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The droughts
February 03 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
How are you in a drought? You are smoking hot. My longest drought was probably about 2 months give or take a week. My condolences though lol.
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davek75
7 years ago
Almost 2years of self harm. It's not a good thing
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
Seven long bloody years. This was back when I was younger, I was a very unsexy, skinny thing with no confidence at all. You know that oft-used phrase "I see you more as just a friend''? That was my life. Seven bloody years of it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It sounds like FNQ is in need of a cyclone to break the terrible drought being suffered up there. I am guessing that the drought is by choice as you are an extremely attractive woman. Hopefully your transformation gives you a drought-breaking experience. Mine would be 3-4 months when I was still with my ex but that wasn't enjoyable anyway so I would have been better off not bothering. Hasn't improved much since then but at least I am happy and in a better space on my own.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Easter 2 years ago...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
I don’t it’s fair to assume that just cos someone is hot m, that they must be having lots of sex... The reasons for the OP’s drought I think are her own.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
...personal reasons and reasonable to assume it isn't due to any physical attributes. A few years ago and by choice, I needed and wanted to take a well-deserved break from it all. Focused on myself and had a blast catching fish on three continents and training up my dogs! More to life than...dating naked! CM now out of retirement and declaring war on celibacy! ⚡️👍🔫💣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
2 long years. Lots of reasons of which i'm not willing to go into here. But it suuuucccckkkkksssssss
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'the_antichrist' I don’t it’s fair to assume that just cos someone is hot m, that they must be having lots of sex... Very true. Can't count how many times I've had the 'but you're hot how can you not be having sex?!' thing now.Without going into gory details, my drought is a combination of:- a few quite stressful life events which have meant that sex and chasing sex is very low on my priority list- having a lot going on in general - finishing my degree, job hunting, starting a new job, associated issues with job, and more job hunting- living in a small regional city in a conservative part of the country, where my choices are quite limited and finding compatible people I actually want to shag is not an easy thing
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RHP User
7 years ago
remember. LC.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I just left one.... prior to that, longest drought was a year mostly by choice I think. Btw @ OP - love your pics! Those body stockings are gorgeous and that necklace 🦄👌🏼 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I chose to be celibate while undiagnosed with my bipolar as I could not give to myself let alone someone else and I'd seen way to much shit people had put on each other and refused to do so myself. It lasted for around 12 years. Oh thank goodness for sleeves and pocket pussies. I knocked back many opportunities and copped heaps of shit from friends as sadly a man is not considered a man in a lot of cases if he isn't putting his dick in some woman. Oh and the one that pissed me off the most was people saying to get over what was going on with me I just needed a good root. Just pure lack of understanding, compassion and empathy. Also relate to Okey's comment kind of. As I have always been a gentleman and grew up with a lot of female influence I would stand by the girls when they were getting harassed or treated badly so I was always every females go to male friend, if only they knew how hard that was for me at times
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lovman8
7 years ago
and counting. Due to prostate removal and on going hormone treatment ,the equipment is non functional and masturbation is even off the agenda and I'm finding it one of the hardest things to accept about my situation. So its lucky I'm a bit of a wanker anyway!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thankyou very much
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lovebitten
7 years ago
I left an abusive 5 year marriage at age 25. I had a 2 year old and a four year old, and honestly, I was scared of men.i went back to post grad study and met a very kind man. Drought broken lol.that relationship long over but I'll always be appreciative to him for helping me get my confidence back. I'm typing on my phone, please excuse typos ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
4yrs & 2 months, nada! I knew that I had to be a strong, independent woman and build a life on my own. No man was worth just getting involved with for the hell of just having a relationship and a false security. I had much more important things in my life to focus on. It was a long, long period of self discovery 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Your profile is unavailable ? Certainly is to us. Can others see it ? If not then this might be why you are having a drought - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
My profile is available to most. See above for reasons behind my drought. I didn't post the topic to obtain advice on how to break that drought, am just interested in others' experiences so if you have something to add in that respect please feel free to share.
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
ASF, when you said you had moved to a very conservative part of the country I though ''Queensland''. I was bloody well right! An ex-Queenslander myself, I was amazed when I moved away to find broad-minded people and thinking (and this in the NT of all places). I went back a couple of years ago and it was like a time capsule, still the same old narrow thinking with a lot of people in NQ. Sorry to all Queenslanders, I am not suggesting that you are all like this at all. It is just quite prevalent in Katter country.
