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Skinny or curvy - what do you prefer??
February 17 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
If curvy is code for fat then no. I like a healthy weight which is probably a bit leaner than the current "average" but I also like fit, so if that means a few extra pounds I can live with that. Above all it's character that wins the day some people just shine so bright you don't look at the bod. I find this current American obsession with big asses totally weird, I mean arse implants for fucks sake ? Pass.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm just going to point out that thin does not automatically equal unhealthy. Personal preferences are one thing, making negative assumptions about people's health and other traits based solely on their body size is another. Skinny-bashing is as unattractive as fat-bashing.
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Cheekyarses
10 years ago
We are all so different - short, tall, skinny, fat, muscular, fit, flabby, bald, have tattoos, don't have tattoos, kids, no kids - the list is endless... What I may be attracted too the next person won't be. I look for a good person, with a great personality, who can make me laugh, hold a conversation and they make an effort to stay in touch. So does curvy or skinny bother me - nope - if your nice to me I'm nice to you :-) Mrs C - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I didn't see any skinny bashing going on? Anyway, guys just like naked women, full stop. If I was a guy, I think I would like a curvy lady. Just my preference.
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Seachange
10 years ago
I concur. Didnt read the OP doing any skinny bashing. welcome to the forum minxy. Anyway, back on topic Just like my taste in men I prefer some meat on my lovers. So if I was a man, curvy all the way. But not obese. Just my preference. Lots to slap. Ha ha.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Saw the topic heading and thought it was yet another cock topic hahahaha
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AUS_PlayTime
10 years ago
Could I hazzard an answer of neither? There are things I can do with a curvy lady that they love which would be uncomfortable to a thinner lady.There are positions possible with a thinner lady which are restrictive to a more curvy lady.They both have relative strengths and weaknesses. As such, personally if I was to choose a physical characteristic I would say "flexible". I enjoy a variety of positions and a compatible partner in that respect is SOOO much better than body type. Also, as I am a reasonably fit and tall man I can usually "manhandle" my partners irrespective of their body type making it near irrelevant. Hope my contribution helps,Mr Taikun
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was the comment.I don't like skinny,I like healthy..Which implies that skinny is unhealthy..that LD found to be skinny bashing....I prefer big open minds,to small closed ones...just my sexual preference xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
No not meaning fat, I mean a woman who has curves as in hips, defined waist and breasts, not a straight up & down woman. If curvy is code for fat then no. I like a healthy weight which is probably a bit leaner than the current "average" but I also like fit, so if that means a few extra pounds I can live with that. Above all it's character that wins the day some people just shine so bright you don't look at the bod. I find this current American obsession with big asses totally weird, I mean arse implants for fucks sake ? Pass. Quoting '50zcool' If curvy is code for fat then no. I like a healthy weight which is probably a bit leaner than the current "average" but I also like fit, so if that means a few extra pounds I can live with that. Above all it's character that wins the day some people just shine so bright you don't look at the bod. I find this current American obsession with big asses totally weird, I mean arse implants for fucks sake ? Pass.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You all seem to get hot headed quickly in there, I am not skinny bashing or fat bashing at all. I define healthy as being of a normal weight, eating the right foods and being active & exercising, not someone who is just thin naturally and can eat whatever you like & doesn't exercise. You can a great range of sizes and still be active & healthly. My whole thread is never to criticise any other woman at all, we are our harshest critics anyway. I also believe I am open minded & not small minded at all :))
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you koko & lilyorchid for your welcome and replies. Yes I guess that most men would like love any naked women they can get their hands on. Sorry if taken so long to reply as I didn't see it up in my stream till this afternoon.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great attitude to take onboard cheekyarses. Yes looks may initially attract people, but you still need to click & that comes down to personality & how social they are also & that sexual vibe they put out that turns you on.
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Plain
10 years ago
I remember in an era where everyone was lean, I was always with the bigger girls and it didnt worry me and to this day it remains so. I quote from my Grand mother who was always curvy and apologies upfront to those that may be offended " at least with the plump girls you know what you are getting, the boys that go after the slimmer girls are having an each way bet on their sexuality" a very rough paraphrasing indeed.Especially partially hidden curves they will always get me interested!!.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am over weight because I eat too much and I do not move enough. I have two girls one eats like a horse and is skinny the other just looks at food and puts it in. Both run, swim and ride bikes. You can be unhealthy at any weight. But the extreme end of the spectrum can indicate an eating disorder. My dad would say have you ever seen an obese person in a concentration camp? When you lack food you loose weight no matter what your metobolic rate is. My body is falling to bits as gravity takes its hold, but it's as comfortable as a well worn pair of slipper.so in the end it's how we feel about our bodies that count. We have to look at it every day. And what others think of our body will come down to individual taste. We can't do a thing about others views on us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
like the Thread with the sixpacks. Same applies. Might be nice to look at the perfect body but if they have nothing between the ears, it becomes an airy fuck........of course......!!
