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Ten commandments of writing messages

December 14 2014

A male member just made this comment on a different forum: Maybe if you got a bit brave and sent the type of letter you keep lecturing men to write to someone that actually interests you, your experience here would be more positive for everyone! So, men: here goes*. These are my ten commandments for writing messages: 1. Thou shalt come up with a decent title2. Thou shalt open with a greeting 3. Thou shalt have read the profile4. Thou shalt respect the profile5. Thou shalt not send template messages6. Thou shalt spell properly 7. Thou shalt say something about yourself8. Thou shalt not brag9. Thou shalt ask a question10. Thou shalt end your message properly 1. In your title, reference something in my profile, come up with something intriguing ( I got one recently saying "I have pink sea salt", which caught my attention) or at least a "Hi Meander".Do not give me a "hi", "Hey", "UR gorgeous", something generic like "Meet?" or anything that immediately shows youhaven't read my profile, like "In town this weekend." 2. Always start a message with a "Hi", and preferably include my name. Most message I receive don't, it shows a lack ofpoliteness and normal communication skills to me. Don't call me "Babe", "hun", etc. please. I don't know you (yet). 3. Don't just send a "I loved your profile, you sound amazing." message. What did you like about it?My profile is long, mentioning something from it shows me you could actually be bothered reading the whole thing. Score. 4. I get heaps of messages saying "I'm attached, however..." or "I'm not 6ft tall, but you have to give me chance..." God loves a trier" as they say, but my personal preferences are in my profile for a reason. Please respect them. 5. Make sure a message is personalised. I recognise the template ones sent to a bunch of other women a mile away. Including a template part about yourself and what you're looking for is fine with me, but generic sentences supposedly aimed at me insult my intelligence. (I got one the other day saying the sender loved my pussy shots. Uh, wait...)Also: Don't write me erotic stories unless they are exceptional. And let's be honest: they never are. 6. Don't use text speak or made up words like "norty", you are not twelve. Spell check is your friend. Use it. Getting messages full of errors, while knowing they would have all been underlined in red by your computer as you were typing, makes me think you really don't give a "f**K. 7. Tell me about you and what you are looking for, especially if your profile is sparse. You already know my likes and dislikes, what are yours? 8. Don't brag. Sure, be enticing and tell me why you think we'd be a great match. However, "I can make your eyes roll back in your head", "I'm very experienced", "I have a big hard cock and will make you cum over and over" are an instant no.The worst: "I will make you squirt." Yeah, I doubt that. 9. Do include a question in your message, to compel me to respond. Messages only containing statements, like "I love MMF too" make me think "I'm happy to hear that." The conversation kind of stalls right there. Asking me questions also makes me feel you are genuinely interested. Don't write "Get back to me if you're interested." You are effectively telling me not to respond if she's not. 10. End with a "Thanks", "Regards" or something. A name is nice, but not necessary. Politeness is. I understand that a lot of guys get so many knock-backs that they are hesitant to put all that effort in, but I certainly like a bit more than just a "How are you" or "What are you up to this weekend?" (Frankly the latter is a bit too personal for me, since you're a complete stranger). Now, before I get pelted with comments saying I'm too harsh and demanding: These aren't actual rules, they are my personal preferences only (I just thought Commandments sounded a bit catchier). I certainly wouldn't turn a man down for not abiding by all of them! However you asked, I answered. Thoughts? Women, what does your ideal message look like? * Yeah yeah, this goes for women too.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Damn...why is life so cruel !!...back to the couch and the B&Js....Freddddy...Wassup dude .?..there ya go,how was that :) oh and I'll throw in a virtual hug as well xx Freya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' Damn...why is life so cruel !!...back to the couch and the B&Js....Freddddy...Wassup dude .?..there ya go,how was that :) oh and I'll throw in a virtual hug as well xx Freya Phew ... thanks Freya ... I was beginning to think no one cared