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RHP User
7 years ago
This was due to me working in a remote part of Scotland away from my girlfriend at the time. I try to get laid at least once a week and I'm pretty faithful to that routine with maybe an occasional drought of a month or so here and there. I would definitely try and break the drought soon though alien sex fiend. It can't be good for your mental health. Maybe take a chance and you never know. Some of the frogs you kiss might turn into Princes. On another matter I was trying to think of the profile I had a crush on for the "Rhp crushes" thread a few days ago but could for the life of me remember the name. Thanks for reminding me luckdragon/Alien sex fiend :)
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
The same as you, brought up by a single mum with two sisters, very little male influence, same deal - connected just a little too well with the feminine side; and I don't care what anyone says - women by and large do not want to go home with the sensitive types, except perhaps for a cup of tea. Thankfully I moved away from that particular situation and in my new life found myself befriended by a group of rather blokey-blokes. I still to this day have no idea why they started inviting me to things, we were chalk and cheese. Anyway, they taught me how to man up a bit, get a bit of a blokey swagger going - and guess what started to happen?
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Any couples or ladies that are in drought, please PM or send me a message. Love to hear from ya!SWINGA Yeah small towns, love em! Because a "out of towner" can drive through have some fun and it is all kept on the hush. Solely for the purpose of the small region locals not being judged .in their townships.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Small town cults led me into pursuing my 4year celibacy..I was like wow! go girl, go another year 🙌😂😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Went to look at the forum post that you mentioned . We did not comment in there, nor can we find any reference to us . Maybe we are not seeing it . In any event we can’t recall making contact with or sending any messages to, the OP. But let’s move on back to topic should we? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
No sex since my fb moved interstate at the end of 2017. Haven't found a new one yet, anyone interested out there??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Distance is major issue. Lucky for me I live near Melbourne, but I can still count on one hand the number of times I have had sex with someone actually living less than an hour away. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
But to answer, a couple of months or so, but only counting drought length from after my first time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
We have not really had a drought - besides a week or so during ones period , or when hubby went overseas on business for 3 weeks. As he was my first , there was no drought (as such ) before we met (on my part) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
but it was 5-6 years, after I separated, of course now with my age I don't know if I can get back to the playing circuit. Anybody would like to help me? Please!!!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just thinking how I’m in a drought at the moment and yet 12 months ago I had 3 on the go at the same time!!! I remember thinking how good life was at the time, and yet now, enjoy it while you’ve got it people...
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RHP User
7 years ago
I went through a bit of a monastic phase in my late 20s to early 30s. I knew I didn't want a proper life partner type relationship, but just didn't know of any real alternatives at the time. Completely random casual sex isn't really my thing, so I was just kinda resigned to having a sexless existence indefinitely I guess, and it didn't bother me all that much. These days, when I know of good alternatives and live them, it would definitely bother me though. Can't put a number on it really though. If I'm busy and distracted with "life stuff", I don't really notice when I go without. At least not in a way that wanking can't fix. :D
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Broken heart and the implications of that situation made me need to just focus on myself.Whenever life gets too stressful or things feel unbalanced I will put myself on self imposed drought till I feel in a better space to give to someone else. Theres no point doing it or looking for it if Im not feeling it and distracted. But anytime I don't have sex I really miss the tactile touchy feely, side of it. Especially with a partner that I am emotionally close to. That part is hard to go without.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Pommyfucker' I would definitely try and break the drought soon though alien sex fiend. It can't be good for your mental health. Great sex is great for physical and mental health, for sure. Having things end in a very ugly way like they did with my last FWB, is not good for my mental health though and that together with all the other reasons just resulted in sex being put right on the backburner. I'm slowly getting back to a better place and will probably get back on the horse again soon. If I can find a good horse ;-)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' ASF, when you said you had moved to a very conservative part of the country I though ''Queensland''. I was bloody well right! An ex-Queenslander myself, I was amazed when I moved away to find broad-minded people and thinking (and this in the NT of all places). I went back a couple of years ago and it was like a time capsule, still the same old narrow thinking with a lot of people in NQ. I've been here for a long time. I was really only staying here because of my dog, due to his age and other reasons it wasn't feasible for him to do a big move with me and I couldn't have left him. Now that he's gone there's very little keeping me here and I'm planning to get out of here sooner rather than later. Need a fresh start somewhere else.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'EarthQueen'But anytime I don't have sex I really miss the tactile touchy feely, side of it. Especially with a partner that I am emotionally close to. That part is hard to go without. Connection is definitely much more important to me than the purely sexual aspect too... eg. I've got some intimate connections which are non-sexual but very warm and fuzzy around the edges. Basically cuddle buddies/romantic friendships, where affection and touch are there but sexual chemistry isn't. If I had to pick, I'd definitely find it easier to have this but go without sex, than to have all the random casual sex in the world but no deeper connections. Of course, it's an artificial choice that I'll never have to make, but you get the idea. :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
How happy are you that you found that "manly swagger". But I have to say that I am extremely proud that I am able to be a guy who stands up for a woman and understands her in that way even if it means the friend zone.