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Seachange
10 years ago
Since when is curvey a code for fat? I have curves. Big boobs but skinny hips and my bum is taut. I exercise daily sometimes very hard but can't shake the boob size. So I consider myself either average or athletic. I don't know how other rhp people I have met view me. Does it make a difference to how i view myself. No. But prefer the term curvey. Sounds kinder And sexier. Lol. Cheers. ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' It was the comment.I don't like skinny,I like healthy..Which implies that skinny is unhealthy..that LD found to be skinny bashing....Exactly. If the OP hadn't insinuated that being skinny means you're unhealthy I wouldn't have an issue, or at least not enough of one to bother commenting. She says she's not judging but she clearly is making certain negative judgements about people who don't fit her own big-breasted, big-assed ideal body type. As I said I don't care what personal preferences you have when it comes to attraction, but unless you're someone's GP / other treating health professional then try not to make assumptions about them beyond what you're qualified for.
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aussian43
10 years ago
I find curvy ladies more attractive than slim ones. I don't like the word fat because of all the negative associations with it, BBW is a term I prefer to use, but I do find some woman that are classed that to be very attractive. Part of it may be they tend to have larger breasts, but they feel so good when you wrap your arms around them and hug them, or just lying together cuddling. And their jiggly bits jiggle nicely!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd be willing to bet that if someone on here posted an OP using the phrase ''I don't like curvy / big / fat, I like healthy'', there would have been no ''WTFs??'' in relation to seeing the problem.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been with women curvy and thin it depends on the night if you connect and have a fun night together.I have meet some nice girls who are curvy
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Quoting 'Plain' the boys that go after the slimmer girls are having an each way bet on their sexuality" What the??
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'thepeach' I am over weight because I eat too much and I do not move enough. I have two girls one eats like a horse and is skinny the other just looks at food and puts it in. Both run, swim and ride bikes. You can be unhealthy at any weight. But the extreme end of the spectrum can indicate an eating disorder. My dad would say have you ever seen an obese person in a concentration camp? When you lack food you loose weight no matter what your metobolic rate is. My body is falling to bits as gravity takes its hold, but it's as comfortable as a well worn pair of slipper.so in the end it's how we feel about our bodies that count. We have to look at it every day. And what others think of our body will come down to individual taste. We can't do a thing about others views on us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' I'd be willing to bet that if someone on here posted an OP using the phrase ''I don't like curvy / big / fat, I like healthy'', there would have been no ''WTFs??'' in relation to seeing the problem. I was never insinuating that skinny is unhealthy at all & how you perceive what I wrote comes back to you & how you think not what I wrote. Maybe this is why I don't usually participate in forums, so easy for things to get interpreted differently from how it was meant to come accross when written. No I wasn't being negative or critical of any body size or shape at all, sorry if you feel otherwise.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'anywhichway007' like the Thread with the sixpacks. Same applies. Might be nice to look at the perfect body but if they have nothing between the ears, it becomes an airy fuck........of course......!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Saw the topic heading and thought it was yet another cock topic hahahaha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Aren't the top 3 usually young women? Everyone looks gorgeous in their 20's. All that healthy glowing skin, shiny hair, white teeth and lovely sparkly eyes. Those were the days. Now you can count the rings around my belly to work out how old I am.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Loads of men like smaller breasted women. Or slim builds. I love those smaller breasts that look like ski jumps. Gawd I would absolutely love to have a pair of boobs like that.
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
I fit clothes better.... I'm always healthy whatever weight I am because I eat healthily and exercise regularly. I'm attracted to girls that are sexy and clean and have a great personality- curves or skinny I like both 😋💅 Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Violetincredible' I fit clothes better.... I'm always healthy whatever weight I am because I eat healthily and exercise regularly. I'm attracted to girls that are sexy and clean and have a great personality- curves or skinny I like both 😋💅 Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Aren't the top 3 usually young women? Everyone looks gorgeous in their 20's. All that healthy glowing skin, shiny hair, white teeth and lovely sparkly eyes. Those were the days. Now you can count the rings around my belly to work out how old I am. Agree with what you write but there are a lot of women in their 20's that despite everything are very self conscious & can't see that. I think that is why younger guys find older women so attractive, we are more comfortable in our own skin and willing to experiment & be open without the ever pressing biological clock ticking so we aren't out to just get a man to marry. We want to have fun & enjoy life & all the sexual experiences that come with it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Loads of men like smaller breasted women. Or slim builds. I love those smaller breasts that look like ski jumps. Gawd I would absolutely love to have a pair of boobs like that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Since when is curvey a code for fat? I see the term curvy all over the forums, and to me it appears to be used to describe BB (Big and Beautiful) women more often than not, so I see 50kool's point. Over time I've seen a lot of comments about skinny (I detest that word) women, and they are rarely positive. Body shaming is alive and well on the forums. My personal fave: Skinny chicks versus real women. Just plain insulting. OP, I think I see what you meant to say and personally I favour tall women around a size twelve, with soft hips and breasts. However their mind that can make my physical preferences go right out the window.