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    I post from a phone and my acrylics get in the bloody way!!! Sheesh woman you know how to embarrass a sister!!! Sometimes I'm rushing to get it all out!! I do proofread.....most of the time 😇 maybe I should wish for a smaller halo this xmas so it stops slipping? 😊 blowing a kiss and flipping you the bird lovely. ~ Indy lapsed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I'm now receiving flirts from paid male members instead of messages. I wonder if it's because they're terrified! Now you're bringing out the MEANDERTHAL in us this is the cyber equivalent of clubbing and dragging by the hair...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree 100% with what you said. Too many rules in the world already! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I honestly think that most guys do not realise that a well written message would get so much more attention then a picture of their erect appendage. Reading the profile is an absolute must, if someone sends me a message and it's blatantly obvious they haven't then it's a NO from me. Happy writing peeps. ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SugarMuffin' Too many rules in the world already! 25 Likes... Seems a few people disagree.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    REPLIES ARE A PRIVILEGE AND NOT A RIGHT. i.e. Most of the women on the site get eleventy gahjillion messages. Don't spit your little dummy, throw the toys out of the cot, or have any other sort of childish tantrum if your message does not get a response. *A* (as in singular) follow-up message might be okay, but don't go demanding or expecting anything.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was this the forum you meant to post on? http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Not-returning-messAges-47088

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    probably like normal he's drunk.... And feeling important lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What can I say - the Xmas discount worked. Not to mention to lovely women of RHP. Yeah - posts like that are exactly why that should be a commandment - it's a tough lesson for us guys to learn. Always thank the person responding, and never take it to heart if/when they don't. Yeah, it sucks, but fuck it - there's always next time.

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Aurora_Skye' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I read Meanders post smiling, because it was obviously done light heartedly. It seems to have rattled a barrel of snakes? (and thats just a turn of phrase) I like the forums because most things are written tongue in cheek, you can have a laugh and a bit of banter. Some people like filthy messages. others don't. Some like well written, others dont mind text slang. Read or ignore. I thought it was a great post, not to be taken too seriously. Or maybe Im just a fluffy headed blonde who likes to see some fun in the content of the posts Don't sell yourself short. I like reading your posts. They are always full of compassion and kindness, a true reflection of who you are, devoid of nastiness and malice. I have met you in Perth and you are beautiful in and out. You always try to address the topic of the post and it is without malice and that is how it should be - contribute or comment to the topic of the forum and not attack the poster, as per rules fo the forum. Otherwise there is a personal agenda behind the post and this is their issue not the OP. Warm hugs. no wonder these forums are so bloody boring now. Benign comments (even those actually related to the topic as the ones here were) are ridiculously framed as malicious, personal attacks on the OP / commenter. No debate is allowed and anyone who doesn't toe the line is basically told directly or indirectly that they are troublemakers who need to be quiet. Don't worry, I'll see myself out and save someone the otherwise inevitable job of telling me that if I don't like it I don't have to read it, that I'm off topic, and that I'm disturbing the carefully crafted peace Ok. I just saw your post. Lol. Not sure what is up in your world but not getting into the middle of your drama. To throw a dramatic tantrum like that is so unlike your intelligent self and I will not engage with such childish behavior. I have no issue with debates as long as the debates are well kept within the bounds of a topic. Once the personal attacks are made on the participants, the relevance for discussion or intelligent debate ceases. i think you have over reacted. Just to let you know, the post I wrote was for Koko and has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. My post is to get Koko to see how beautiful she is and NOT a personal attack on anyone. Now how you turned that post around to be about you has me wondering that there is more to your post and is reflective perhaps of other issues you may be dealing with. Something that YOU have to deal with, not me nor any of us. I have no intention of attacking you as I have nothing against you. I have no time nor energy in dealing with other people's drama at the moment. i have enough shit of my own to deal with, just like everybody else. Lol.Maybe some time away from the forum is in order as you have jumped on a few of us here for no apparent reason, from what I can see. Hope to see you in better spirit in your next posts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm 6 foot in shoes :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That was uncalled for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    All forum posters shall post together in peace and harmony throughout 2015?On second thoughts, scrap that, wont be near as much fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I dare you to start a 10 Commandments of Forum Posting topic. Blindman, 27 likes! That better be included in your next stats.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Im a delicate little flower. The backlash would surely make me a forum recluse. And anyway, youre the Mistress of controversial posts, Ive a lot to live up to. xxLet Mr Slippery Halo start one.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Kokoflamingo'youre the Mistress of controversial posts, Ive a lot to live up to. xx Me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    yep I reckon both meander and koko write it 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    In a most fabulously subtle way, of course

