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The Art of Condom
December 21 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
And condoms were everywhere ( sadly not always widely used) and not much to do in Sierra Leone on a Sunday arvo... I perfected the art of applying them, as a party trick, using my mouth only.....................Im was damn good at it too............ however Do you wanna know how many times it snapped back into my nose, eye, cheek, mouth...whilst figuring out this complicated manouvere !!!..hurt too I can still do it................bu alas out of practice ...on many levels
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' I perfected the art of applying them, as a party trick, using my mouth only.....................Im was damn good at it too............ That my lovely friend is almost enough to get me on a plane to Perth just to see!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh but this is why we have the option of loading videos. Come on Shinasbabe show us how it is done. Or maybe we can all hop into a chat room and watch a live demonstration!! Go on. 😜
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RHP User
12 years ago
and trust me..anyone that is prepared to do that...in Perth which is no mean feat...with those ^(^^^&)%^*%%..............roadworks........ is committed.... !!!! Hang on..I just reread what you wrote Magestick.....see or sample... I have really nice beach house... ...with a excellent view from the master bedroom..................of.....ironically the beach !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Need a volunteer !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bananas werent readily available in Sierra Leone !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
in pyjamas of the adult variety
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RHP User
12 years ago
I only have two party tricks..and thats one of them....took me a loooooooong time to learn it..but it does impress the lads.................well it used to ..:(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im putting my hand up if you are indeed auditioning for this demonstration video ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
last year I meet this nice girl while I was on a 2 week holiday overseas. Nothing serious until the last 2 days when we decided to have a drink at the bar. After plenty of drinks and laughs we went back to my room.. She was in this dreamy mood and layed on my bed as soon as we entered the room. After plenty of cuddles ' kisses and touching we were primed for the inevidable.. naked , the feelings were flowing and we were positioning for penetration when this nagging thing in my head tells me to stop and get the condom.... grrrrr.. what a passion killer.. one moment nature has you chomping at the bit, ' the next the magic is broken by the very action of getting up and reaching for a condom... Thats what I think of condoms... passion killers..
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uneventful
12 years ago
Passion killer than a killer disease ....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh I'd love to see that demonstration!!! And I'd love to be able to do that! Jealous here haha maybe I should start practicing....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, I had the same issue a while ago... this moment when you're really hot and horny ready to go and then you have to stop get a condom put in on and then occasionally that heat could have faded a little bit.....But well be prepared! Have the condoms ready.... and try and include it in the play, keep playing and keep the heat going ;-)
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
I also put it on with my mouth! Shinas trust me it is like riding a bike...once you have perfected the art of putting it on with the mouth you never forget! What I love the most is alot of guys don't even reallise it has been slipped on! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I keep condoms in several places around the house, so we never have to go "get" one. And I like to keep kissing, licking, sucking, touching, whatever I was doing before, while putting the condom on. Condoms are only an interruption or mood killer when you let them be. I'll have to keep practicing putting them on entirely with my mouth, only managing halfway so far. Volunteers?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I keep condoms in several places around the house, so we never have to go "get" one. And I like to keep kissing, licking, sucking, touching, whatever I was doing before, while putting the condom on. Condoms are only an interruption or mood killer when you let them be. I'll have to keep practicing putting them on entirely with my mouth, only managing halfway so far. Volunteers? Think I could be a willing volunteer Ms_Devious, after all it is Christmas......
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Letsparty2gether
12 years ago
They are only an interruption if you let them be. I always keep one handy if I'm with a 'partner'. I can put them on one handed while continuing to kiss, caress, lick, nibble... Never had one applied orally though :(
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Letsparty2gether
12 years ago
They are only an interruption if you let them be. I always keep one handy if I'm with a 'partner'. I can put them on one handed while continuing to kiss, caress, lick, nibble... Never had one applied orally though :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
boys,stop forming that disorderly queue,Ms D was joking...I think
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'boys,stop forming that disorderly queue,Ms D was joking...I think I want to see you guys FIGHT over me! In the end, there can be only... Oh wait. Carry on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
guys ,forget what I said before,be as disorderly as you like,
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RHP User
12 years ago
You do take your socks off though, don't you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I enjoy long and sensual foreplay, getting to know the taste, scent and feel of the woman I am with...often coming or going over the edge well ahead of that moment.If she then takes and package and finds my eyes with a lustful smile as she opens it, wets the length of my shaft then looking into my eyes directly as she slowly rolls it down slowly? Talk about turning the temperature up a few 100 degrees, that does it for me and is just another way that she is telling you 'take me'...passionately. As for getting it off, that should be the last of your worries as by the time you have fallen from inside her you should be locked in a lover's embrace tasting, touching and caressing each othermaking it a moment you will always want to remember rather than one you might choose to forget.