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RHP User
10 years ago
while stick figure thin has its benefits, curves in the right places do it for me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
A lady with curves are the hottest - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
but really? I would never have associated curvey to that but that is my experience. there ya go 50Ozcool. I stand corrected.... . Obviously a precedence has been set and another addition to my list of the rhp speak, euphemisms, etc that I need to be aware of in here. Note to self, be more attentive.
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Newday10
10 years ago
There's nothing more sexy than a Curvy woman with a great personality .
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JDM76
10 years ago
I have never been with a woman under size 12 , love hips , love curves , love the softness , love the curvy bottom , love the way the breasts spill out , love the shape when it is in a dress ,love the curve in the back , they are my physical weaknesses , And these attributes really get amplified with a confident " i'm sexy as f**k and i don't care what you think " attitude . In the immortal words of that famous philosopher Sir Mix-A-Lot 36" 24 " 36" only if she's 5 ft 3.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Anyone who's been around a while would see a fat vs skinny thread coming up the moment they read the OP. Minxyxx - when you say "I don't like skinny, I like healthy.", you are saying one is not the other. You don't mean it, but that's definitely what you said. Don't worry about it though - it will all blow over (or be deleted) in a few days. I have to agree with 50zcool and Meander too, whenever I read curvy around here I assume it means "well over the ideal weight for my height".
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
I like both....... slim/athletic girls with curves..... curves in the places and proportions that I like.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I didn't see any skinny bashing going on? Anyway, guys just like naked women, full stop. If I was a guy, I think I would like a curvy lady. Just my preference. Hit the nail on its head - naked is the main preference :-) Yes, healthy is important, and obese is just as bad as anorexic. Anyway, we should focus on the positive aspects of human body. I have had only partners with curvy or largger bodies, so it would be nice to experience skinny partner with breast of size B or smaller
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I think of curvy I get a picture of the timeless beauty that was Marilyn Monroe. She was supposedly a size 14, but one of the sexiest women ever. I've been bigger and I've been smaller, at my ideal weight for me now, but we are all beautiful in our own way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Loads of men like smaller breasted women. Or slim builds. I love those smaller breasts that look like ski jumps. Gawd I would absolutely love to have a pair of boobs like that. I call those "horns" - makes me horny just thinking abut it... but to be perfectly honest - yours are just as beautiful...
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I actually like me, all of me, ok maybe not all of me, but most of me and I don't give a rats arse what anyone else thinks of me. I think we judge ourselves enough, without letting others do it too....To tell you the truth I'm far more than a body and if someone doesn't like me or want to play with me because of my body, then I really wouldn't want to play with them anyway....💋
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inspirit
10 years ago
a sizzling quick witted brunette will always get my pick As for the shape - looks are my preference and how well they hold themselves. yes I am a tad shallow - like us all!