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nice work... Will be doing a new one early next month...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Crap what do I write to answer this one. Ok what about us poor souls that just can't seem to put words on paper (type here) yet we can hold a honest and rather respectful intelligent conversation... I guess I can only ask those out there in the naughty world don't assume us sad males are all tarred with the same brush :) I'm assuming there are some very crafty guys out there that can and will string a charming story together just to obtain a notch in there bed post? But then there are plenty of gentlemen here as we'll :) we just struggle with fine writhing but rest assure we are well worth getting to know... Just my thoughts is all...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Warning69'we just struggle with fine writhing That's hilarious.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Unless George Clooney becomes a guest lol. Ain't that the truth, as was stated in other posts MEN are the ones who - Are the bottom feeding scum of this pool. -Have to put the effort into every pic and word in their profile. -Have to come up with thoughtful messages that take 20-30 mins to write each one -Have to pay -the ones that have to jump that high bar.. Azzron for sure, I have had that situation a couple of times. You take the time to write a message and think it has been well recieved but never a follow up from them....maybe their attention is short, or they come across someone else that needs to be moved up their fuck list and ours is shunted back down lol. I'm not sure mate but your not in that boat by yourself. 50zcool Feeling your frustration as I have read it also. Mate people will always interpret writing the way they want to 90% of the time. I'm sure it was reposted in good faith even tho somewhat misguided in it's interpretation for this repost. I understand where you are coming from, but if I am correct this is how it has always been and will continue. Sad but true, we are all here for the same thing but it's only us single guys that have to work for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Warning69' Crap what do I write to answer this one. Ok what about us poor souls that just can't seem to put words on paper (type here) yet we can hold a honest and rather respectful intelligent conversation... I guess I can only ask those out there in the naughty world don't assume us sad males are all tarred with the same brush :) I'm assuming there are some very crafty guys out there that can and will string a charming story together just to obtain a notch in there bed post? But then there are plenty of gentlemen here as we'll :) we just struggle with fine writhing but rest assure we are well worth getting to know... Just my thoughts is all... That's the way life is. If you go clubbing and like dancing you will be attracted to the ones that can dance. If you like playing music, you will be attracted to those that play, and if you love sex you will be after the best fuckers. The same with people that like to write. Only few people are concerned with the quality of the writing, it really is all about the attitude. I do not think poor writing skills put you at any disadvantage, its poor social skills that kills peoples chances, as it is in the real world.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'caniseeurpanties' Unless George Clooney becomes a guest lol. Ain't that the truth, as was stated in other posts MEN are the ones who - Are the bottom feeding scum of this pool. -Have to put the effort into every pic and word in their profile. -Have to come up with thoughtful messages that take 20-30 mins to write each one -Have to pay -the ones that have to jump that high bar.. Azzron for sure, I have had that situation a couple of times. You take the time to write a message and think it has been well recieved but never a follow up from them....maybe their attention is short, or they come across someone else that needs to be moved up their fuck list and ours is shunted back down lol. I'm not sure mate but your not in that boat by yourself. 50zcool Feeling your frustration as I have read it also. Mate people will always interpret writing the way they want to 90% of the time. I'm sure it was reposted in good faith even tho somewhat misguided in it's interpretation for this repost. I understand where you are coming from, but if I am correct this is how it has always been and will continue. Sad but true, we are all here for the same thing but it's only us single guys that have to work for it. Its sad.....if thats your truth. But its not mine. Perhaps the complete reliance you have in RHP to deliver you interactions with women ..... which is what I feel on reading your posts and profile....... is the real issue. Attitude is everything. In here.... and beyond here. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Mrmischiefx' wise words Meander , wise words indeed , I personally believe that if you wouldn't say it to a person on the street who you know buckleys about then why on earth would you say it behind a computer ?? simple pleasantries and an acknowledgement to their profile should suffice ..although that clearly does not work for me p.s Meander your posts are always a pleasure to read . We do not show our pink bits in the street, like we do on hereWe do not let anyone know offline that we are on this site and up for random sex. Its odd how people think that , its like a bar so you show the same kind of respectIf this were a bar, then it would be a blooding interesting oneWith women gagging for it, and tits out and men with cock in hand We could also see that some of the guys on here that talk up a big storm have nuts so small, that a squirrel in the middle of winter would ignore. Why because cyber land and reality are worlds apart. The reality cheque is in the mail. You could be will bloody Shakespeare on here and never get a root. Poor guys, writing a love poem with a dick dipped in ink bit like Clancy of the there ya blow. Poor women waiting for Mr can write a novel, can cook like jamie oliver, looks like a god and mows the lawn and can give a woman a woman the big O ever time , and a gold card to by shoes. men , your all fucked but not in a good way. I write to men like this, Saw your profile, no never read it but that cock picture is bloody dreadful, and please put the toilet seat down as I can see a skid mark in there that would make a crocodile proud. Meet me at the park in the dead of night yours truly the Ann Rice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'dumbblonde' The reality cheque is in the mail.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    However.... dumb blondes membership renewal... isn't. Phantoms.......