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Quoting 'Alien_Sex_Fiend' Great sex is great for physical and mental health, for sure. Having things end in a very ugly way like they did with my last FWB, is not good for my mental health though and that together with all the other reasons just resulted in sex being put right on the backburner. I'm slowly getting back to a better place and will probably get back on the horse again soon. If I can find a good horse ;-) Relatable ASF. It definitely takes time and everyone has a different pace. Sexually we are always changing and evolving and sometimes you just go through these amazing phases but in my experience (from a woman perspective) once that balance gets tipped into the negative. Than it can be hard get back to where you once where. Hope you find more than a one trick pony that can light the spark. A change might be just what you need. Also glad to see you back here ,was worried about you and hoping you were ok xx
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
2 years at 21 to 23 years old. Grim. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
2 years at 21 to 23 years old. Grim. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mind gets wild, fantasies come to life… the drought as such has seen some of the best erotica written. It isn’t the sex in form as such that matters as much as imagined moments awaiting enriched mind and body... Lots of wet times in the drought ;) xo
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'EarthQueen'Also glad to see you back here ,was worried about you and hoping you were ok xx You are one of the posters I admire on here, and I really hope we get to meet in person one day :)
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Minx99
7 years ago
After a pretty awful breakup, uni and career were more important, and it would've had to be someone pretty amazing. Right now it's 4 months. This time it's pressure of work and lack of appropriate/available partners. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Be two years this year in few months....
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MisterFit
7 years ago
Would of roughly been a year but was caused by being deployed overseas. Wasn't too difficult in an all male job. Hopefully you have an amazing time in the near future to make up for the drought. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah, if you're in a drought lovely lady the people your way are blind. I also live in 'conservative ' Qld but there's only drought if you want there to be. Go get em...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Four months now! New City where everyone is loaded and gorgeous and you’re not doesn’t help! 😫 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
6 months at the moment. Had a flurry of activity middle of last year and before that 2.5 years. Separation, cancer and complete mental break down meant I wasn't able to communicate effectively to attract anybody really in that time. I joined RHP about a week after breaking up. Too much going on at the moment to be attractive to anyone, I think, not for the lack of trying. I do miss the connection that masterbating just can't fix. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
A little over 15 months due to a tough separation....recently back on track due to a cool RHP buddy to whom I am grateful 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
We're sending you wishes, and rainbows and fairy dust and good happy thoughts, the universe will bring you a guy that adores you and you him and sex that will blow your mind forever Our's has been more like a steady flowing stream with rapids and thermal pockets of warm spring water, with lots of minerals and yabbies and some waterfalls Mado Mado Tara xx
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Renegades
7 years ago
We'd have to say from the day we joined RHP, nearly 2 years ago, you have been one of those profiles we have both been attracted to and also found inspiring. We've communicated once I think, basically you advising you weren't interested (and we absolutely respect that as it is your decision to make) yet we remain intruiged by you, your honesty, what appeared to be a confident persona and those gorgeous outfits you done with such majestic grace and beauty. As someone who has battled depression for years it is very fair to say it definitely isn't always portrayed in our personality, demeanor or the way we conduct ourselves generally. I suppose what we're trying to say is you clearly have a strength maybe even you are failing to see in yourself. You conduct yourself with such confidence, who would know you were or are in such a place and I hope that you, as I did, will one day soon see the brilliant light that is happiness from not such a distance. Without ever having met you or talked more than than once we send you lots of Love and strength towards finding solace xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's impossible when you look like that - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I feel you there. I have recently separated after almost 7 years with my partner and as he lost interest and his spark for me I know how you feel. I have been asked to meet other men on here but I am scared to meet and have to get my kit off for anyone else. Feel a drought coming on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
2 years and still in it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
5 years. Time flies when you’re getting none 😀
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Hawt1
7 years ago
