M51 F51
Teething problems for newbies
September 21 2018
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RHP User
6 years ago
We've been swinging on and off for 3 years and only played with 2 couples, a handful of guys and have had a few girlfriends, but generally lose them to long term relationships. We now have one female friend that we keep in regular contact with, but we were extremely lucky to find a kindred spirit in her. 99% of our attempts to make contact go nowhere. Even when you have chatted for a while and dates lined up, invariably we get ghosted, presumably for a better offer. You need a thick skin and persistent attitude. We've been told that social meets and parties are a better way to go, but Adelaide doesn't offer much of that. We are time poor and choosy, but I think most couples suffer in the same way. Good luck and hopefully you won't be too disheartened. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Glad to know it is just not us. I, Xanthea, was starting to think girls don't find me attractive, only men. I am also getting worried about who is real - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We love each other and decided to do this together, so we thought we should show some photos together. - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
6 years ago
Check out a few parties, clubs and events. That way you can put a face and life to the profile and chat in person. That way you know if the female profile is really a guy. Kindah try before you take home. Unfortunately there are stepping stones that you have to go over. Some are slippery buggers and others great foundations. Hang in there gud things do not always come kwik. Oh and sometimes many couples see that a single male is not so complicated. Remain positive and not become a bandwagonier and single male bash. There are some absolute gents out there.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have an amazing man and a highly attracted to women. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
in other ways too:For example...I get flirts and messages from "Females" ??? and reply to them.. to let them know I am NOT a "Good Christian Man who is looking for a Permanent Relationship" as their profile says they are looking for..And I get a return telling me to hit them up on some weird site - sexually explicit photos.. *Chuckles*
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have loads of single female friends who tell me how difficult it is to find a man. We come on here and that's at least 50 percent of our response, either that or I only attract men. The first woman who showed interested in Xanthea turned out to be a trans girl. We are still friends but doubt it will go any further. I had no idea it was the other way around too.
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RHP User
6 years ago
With couples and single females, in such a diverse market with multiple options it’s hard to garner and maintain interest. At the moment we’ve encountered an incredibly quiet time, messages and flirts have been sent and we are reaching out but haven’t come across anyone whom is reaching back. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
take your time and get to know people fairly well. We recall chatting to you both - several messages passed back & forth, both on RHP and via Kik. Then you went silent. Perhaps people lead busy lives and get caught up with work and other commitments, and simply move on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I wanted to know how others felt. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We were away for the weekend and tried to reconnect but I guess once the connection is lost.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
from a potential “couple”. We messaged them in return and a couple of messages passed back and forth. They very quickly asked to see our PG ( rings alarm bells for us). We responded that we would gladly open our PG, once they had verified their profile through RHP admin . (As clearly outlined within our profile wording ) . As expected , they vanished into thin air, in a puff, as quickly as they had appeared. Clearly not a real couple. More than likely a photo hunting male. These things happen a lot on here . - Posted from rhpmobile
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Gr8distraction
6 years ago
The let down is the BS. But you'll soon work that shit out. its easy when you. think about it The people that i've met personally from here, whether that be a meet & greet, sharing a meal, having a drink, and just catching up with for laughs make it all worthwhile in knowing that there are genuine people here also. You get the desperate guys, we get the fake profiles.....(generally guys as well )
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are now only taking verified couples for who they say they are. I know a few writers who have considered joining for research purposes, but like me, a lot of them write erotica so decided to take their research all the way. Can only think of institutions and photo collectors for doing it otherwise. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are now only taking verified couples for who they say they are. I know a few writers who have considered joining for research purposes, but like me, a lot of them write erotica so decided to take their research all the way. Can only think of institutions and photo collectors for doing it otherwise. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
i think that one of the problems you have is the fact your a guest and can’t message the ones that you probably should or want to and if they are guest they can’t message you and just play flirts and look at each other’s profiles , being a guest has its drawbacks as we found recently ,if you put a date in datedinder or a guest puts a date in datefinder ,they still can’t message you or you can’t message them ,sound familiar,lol,we hope you make it to meet and greet on the 6th of oct, before people say , pay up and become a member, been there done that and didn’t find any real need or benefits,except once in a blue moon a couple pops up that drives you crazy cos of the guest thing ,🤫,lol, mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are considering that meet and greet but have family commitments the night before which may make it challenging. We are nervous of meet and greets and more so of parties. We were going to m as ke an effort to go to the one with a band on the 6th but it was replaced with one with low music where you need to talk. Dancing is so much easier. You can still talk when you wish. We are waiting for the promised specials that are yet to arrive in our email before we become a member. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