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Long ago with a young lady in a lustful encounter got the condom on me without even my knowledge, she hid it in her mouth and next its on. Expertly done and she had only just learnt of this trick. Great.Then one day in a very lustful encounter with a couple, after some oral play in the living room I was handed a condom and as my attention was not on the job at hand, I pulled out the condom and then struggled to put it on. There I am battling this little latex device that just would not do its thing. I have put these things on too many time to have a problem but this fucker was not doing cooperating. Till, several minuets of frustration latter, he pointed out that I had put it on inside out. Embarrassed yes, mood kill no.So now if I have a group of girls it is a pain. Etiquette says that you must have a condom, etiquette says that to move from one girl to the next you must change condoms. That condoms cant be reused. Oh the pile of them on the ground. Part of the fun in the group is moving from one to the next in quick succession. Condoms are a pain, they break the flow, and running out is frustration as you go out to rummage around in the glove box or bag with hope some ancient left over waited for now.When men penetrate women, we need condoms, when a man moves from one woman to the next we need to change. Oh what crap. I see them fingering, licking, rubbing pussy to pussy mouth to cock and back. fluid exchange to the max. Never hear them requiring protection. Seems we all think that only cocks need protection.So condoms are 80% efficient at STI prevention. One in Five, great for the unwilling or unlucky that may fuck five a year. But when some of us fuck dozens or more a year, I am not fooled by the fake sense of security it provides. Do bi and gay women use protection, NO Condoms do not protect against STI they only reduce the risk. The best protection is regular check ups, its a disgrace that that's not the reality. If I had something I would never fuck someone again even with a condom. My first question, most of the time is, when was your last check up????????So hate the fucking things for there utter false sense of security.Get with it swingers, they offer no real protection, only testing does. Who here would fuck someone with or without protection knowing that had a STI, I would not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I enjoy long and sensual foreplay, getting to know the taste, scent and feel of the woman I am with...often coming or going over the edge well ahead of that moment.If she then takes and package and finds my eyes with a lustful smile as she opens it, wets the length of my shaft then looking into my eyes directly as she slowly rolls it down slowly? Talk about turning the temperature up a few 100 degrees, that does it for me and is just another way that she is telling you 'take me'...passionately.As for getting it off, that should be the last of your worries as by the time you have fallen from inside her you should be locked in a lover's embrace tasting, touching and caressing each other making it a moment you will always want to remember rather than one you might choose to forget.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I enjoy long and sensual foreplay, getting to know the taste, scent and feel of the woman I am with...often coming or going over the edge well ahead of that moment.If she then takes and package and finds my eyes with a lustful smile as she opens it, wets the length of my shaft then looking into my eyes directly as she slowly rolls it down slowly? Talk about turning the temperature up a few 100 degrees, that does it for me and is just another way that she is telling you 'take me'...passionately.As for getting it off, that should be the last of your worries as by the time you have fallen from inside her you should be locked in a lover's embrace tasting, touching and caressing each other making it a moment you will always want to remember rather than one you might choose to forget.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shinas .....wipes brow Calms breathing down And seriously contemplates a move back East To hell with the weather
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RHP User
12 years ago
MsD I challenge you to a duel!! The winner fucks gets to you all! LOL Otherwise yes, it slows the pace down a little but on the other hand I love watching my lover touch his dick. That makes me start squirming all over again. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...bloody overheated holiday internet toasted my post! *shrugs* ....oh well, tell 'em, tell 'em and then tell 'em again?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yep ' fully agree... Not that the condom was that far away' just on the bedside table .. But it was just that the passion was running so hot at that moment ' I could have easily followed my instincts and penetrated . Thats what I wanted and Im sure she was at that point too.. But being responsible guy , conscience took over and the moment had to be interrupted.. I hate condoms at the best of times and use them out of necessity.. Nothing better than the feel of your hardness against a bare vagina wall.. But them days are gone.... but something is better than nothing... Jay....
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
It's a very small interruption for a very big benefit. As others have said, using the mouth i've tried but it really is an art form that takes practice and I guess I really need to practice some more at that! Otherwise, just doing it myself with a hand rather than laying there whilst he has to do it. As to embarassing moments, the worst ones have been where the short interruption in stimulation caused droopage. Very disappointing for both of us I daresay. Dida xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
It seems people still don't understand that condoms offer only a sense of security. If its a wild night and you use 5 then you might as well have used none. They reduce risk, they are very far from what I would call safe sex. There is no such thing as safe sex..Get tested is the only way to protect.. Test test test please people as condoms don't stop STI'sLook it up if you disagree...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'It seems people still don't understand that condoms offer only a sense of security. If its a wild night and you use 5 then you might as well have used none. Come again?
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mvagusta9
12 years ago
By the time i try to put 1 on i want to go for a drink,Passion killers.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dont agree... I believe condoms offer quite a bit of security.. not 100%.. but the difference between wearing one vs not wearing one is quite well documented.. I never had a chance to use 5 in one night and if I did , removing one and putting on another without some sort of cleansing between, I would expect the risk to increase... goes without saying...
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RHP User
12 years ago
'You can't really dust for vomit.' - Nigel TufnelBlindman, you really should have a talk with the last 11 people that you have been with...it's safer than 10. I'm not being critical and agree that we all should be responsible enough to be regularly tested but if you could ask each of them to talk to a few of their friends too, I sure would fee more comfortable. You know, like the 'Six Degrees of Separation" idea that everyone is approximately six or fewer steps away from any other person in the world. I'd like to keep my distance, thanks, but maybe I just ill informed and being a bit cynical. 'I believe virtually everything I read, and I think that is what makes me more of a selective human than someone who doesn't believe anything.' - David St. Hubbins
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jay_Me." but the difference between wearing one vs not wearing one is quite well documented.."Yes very well documented indeed. But seems that very few know the real risk. Depends on the sub culture and many many factors. But know that people are obligated (morally) and in some cases legally to tell you they are positive.But the shame is that most don't know, why feel safe because you use condoms. Its not fair on the rest of us.Ms_DeviouseAnd many times again I hope. DontLookDownThe 6 degree thing is a myth.. but if you do take that view we are all stuffed. So just to use that assumption what would be the degree of separation via sex. How many links do we need to find a shared AID's positive link.I just want to let people know that there is no such thing as safe sex and for the greater good of us all please if active make an effort to get regular tests. Who here would have sex with a HIV positive person even with a condom. Please some common sense please, you sex lot...