I did get involved with a person when I was young. Went through hell with her until the ultimate break up.. sticking it out for my child you understand. In my inexperience I lost total trust in females.I would be polite in public.. but when it came to intimacy STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME was what was screaming in my head. Ofcourse I was more gentle in giving knockbacks, was even offered my portrait in the nude. Well apart from one time in the Rowie in Broome out with my mates, off chops having a blast, dancing, women coming up and rubbing their boobies on me.. had to tell em straight, go away I am trying to have fun.By chance a totally amazing woman broke through to me on ICQ of all things. I travelled half the globe to meet her. I think that drought lasted about 2 years, the relationship 6 years.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I was simply too shy and traumatized to talk to girls and when they talked to me I’d go all red and lose sleep. I fell in love with this gorgeous girl in high school who was the prettiest thing that walked the earth. So I wrote a love poem to her comparing her smile to stars and her voice to Mernaids. She opened the letter and everyone heard what I wrote and laughed their asses off. That pretty much killed my interest in girls until I was almost out of uni. So believe it or not, I had no idea what sex was until mid 20s. Then a young uni student whose friends asked me to take her home as she was too scared to go alone at night -it was a really dodgy neighbourhood- invited me in to her place and as soon as I walked in she grabbed my hand and walked me into bedroom. I apologized and stopped her and told her that I had no idea what to do with a woman and I did not want to disappoint her. She pushed my hands away and started stripping me while she told me she was in same classroom with that girl who read my poem to everyone and she hated her guts for doing that and she wished I wrote that poem to her. Then she took all her clothes off and I lost my ability to speak as I looked at her stunning body. She looked at me and said: it’s not right that a beast like you does not know how to have sex. That night, that petite brunette taught me everything I missed until I met her, and it was probably the first and last time in my life that I had sex 20 times at one go. She didn’t go to school next morning, neither I. Next few months she got me do countless things like standing in front of mirror and smiling, getting a new haircut, changing the way I got dressed. I didn’t know she was about to leave because she had a genetic condition and couldn’t live in the climate of area. One day she just disappeared. Sometimes I wonder where she is now, what she is doing. I heard that she got married to a Spanish guy and moved there. After that girl I was not the same. I was in “drought” for almost a year until I started a job as security guard at bars and clubs and shortly after that second big thing happened. One if the customers that kept chatting to me everyday for few days, walked in with his wife -she was taller than him- and after introducing us, he walked away. I noticed him getting a drink from bar and watching us from distance. At the end of the night he drove us to their place, we made out at the back of the car while he drove then we ended up in their bedroom, with him sipping whiskey on his chair and me and his wife having sex. I never did something like this before so I didn’t feel comfortable turning my back to him, I thought if he gets jealous he could easily stab me or something so I moved wife to his direction where I could keep an eye on him while I was busy taking my time with her with controlled Taoist thrusts I learned from my brunette. He thought I did it on purpose to humiliate him and this turned him on even more. This couple was my entry to cuckoldry and I knew no such thing as draught after that, I always had a wife to please. Eventually one of the wives got me into BDSM and I ended up where I am today. I now have a “Slave” who was my lover first but wanted to surrender all control and experience the whole domination, -this she did on her own with her own free will- and she wanted to please me whenever I feel the need, so the term draught is entirely alien to me now. I developed intense feelings for her -she is a very strong, independent and intelligent woman- and told her that I wanted her for more than this but she thinks if we do the whole marriage-kids thing it’ll kill the intensity. So she is willing to remain as a Slave while I look for someone to settle with, someone who will be potentially ok with her being in my life like this. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tongue
7 years ago
Going on 7yrs...... feel like a virgin again ......... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Um, limited choices? Isn’t there an army base there full of horny fit men? How fussy can you be?lets all feel sorry for you cause your Standards are too high and no one measures up for you , boo hoo! - Posted from rhpmobile
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dubbadeez
7 years ago
I (Mr) had 2.5 yrs in my early 20's. Broke up with a girlfriend and lost all confidence. Went out partying and kept going home alone - obviously drinking too much and not seeing the cues. Then the flood came and there were different girls every week without trying. Have no idea how it happened. And then met my wife about 6 mths into this significant rain event. It was fun while it lasted. But I am amazed at how many people have gone through similar droughts. At the time, I thought I was the only one in the world not rooting. Best of luck. The right shag will come along soon. I am sure.