trust us when we say proper meet and greets such as the one in the city such as the oct 6 one are so easy and fun ,it’s more like a big gang of friends catching up with each other and just chatting and laughing talking bout stuff you can’t openly talk about out loud or in public ,no one we have ever known has had hassles or problems ,the worst part about these for new people is taking that first big step and walking in ,once you have done that all your fear and what if’s disappear ,they are simply the best for new people trying to make friends in a totally no pressure environment that sex isn’t on the cards there ,it’s a very liberating thing to go to a meet and greet ,so many questions and worry’s can be answered and put to bed by loads of friendly funny and easy going people ,everyone is just like you and hunter, you will be surprised how easy it is to make great friends in one evening without hooking up for sex (unless you want to)and sometimes that just happens when you least expect it happening mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are nervous of venturing out, but if we can possibly make this social, non play event on the 6th we will try to muster up the courage. I am sick of not knowing who is real and if they are a couple, is their photo recent or 10 years old. I know some think because I am 44, I cannot be as fit as I am and question my authenticity. I am sure you have had the same. This online guessing game is doing my head in. Xanthea xxx
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MsJonesy
6 years ago
Behind the screen is the most difficult way to form opinions on people and on swinging as a whole. Make the effort to get to the meet & greet, it will save you months of online turmoil, months of hopeless online chats and false leads. Its a social event, a party, a relaxed and easy way to chat with people and learn more about the scene. Going to a meet & greet quite early in my time here was the best thing I did... and I even had the courage to fly to Qld for it (as a single woman, now that's courageous!), and knew one person who was going to the event. If I can do that, you can jump on the south eastern freeway and come meet a great bunch of people. 😊
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
best thing you can do ,and we know exactly what you mean about doing your head in. about guessing games hence why our profile says about mainly only meeting at partys or social events that we are already going to ,where you can assess so much more when you are face to face ,we were going crazy,before we went that way ,make a couple of friends at one meet and greet and your whole world opens up with connections and a tribe to hang with like a security blanket until your confidence is up and about ,best thing about meet and greets, some you connect with and want to go to the next level and some your form a different relationship and bond with them as great freinds and that ever reliable ear and friendly face ,that puts you at ease and is the voice of reason mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Thank you both. I definitely want to go to a meet and greet. Hopefully this one if my family commitments allow. Otherwise, a future one. Mr B, I was confused about that part of your profile. Thanks for explaining. It now makes sense. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have a question is it normal for a husband to invite another into a 3some without her knowing? For example her back is turned she wants to know friend or stranger? I would be upset if I said no to a stranger and he did it anyway? Is this common? - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
the end to swinging for us if i did that and rightly so ,plain and simply wrong mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
6 years ago
That would be a no no in my books. Sounds like he got carried away and didn't think about your views, which is disrespectful. Not the first time that sort of thing has happened in the swinging world. Talk about it, then talk some more.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have heard of one partner surrising the other with a threesome but not after they had already said no. I have also neard of people saying no on here, meeting by chance in real life and changing their mind. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
it happens lots ,on here no match and think thanks but no thanks for what ever reason ,bald ,chubby ,to young, too old ,too good looking not good looking enough ,but meet them at an event ( mg)and you just clique like bread and butter ,and you think wow ,didn’t expect that ,and quite the opposite sometimes you think you going to see x who ticks all the buttons in every department and nope nada nothing and just shake your head think bleh pffft ,sometimes you just can’t predict it and sometimes that’s the fun part just flying by the seat of your pants. and what will be will be mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I like that. I will pretend that is the reason some of our flirts have been turned down😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
i suffer that also ,mrs bid is batting above her weight ,lmao as far as flirts not being jumped on ,might be like us and can only respond with a stupid assed flirt back or more likely in your profile you do not list swap partner for sex at all , which is fine but isn’t what many people you are flirting with are looking for ,we had this when we were starting out mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We have lost many for the no swapping reason and are cool with that. It isn't something I can commit to as yet. I want to see how I go with the rest first. Sadly, we have chatted with some pushy guys who tried to push us into that. There are so many other things 4 people can do than just swap partners. Imagination can run wild and work up to many things. We want a marathon, not a sprint, and with loads and loads of training :D