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    Meander as the voice of reason I have to say.....pull your head in on the comments about others having to live up to your talents here ❤️ All your tickets will blow off! Haha how's that for some lovin' dear girl!! xx Indy allegedly keepin' it real 😄😇😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just a smile at you good sir...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Chev is the fella to have a honest input here... We'll at least a good crack up...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "Don't write me erotic stories unless they are exceptional. And let's be honest: they never are." Never ??? You have not read my stories then. Find a story called evening song I write under the name michaelmt1 I think it is a fair effort :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I found it, and I'm afraid my comment stands.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    his throbbing member into the moment like a bouncer ejecting a resisting drunk...her quivering top lip he noticed before realising.... WRONG HOLE!!!!! 😝😝😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Stir and deep. How can one man have so many talents?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I believe 50zcool, who made the original comment you have quoted Meander, was suggesting that instead of whinging about all the lame emails us women get..., we should make the first move and send emails to men we are interested in, instead of just sitting back. So I am not sure how you came to the conclusion that you should write another forum about what men should do. Not so sure how gratefully it will be received. Just my opinion of course. :) Yes, YES. YESSSSSS. Thankyou. I'm so sick of writing long messages only to receive absolutely no response - especially when THEY'RE the one's sending me flirts asking me to contact them. It's just rude. If you're not interested, atleast give me the courtesy of a "No Thankyou." If you've got a membership, how about YOU fire off a message. It works both ways. Not really sure why it's so difficult for some women (see: quite a few) on here to take some initiative and not be so rude. I get there are single males on here who are dickheads, but you're only going to perpetuate the stigma by acting that way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think that depth was definitely the issue 😝😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was a bit surprised to discover over my lunch…comprising shit instant coffee and good cheese…that it had already been running for 2 weeks and 7 pages. But it's made for an enjoyable read…I've taken sides, then broken them, formed opinions then reanalysed them…it's rather like a good thriller! I was so enthralled I couldn't be bothered to get crackers. But here..near the end of your tale( maybe.. )..your "Commandments" look like a pretty fair request to me, Meander..and you've responded to the critics evenly, I think.Having a look at your profile, you HAVE set it out in an idiot proof manner, I'm guessing.You describe how you see yourself, you say what you like, what you don't like and what you want. Sounds determined and logical. Makes mine sound like I'm dribbling on a bit… But this has been an enjoyable read…your original post could be an appendage to your profile.I look forward to your next publication. Gripping stuff.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Sensational post Koolgrey, if its good cheese you can get away without the crackers, no argument at all mate. Happy new year starting from dot. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Koolgrey'your original post could be an appendage to your profile. I doubt it, I already get told I have far too many requirements in there. Any cheese left?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The disappointed men,with no replies,if you chase a gorgeous illusion,,a fantasy woman,remember that is all she may be...sometimes if it's too good to be true,it's not true...Perhaps you need to look for the signs not just look at the hot pics....engage the other brain...is the profile full of templates?......have you done reverse google search on those hot pics?..do you meet her seeking criteria?...and if you decide to message her and she doesn't respond,well would you really want a woman who is clearly just not into you..Oh one more thing,if on her profile she says she wants more than just a root.and that's all you are looking for....don't bother xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79'Sometimes if it's too good to be true,it's not true...Perhaps you need to look for the signs not just look at the hot pics....engage the other brain...is the profile full of templates?......have you done reverse google search on those hot pics?..do you meet her seeking criteria?... ... and if they are real people, are they actually female? Only a few days ago a man with a fake female profile tried to cause havoc on the forums, before being removed my the mods. Yes, there are many profiles with fake pics, both male and female. Porn stars, models, athletes, you name it.Be savvy and check, especially if there is only one pic or they don't match the person's description. (A blue eyed woman with a pic of a brown eyed one? That's a clue...) Also, again, do read the "looking for" bit! I got a message from a couple this week, and when I told Mr Couple I'm only looking for singles, he admitted he hadn't gotten past my butt pic and not read that