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RHP User
7 years ago
:-( Second time - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Guys - and couples, sending me messages offering to break my drought is just wasting your time and messages Seriously, I'm not dying I just haven't had sex for awhile I do appreciate the compliments / flattery, but I would prefer to hear about others' experiences than analyse my own situation (which I have under control). Cheers!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Rob001' That's impossible when you look like that - Posted from rhpmobileCan always tell who hasn't read the whole thread
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have to say that is the nicest and by far the most sincere and beautiful post I have read. And ASF is exactly as you say. Absolutely love where you are coming from and hope you have that depression under control, as a fellow sufferer of mental illness I know how it is to be misjudged and not necessarily seen for who you are. Nice to see you saw that brilliant light and keep it shining.
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SandeGiny
7 years ago
Mine came down to poor self-esteem mainly. I worked in the Army which has a warped attitude regarding body-image and physical-expectations vs reality - i look at pics of myself back then and think "WHAT THE HELL?! I was so young and fit and HOT!" And yet I would go for VERY long periods without having sex. Mostly months, but years wasnt unheard of: the longest and most recent drought being over 3 years. I just put it down to being undesireable and settled on being Lady Friendzone. A crazy work schedule, long and irregular hours wore me out, OPs and EXs meant time away, and I wound up spending all my time with judgemental wankers rather than exploring friendships outside the fold with more compassionate, sex-positive people who accepted me for who I was. People rarely talked about sex and when they did, it was ALWAYS negative towards women. Even amongst women. Contraceptives are also a bitch on libido and mental health. As soon as I got that shit out of my system I started feeling better about myself and got out there. Lastly, once I let go of my hangups regarding traditional relationships when I realised THAT was also part of my problem. I feel liberated and free to be me and explore new things. I've found my confidence and self esteem is continuing to rise. I feel good about myself because I'm surrounded by people who accept and appreciate and don't judge. This in turn makes me happy and a much nicer person to be around than sour, angry old Val who hated herself for nearly 15 years. As a result, my 3 year drought is well and truly broken. The rains're here, Marge! TL;DR: I hear ya. Sometimes life gets in the way or you just feel like crap and don't want to have sex for a while. xoxo Val. - Posted from rhpmobile
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
Quoting 'pangolin28' How happy are you that you found that "manly swagger". But I have to say that I am extremely proud that I am able to be a guy who stands up for a woman and understands her in that way even if it means the friend zone. Pango, I didn't lose any of the courtesy and respect (or is that fear?) for women - they were definitely more attracted to me, they definitely let me know it, and I definitely followed up on it. Remember how Julia Gillard once described Christopher Pyne as a ''mincing poodle''? Well, that was me for many years. Nowadays I'm like a well-mannered Jack Russell.
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
Quoting 'timefortea' 6 months at the moment. Had a flurry of activity middle of last year and before that 2.5 years. Separation, cancer and complete mental break down meant I wasn't able to communicate effectively to attract anybody really in that time. I joined RHP about a week after breaking up. Too much going on at the moment to be attractive to anyone, I think, not for the lack of trying. I do miss the connection that masterbating just can't fix. - Posted from rhpmobile "The connection that masturbating can't fix''. I call it the itch I just can't scratch.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Lol so I’m assuming you don’t have standards at all and that anyone and everyone can just help themselves to both of you without limitation?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yep Okey easy to see in your posts that you never lost that quality that was instilled in you
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TheClitWhisperer
7 years ago
2 years ago ,Due to a medical treatment I was taking for my skin ( roacutane) I wasn t confident getting naked in from of a partner so I just choose to wait until it was all gone and skin clear,glad it s over !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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LissnJules
7 years ago
For me this is Mrs here it was a year after my second marriage ended. After the first i jumped into a new relationship with first person i met aka second husband. I needed me time. I needed to remember what it was like to be me and single. So i went on a diet, i exercised i went out wth friends,i went on my first overseas holiday. Finally after a year i decided to start dating. Six months later i met my partner now 4 years on very happy. But droughtsi don't think have to be a bad thing sometimes its a necessity. So Alien Sex Fiend take all the time u need. Do what u need for yourself. Then I'm sure the flood will come. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
5 years by choice
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can help you break your drought if you're interested that is - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think you're crazy for going that long, sex is a gift from the gods! That's why your sex organs are located on the front to keep reminding you to have sex. I've been fucking regularly from the age of about 15 upwards and I can't imagine a world where I don't fuck regularly.I thought once I hit 30 I'd slow down a bit but if anything I've gotten worse! I think once I start hitting my 40s and 50s and my looks fade I need to be earning shit loads of cash so I can pay for high class Russian prositutes to piss on me because otherwise I'm going to have to be chemically castrated so I'm no longer a threat to society.