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
you do what you want that makes it fun for you and your partner ,we were always clear on our soft boundary and had little trouble, people were always polite ,as we were very up front ,and little by little we met couples who just melted the boundaries without pushing ,it just happened ,and it’s thanks to those people with there care and understanding they gave us we enjoy swinging today ,if we were pushed uncomftably ,i dare say we would have called it quits ,and not for us ,do it for for yourselves and talk lots ,there is a way to push people and their boundary’s a nice way to help them along and help them over a hurdle ,and a selfish way to only get what is beneficial to them and that’s no good for anything but a slap in the face mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Considering this is a site that in theory, should bypass all the other frustrating issues that vanilla dating sites have. I've found it to be way more frustrating than the other sites. On the very rare occasion that you're able to communicate to a woman you're attracted to with in travelling distance, then the chances of actually getting to meet that person become even more miniscule. I was recently chatting to a gorgeous single & we arranged a meet that went belly up at her end. We communicated for a day or two after & I've been ghosted since then & have no clue or explanation why. I can only assume that her impromptu evening of baby sitting nephews/nieces was something else entirely. I'll always value honesty & open communication over avoidance & mystery. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Honesty makes everything easier. I hope you find the single lady you're looking for.
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
not being smarty pants ,but how do you know she was a woman ,that’s the hardest thing that happens here, when your not face to face or know someone that can verify them ,could be anyone on the other end of the keypad telling you what you want to here , mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
I rarely look at them let alone open and reply. If this was a single males profile you would have been told by 20 people to pay for a membership by now and send messages instead. And verification doesn't meant squat until you meet the person. I've met 4 people on this thread alone and couldn't tell you if they were verified or not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
verify as if in vouch for them as someone that has met them like a friend. of a friend sort of thing ,not the tick of rhp approval if that makes sense - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
"We are now only taking verified couples for who they say they are. I know a few writers who have considered joining for research purposes, but like me, a lot of them write erotica so decided to take their research all the way. Can only think of institutions and photo collectors for doing it otherwise"
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RHP User
6 years ago
Just working things out - Posted from rhpmobile
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FredAndGinger2
6 years ago
We have been on RHP for about 3 years and it's been awesome!! RHP is much more than a website - it's a huge community of great people and great events. We have met hundreds of people at meet and greets and we've been to dozens of other events. We also meet couples on a 2 on 2 scenario over drinks or dinner at least once per month and we're thoroughly enjoying everything that RHP offers. We have met dozens of couples that we now call good friends and most have been to our home and met our kids too. It did take us about a year to get comfortable. Here's our formula: - Verified profiles only - these are the only people we agree to swap pics or meet in person. Everyone else could easily be hiding behind a fake profile - Look for profiles that also have friends and friend validations - validations from other credible profiles provide even more confidence that the profile accurately represents the people behind the profile - Go to the social meet and greet events- it's the only way to really get to know people without spending a fortune on lots on date nights meetups. The meet and greet events are not dauntimg. We host social meet and greet events and we attend many other's social meet and greet events too. We've spoken with and friended many couples new to the scene. Get along to one and meet many great people. Be prepared to get your social side amped up with many awesome people. One more thing- a huge thanks to all event organisers that put in a huge amount of effort to make meeting people fun and easy. - Fred and Ginger - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are also new to this and are experiencing the same issues. Finding another couple we both like (and they mutually like us) is complicated enough. We think the single women seeking a couple are few and far between. We set up dates to find people who don't match tier profile - not even close! Then we've turned up to arranged dates just to get stood up. It must take a lot of time and patience! J & K
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ive found some guys and I do say some want a relationship. There is a bit of bullying here to meet a guy, get my number or be on Kik. My profile is transparent I think. At times messages confuse me lol I flag it and move on. Rhp has serviced me well. I agree there are a few attached and married ppl here. Not my business I know. Is not easy to pick fakes but Ive found most sexy pics of guys are googled. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I can definitely feel the difference on RHP as a 'single male' and I think I have an ever further barrier as I am in a long-term committed relationship (here with her knowledge) and this seems to throw women off, even in as liberal a time that we live in. I have much more success with woman face-to-face. This online stuff I find very difficult... it's hard to communicate honesty and sincerity effectively, particularly with the whole 'males are a dime a dozen' mentality... which isn't exactly wrong. I honestly feel I would have more 'luck' using a couples account as this seems to send out a 'I'm not a creep vibe, even though my partner is only interested in playing under particular circumstances/scenarios. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tamrah_Zenzar