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RHP User
12 years ago
''There is nothing safe about sex,there never has been''.....there is only the minimizing of risk...unless you are a fan of onanism,and then you should always wash your hands first
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RHP User
12 years ago
Condom use is just plain sexy. When a guy pulls out a condom, this goes through my head: 1. I'm definitely gonna get laid 2. He cares about my health 3. He cares about his own health 4. He probably uses condoms with everyone else he sex's too 5. He has 'clean' habits 6. He doesn't want random babies 7. He's responsible 8. He thinks ahead 9. He's organised 10. He's polite enough to manage the condom purchasing instead of just leaving it to me I could go on. Point being... When I see a condom I'm so impressed and turned on I don't care how the damn thing goes on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Blindman Get tested is the only way to protect.. Test test test please people as condoms don't stop STI's MMMM hope Durex are aware of this !!!!!!! - in your ignorant comment ..there is as with all lies a little truth............but a condom used is soooooooo much better than a condom not used..and testing does not stop you getting a STD - is just confirms if you have one or not..and not all STD's can be tested for with immediate results........how do I know this ?..Im a pathologist ..and trust me when you tell someone they have a STD..havent seen one person jump for joy and go tripel somersaulting thru the office yet.... and I can assure you..that when questioned you the patient closely will find that the person has practiced unsafe sex or even worse..someone that they trusted has played around on them eg: cheating partner... and didnt use a condom and passed on a STD and the poor patient thinks all is well......so thats a double blow... ... The only safe sex is to have none or for ALL parties to practice total monomogamy on a sexual level and therein you make choices and you takes risks......that is life... but I ask you this ?..do you get in your car and drive without a seatbelt, or ride a motorbike without a helmet ??...true these acts are mandatory by law..but do you ? but no one can make anyone do anything ever, can they ? You live in Perth - Perth is small - the scene here smaller...and a heap of lovely ladies will read your post...so Im glad that as you state in your profile that you are clearly looking for friends first and foremost .....Im sure you will make lot of them !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Apart from honesty , a condom is all we have to stop any cross infection.. regardless..I agree with what ninjaxxx said exactly.. Being responsible and considerate to the person you are about to have sex with, shows you probally have all the other good traits also..I always have my own condoms' am clean and expect my female to be likewise... Never have I thought it the responsibility of the female' but any female who comes prepared I would regard as smart and responsible..ninjaxxx recipe is right on.... never losing sight that sex is still and always will be the driving force of all mankind...Jay
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shinasbabe.You must know that condoms only offer a 80% reduction in risk. Who would drive a car with that level of risk. It would be suicide. I use them when required but do not feel like I am having safe sex. In the past two weeks I have had sex with many ladies. You must know that for some STI's they offer next to no protection. A man can play with a girls pussy and move his hand to his own member. That is all it takes. Some STI's can be transferred via toilet seat, or in small pools/spars.I just want people to not hide behind the fallacy of protection they think condoms provide.You being a pathologist must know the many ways STI's can be transmitted, from mouth to pussy, then to next pussy, Three people put at risk to a number of STI's even if the man uses a condom. Be it a virus or bacterial each only requires transfer and that does not require the insertion of a cock. Fingers, tongues, any body parts can transfer. Some STI's can infect via the mouth. God the number of women I have seen making genital/genital contact without protection.As you say the only true protection is no sex or a monogamous trusting relationship. Ill ask you, would you have sex even with a condom with someone that had a STI. I would not. If I catch an STI that is the end of my swinging life style which would be devastating to me, but I am not about to hide behind a false shield of protection condoms provide. I am a little above average down there and condoms tend to break and ride up a lot. I have had dozens of broken condoms in the vigor of long sessions. The body fluids collect at the base of the shaft and make there way all over when I remove it. I am not going to wash with disinfectant (not that that works all the time) ever time I move from one girl to the next, I am not going to put on surgical gloves when playing with my fingers. What women carry dental dams, most dont even know what they are.If you contact, physically, another person you are at risk, the plastic bubble is not a good look but in the swinging life style only men have to wear the bloody bubble. Come on the girls why are you not pulling your dental dams out when you have a guy go down on you. (i have a few on hand but no one ever wants to use them) If he has gonorrhea he can be contagious from his mouth, if he has just been down on a someone else his mouth is a lovely temp home for many STI's Same goes for girl/girl fun i never see them use any type of protection.TEST TEST TEST. its the sorry truth that it helps not you but it help all the rest of us that love the swinging life style.My first question when it comes to sex is when where you last tested, not, do you use condoms, dental dams, surgical gloves or the plastic bubble.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Still it seems most here think condoms are the perfect shield. Well you fuck it up for the rest of us by thinking that way. Get with it people and TEST. Please for the greater good test test test. I know its a hassle but do it please and we can greatly reduce the spread of STI's. Condoms don't cut it. Remember you are not just having sex with just one person.
