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The droughts
February 03 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a CD women are not interested in me one tiny bit, but I keep bashing my head against the proverbial brick wall trying lol. As a guy I have had sex with women once in the last 7 years and that was almost 2 years ago. Have given up trying to figure out why long ago as mentally the games are not worth the reward. Being very Bi I do seek couples as I do get to play with a cock as well, in fact these days the cock is what I look for first, she comes second. Everyone these days seems to be seeking perfection and not settling for less. Very few people are 100% but an awful lot are a good 75%. If more were willing to give the 75's a go the world be a much calmer and happier place. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SirTwistopher
7 years ago
A year?! How - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's been more than a year since I've had sex...which is normal for me when I'm single, it seems.Which has been most of the time. The longest I've gone would be 3 years. Because it's so infrequent, it's not something I attach a lot of importance to. Sex, that is. I like it as much as everyone, but I like my principles most. I won't fuck anyone over for it...or try too hard for it, either. That's my personal scale of "what's too much hard work and what's not.." in action there. When it's good, sex is The Shit...but I don't give it that high a priority to other things I've seen and done.
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PatchworkGirl
7 years ago
My longest was about 4 years, during some of the worst years of my marriage. Probably a little longer if you discount the times where we had sex because of the emotional blackmail from my thankfully now ex. I much preferred the drought to having a sex life with him. I wish I’d had the strength to be able to recognise and articulate that back then - it may have led to me being able to end it much sooner than I did
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RHP User
7 years ago
@Meander quote: "Knowing he didn't desire me or wanted intimacy was soul destroying" I know exactly how you feel. I'm in the same boat. speechless... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Luminous_14
7 years ago
I think it's actually a bit longer I try not to think about it very frustrating! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
7 years ago
I am sorry I took no notice of who posted this.. A twist to the current topic that I have been curious about for many years having experienced it myself in the past. Also reading above about blackmail sex.. yikes! Whilst in a relationship I had pity sex as she wasn't interested for such a long time... felt bloody horrible not to be desired by the lady I adored so. I still do not understand why her libido switched itself off. Tried to talk to her about it.. initial response was fear of another pregnancy (I had super sperm before the snip.. apparently). Tried many things.. just couldn't make it right? Guess I will never know what happened to us. I am under the belief after our break up 10 years ago that she is still single and not looking.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wife unable to participate in sex - very severe levels of spinal/joint pain
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RHP User
7 years ago
14 years. Broke it soon after joining up here. Maybe that should be my RHP testimonial.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I once went a week !! Omg Never again 😈😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Currently nearly a year. The longest is about 5 years. This I've done twice. Never thought about why until this year, and its by choice.
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RHP User
7 years ago
10 months towards the end of an 8 year relationship. The I messed around with my house mate a few times while we were drunk. It was shit. Currently in the middle of a 6 month drought. But I'm moving from a remote town to Brisbane soon so hopefully things will get better - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have only ever had a very short spell of maybe a month but I do find it very interesting tho.I will appreciate others and sometimes you are shooting above your wieght and sometimes bellow.i use the Karma card and when you think you are better than the other so you knock it back then karma strikes in a drought.so when u get hit on next and it's not quite up to your standards give them a chance and see where it goes because it will come back ten fold.enjoy and get amongst it
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RHP User
7 years ago
Now I've seen it all on this thread....someone banging on about a drought being related to karma (note that karma isn't a concept I believe in at the best of times and definitely not when it's being related to a sex drought)
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N4November
7 years ago
But it's been a choice. I'm a sensual person, very tactile and frankly a hedonist so not sharing myself in this way feels disingenious to who I really am. I'm also battling my body changing as my fuck fitness declines. Perhaps one doesn't feel sexy if you're not actively engaged in sex?! The few times I've dipped my toes in I'm left cold with dick pics and not much else. Meh. At least I've actually logged on if only to read the forums. At least that's a start. Perhaps we could catch up sometime Brunette_Dragon for a chat and discussion about said droughts??! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We'll just about be neighbours soon, so a chat could definitely be on the cards!
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WhoNeedsATradie
7 years ago
I'm into my 4th year of drought , and - frankly - I need to find release ! ( I'm almost ready to beg for it !!! )
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Cowboyinthecity
7 years ago
Brunette Dragon I agree very tasteful pics. I don't suit purple body stockings. My two months was due to working interstate and overseas. Even being single these days I simply won't have sex with anybody for the sake of getting my rocks off - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
7 years ago
Not that I'm counting
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BiPlay69
7 years ago
Likely one of the factors that contributed to it breaking down, although a number of equally determining issues arose over time. Sometimes people just drift apart. Sometimes life just gets in the way. Ebbs and flows. All normal I suppose.
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Cowboyinthecity
7 years ago
Brunette Dragon I am happy to say I actually wrote to you before hearing of this bad drought disease you have. I hope it is curable. We have a down pour here in Newcastle weekly so might be a good move. Stay tuned for more weather reports. - Posted from rhpmobile
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tamworthguy46
7 years ago
I have just recently came off a 14 moth break, way longer than any other time in my life, Absolutely by choice, different reasons, probably trying to figure out what I really wanted from a partner, lover or whatever, thanks to someone special that's over now, and have been having lots of quality sex,romance and fun times. so it's all good.
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RHP User
7 years ago
24 years lol. i think i win
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Stage of non desire non intimacy? What lead to that? Surely a man just does not go "cold turkey" on a woman?
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