6 years ago
We are from a small town near emerald in qld .Would anyone no if there are swingers clubs or parties in emerald or rockhampton - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm very new to this site, and I'm still feeling the waters... it's a learning experience..ty for your informative feedbacks - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a rule anyone serious about meeting for a drink will go to the effort of verification. This applies to all swinging websites. The majority of profiles are fake. By that I mean disingenuous of the stated intention. Experience and time will build confidence in the platform. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I love Fred and Ginger's formula and we may very well follow your example. - Posted from rhpmobile
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CoastCouple2018
6 years ago
Nice to reach out with your concern. We have thought the same thing, but persistence andnot getting down about it is the key. Something will happen when the right lady or couple come along
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MsBlissBombs
6 years ago
7 months on here and have met some lovely people. Not all meets go on to be anything more than a catch up. But overall I've found it a very positive experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Oh you guys interstate are so lucky to have all of these meet and greets! Wish we had the same culture in Adelaide. It's very underground here. Might as will live in a barrel...lol. And all of you women in your 40s calling yourself old...stop it now. Please! 😜 Mrs Red - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
My first 8 months of being on rhp was the biggest learning curve of my life. It was mind blowing, exhausting, frustrating and tiring, I've had more misses than hits, but have made a few good cyber friends. Along the way I have given advice to new guys to help them out with their profile or approach messages. So many have profiles that honestly are useless. RHP could be 1000x better, but unfortunately it's all about that dollar. Themed events and greet & meets are the quickest & easiest way to wade though the lists. Plus alot of fun can be had, as long as you make the effort to mingle. - Posted from rhpmobile
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tigeasr
6 years ago
Totally understand and have had the same issues ourselves We have been to a few meets now, we find it better as you tend to find if your attracted or not without the endless chat and message exchanges - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
If you have any advice for my profile, I would happily accept it 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Being a paid up member helps with thinning the herd and also allows you to message who you with not just flirt and hope for the best. But please keep an open mind when it comes to guys not all of us are fake lying a holes. I’m on here genuinely to broaden horisions. All the best on your search - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
XantheaHunter.....re unlocking sharing your private pics and then having couple's either not respond at all or extremely long pause/not reciprocate....ok harsh but real n coming from a kind place....Clearly very sexy blonde fuckbarbie is off the charts hot ....then their f,ms ,mrs whatevs needs to consider getting dicked by hubby and thats a different prospect as ground keeper Willie ain't every girls fuckfantasy...hence the delay,pause,take one for the team like uncool thoughts start emerging .....anyhoo... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
It is great to know it is just not us. I have been wanting to attend a meet and greet for a while, but nerves and a belief that rhp will work without it held us back. We are both now in agreement that doing both is the best plan here, or at least, see how it goes. Even if we don't find a spark on the night, I'm sure we'll make friends and possible future contacts. So looking forward to it. Thank you for everyone's support. For you other newbies, you are certainly not alone. Maybe, join us at the meet and greet and say hi. Not sure if there will be dancing there. I definitely hope so. It would be great to dance with you amazing people.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We have been swinging on and off for 6 years (mainly off these days lol) and have found meeting the right people hard so your not alone, lots of people just looking to say hi and ask for a root in one sentence and lots that just don't match what your looking for but don't give up the right people are out there we tell ourselves and once we find them it will have been worth the wait - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We paid when we first signed up looking for a female. Made contact with some but generally nothing or cancellations. Our pet hate is when you chat with a couple, you're hitting it off and suddenly they say it's not going to work. Like WTF??? Shaz doesn't do the chat anymore for this reason. Parties and meet and greets are looking like the better option for us, although parties were not initially high on our list but they are from now on. We are not verified only cos we are lazy but we will do it soon. We are very real. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Several of us have stated that we will only consider verified members. It is free and easy. Please take the time if you are a couple or single lady; otherwise, most people will think you are a man or someone who isn't who they say they are.