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RHP User
12 years ago
And Im sure most people carry their STD results around in their glove box to whip at out at ones request, as opposed to say a condom...yes you are rite...condoms do not give 100 percent guarantee .....but nor does you attitude to them either....Like I said Perth is small.....btw do you wear a seat belt ?? Yeah and you will be pleased to know that I kinda know a ilttle about STD..just a little ..I attended that days lectures... But at least we agree on Testing...it should be done every single time after you have sex ..every time :) only way you will ever truly know 100 percent... Ninja that was the post of the year..............beautiful...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'Shinasbabe. You must know that condoms only offer a 80% reduction in risk. Who would drive a car with that level of risk. It would be suicide. I use them when required but do not feel like I am having safe sex. In the past two weeks I have had sex with many ladies. (...) I am a little above average down there and condoms tend to break and ride up a lot. 1. Where did you get that 80% from? 2. Risk of what exactly? 3. And yet you only use condoms if required? 4. How come you choose not to use larger condoms if the regular ones keep breaking? But glad you're getting heaps. It's been a slow two weeks here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How many here use condoms when having oral sex? would just like to know why doing that is ok? High risk activity!!
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Cassy_74
12 years ago
There was an add back in the 80's about using condoms that always stuck in my mind and I still remember it today. It showed a couple have sex , then them having sex with different partners and so forth....... And the catch line of the add was something like "how many people are you really sleeping with?" Condoms are a really good investment!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'How many here use condoms when having oral sex? would just like to know why doing that is ok? High risk activity!! Yes it is !!!! and who said it wasnt ok ?????????? Loving where your heads at...apparently your little head is getting plenty... In the past two weeks I have had sex with many ladies. In Perth ???????? seriously ..where men outnumber women here in this city due to FIFO like 4-1 ...where women can pick and choose like you wouldnt believe......and your getting plenty...?? Im just praying those women are insistent and educated....... but then if they were then ...hmmmmmmmmmmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' And Im sure most people carry their STD results around in their glove box to whip at out at ones request, as opposed to say a condom...yes you are rite...condoms do not give 100 percent guarantee .....but nor does you attitude to them either....Like I said Perth is small.....btw do you wear a seat belt ?? Yes I wear seat belts, though I have never had an accident. I use them a lot (condoms), as a student they cost me a lot, I have them in my car, bag, jacket, and never leave home without them.Its just that to say they provide safe sex is not true. Do seat belts save lives, yes, but they also kill, and most of the time they do nothing to protect you in a bad smash. I am just pointing out that you are not safe with condoms, thus I advocate testing as the most important thing you can do and if you are unlucky and get a positive you refrain from it and inform all you have slept with that they may be a risk.Its the moral thing to do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lets see, I have had 10 sexual partners in the last two weeks (ie penetration) only two of them did I not use a condom with, as I trust them. Having sex is easy. I am clean but due for a check up. And yes in Perth. I dont sit all day behind a computer screen hoping I go out and find what I am looking for. Love the swinging scene and am actively involved. Could have had more but only have so much time and some much in me.BTW I have a very big head (that part of the body between my shoulders) and I am very intelligent. Its easy to get sex because of that. The only shame is that I am a student.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lets see, I have had 10 sexual partners in the last two weeks (ie penetration) only two of them did I not use a condom with, as I trust them. So only two stupid women and you trust them ????????????........................regular forum readers will know wht iM thinking rite now !!! Wow bet those top 10 women feel special now reading that comment I am clean but due for a check up. How do you know your clean ? without a checkup after sex with EVERYONE of those women EVERY TIME ... and EVERY test done and the results listed...which btw with some test takes weeks and months to produce results and some can be ambiguous.... ..so how do you know ? and the other 8 - if you are to be believed in your previous posts, could still have given you something....rite ?? yet you continued to have sex with all the others......... and why did you use condoms with only 8....when you hate them so much ??...were they insistent ? And yes in Perth. I dont sit all day behind a computer screen hoping I go out and find what I am looking for. What makes you think any of us sit behind a computer ...RHP is mobile, including forum posting... !!! Love the swinging scene and am actively involved. Could have had more but only have so much time and some much in me. Please tell us all which parties/clubs you frequent....Ive never run into you at any - of course this is based on your photos and the description of yourself on your profile that I state this...... .....................there is a god ..and yeah I frequent a lot of parties...and I really want to know now.. BTW I have a very big head (that part of the body between my shoulders) and I am very intelligent. (debateable and based on what criteria ?) Its easy to get sex because of that. The only shame is that I am a student Yep thats obvious....of life no doubt..........
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shinasbabe.Why so rapacious? I am just trying to illuminate the pulchritudinous multitude presently attending RHP of their vulnerability to the spurious postulation that condoms are safe.As for my sex life that is me. There is more then one particular pageant, esteemed lady. Even in those parties and groups that I frequent I don't entertain all. WA is small in the great scheme of circumstance, yet there are 2 million wonderful humans in this prestigious diminutive geographical local.I am not here to bolster my ego, I participate in this debate to educate. I have not attacked or hindered anyone. I cast no assertions, I postulate no malignant memes.My advice is to get tested nothing more. Yes I am very aware of the risks I take, but then life is risk. If, upon the unfortunate circumstance that I do get infected, at least the multitude that cavort can rest assure that I will leave the conglomeration of hedonistic adventurers and learn to love my hand and pornography.So the diminutive vivacious vickson Shinasbabe what make you ponder my ineptitude. I have played this game hither to 4 years and when I whip it out I am but swamped. Polite, caring and above all a gently man that understands how to provide substantial orgasmic delectation to all I meet. The rapture of their delight is all I petition.Those that know me, will not be exacerbated, they know me well. I am me.So I am left but to ponder the malevolent accent to my character. Unconscionable sweet vickson what in my discourse offended you so virulently?????. And a smiley face to come back down to the mortal realm.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Talk about finger down the the throat stuff... Who really cares about what you think about yourself ? Easy question.... you do... ? Your doing a real fine job of making yourself look a first class dickhead without any help from the mere mortals sitting behind their computer screens like you say...Maybe the head you talk about being too big is the one on your shoulders.. and maybe the condom you talk about being too small is being stopped by your ears... I've seen some big ego's on here before... but boy ' you're THE MAN...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought it was a very sexy dialogue with lots of URST....
