but it didn't quench the thirst. I was questioning myself just what was it that I was thirsty for? Then I discovered Cuddle Parties. Pretty much an orgy, just clothed, and without the sexual charge. The chance to explore touch, and basic human need, in safety, and friendship at sensual healing dot com dot au. My question is, do you think I'm weird, and do you think there is a chance that you and I might, like, get it on? Yours sincerely, C_S DAMN!!! I thought I was about to be offered a cuddle sandwich! (I think you're funny and I do that all the time (crap on) lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'NandoAustralia' Q - What chance to I have of getting a male cuddle buddy? Big chances! I don't know, because I didn't see more of you, but you seem attractive, and your profile is interesting, so I guess you'll have plenty of options to pick here at RHP. Just be sure to profile them carefully, and try to measure their self-control by their eagerness in the messages... They WILL need plenty of that. I think I understand what you're saying Nando, but I think we need to discuss this in person so I can profile you more carefully... ;)

  • 81scorpio

    81scorpio

    10 years ago

    But I am only human and through the night would also be looking/wanting a little more than just cuddling especially when spooning a beautiful lady and being pressed up hard against her.. Instincts kick in, it's only natural.. If it was purely cuddling and no action, it's possible but hard not to take it further so maybe what you are after is a gay guy..?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I can confirm that this is going to be difficult but worthwhile pursuit that I continue to investigate. During a very focused discussion on the topic last night it occurred to me that most of us are assuming the man lays at the back, clearly this would be considered a Rookie Mistake likely to lead to failure. Hence: 1. In the MF scenario, the male must position himself forward facing at the front of the stack, while the female spoons him. 2. The male will turn around whenever he is tapped on the shoulder by the female. 3. The male may not use the females finger to tap himself on the shoulder unless instructed to. How does that sound so far?

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Bahahahaha! I love those rules! Particularly #3 - that is an absolute ripper!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    count me in if you want cuddles :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nothing beats a good cuddle...doesn't always have to lead to sex!! Helps that I have broad shoulders and strong arms..oh and smell nice...As long as she can snuggle up, soft skin, nice smelling hair and the odd purr....you can't go wrong!!!

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    So how long will you last before Abby starts to play? What happens when it gets hard and you feel the heat? Will you simply hold out? Are you a passionate woman? Profiles says women/couples only. Cuddles are great!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Years and years ago I was seeing a few guys one was casual ish ... The other was WOW a major attraction and leading to be mmm mmmm wink wink in my bed ASAP ....but when we got "down to it" agreed that we didn't have the " chemistry " so weird because I was always warm and fuzzy around him and we got on so well .i don't think I've ever connected so beautifully with anyone since .... It was so easy to be with him... So we still had dinners by the fireplace(snuggled really close up against each other it's how we both liked it ) went to parties and he would run baths for me, cook for me , we"d talk for hours, a few nights a week or more then we would climb into bed and cuddle only.... big smiles on our faces and happy relaxed sighs .. I actually miss him a lot ... Sniff 😪 he was like sunshine and rainbows and fresh as a summer breeze that's how naturally high I felt in his prescience... We laughed about our failed attempt at connecting sexually like it really didn't matter to either of us as we Were so glad that we were able to get past that sex stuff and remain as close as we did on such a deep level at the time He was so cool .....heavy sigh 😔 I knew very well at the time I had a rare and wonderful thing going 🌈🌊🌠🌺✨Lucky me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Have to correct it - presence not prescience.. - ah feel better now...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    How did that turn out, Damselfly2?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hello ..insert profile name....I liked your profile and while I don't want to bonk your brains out,I noticed that you had big strong arms...so my question is,are you up for a cuddle only scenario? ..ps I do give great cuddle BTW,I come with my own rather large pillows if you find that enticing xxFreya

  • compressor

    compressor

    10 years ago

    should not be hard I would think. I would be happy to chat and cuddle a lady no worries. if that is what you would like then contact me as I am genuine

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Would you like your cock teased ? No thanks ! I think it would only work in a pre existing long standing non sexual friendship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm available to be a cuddle buddy if anyone is looking. I'm in Sydney in May for a week if any ladies in Sydney want a short term cuddle buddy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have been a cuddly buddy for someone - many many years ago. He was a -male- friend going through some rough time and I frequently visited him, stayed the night, gave him cuddles, stroke his hair helping to go to sleep (he was suffering with insomnia amongst other issues), but never had sex with him. Never intended - we were close friends but I did not fancy him - and he was aware. I had my own life and own my circle of friends but every second weekend I was over at his place, providing the moral and emotional support -to keep him holding on -so to say. This went on for about 6months when "reinforcement" in shape of his family finally arrived and I had to relocate. We stayed in touch but sadly his condition turned from bad to worse and one blurry dawn I was woken by a frantic phone call informing me that my friend died. It was an unavoidable loss but knowing that I have been able to provide some comfort and support for him via the simple power of a hug, cuddle in his hours of need - helped me come to terms with his death. A cuddle is powerful - even when we have no power over what is happening - a cuddle from a friend can worth much more than a night of passionate lovemaking.

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