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RHP User
6 years ago
There are so many dishonest people on here. I've thought about couples, but it's 2 against one, if you really want to sell my organs on the black market or something. Risk outweighs reward. So I require a fair bit of getting to know someone and a meet in public. And yes lots of desperate men for us single women... who are often lying about their relationship status and just looking for a one off. Incredibly jaded sounding yes, but im still on here aren't I haha. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Has done the whole verification thing before on other sites it's never made a difference still had the old oh sorry the Mrs can't make it tonight so I thought I'd turn up anyway line lol the only way to know someone is actually who their pic is was to meet them at a club but even then we have talked to couples and talked on video chat to confirm they are real and it a committed relationship to finally meet and find out they just met and arent - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
In general life we are described as a sexy and attractive couple with a bi female looking for MF or F, however in almost 6 months we have had zero success on here. Quite frankly I think you probably need to spend 5 hours a day mining through time wasters and fakes to come up with one experience of worth. To me this effort is almost as sensible as raking leaves in the wind... - Posted from rhpmobile
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redhotozz
6 years ago
We found a couple of things helped us alot with finding couples. First, we have a paid membership. We have a rule for couples meets that the girls talk on the phone beforehand. We try to meet at parties, if not, drinks first. We have a playphone for our funstuff. It works ok, remember the 4 of you are all fellow humans, not perfect, and life does get busy at times. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are the same. I have been insecure on here on times too. Hopefully, this new plan will fix that. Pity you are all the way in WA. Maybe a nice meet and greet there may help. Good luck xxx
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jualfun
6 years ago
In the beginning we had come across many single males posing as a couple,we normally smell a rat well before it ever gets to the meeting stage , funny when you look back on old couple messages only too find it was a male profile all along.😡
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curiousgirl35
6 years ago
Having the same issues here, we are not verified though so we must get that done. Didnt really think of it being a huge issue. Real couple, real desires hope someone takes up our offer REAL soon 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Single men? Really? You think they are really single? Hmm. As a single woman online dating has quite possibly been the most disgusting experience of my life . It quite possibly could convince any woman that men are just filth and give up. Whats worse sites like this for casual hook ups are easier than serious online dating. Some things i learnt. Misogyny is rife, but fuck them ill do what i want anyway. Theres nothing wrong with me its them. I wont settle for loosers. The guys that sook are often just immature or even better have girlfriends or wives. Theres no point caring about their feelings or putting in the effort as i just get ghosted anyway and the perception in the wider community is that it must be my fault or responsibility as is the fact that im single. Even the nicest guys just stuff me around for no real reason. Im cool if they dont want to see me. Theres a strong attitude that sites like this are actually a cheap sex service or pic service for men. Im expected to stop what im doing and do what men want. Oh and the sulking! Every story a man has i have one better. Couples can also be irritating with mainly him just perusing while she is at work. The sooks are the biggest bs ones in the end ie girlfriends, pathetic. I get stood up heaps, ghosted called nasty names then told its my fault either my behaviour or picking the wrong guys. Then they whine they cant hook up.. pppft can you blame women? They even get the snots when i request verification and face pics. Personally, ive taken responsibility and im not the victim but i am empowered. Im here for me. I know heaps of single women like me. We travel, own houses, run businesses etc etc.. and noone can understand why we are single all the while inferring we have the problem. Or im gay.. But if i date a looser its my fault. It does makes sense though. Jump the fence and marry his crazy ex. At least i know the sex would be good and when she calls me a cunt she will know what shes talking about. Im happy, have no drama, very independant, healthy and attractive . Im a total catch. My response. BAHAHAAHAHA BAHAHAHA BAHAHAHAHA Single? Really? Most are attached. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We did it to show we both want this. We have chatted with some men who want to surprise their wives. We got away from them quick smart. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hi there, We are also new to this lifestyle and also have encountered the same and similar situations. For us the number 1 upset, is 99 % of couples only put up inages of their perceived hottest, usually the female. A couple is a couple, not one person. Sorry but if both in our couples is not in agreeance, nothing happens and one sided profiles are never a good start. Number 2. people lie about their age. OMG what the hell is that about? If you have made the decision to venture into this lifestyle why lie about your age? We went to a meet and greet not long ago and met a couple who said on their profile they were in their middle forties, turns out they were in their middle fifties, like us. When asked why, they said that people don't look for 50 year olds. Clearly their choice to lie, but seriously if you cannot be honest about your age on here, what hope is there for people feeling comfortable with their own age bracket? Yes, there are lots of dodgy and suspicious profiles, I trust my instrincts and am not here to rush anything. Meeting like minded couples, that we like as people and have more on common that this site is also something we look for. All the best, take baby steps and remember, your life, your rules. Don't conform unless you want to. Cheers Ms FF - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Starting to think this post is turning into nothing more then a man bashing exercise. There are rotten apples on both sides of the fence. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