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are here to have fun, and a little debating is great as long as it does not become personal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Ego, is not a dirty word" esteemed Jay_Me. Here I be nought askew with aspirations to achieve exceptional character and thus cock statuesque betwixt my approbated peers.It's a shame no one flowers their communication these days. dykwim dEr readRs
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RHP User
12 years ago
But Blindman, I think you're using it to dig yourself into an ever deeper hole. Saying you slept with ten women and only used protection with two, is rather shocking to me too. If I were one of the other eight, I'd be furious if I found out. Now I'll be off to look up the words Rapacious, Pulchritudinous and Postulation. But I have a feeling I won't be able to find Vickson...
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RHP User
12 years ago
a vickson is a nurse wot rubs ya chest
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RHP User
12 years ago
I presume you miss read Ms_Devious I used condoms on 8, and for two close friends that I have know for many years I did not. Bemused? why do you conclude they are all women. Vickson; ye old anglo for "female fox"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Shinasbabe. Why so rapacious? I am just trying to illuminate the pulchritudinous multitude presently attending RHP of their vulnerability to the spurious postulation that condoms are safe. As for my sex life that is me. There is more then one particular pageant, esteemed lady. Even in those parties and groups that I frequent I don't entertain all. WA is small in the great scheme of circumstance, yet there are 2 million wonderful humans in this prestigious diminutive geographical local. I am not here to bolster my ego, I participate in this debate to educate. I have not attacked or hindered anyone. I cast no assertions, I postulate no malignant memes. My advice is to get tested nothing more. Yes I am very aware of the risks I take, but then life is risk. If, upon the unfortunate circumstance that I do get infected, at least the multitude that cavort can rest assure that I will leave the conglomeration of hedonistic adventurers and learn to love my hand and pornography. So the diminutive vivacious vickson Shinasbabe what make you ponder my ineptitude. I have played this game hither to 4 years and when I whip it out I am but swamped. Polite, caring and above all a gently man that understands how to provide substantial orgasmic delectation to all I meet. The rapture of their delight is all I petition. Those that know me, will not be exacerbated, they know me well. I am me. So I am left but to ponder the malevolent accent to my character. Unconscionable sweet vickson what in my discourse offended you so virulently?????. And a smiley face to come back down to the mortal realm. So you know how to use a Thesaurus........!!!! Intelligence is not measured by the use of really really BIG words.......................................................it is so much more....see anything that Freyas posts to confirm this...!!! I was going to reply to your private message....you deserved a answer to your question to me and I would have happily replied ....you took time out to write to me late last nite.....(obviously something I said upset you somewhat ...got under your skin...that you obviously felt the need to PM me .)...and I reply to all my mail in due course...................... but then I read your post here this arvo...you couldnt wait for my reply of which then you would have had direct knowledge wouldnt you ? ..and knowledge is power........you must have been busting to write it (or did you ? as your writing style is completely different in your PM) .....and I then thought...AH FUCK IT....................................its the only eloquent way I can put it........... And my darling Ms D....no such word as Vickson ........... is spelt ...vixen...:) ..and your a gorgeous little vixen aren't you ...:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shinasbabe27". and why did you use condoms with only 8....when you hate them so much ??...were they insistent ?"No it was I that was insistent. I don't say do not use them. I am but puzzled that so many say they are clean because they use condoms. Condoms reduce risk, but to claim to be clean without ever having a test is the madness I am trying to inform the lovely people about.Sorry I have offended so many. Gosh its just a forum.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'a vickson is a nurse wot rubs ya chest I see. So I'm a Vickson then. And as for Vixen, Shinas: Duh.
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shinasbabe27 Yes you did get under my skin. I did not have much to do these last few days so I write. I still do not see how I offended you. In reality I was sure you would block me, maybe you have. Does it matter, not really. As for my writing style I apply it as needed, I am creative. I required no thesaurus, but had to look up the spelling a few time. If I write like that on forums (I do many) I usually get blank stares (metaphorical that is). I did my best not to offend you, but rereading it I could be wrong depending on how you interpreted it. I see I made one mistake "what make you" should have been "what makes you" silly me how profoundly embarrassed I am. Its a shame so many must attack me personally, I have not with any conscious thought attacked anyone. And apologize if I did. It was not my intention.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Look it up ladies. It's use in that context was a compliment with a little bite. Vickson; a female fox..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Vixen....female fox............not vickson...look it up... You did not offend me Blindman....I do not know you nor you me so you couldnt possibly offend me...takes more than a few BIG words on a public forum to do my head in......trust me, Ive heard worse words this year and nothig forum related... Blocking (for me) ...is only if one is rude to me.......which you were not.........just somewhat condescending (my dear is that the words you used to address me ? ) but mainly you were............... mediocre... Yes the written word can often be misconstrued....we read into what suits us dont we ? ..as you will take from this post what suits you.... Attacked your personally ? , well hon ( Im sorry..my dear) I only responded to what you put out in a public forum....if you felt attack when I questioned you....perhaps you need to address that....
