RHP

RHP User

F49

Position Available: Cuddle Buddy

July 17 2014

. Guys: What chance to I have of getting a male cuddle buddy. God and HOW hard is that going to be to filter! How would you even prevent getting into a situation where they didnt change their mind I've been trying to find posts on cuddling and I am surprised to find that no-one has tagged a post with cuddle. What are the chances that you would get a cuddle buddy? Yes I'm serious! :P My profile covers a reasonable variety of things, but for the last 6 months or so I've been thinking about a cuddle buddy. I guess usually it might be the person you've just slept with. But that's not my question. So many things to think about so Has anyone done this or been one???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A cuddle buddy is exactly what I could enjoy right now. I'm working through some issues and I've been urged not to date. Plus to be honest, I find cuddling a lot more intimate - though I'm working on changing that but that's still a while away. Been celibate for last 4 months and finding life a lot better. Unfortunately, I'm finding too often that because I only cuddle it ultimately causes feelings of rejection in me not pursuing sex to show you that you are desirable... or possibly I've not met the right lady yet (as too often I also find not dominating for sex also leads to loss of respect, and you end up with the same drama just different). However, either way I do miss physical contact and cuddles would be nice once in a while. I also make a great coffee in the morning :) Anyway, if there's any ladies in Perth who can keep it in their panties, I'd be happy to hear from you :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I believe the position you're looking to fill is "Eunuch". Not many around now days. In an intimate situation like that it would be on like donkey kong in about 5 mins... Anyone who tells you they will be your cuddle buddy is in all likelihood trying to get into your pants.That being said, I would love to be your cuddle buddy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If there's a cuddly female in perth let me know. But be warned i do tend to grab tge boobies. I think cuddles are more of a personal thing than sex. Its about comfort to be that close to someone to fall asleep in there arms feel safe and secure - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "Eunuch"... so a man not interested in sex is effectively castrated? Ever consider "real men" are in touch with their feelings, and don't play with their balls like a bunch of school yard kids. And have you heard terms such as demisexual and asexual. Though I hesitate to say likely not... they're big words for a boy. I guess you play into society's view that all men are good for in relationships are sex... see the following for some insight: http://thethinkingasexual.wordpress.com/2012/04/12/male-asexuality-and-its-challenge-to-masculinity/ But my guess is you'll be distracted by internet porn before making it to the end of the article. I warn you, it does contain some "big boy" words :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If I lived close by you'd happily find one.. I have done so in the past with very close female friends. There is a sense of intimacy and closeness with this that nothing can compare to or come close to. I always considered it to be a strength of character that one can give something and not expect a sexual benefit in return. Hope you find your CB Damselfly

  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    I would love to have a cuddle buddy! But I have found this isn't the place to find platonic friends, unfortunately. 😕

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'OF_78' A cuddle buddy is exactly what I could enjoy right now. I'm working through some issues and I've been urged not to date. Plus to be honest, I find cuddling a lot more intimate - though I'm working on changing that but that's still a while away. Been celibate for last 4 months and finding life a lot better. Unfortunately, I'm finding too often that because I only cuddle it ultimately causes feelings of rejection in me not pursuing sex to show you that you are desirable... or possibly I've not met the right lady yet (as too often I also find not dominating for sex also leads to loss of respect, and you end up with the same drama just different). However, either way I do miss physical contact and cuddles would be nice once in a while. I also make a great coffee in the morning :) Anyway, if there's any ladies in Perth who can keep it in their panties, I'd be happy to hear from you :) I am that old that a hard on will not happen. I am warm and squishy and I really just go to sleep , but i might snore is that a deal breaker I can even wear a onesie if ya like or a flannel night gown and my hair in rollers, just to kill the mood. I would kill for a cuddle buddy I had one when I was in my twenties he was the town root rat. He hit on me once and I started to laugh and said is that it, is that what all the women are going nuts for? we became flat mates, and women came and went by the truck load but he would come to my bed we would both be naked and curl up and sleep, we never kissed or were intimate in any way shape or form it was so nice and I felt safe and warm when he came to my bed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love cuddling. There's something about being next to someone, legs intertwined, lighty drawing patterns on there skin with your finger tips that is so relaxing and peaceful. Usually tends to lead to making out and then sometimes more... but it doesn't always have to. just connecting with someone on a for lack of a better word spiritual level is a nice feeling in itself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It is one of the simple and nice things in life.Just to hold onto another. yes yes yes, I know. Sex comes into it, but if you can still have that at times the cuddle has a very special place too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Letsteamup' It is one of the simple and nice things in life.Just to hold onto another. yes yes yes, I know. Sex comes into it, but if you can still have that at times the cuddle has a very special place too.

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