something ,i don’t know i read the answer to. that may be of help to you ,what exactly are you nervous about, stepping out into the swinging world , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Sorry. I am sure many are to blame. Honestly, I am only assuming who the fake profiles belong to. The only people who really know are the fakes themselves. As we are nervous and want a connection and attraction so some may have mistaken us time wasters which is not our intention. - Posted from rhpmobile
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PassionFreaks
6 years ago
Always does. They can't help themselves 😏 Ms PF
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ReyandJean
6 years ago
Like Boobsorbust we only meet at events that the other couple claims to be attending. It got too disheartening sitting at the pub waiting for dates to show up. Much more interesting if we can flirt while we wait, lol. R - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Such a huge learning curve. Hunter and I have been together for 20 years. Before then, I had never tried internet dating. Life was simple, you smiled at a man and he walked over and talked to you. It's heaps more complicated now, especially looking for a real bi girl and a four way connection.
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RHP User
6 years ago
It posted twice. See, so complicated :D
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RHP User
6 years ago
You sound amazing. Any guy would be lucky to get you. Thank you for your wonderful response.
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
is being a so called time waster ,pffft don’t sweat it ,water of a ducks back ,better to take your time with no regrets than rush head on into unknown waters ,that only leads to one of those talks ,i don’t like those talks ,lol,good to debrief and high five each other on a good times ,but aghhh those talks when it hits the fan are so much better if avoided in the first place ,lol, - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
In our time here, we have encountered couples who suddenly fall pregnant but the man can still play, men trying to surprise their wives and a huge amount of people who open their pg up for ours and then you never hear from them again. Are they photo collections, ghosting us or is it something else.? Insecurities run wild and then the people you are chatting with go quiet if you suggest meeting. They are just a few concerns. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Ulysses
6 years ago
Have had a few responses and chats, but maybe we aren't what they are looking for??? I too am wondering if I should stick to finding like-minded people out in the wild? .... - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
all just normal concerns ,we all go through them , treat it as their loss not yours , best not to over think it ,,cod that will drive be you crasy ,and as before a good meet and greet will do you both a world of good ,online is mind blowingly hard to know what the hell is real and what is not ,get involved with real people at real places where you can ,hell just go to a club have fun with each other and just be a part of the atmosphere until your more comftable ,with others or you bump into someone who you just clique with ,plenty of bi curious girls out there , mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are going to our first meet and greet. Should be great. Hoping everyone will say hi😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
be prepared to be amazed at all the normal people there like yourselves ,just everyday people laughing and making new friends ,sharing stories that can’t normally be talked about ,including mishaps and questions like yours ,they are what you make of them at a meet and greet ,enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Should be a wonderful night, and thank you for saying I'm normal😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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thecatsmeowaus
6 years ago
We only chat or share photos with profiles that have been ‘verified’ by RHP. In the beginning we were tricked by a lot of fake profiles that were keen to switch to kik to communicate and swap photos. Utter waste of time and privacy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I fully agree with you. We have had the same problem. I will now only chat on kik with people who will exchanged clothed live pics. Their private parts don't do anything for me out of context except encourage me to cut contact. I want to know if they are a couple or at least have a female. Many disappear when asked for live clothed pics. I have started taking unverified members off our favourite list and will now only swap photos with RHP verified members. I strongly encourage others to do the same and if you aren't verified, please do so. It isn't difficult.
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RHP User
6 years ago
At what point exactly do you stop being a newbie?...in any event when it clicks it clicks and when it clacks..well ...clacking bad. Have met some nice people but also some whose photos were quite youthful but the reality was jurassic park and unlike the mosquito in the amber the dna degradation was well underway....meeting in person sounds better...we are going to ..nervously..attend a function and if that doesnt work hang up our boots.