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RHP User
12 years ago
it is vixen from Old English fyxe the femine of fox,first known use of vixen 1590,can also mean a sexy woman
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RHP User
12 years ago
I stand corrected. Thus and always hence forth I will use the term supermegafoxyawesomehot. This may be a bit crass but leaves no ambiguity and if I am looking for extended syllabic (argue that now) word as a term of veiled admiration I will. Much better then "sexy bitch" me thinks, which seems to be the norm here.Please a little latitude people, my first language is Dutch.Shinasbabe. . It's a debate and maybe in moments of isolation I become a little tender. No resentment on my part. Find you quite a beguiling presence. Thanks for the fun.And to all please test....................and test................then again..... test.......................... (LOL sorry Shinasbabe but your punctuational extensions should be mitigated, not a good look) Shit now I need to detail that sarcasm is not always derogatory. Love you all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A controlled ego is quite healthy and makes for a happy positive person to be around.. But a runaway out of control ego like the one you displayed becomes negative and irritating .. Why do you think others stuck it back up you.... ?Thats the thing about RHP forum contributors' anyone who projects a holier than thee attitude on here , usually gets put back in their place quick smart..And believe it or not... thats exactly what happened here... there will be only one person who disagrees..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SensualNBlindman' Please a little latitude people, my first language is Dutch. Ohmygodohmygodohmygod. Soooo many things I want to say right now! *Bites tongue* But I think I've said more than... Genoeg.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Double Dutch!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Double Dutch! Double Dutch has several meanings, including the use of condoms in combination with contraceptive pills by sexual partners. This really only sounds like on Dutchy on this forum. (Though oficially I stopped being Dutch when I got my Aussie citizenship six years ago). Oi Oi Oi.
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RHP User
12 years ago
away
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RHP User
12 years ago
All I said was that you are not safe with condoms. Was even attacked in the chat room this morning as I apparently I practice unsafe sex. WTF where does that come from. Jay_me.. What ever dude get a life.Ja Deviouse ik heb het meer dan genoeg!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perhaps jump off the soap box about testing and accept and understand what the majority are saying.... condoms whilst not 100% effective do a great deal more than those who tell YOU - 'yeah i was tested last week and all is good' (okay you know the ladies and 'trust' them - but you havent given the next lady you shag the opportunity to make that decision have you?) - they're words... some you may believe and some you may not. And the couple of ladies you didnt wear condoms with... were you tested immediately after??? or were you busy shagging another dozen women?? I agree testing is important but SO ARE CONDOMS... for you to say or insinuate in fact, that the majority here on RHP 'believe' they are more than that is a tad derogatory... that my friend, in my opinion is where you have let yourself down.. You're preaching to the choir, I'm not a child, I have my own mind and while im open to opinions and theories..... let me (the grown up make my own decision.) You've preached and preached and preached - I/we get the picture... Im with the other ladies, show me you are a responsible adult, wack on a condom and lets play!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Listen to what the masses are saying. The moment you started treating ppl with contempt was the moment you stuck your foot in your mouth... Yep ' whatever.
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RHP User
12 years ago
SummeryThis is a researched document fully referenced.As it is a little pointless including references in the post, if someone has objection to anything here I am more then happy to provide references. I do this for the greater good of all, not for any personal ego orientate agenda. Introduction This is to clarify my stance on testing and high light my personal concern about the lack off testing of sexualy active people in the swinging life style. I make no accusations and have done my best to cite peer review papers and publications. Referencesw can be requested.BackgroundI do use condoms, always at swingers parties and the like. But why as consenting adults in love, having known each other for years should we need to use condoms, we share the risk.Sex is much more then penetration, we touch with our hands, lips, tongues, toys and more.So can we just use a little common sense here please.Viral and deadly.For blood transmitted viral infections like HIV condoms are very very effective and the use of them has preventented the pandemic from taking hold in Australia. There are only 16000 people known to have HIV/AIDS in Australia. It is illegal for them to have sex with out declaring their status. (Important Side note to all, do not have sex with men that travel to common Asian destinations for sex, one in four working girls there have HIV, they are a very high risk group. As I say it in my profile. I will not touch someone that does Asian sex tours, or even people that they have had sex) But currently in Australia you are far more likely to be killed in a car accident then meet someone with undiagnosed HIV.Bacterial and curableLets Take Gonorrhea for example, it happens to be very easily transmitted and can lead to serious complications including death. It is a germ that lives in and on the genitals and sexual fluids, the anus, in the mouth and throat, and on the conjunctiva, the outermost layer of the eye. For most people it does not present symptoms and they can live there life without ill effect. But they are contagious. To kiss, have anal, oral, normal sex, to touch and infected area and then touch another person can transmit the germ. If you touch a person with it and then touch your mouth,eyes, genitals or anus you can transmit Gonorrhea. Gonorrhea is so problematic in western culture because any type of sexual contact can spread it. The problem is most people do not get tested unless they are symptomatic and are thus seldom ever diagnosed.Women that give a blow job are at very high risk of getting Gonorrhea from an infected male (and as the swinging scene these days includes a large number of bisexual women) all forms off female/female sexual contact can transfer it.It is a little germ that has a particular sticky coating, it does not live very long in the open air (it's not a fan of oxygen) but it lives long enough that it can be spread via causal contact of an infected area, then contacting your own mouth, eyes, genitals, anus. Seminal fluid, vaginal discharges, spit, even tears provide a short term home for the bacteria. Some water based lubricants can also protect the bacteria from the oxygen that will kill it.You do not need to have penetrative sex to transmit it. Casual sexual contact can transmit it, ie just a quick feel up. Grab his cock then touch your mouth, Rub her pussy (even in some cases with clothing on) then touch your cock. The recommended way to avoid contracting Gonorrhea, is via being in a monogamous relationship or abstaining from sex.SummaryBecause of the very low rate of STI testing in Australia many of the bacterial and viral infection are undiagnosised and the real rates of infection are unknown.Conclusion and recommendations.1 You do not have to have symptoms to have a STI2 You are part of a high risk group.3 Condoms reduce risk but only marginally.4 That all forms of sex carry high risks of cross infection.5 You are safer having