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RHP User
10 years ago
A body that is in shape, whether that's slim or curvy.muscular. To me, it reflects that a person exercises and leads an active lifestyle and they are traits that I am attracted to as it is reflective of my own lifestyle. Doesn't have to be in the gym 5 days a week or be a gym junkie, but a body that exercises is what I prefer
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Since when is curvey a code for fat? I see the term curvy all over the forums, and to me it appears to be used to describe BB (Big and Beautiful) women more often than not, so I see 50kool's point. Over time I've seen a lot of comments about skinny (I detest that word) women, and they are rarely positive. Body shaming is alive and well on the forums. My personal fave: Skinny chicks versus real women. Just plain insulting. OP, I think I see what you meant to say and personally I favour tall women around a size twelve, with soft hips and breasts. However their mind that can make my physical preferences go right out the window. Obviously I am new to the forum scene and no foul has ever been intended at all. I don't see it as fat vs skinny at all, we are all beautiful in our own individual way 7 have our own things that make us sexy. Maybe what I wrote was worded wrong, but never written with malice or to belittle any body shape or size. Not trying to insult anyone at all & I don't like that so many women take it like that. As previously said we are already our own harshest critics, we don't need more. Whatever floats your boat is fine by me. Think I will steer clear of the forums in future lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' When I think of curvy I get a picture of the timeless beauty that was Marilyn Monroe. She was supposedly a size 14, but one of the sexiest women ever. I've been bigger and I've been smaller, at my ideal weight for me now, but we are all beautiful in our own way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I'm naturally more attracted to curves. Give me nigella Lawson over Kate moss any day... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
a question: would you then associate curvey to fat which is to my mind, different from Big and beautiful? I have seen larger size women but all proportioned but really beautiful women but I would not consider them fat. I agree with Koko, Marilyn Monroe is curvey and so is Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield (she was a size 16 apparently). I like these women. they are curvey, and would be considered Big and beautiful,instead of 'skinny' (yes I hate the term but), by today's standards if they were to enter the modelling world. sorry OP. Just curious. thanks meander.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I didn't see anywhere in the OP's question where it was said skinny equating to unhealthy. And I'm sorry but skim people have entirely different issues to more curvy people and "skinny-bashing" as you call it....well that just sucks to be submitted to that as well as "fat-bashing". I've been 52kg and I've been 96kg, I think a healthy weight range can be anything between that for any woman. My weight, like my shoe and radicallly different clothing size range dependant upon country/manufacturer (Sizes 8-20) and yes I've worn a size 20!! is still just a number like my age. How fat any persons head is with maturity, wisdom, intelligence, empathy and charm however would probably be the best way to judge the health of a person. Pretty pictures are subjective to the viewers ideal of what is attractive. Strip away the glamour and quite often what have you got? A big head full of empty space or a well put together human being. I've noticed the same as you OP in the top 3 rankings, just keep in mind some people have a following in the galleries and their followers are loyal and hot the like buttons often, and then there's the RHP Marketing strategy which seeks to promote the perceived idea of what they "THINK" the punters will find attractive. It's the same with cosmetic beauty sites, they never show the fat middle aged wrinkly housewife who got work done to improve her self for herself they ONLY ever show the younger slimer prettier girl with her new "FF" cup titties. 😏 Personally I think there's some smashing curvaceous hot chicks here that shit all over the "ideal" but that's just me. Cheers
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6exxy
10 years ago
I am more attracted to women that are curvy. Se Teta hombre! I love women of all heights but I need to be able to feel you. So bring on the curves!💃🎉💐
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RHP User
10 years ago
All of my lovers have preferred me Curvy and sexy than too skinny. I'm naturally breasted and have a medium build. My partner doesn't complain : )
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Since when is curvey a code for fat? I see the term curvy all over the forums, and to me it appears to be used to describe BB (Big and Beautiful) women more often than not, so I see 50kool's point. Over time I've seen a lot of comments about skinny (I detest that word) women, and they are rarely positive. Body shaming is alive and well on the forums. My personal fave: Skinny chicks versus real women. Just plain insulting. OP, I think I see what you meant to say and personally I favour tall women around a size twelve, with soft hips and breasts. However their mind that can make my physical preferences go right out the window. No body shaming ever intended, I don't believe in that at all, women should support one another & am glad you can see what it was that I meant to say. Sorry to anyone who has taken it otherwise, no insult ever meant at all. Yes I would describe myself as curvy & I am probably a size 10-12, depending on make & what it is I am buying. Curves comes in all shapes & sizes & is not black & white at all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' I didn't see anywhere in the OP's question where it was said skinny equating to unhealthy. And I'm sorry but skim people have entirely different issues to more curvy people and "skinny-bashing" as you call it....well that just sucks to be submitted to that as well as "fat-bashing". I've been 52kg and I've been 96kg, I think a healthy weight range can be anything between that for any woman. My weight, like my shoe and radicallly different clothing size range dependant upon country/manufacturer (Sizes 8-20) and yes I've worn a size 20!! is still just a number like my age. How fat any persons head is with maturity, wisdom, intelligence, empathy and charm however would probably be the best way to judge the health of a person. Pretty pictures are subjective to the viewers ideal of what is attractive. Strip away the glamour and quite often what have you got? A big head full of empty space or a well put together human being. I've noticed the same as you OP in the top 3 rankings, just keep in mind some people have a following in the galleries and their followers are loyal and hot the like buttons often, and then there's the RHP Marketing strategy which seeks to promote the perceived idea of what they "THINK" the punters will find attractive. It's the same with cosmetic beauty sites, they never show the fat middle aged wrinkly housewife who got work done to improve her self for herself they ONLY ever show the younger slimer prettier girl with her new "FF" cup titties. 😏 Personally I think there's some smashing curvaceous hot chicks here that shit all over the "ideal" but that's just me. Cheers