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a single woman looking for some FFM fun I too am finding it a process. I have my standards they have theirs and its about finding the right people. I say it in my profile 'I am patient and I will wait for the right people to play with'. I want it to be hot and kinky and unless I can get that I am not playing. Just as a side note, I understand, as a single, you couples 'love each other so much' and saying this is important you. However, as a single, it only makes me more stoical that I need to ensure I have my needs fulfilled and therfore I advocate for myself in the scenario to ensure that I get fulfillment too. It's me, after all, going home on my own. Good luck to us all I guess.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I consider us total newbies as we are yet to play and have only met one couple which was on another site. They seemed more like our Aun and Uncle than potential play friends so nothing happened. On here, most have run away when we suggest meeting. So looking forward to the meet and greet - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
You definitely deserve to be satisfied and from what I have seen you are pretty damn hot. I am sure you will find the right match. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
Well we joined a few years back and did meet 2 couples for some introductory fun but then we have spent the rest of the time making and rearing 2 kids so we battle with free time and also honestly we feel out of shape so even though we really want to experience the fun and freedom of swinging we haven’t met anyone that wants to help lead us into the world of indulgence. We do realise it’s more our problem than others but still hold hope that the right people will come along at the right time. It bouys is to see that such a stunning couple as Xanthea still have similar problems...we wish you were closer ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Sorry i meant to add. My ipad is being annoying. As a newbie couples profiles were some of the worst to deal with. Aside from the fakes the biggest issue it was him messaging me. Second, was the immature attitude you were just an unpaid whore. Get over here now and fuck. Third was being pushy. On their terms no meet up prior my place when they say as they are busy. I even had one couple argue with me about it. Single men put in more effort and were easier to deal with. Using that term single loosely of course. Undoubtedly, your polite efforts are disregarded as the single woman is overwhelmed by a sea of rude douchebags and she eventually shuts her profile down out of self respect.... And buys a vibrator. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
for everyone new or not ,verification is only a handy starting tool but it’s not fool proof ,same as face to face isn’t ,beware of the smooth talkers that tell you everything you want to hear ,best tool in both cases is your gut ,always trust your gut ,if something feels off it usually is mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
You certainly don't look out of shape to us. We were talking about this for ages and then I wanted to start before we get too old. We are both pretty fit and I am addicted to the running high. A day without exercise is like a day without brushing your teeth to me. Newcastle is lovely. We haven't been there for a while. I am sure you will find some gorgeous couples, just believe in yourselves. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sensualcple2play
6 years ago
And so you should get your fulfillment! All should be catered for esp the rare single woman 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
6 years ago
Vixen cougar, any good experience at all? You seem to be having such bad luck? That is not my personal experience at all. However I respect and accept your personal experience. Sure we can have the occasional bad meets or even bad sex if it goes that far, but reading your posts here and in other threads, you seem to have become jaded. Sometimes, take time off to reflect on the situation (your actions and his/theirs) and see where and how they got thru your filters. then refine your selection filters else it's ground hog day again. Personally I have enjoyed pretty much my experiences in my 4 years here. No ghosting so far and most men I decide to meet have been lovely. But I try to engage them in conversation first, no sex talk initially. I take the no pressure approach. If I feel comfortable, i will agree for a drink meet. No expectations. I have a couple of long term FWB and respect for them and myself is paramount. There are so many other lovely sexy men (and couples ) on here so I would not tar everyone with same brush. Some women can be shit, disrespectful and pushy too after hearing some stories from my FWBs. I believe them and seen some of this behaviour in some meet and greets and parties. So no man/couple bashing from me. I own my actions and experiences.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think respect for all is key. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
On these sites for a few years & your hit rate is low for the many contacts you make but dont despaire because when the right girl or couple come along its magic - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
It is great there are highs and lows. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Xanthea you sound so lovely. I'm sure you'll have a great time at the meet. @Seachange...thankyou for that summary! Our feelings and thoughts exactly. @get me please. I've been curious how singles feel about the "in love" couple. I'm sure it's scared people away from us and we would like to know the best way of handling this. Obviously it helps when women know how to fulfill their own needs as you do. We prefer the sleepover so noone has to go home, until they want their freedom again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Magicmicah
6 years ago
Welcome to the internet - Posted from rhpmobile
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