sex with a (registered and licenced) working girsl then with a random swinger. Citation needed and based on reported infection rates.6 Never trust a someone that says they are clean and never had a check up.7 The best way to reduce the spread of STIs is via testing. It is many times more effective then condoms.8. Do not indulge in sex with overseas travelers especially from high risk countries such as in Asia and Africa.Happy and safe rooting all, and apart from anyone that may want to see references I end it here. Its been fun... LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Listen to what the masses are saying. The moment you started treating ppl with contempt was the moment you stuck your foot in your mouth... Yep ' whatever. Dear girl or man (my guess man) If I cared what the masses where saying I would be pushing daisies up through the ground. As for my foot in my mouth well that only counts in real speech does it not? It does not interfere with my typing and intellect. But I bow to your superiority here and accept the lameness of my argument. You must be right on grounds of perceived popular trends. Hence forth I submit to you and will never attempt to use logical argument as a reasoning tool to make this world a better place. You are right, I am but a dick. I just am having trouble with the contempt. See at no stage did I present contempt, I could have said (blah blah you) that would have been contempt. But please know I am trying in my diminutive text based way to change you and your outstanding friends opinion on what is and what is not safe sex.Sorry but you are right, the masses rule and silly me to lobby for a better world.Thanks for providing the base level, I appreciate your input. You have provided much incite to the cause of my provisional argument. Best you stick to schmoozing, hope that is going well for you both (does she know).Love and all that stuff... xxx PS... Do you do guys, I think you are so sexy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
SassyMissM Well if you want I can arrange, plastic bubbles, condoms, and the separation of an isolation unit. Your curves do wonders so my lustful mind. My god what a sexually erotic image you have, from your hips down the smooth perfection of you delectable ass, and undoubtedly long strong legs. God please help me you have me hook line and sinker.Very sexy girl, I am yours to command. Please be kind.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You mean we still dont get what your trying so hard to say ? But you must be patient , being mere mortals we needed to be shown the way because until we found someone with your intellect we had no idea.. And thanks to you we now know what no one ever cared to tell us before.. We had no idea that HIV had no respect for condoms.. We never knew that 1 in 4 asians had HIV and most of us ( 99% ) of us' that is.. never bedded 10 girls in 2weeks ? So to find a person to know it all we must give praise.. Thank you...
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RHP User
12 years ago
So you are the voice of the people. I don't think so, but then I guess most of us would not think that. If you read my posts you would see I never said any of the things you mention. People have to be able to read I guess. But that's OK I have the patience to wait for the people to learn that particularly difficult skill. But thanks for referring to me as a deity, does wonders for my ego..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'We never knew that 1 in 4 asians had HIV Thats a question the sex clinic asked us....had we been to Bali etc or knew people that had visited there. She then said she would never allow her husband to go there by himself and suggested we use as part of our screening process. So we do...when talking with couples if they had visted those areas of the world we say no to swinging with them. There is much more you can do apart from "just condoms" The sex clinics questionarre is a good screening document for potentail playmates that can be brought up in general conversation without them knowing ...why.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Might as well give up. You guys got NOTHING on Jensman and Mike.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As in ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Way to much fun to stop now.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You created a monster :p
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Splicey
12 years ago
I like to put it on with my mouth.I've tried it a few times though and the guy has taken it of me and done it himself. Kind of killed the mood but I'm guessing he just likes it a certain way MrsSplicey
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RHP User
12 years ago
Would just like to point out I said one in four female sex workers in popular Asian holiday destinations are HIV positive, not one in four Asian's. I stay well away from people that have sex with or do Asian sex trips. Danger danger.Splicey.Its something that has to be practiced. I am sure your guy would be more then willing to let you practice. You have to slightly unroll it and then use your lips (or teeth, not recommended as you might damage it) to unroll it. If done well your guy should not even notice. But if he has some length you will need to be able to deep throat him. I think that is even a harder art to master if you are up for it. Best of luck if you persist, but I know its not something many have a real need to master.FuturenomadsYou sound like a couple that knows the risks. And you are very right, the querying of a potencial new intimate friend does not have to blatant. But sometimes they may lie, I can pick that up most of the time but not always.God I hate the tests. For some reason when ever I have blood taken my left arm is sore for a day or more. The swabs, and the morning urine I can handle. Wish someone could create a home kit of some type. Make it supper sensitive so that any hint will set it off, then you can go see the clinic/doctor/specialist or how ever you do it.In Australia the odds of picking up HIV are astonishingly small. You can only get it from a untested person. Luckily people are on the whole are not sociopaths and would never, if diagnosed with HIV, have sex with someone with out telling you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quote: In Australia the odds of picking up HIV are astonishingly small. You can only get it from a untested person Do you know how long it takes a for a HIV test to come back as positive and even then the pathologist has to look for it. The virus does not just "appear" in the blood - there is certain testing for it, and the test has to be requested at the time the blood is drawn - the testing is intense and requires much "back testing" - thats why it takes so long for the blood to yeild a result and even then, the first round of testing can come back ambiguous, its talong he same process for the testing of Hep B. The first round of HIV testing takes approx 3 months and there are three rounds of tests. Meanwhile the subject MAY be completely asymptomatic and be living life normally including having either protected and unprotected sex - they could be infecting people and not even knowing - if they have the virus. A person can be tested and the test can come back ambivalent - therefore requiring the 2nd and 3rd round of testing and the patient could be going about on their merry way completely unaware that they could have the virus and it is dormant So in closing, your comment that you can only get it from a untested person - you can be tested and still not know if you have the disease until all three tests are completed (with your consent) and the results are in and that all three test results are positive . Meanwhile your still feeling fine, but with perhaps experiencing a general feeling of unwellness but you cant quite put your finger on what it is, a winter cold, stress, feeling run down and tired, even depression Your statement is irresponsible and just plain ignorant.