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RHP User
10 years ago
No I'd never think curvy meant overweight in real life (I describe myself as curvy or shapely), I've just become used to the word meaning something different in RHP land. Though isn't the term BB usually reserved for women over a size 18 or something? As for Marilyn, I think she was a size 14 back in the fifties, which is a size 10 nowadays. Looking at pics of Jane Mansfield, I'd say she was no bigger. Two seriously beautiful women, whatever their size was.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think LD and Simon definitely have a point. To say I don't like skinny, I like healthy is insinuating that skinny is unhealthy although I accept that you probably didn't mean it that way Minxy. But you have to agree, if a skinny person was reading that....... that is probably the conclusion they would have come to. I have seen curvy used a few different ways. To describe someone with an shapely hourglass figure to describing someone who is probably in the obese category as per the weight scale the doctors use. So I agree with 50zCool's comment that curvy requires further clarification usually. It also sounds like you are saying a nice big round arse and big boobs are healthy. I will put my hand up to say that I am very curvy (borderline see above comment) with a rounded arse you can happily bounce off as you pound it and very very very generous breasts. Do I find women who look like me sexy? Definitely not always... sexy and attractiveness comes from within usually. Some people have it and others do not. Like I said, I would normally be attracted to someone very different from myself, slim build and ski jump breasts...... now that is HAWT!
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
Sexy people some in all sharps and sizes. Poor oral hygiene is always a turn off, no matter how you package it. Actually there are a few more things on the list of turn offs, bigotry, sexism and egotism.
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Seachange
10 years ago
A baptism of fire it seems? Lol. I did not see any malice but to each his/her perception. We all take in and process what we like to see and our mood at the time. They may not mean it to be personal, well most of the time. it happens to everyone so do not take it to heart. All will pass, and you will be part of the furniture. nice to see new posters. Enjoy the rest of the ride and keep your sense of humour. Lol. Xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
and I notice that only a brave few who have commented have actually expressed their preference. So my response is - I do go that way and I love most women's bodies: I like very slim women with next to no boobs (but I lurve big nipples). I like women with round curvy arses and boobs that fill my hands. I like women who are clearly athletic with definite muscle-tone - that's not size specific - I'm a 16 but I lift and I have visible muscle. I like women who are a cuddly and soft that I can melt into. I do find that I'm not sexually attracted to very large women... The thing that really gets me is confidence, a cheeky sense of humour, sharp wit, and sexiness which is obvious to all but pretty much impossible to define. Now change the above physical characteristics to male ones and you have my tastes in men as well....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey..... I am fat! I won't sugar coat it by saying curvy or voluptuous or BBW or chunky or any of the other phrases that are more politically correct or accepted in our over-sensitive society. I make it very clear what I am so that I don't have anyone say I have misled them and/or wasted their or my time. Until recently I always thought there is no way I could find a man who would actually "want" me, until I considered the fact that I like men who are big! When I thought about this was when I realised that there actually could be men out there who could find me attractive after all. And guess what? There are plenty LOL It is, after all is said and done, a very personal preference!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lovin it, hit it on the head..... We are our biggest critics and women are the worst, I love my shape, and if it's not appealing to another, their mentality wouldn't appeal to mine.... I'm also selective/shallow, call it what you like, but if I was Into the ladies, I'd want something to hang onto, something to get my mouth around, flesh you can really sink your teeth into..... Gently of course ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Definitely a curvy woman, want one now actually - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
I think your thread was well posted so no need to be harsh on yourself. You promoted an interesting topic and certainly no reason to avoid the forums. I think we'll done and don't stay away. Annie xx
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Plain
10 years ago
Lost in translation meant to be "men who liked women with boyish builds were having an each way bet."It was originally in another language so WTF is warranted so sorry.
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compressor
10 years ago
does it not depend on the person as some people look great skinny or chubby while others do not carry it so well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' I didn't see anywhere in the OP's question where it was said skinny equating to unhealthy. To directly quote the original OP, once again. "I don't like skinny, I like healthy.'' I'm not sure how else you interpret that in your world (you don't need to tell me), but it's pretty clear to me. Plus as Meander pointed out, body shaming of thinner women is very prevalent on these forums. It's taboo to say anything negative about ''curvy'' women and they are praised to high heaven (which is fine), but it seems thin women are fair game for judgemental, negative comments. Yes, since then the OP has clarified that she poorly worded her OP and it wasn't really what she meant, but that wasn't information I was in possession of when I posted my initial comments. So, with all due respect On_Safari, don't patronise me with your ''gentle LD''s or any other comment on how I should be behaving. Save those little tidbits of advice for people who might find them constructiveI in some way. Thanks.And once again I'm bowing out of this mess. Y'all have a great time now .