bit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SluppyJoe' Quoting 'Meeka100' I believe 50zcool, who made the original comment you have quoted Meander, was suggesting that instead of whinging about all the lame emails us women get..., we should make the first move and send emails to men we are interested in, instead of just sitting back. So I am not sure how you came to the conclusion that you should write another forum about what men should do. Not so sure how gratefully it will be received. Just my opinion of course. :) Yes, YES. YESSSSSS. Thankyou. I'm so sick of writing long messages only to receive absolutely no response - especially when THEY'RE the one's sending me flirts asking me to contact them. It's just rude. If you're not interested, atleast give me the courtesy of a "No Thankyou." If you've got a membership, how about YOU fire off a message. It works both ways. Not really sure why it's so difficult for some women (see: quite a few) on here to take some initiative and not be so rude. I get there are single males on here who are dickheads, but you're only going to perpetuate the stigma by acting that way. To me ... and I am happy to say those women have got excellent taste. Even after we met for coffee at McDonalds and they discovered my profile was totally fake, they still helped me get winched out of my specially designed vehicle, place my huge gut in a wheel barrow, even helped push the wheelbarrow up the wheelchair ramp .. totally succumbed to my many and varied charms, not even noticing how everyone stared, groaned and moved several tables away to avoid my smell .. actually gave us some privacy .. which was great too. The promise of a wonderful year ahead .. Im sooo happy with myself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just the day before yesterday i received a friend request from a lovely young woman in NSW. Her profile appears quite wholesome, like the girl next door, and seeking a long term relationship. But. Why not send a simple introductory message instead? I can receive all messages. It sounds too good to be true and I'm not going take a chance on that without some kind of genuine contact first. It's a minefield out there..as I've discovered before. If I'm wrong...well..sorry, but I have to protect myself first : )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    just wanted to say they are all bull shit first get any replies. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'You_and_Us2' just wanted to say they are all bull shit first get any replies. We may have to add something about grammar.11 commandments..............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... is writing out a 4-6 paragraph introductory message in very much the format Meander set out, but then receiving a 2 line reply, then absolutely no follow up at all - even if they say they're happy to talk further. Some people use the excuse of not having any time, but they're on here every 15 minutes. I just find it incredulous, disrespectful and rude, and it's extremely frustrating when people waste your time like that. Thing is, couples tend to be better at replying than most of the single women I've been in contact with. Then again some of these women seem like they're probably employed by RHP in some fashion to make up numbers and get guys messaging them. I've taken to blocking all those who fit that bill - it's really not difficult to sit down and write 3000 characters if you put just even just a little bit of effort into it, especially when someone's gone through the trouble of extending you that courtesy in the first place.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SluppyJoe' ... is writing out a 4-6 paragraph introductory message in very much the format Meander set out, but then receiving a 2 line reply, then absolutely no follow up at all - even if they say they're happy to talk further. Some people use the excuse of not having any time, but they're on here every 15 minutes. I just find it incredulous, disrespectful and rude, and it's extremely frustrating when people waste your time like that. Thing is, couples tend to be better at replying than most of the single women I've been in contact with. Then again some of these women seem like they're probably employed by RHP in some fashion to make up numbers and get guys messaging them. I've taken to blocking all those who fit that bill - it's really not difficult to sit down and write 3000 characters if you put just even just a little bit of effort into it, especially when someone's gone through the trouble of extending you that courtesy in the first place. Maybe.... they're not wasting your time.... which along with "incredulous, disrespectful and rude" makes you sound a bit entitled, expectant and demanding. They've replied once.... which is more than most seem to be complaining of.So maybe.... subsequent to their first reply .... you just failed to inspire them any further.It happens. But as for the "employed by RHP" comment..... well.... reverse image and google searches can turn up some..... interesting things. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Asking for a simple "no thankyou" as a response instead of saying "why yes I'd love to talk" then never responding, isn't acting entitled. It's the very basics of human communication, and if you can't follow the basics then you're just being rude - plain and simple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Who is asking for a 4-6 paragraph message? You can follow all ten commandments in ten sentences, I believe.