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Splicey
12 years ago
;)It was just one guy who used to take over. I know what I'm doing MrsSplicey
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RHP User
12 years ago
I read recently that there is an estimated 4000 people in NSW who are HIV + without realising it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I read recently that there is an estimated 4000 people in NSW who are HIV + without realising it. We knew there was a reason we stayed away from NSW players....thanks Meeks
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RHP User
12 years ago
jonstar.Heavy dude I stand corrected, thanks. Frighteningly that would make it cooler for funky swingers to check in from season to season.. It sucks dude, big and bad heavy like.. that's the quack's test, right, it's like the man, not reliable. But hey they can't mess it up that often, can they? oh no. that would be bad, don't they have some, like... type of obligation to do their best, like morally, greater good type shit.But close dude.. here listen....word dude. See when I gets the call man, when I gets the phone call and go out to get my papers and guff, its like a weight of my shoulders with the, "you are all clean and hunky".. Boo yar man. Fist in the air power...My sexy bitches will be smoking at that bitching hot news ... Digging the prick.. LOL That be needle ya fuckers.So u all, fat skinny, man, women, not to sure, bring it down to earth, man. Group hug and catch ya at the local,,, ahh.. Clinic. Its just some heavy, intrusive, really personal shit you can have some mother do to you. Totally free, fucken loving this hot ass country we live in...Where else can ya get some smoking hot ass sweetheart to shove a fucken great bit of steal in you arm. Oh bitching hot doc, can I take my styling gear off now..Test it fuckers... .LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
The penny just dropped why you support your 2 friends.. Explains the snub... Go's to show ' you never really know who your talking with... but thats OK... it's a free world...
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know whats pissing me off about you blindman...its that arrogance that struts out in front of you.... the ability you have to KNOW so much more than the lesser informed... I bow to you, i trully do....and now that im down here on my knees.... well im not sure what to do, but im sure you'll tell me, pat me on the head like a good little bitch and show me the way.. You've already said you copped a beating in the chat rooms and im privy to the beating here... so not sure what the heck you're doing anymore? Do you really believe that people of this age are not practicing safe sex? Is it really your concern? (due to all your girls lining up Im sure you'd be too busy to worry about the likes of others?) God i hope you are alone in that delusional world of yours.... Who said 'testings bad!'? who said "dont get tested?'..... And why take the piss out of those with a differing opinion?? I guess with a dozen chicks lined up waiting for your primed cock, you dont have to care right? Well thats made my world spin! Back to being Sassy!
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RHP User
12 years ago
MsD was making a joke. You seem to have taken it completely the wrong way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am sure the figure is probably double in your neighborhood. U DA.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jensman and MikenShel have a special love hate relationship.. Surely you would have seen their lovers tiffs on the forum before!?!
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RHP User
12 years ago
With you nicely on knees and ready, I would be more than happy to show you. The path is right here in front of you but the bricked adventure has way to many crossroads, makes it a journey with unknown and complicated ends, but then its the journey that important. Personally the end of the path is not something I care to find.So stash that sass ready to pull out at a moments notice and keep walking, much better then standing wondering which way to go.. BTW some of my posts never made it here. Those two weeks with 10, Nobody has bothered to notice that I am bi. A presumption of all women only is a laugh. You know that thing that gets you in the back of your throat. Know it well..Yum....Mixing it up is the best way to play. Lets see if this makes it past the vetters..If my last post comes in then it will give a little insight as to the why (mind you I went a little street wize with that one), I am selfish in a very pragmatic way. Safety for all. You know "all for one and one for all" type thing. And its been slow this past week with families taking my lovers, so why not have fun in the forums. Thanks for playing and sassy your are... MMMMMMM yum... so witch way do I turn now??? anyone have a good map???
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, unfortunately, l was subjected to a unwarranted tirade from both guys at one time and l dont forget. But since lm here for a good time, l skip past anything they have to say.... Ignorance can be bliss. Found it strange that Ms D.. Just happened to pick them 2 to make her point. Co incidence ? I dont think. Jay
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