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Renegades
7 years ago
It isn't that we were trying to avoid your final question, it was more your wording of "Drought" that I suppose confused the response. I see the term "drought" as less of a "choice" than something imposed. For example; farmers whom have or are experiencing severe drought don't choose for this to occur but more are suffering from a natural disaster. Again, apologies for my incorrect perception of your post but maybe others whom have responded have perceived it in a similar way, in which case their "offers" are possibly more genuine than "just wanting to fuck you" and please, don't for one moment think we were trying to woo you either. We received your response and we have always respected it. To answer the question; Maybe a few weeks prior to meeting the love of my life, as well as maybe 4-6 weeks during, at each of the times post my beautiful wife birthing our gorgeous children. We have been together for the better part of our lives, 19 years infact and 10 years (this year) very happily married. So as far as a drought goes, neither of us have ever really experienced this given we were under 18yrs old or just on when we met. The time before that, was not really a time we would have considered not having sex as a drought. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Renegades
7 years ago
Thank you for your kind words. We really were trying to be genuine and caring with our response. I suppose you can't control how it will be received by others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Renegades
7 years ago
You come across as a couple who should probably focus on speaking less. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'alwaysfun000' Um, limited choices? Isn’t there an army base there full of horny fit men? How fussy can you be?lets all feel sorry for you cause your Standards are too high and no one measures up for you , boo hoo! - Posted from rhpmobile I'm not asking anyone to feel sorry for me. As I have said, I didn't post this topic to analyse the reasons for my drought or to discuss my taste in men. If you have something constructive to add to the topic please do so!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have never received as many views and messages in response to a topic or comment I've posted, in all my years here. It's a bit baffling
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PurePeony
7 years ago
Yup, no typo there. 9 years. 😶😶😶
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think you misunderstood me, I was talking about all the people who have been sending me private messages offering to end my drought. I wasn't referring to your comment, which was lovely and very much appreciated In regards to being confident, that is something that I've developed over time and that I'm definitely still working on - the 'fake it 'till you make it' mantra comes into play a lot! And although I've had some really shitty periods in my life and they totally sucked arse at the time, I also know that they have actually helped me to grow as a person, learn about myself, and become more confident in my strengths and abilities. I'm a work in progress, I know that and I accept that!
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RHP User
7 years ago
In the comments here and the messages I've been receiving, how so many think that someone they perceive to be attractive wouldn't / shouldn't be having a sex drought. It just seems to be a given to me that there is heaps of shit that can happen in people's lives that means sex gets pushed aside for awhile. That's regardless of what you look like or who you are. It's always interesting to me how people can think in such different ways.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have shagged my fair share of military guys. I don't totally rule them out, just as I don't totally rule out anyone solely on the basis of their job / profession, but it takes more than fit and horny to keep me interested for more than a couple of hours ;-)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just because a woman is attractive it doesn’t mean she gets all the right attention or she is immune to lack of sex. Infact, more attractive she is, quality of men that approaches a woman tends to hit the ground as the quantity hits the roof. My primary sex partner is a gorgeous woman my age with an impressive physique and colorful eyes, she gets lot of attention wherever she goes. And yet most of the men sound like a buffalo as soon as they open their mouths. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've got to ask , why do you care about other peoples droughts . Are you searching for some validation of your own? I find it a bit baffling you even have a profile , admittedly stunning . Forums are useless if you aren't utilising the information . To answer the actual question though , if relying upon RHP , would be years , as most of the profiles in this city are decidedly fake , for whatever reason IDK . Only fun to be had here is from people passing through . Fortunately this is not the only source . 1 year and not by choice , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
A big thankyou to those who have shared their own experiences. I didn't expect some of the really long periods of 5 or more years that have been mentioned. It's been very interesting to read about people's various reasons.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Probably the lowest point in my life and my hubbies life when I look back on it now. Complicated and unhealthy pregnancy where I was hospitalised for months, post natal depression and bonding issues after birth then a difficult miscarriage. And at the age of 25 I was ill equipped with the tools to deal with all my feelings and struggles and went within myself and completely shut down. Auto pilotted and shut out my best friend and husband. Nearly ended us. Sometimes you need to hit the bottom and crawl back to really know yourself and grow. It was the turning point for our sexual exploration. LD I wish you all the best in your next adventure and job hunt and thanks for posting the topic it's been an interesting read😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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rover35
7 years ago
MissK you are gorgeous and beleive me you have nothing to worry about getting you kit off in front of anyone.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
For someone claiming they’re just trying to wind people up... You sure are defensive of your stance.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
Mrs fiend'n Nik fiend, 'Lips Cant Go', 'She's a Killer', 'Stuff The Turkey', 'Now I'm feeling Zombified', 'Break Down and Cry'. You Rock ASF 'Drive My Rocket' haha, please get a T Shirt printed for one of those pics in your gallery, awesome photo's, took a peek looking to see if you have a space ship too, our one still needs a flux capacitor, we set up a sky hook for the sex swing, haven't had sex in it for ages, Tara wants me to hang her upside down and have sex, we haven't done that yet, she reminds me often enough, yeah bit of a drought in that department. Played up with a guy in a mfm recently, he had a tattoo of Falcor. We thought of you and had a giggle, so in away you were there with us, had any nice dreams lately. ?