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    10 years ago

    dont take it to heart. Lots of forum topics on Non-reply to messages on here. Most women am sure will try to respond given time, opportunity when you have sent them an inspiring message. At this time of the year, hard to find time to reply and have a decent conversation (2 way conversation) when you are a single parent, on holidays with the kids watching them like a hawk making sure they do not endear themselves to the local hospital again. In my case, with so much family around me who wants to catch up (kids are away with ex) to me, i read the forums on my phone for some other entertainment and discussion on topics I'm interested in which is a change to the endless stories i have to about my nephew lil Johnnie's trip to Luna Park. sure may throw in a short post but no further conversation needs to ensue. I sometimes do not log off. Too lazy to login again. So sue me... It does annoy me sometimes when I reply to a message or text and also tell them I am in the thick of things at work or family function or social setting, that seems like an invite to further converse right there and then, when I cant. Then they get annoyed when I can not reply and sometimes I get abused. so I say, NEXT... What would you do if you were in my place?

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SluppyJoe' Asking for a simple "no thankyou" as a response instead of saying "why yes I'd love to talk" then never responding, isn't acting entitled. It's the very basics of human communication, and if you can't follow the basics then you're just being rude - plain and simple. You totally missed the point. You messaged, and received a reply.Then, your second message received.... no reply. Logically......obviously...... there is a fault with HOW you message after the first effective one.(or who you messaged in the first place...... or, the timeframe you 'expect' people to respond to you) To demand "basics" from people you don't know, have never met, and who owe you nothing..... is being quite naive. Because Im certain you have brushed people off in the wide world beyond RHP in your 29 years. There are lessons to be learned everywhere.... if you're open to accept that there are things to learned in the first place. And remember.... you asked. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid' dont take it to heart. Lots of forum topics on Non-reply to messages on here. Most women am sure will try to respond given time, opportunity when you have sent them an inspiring message. At this time of the year, hard to find time to reply and have a decent conversation (2 way conversation) when you are a single parent, on holidays with the kids watching them like a hawk making sure they do not endear themselves to the local hospital again. In my case, with so much family around me who wants to catch up (kids are away with ex) to me, i read the forums on my phone for some other entertainment and discussion on topics I'm interested in which is a change to the endless stories i have to about my nephew lil Johnnie's trip to Luna Park. sure may throw in a short post but no further conversation needs to ensue. I sometimes do not log off. Too lazy to login again. So sue me... It does annoy me sometimes when I reply to a message or text and also tell them I am in the thick of things at work or family function or social setting, that seems like an invite to further converse right there and then, when I cant. Then they get annoyed when I can not reply and sometimes I get abused. so I say, NEXT... What would you do if you were in my place? I think this summarises well into an 11th Commandment. 11. Thou shalt not put all thy eggs into one basket. For most of us, Rhp is likely a shadowy bit of entertainment running parallel to our true lives. Recognising this distinction is important.

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    10 years ago

    I think most of the people on here take their writing tips from the New castle song : Oooh! Oooh! said young Normie, who'd come top of his class in English, Ooooh! he said. So he leaned out of the window, and he said real, real suave like, he said G'day.

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    10 years ago

    Meander you are gold!I am going to follow the ten commandments and see where they get me. Many thanks HB

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    10 years ago

    A very hot body.really is it yours?...😳..,because I just read your profile and if there is a God,dammit she just ain't playing fair 😘xxFreya

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    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Hotbody24011' Meander you are gold!I am going to follow the ten commandments and see where they get me. Many thanks HB Pleasure, but if you're not Mickey you still have a thing or two to learn...

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    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There is no God ...Why non Mickey,why😰😰😰xxFreya

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    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You can get messages?

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    10 years ago

    Has left the building xxFreya

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    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But hotbody is still here. Nice pic, is it you this time, hotbody?

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    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The ideal message would convey all of your strong points to allow you to get up higher than the competition and take the mark.Having caught the ball you should run hard toward the goal line making sure that your ego doesn't trip you up thus loosing possession and the advantage. Should you find yourself within goal kicking range make the most of it cause truth be known ya only going to get one shot before full time.And if you loose because you didn't play to your potential don't bad mouth the other side for your lack of commitment.

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    10 years ago

    Never been any good at flirting, really struggling to write more than 2 lines per message.

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