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RHP User
10 years ago
Another reason I'm thankful I was born a man
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RHP User
10 years ago
..... I prefer Rubeneque to androgynous ..... small waist and big boobs .... I have often wondered if this is a familial stereotype thing ? ..... all the women in my family are blond and buxom ...... I hope that all my aunts and cousins have stopped reading RHP forums .... lol (think that I may have just given myself away there ...lol) ...Q. as men .... are we programmed to choose women that 'look' like a healthy breeding partner ? i.e. Oestrogen filled breasts, healthy pallor ..... and meat on the bones for a long winter in the love cave ...lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
If its friendship then I don't care what you look like, don't care about age, don't care as long as you are interesting. If its for lust then its your mind first, then it has to be that you find me attractive and someone you can lust after. Then your body, but at this stage there is not much choice is there. I don't know how many people actually get to chose the type of body they get to have sex with. If I can I want 22year old perfectly toned athletic body with wide hips and gravity defying tits, dancer's legs, deep soul filled eyes, and a brain the size of a planet. Anything less and I am sorry, I don't want to fuck ya.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Minxyxxx' .... Think I will steer clear of the forums in future lol.Nah don't do that. I once accidentally created an anti-smoker thread, you should have seen that shit fight. Consider it a learning experience and move on. I haven't answered the question by the way because it's not important what I like. There's men for all body types, and if you are not my type who cares? There will be dozens of other guys banging down your door.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ok so curvy was a bit of a curve ball but I bet there is a male equivalent, how do men sell the beergut ? Chunky ? Oh, I reckon slim is a better word than skinny, skinny implies the ribs are starting to show, although in my case I think scrawny fits.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am what one would call curvy - and I don't hide it. I never wore spandex or similar "support" devices to make my muffin top disappear - simply because I do not care it is there. As someone who cycles 3x a week, jogs 2x a week and aims to get 2xswim sessions in a week (I do sometimes lag on the swim but hey I survive) I consider myself to be fit and strong enough- with plenty of muscle and padding as well. I am not perfect - we all have imperfections and I do have plenty :) I find that men have a LOT OF IDEALs..and it is not just body shape...how tall you are..how big- or small the "girls" are, do you shave your ladypart (if yes then why not natural or if not shaved then ooohh grosss) what colour are your toenails are...I mean seriously...just chill and relax and learn to put up with the fact that no one is perfect in real life :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'On_Safari' I didn't see anywhere in the OP's question where it was said skinny equating to unhealthy. To directly quote the original OP, once again. "I don't like skinny, I like healthy.'' I'm not sure how else you interpret that in your world (you don't need to tell me), but it's pretty clear to me. Plus as Meander pointed out, body shaming of thinner women is very prevalent on these forums. It's taboo to say anything negative about ''curvy'' women and they are praised to high heaven (which is fine), but it seems thin women are fair game for judgemental, negative comments. Yes, since then the OP has clarified that she poorly worded her OP and it wasn't nreally what she meant, but that wasn't information I was in possession of when I posted my initial comments. So, with all due respect On_Safari, don't patronise me with your ''gentle LD''s or any other comment on how I should be behaving. Save those little tidbits of advice for people who might find them constructiveI in some way. Thanks.And once again I'm bowing out of this mess. Y'all have a great time now . Being written text when we read it we place our own emotional spin onto it. I didn't write it as this vs this at all & was never my intent to have it read that way. So maybe I could have worded it better, but as it wasn't written with any malice or criticism over body shapes or sizes I didn't think to change the wording as I read it how I saw it. Have now been filled in very quickly on here how things can get interpreted lol & hopefully I will not make that mistake ever again. All bodies are beautiful & there will always be guys who will want to please, tease & indulge us sexually no matter what our bodies look like :)))
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' When I think of curvy I get a picture of the timeless beauty that was Marilyn Monroe. She was supposedly a size 14, but one of the sexiest women ever. I've been bigger and I've been smaller, at my ideal weight for me now, but we are all beautiful in our own way.