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Renegades
7 years ago
Meander. Another truely inspiring woman. Lol and please know, I would have done the same to Alwaysfun000 if I knew how. Glad you lovely ladies look out for each other on here. Someone has to. Alien_Sex_Feind. For someone we've never met, we think you're epically awesome, if that hasn't come across already. We love reading your posts and you inspire us, so thank you for being you. Sorry for any confusion with our comments or how they came across. We were clearly unaware of the bombarding personal messages you had been receiving. We're headed to Townsville for Groovin the Moo in May (if you haven't escaped by then) and truely and honestly would love to meet you simply to say hi, shake your hand and just hang out in our appreciation. If you decided you'd like to endure the crowds to listen and enjoy some great bands and music coming our way, even better, we'd love to rock out at a social meet with you. Anyone who knows us, knows us as people who know how to have an exceptionally fun time and you're more than welcome. Possibly some good music and non sexual enjoyment with some genuine people is just what you need. With pure respect and admiration, RengadesOfFuck. (Jason & Lana xxx) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have found the dating scene at first fairley brutal until you learn to grow a thick hide. No it's not about how good looking and hot bodied you are. And yes life gets busy and next thing you know it's been a while since you've " Rocked the Casbah ". Also there are a lot of wounded souls out there !, plus i may just want to get to know the person before we do naughty kinky things to each other !. Yes it's been a while , 18 months, but when i find the quality it will be worth it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Even the most innocuous topics can generate controversy and insults I wish the mods would leave my witty responses up though, when they're doing their clean-ups!
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RHP User
7 years ago
All the way to the age of 21 when i lost my v's, then over a year while i was depressed as shit from breaking up with my ex, mind you i did practically nothing but mope for that year.. Mr sugar - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
At least now I know I'm not the only one who has droughts...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
GTM has a pretty good line up this year (Paul Kelly! I've never seen him live). I've not been to a GTM yet, might be time to get along to one :)
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mrsdivine
7 years ago
11 months and its killing me - Posted from rhpmobile
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happiestcpl
7 years ago
Longest break between my partner and I has never been more than a week in 18 years. Longest break in the "scene" is probably give or take 2 months (we're relatively beginners though and only have about 7-8 months active history in the scene- so guessing we'd be experiencing longer draughts in the future depending on the number of compatible couples within our region and how busy our existing lovely regular play friends will be).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'trysexualBing' I've got to ask , why do you care about other peoples droughts . Are you searching for some validation of your own? I find it a bit baffling you even have a profile , admittedly stunning . Forums are useless if you aren't utilising the information . that you find it baffling that I have a profile. Why shouldn't I have a profile? For one thing, I need a profile to post a topic on the forum Also, why does anyone ask about anything on here? For a lot of reasons. Maybe I'm just really nosy It's odd to suggest that you can only ask a question on here for a very specific purpose or to use the information from others in a very specific way.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just find it hard to analyse why thats all . I use all information I gather , maybe I am what you determine 'odd' - Posted from rhpmobile
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dubbadeez
7 years ago
I find some topics on here very interesting and we are happy to participate when it relates. But when comments get snarky, then we check out. xoxo
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