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PL1963
10 years ago
In my eyes there is nothing better than giving a sensual full body massage to a "curvy" lady, nice size boobies and a nicely rounded butt. I think curvy ladies seem to appreciate it more too. I love to relax a lady and make her feel "special", I find the lady is then more responsive sexually that way. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So I think I will happily carry on making my mind up. So far though I would have to say keepitsimples description of her preference is pretty much on the money for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Fragile egos and victim mentality. We have it all here in RHP. Unfortunately healthy debate and acceptance of differences in opinion seems to be on the decline. How literal people can be "picking apart" every word used to ask a question until the innocence and genuine curiosity of it is lost and the OP is taken to task about the wording used because why? Someone's fragile ego or reading/interpretation of the question is antagonistic or they need to be the only one who's opinion counts/matters? And if someone level headedly disagrees they have their posts removed? Ppffft. I love you Mods really I do but there's too many twitchy fingers around here. Curvy or skinny? I like "healthy" too OP, especially mentally; a "healthy" body with the right proportions as any individual prefers them to their own preferences, likes, tastes and ideal. So yes I LIKE HEALTHY BODIES
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'treegirl' Lovin it, hit it on the head..... We are our biggest critics and women are the worst, I love my shape, and if it's not appealing to another, their mentality wouldn't appeal to mine.... I'm also selective/shallow, call it what you like, but if I was Into the ladies, I'd want something to hang onto, something to get my mouth around, flesh you can really sink your teeth into..... Gently of course ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Ok so curvy was a bit of a curve ball but I bet there is a male equivalent, how do men sell the beergut ? Chunky ? Oh, I reckon slim is a better word than skinny, skinny implies the ribs are starting to show, although in my case I think scrawny fits. Stocky perhaps??? Yes slim is a better word, but when I wrote it, I didn't have any implications on it & didn't think there would be such a backlash lol. For the record by that definition of skinny, no I wouldn't like it as that would come across as a having a eating disorder & yes scrawny would fit.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you know what I hate? There not being a suitable box to tick for my body type. I'm slim/athletic but curvy. I love the term curvy as I love my curves but I do not want to put myself in the fat camp, as I am not quite there yet. I'm a size 10/12 but 14 in the bust. First world problems, but one I am yet to figure out! Enlighten me if you dare. OP, as it has been suggested before, there will be many men that desire all body types, they are not 1/10th as critical as us women can be. Most as just happy they can get their hands on a live one As a bi woman, I prefer not too large, not too tiny and with some boobage! Mrs PP
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RHP User
10 years ago
Curvy ,,, plain and simple - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The female body is naturally "curvy"...hips, boobs, bum...some big, some small. Having curves doesn't necessarily mean being "overweight". Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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6exxy
10 years ago
Unfortunately this happens a bit. We have someone new post something and they get blindsided by some formites. There are no experts here merely people posting there opinions. Some think there's is more important than others. I thought it was a good post and good on you for sticking up when some tried to bring you down.😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PleasurePurr' you know what I hate? There not being a suitable box to tick for my body type. I'm slim/athletic but curvy. I love the term curvy as I love my curves but I do not want to put myself in the fat camp, as I am not quite there yet. I'm a size 10/12 but 14 in the bust. First world problems, but one I am yet to figure out! Enlighten me if you dare. OP, as it has been suggested before, there will be many men that desire all body types, they are not 1/10th as critical as us women can be. Most as just happy they can get their hands on a live one As a bi woman, I prefer not too large, not too tiny and with some boobage! Mrs PP I love this post, I too am in between 10-12 depending on where you buy clothes & also where you store your weight & can relate to to the odd sz 14 in the bust. I am a traditional 12 atm. I have my own body as average as I too have bits I really don't like & I make sure my pics highlight my best features as I am sure we all do. Women are way more critical than men & even though we may have an ideal in our head what we end up being attracted too & having sex with may not fit that mould at all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Never, ever read a forum topic on body shapes ever again. I thought I was happy with my body, but reading through the responses has made a lot old insecurities come bubbling up to the surface. Been a long time since I've felt so undesirable, and a bit disheartening to realise that my confidence is so easily shaken. Much love, Elle xx PS: OP, I know it wasn't your intention to 'body shame', and my negative reaction to the topic and the responses is my issue to deal with. Welcome to the forums, and don't be scared away :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey minxy. I'd love for you to have him for the night. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Elle67' Never, ever read a forum topic on body shapes ever again. I thought I was happy with my body, but reading through the responses has made a lot old insecurities come bubbling up to the surface. Been a long time since I've felt so undesirable, and a bit disheartening to realise that my confidence is so easily shaken. Much love, Elle xx PS: OP, I know it wasn't your intention to 'body shame', and my negative reaction to the topic and the responses is my issue to deal with. Welcome to the forums, and don't be scared away :) Please don't feel like that You are absolutely gorgeous but I'm not negating the fact that slim women like you have as much negativity to deal with as bigger women like me do. It's just that's it's not PC to pick on fat chicks, slim women are the last bastion of political correctness because you're supposed to have it all. I fucking hate body shaming in all it's forms...
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On_Safari
10 years ago
We all have body insecurities, guys do too. But I'll say the same to you as I did to Keepitsimple the other day. When was the last time you stood naked in a room with a couple/man/men and they ran away screaming? Never right....because they've won the lottery, they're in a room with nekkid!!! Haha and that nekkid looks pretty fine from where I'm standing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Ok so curvy was a bit of a curve ball but I bet there is a male equivalent, how do men sell the beergut ? Chunky ? I've heard 'cuddly' used a fair bit.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'IAmForReal' The female body is naturally "curvy"...hips, boobs, bum...some big, some small. Having curves doesn't necessarily mean being "overweight". Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' We all have body insecurities, guys do too. But I'll say the same to you as I did to Keepitsimple the other day. When was the last time you stood naked in a room with a couple/man/men and they ran away screaming? Never right....because they've won the lottery, they're in a room with nekkid!!! Haha and that nekkid looks pretty fine from where I'm standing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' Quoting 'Elle67' Never, ever read a forum topic on body shapes ever again. I thought I was happy with my body, but reading through the responses has made a lot old insecurities come bubbling up to the surface. Been a long time since I've felt so undesirable, and a bit disheartening to realise that my confidence is so easily shaken. Much love, Elle xx PS: OP, I know it wasn't your intention to 'body shame', and my negative reaction to the topic and the responses is my issue to deal with. Welcome to the forums, and don't be scared away :) Please don't feel like that You are absolutely gorgeous but I'm not negating the fact that slim women like you have as much negativity to deal with as bigger women like me do. It's just that's it's not PC to pick on fat chicks, slim women are the last bastion of political correctness because you're supposed to have it all. I fucking hate body shaming in all it's forms...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Goodtines' Hey minxy. I'd love for you to have him for the night. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Beautiful Miss Minxyxxx , what a mouth..... ;) as On_Safari says, we all have our problem areas, I think some and clearly by the comments I've read, a lot are suffering internally.... To be beautiful on the outside starts from within..... Time some went home and covered their mirrors for a bit, coz what theyre seeing is clouding their judgement of not only others aesthetically,but particularly themselves... Boo hiss!!! :))
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IamMrSilly
10 years ago
Quoting 'Minxyxxx' Lol I stand naked in front of my mirror every morning & I will always be my harshest critic Yes men are insecure about themselves and their perceived gut, lack of bulk, hair line, big ears, you get the idea. I personally avoid mirrors and similar because I realised I will never be happy with what I 'see' in the reflection and instead have to be happy with how I feel when I am not looking in the mirror. And I feel great because the people I have in my life treat me as a beautiful (ok handsome) person. I am not joking, remove the mirrors and it can help so much. Silence the critic. It worked for me.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Curvy and THICK B===D~~
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RHP User
10 years ago
Most definitely curvy just like my double bass curves in all the right places :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Curvy and THICK B===D~~ sounds like a guy I worked with, trying to explain anything to him was just impossible
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RHP User
10 years ago
In a picture of someone can be beautiful or not so. But a picture is but a moment in time and has nothing but lines blobs and shapes. Add life to that image and beauty is something completely different, someone that makes a beautiful static image can be completely unattractive when the eyes are given life and the limbs allowed to move. The image that would not rate at all on the Hot or Not can be in the real world the most attractive of all. Some of us are extraordinarily sexy and so desirable even when the still image does not capture the essence of that perfection. That perfection is in part how that person looks at you, if that gaze is filled with lust, love, desire and need. If the body moves with slow a deliberate invitation, that is true beauty and has nothing to do with shape, age, or colour. I picture can be beautiful and can be rated as that or not. But seldom will that rating be the same if you rate the person as a living breathing human in your presence. Why do so many get so hung up over how they look. Find the people that think you are the most sexy, don't expect everyone to think you are. Nobody is beautiful to all. And worse still, is some destroy their own beauty by being too focused on looking good to all. Pretend perfection is one step toward ugly no matter what shape you are.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like how everyone talks about body shaming but then pick on people that ARE overweight without even knowing it. Not everyone has the body of goddess and in my experiences most that do have the personality of a wet rag because they think they're superior to everyone else. A gross generalisation yes but just going on my experiences (which are actually magnified here believe it or not). My advice, fuck everyone else. If you're happy within yourself, be happy with that. If you're not, do something about it. You can't please everyone, and like usually flocks to like. Its the way of the world unfortunately, we just live in it.
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