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Why don’t they return the favour?
February 16 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
Im not sure why blokes dont. I love it - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
7 years ago
Was chewing gum at the time? And spat it on the floor? Classy. Pick better blokes would be my tip.
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mango69er
7 years ago
Let the guy know what you are wanting. Not just when messaging or on the phone talking. Face to face. For alot of guys, a woman asking a man to go down on her, would be a big turn on. Its not your weight. . And next time let the man please you first. Dont put up with that rubbish again. All the best - Posted from rhpmobile
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davek75
7 years ago
A gentleman always returns the favour without question.
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RHP User
7 years ago
The problem is if you give them a good head job first, and especially if you make them cum, then they’re satisfied and you miss out.......no excuse for them being rude though!
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megz85g
7 years ago
So much yes. I agree 100%. I had the same rant the other week. Guys are always going on about how much they love it , but when it comes to it are selfish and leave you hanging ☹️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Honestly it makes a lot more sense to demand the guy eats you out before you return the favour. Let us be honest guys orgasm at the drop of a hat. Make sure you get your pleasure first. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Spitting gum.on your floor.... class act there. I'm with someone previous; pick better blokes babes. Also, have been here a few years now and can't say I've ever had a someone not return the favour. And return it with enthusiasm. In the messaging prior to a meet its always well established that I'm a huge lover of oral (giving and receiving) and my filtering has improved over the years so that sorts the wheat from the chaff. Be more choosy and more verbal face to face would be my best advice. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I feel your pain. But. Maybe he’s has to do all the hard work. I wouldn’t give a blow job till at least the third date. Slow down. Make em work for it. Aim higher as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Kick these wankers arses to the curb. Get yourself a real man who is a sharer and carer. They are out there. After some searching I have found myself a generous lover. It’s about pleasing each other not just using you to satisfy their needs. Tell them straight up what you want and also put it in your profile and don’t compromise. No foreplay sex for women is the worst. A pussy that’s dry is screaming no deal. It’s painful and uncomfortable for you and you don’t have to put up with it. I’ve also had some shitty experience on here and it’s taught me not to be discerning. A guy who won’t go down on me is a dealbreaker. Don’t sell yourself short you deserve better. 💕 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's just bad manners, and not only selfish, but also foolish. I think the biggest turn on is getting the person you are with to get hot, horny and to come. Where is the fun in not doing that. These guys might as well just stay at home and jerk off. I hope you find what you are looking for.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Hard dicks have no conscience.... Men will say all that you wanna hear and it’s hard to pick those who are true to what they say... I’m sorry but all I can suggest is that you’re gonna kiss a number of toads before one turns into a prince so to speak. Else you could try using the validation system despite my belief it’s a flawed and useless method, but it MAY help a whisker.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
of the men you're choosing. Sorry, but no man is coming into my bedroom chewing gum during sex. Didn't happen when I was younger, ain't happening now."You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce" (Can't remember where I saw that quote...but it's appropriate to everything, not just sexually) And that's not me being all judgy and bitchy...cos I've had men treat me like crap over the years too...I won't put up with shit anymore. I'd rather be single AND celibate lol
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Swingingnudist
7 years ago
Well this post proves my point. I have commented on some forums on here about how when a bloke puts up a post only similar type subjects he gets torn to shreds by some extremely nasty vitriol. If a bloke had written how he always goes down and eats pussy 1st but doesn't get a blow job in return i can only imagine the 'advice' he would have received.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi Wildride, that is shithouse! You shouldn’t be treated like that, and I agree with comments above. It’s hard to find a good man.... :( Can I ask, what age group have the men been in? I think older men are more considerate lovers usually. They have more experience.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Are a generous lover, which is a good thing. Maybe dont keep giving for so long... tell them there 's more of it after they return the favour. A bit of a tease is always fun. Also, if you are not ready to jump on, don't. Nothing worse than being dry....it means you....oh you know what it means. We all know what it means! 😁 Be open, be honest, and tell them what you want.
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jbradley79
7 years ago
Don't put up with it. You are beautiful and deserve better - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Gum chewing.... How did he kiss with chewing gum? Push it back and forth? Oh no kissing? Well he wouldn't have got my undies down. Sounds like a bogan. A soft cock one at that.... Ticking so many boxes
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Quoting 'swinger007' Well this post proves my point. I have commented on some forums on here about how when a bloke puts up a post only similar type subjects he gets torn to shreds by some extremely nasty vitriol. If a bloke had written how he always goes down and eats pussy 1st but doesn't get a blow job in return i can only imagine the 'advice' he would have received. I rarely lose my shit on here but this guy came into her house, gives her no foreplay, shoves his dick into her and spits gum on the floor. Surely thats disrespectful to you male or female? As an older man do you condone that behaviour? She is a young woman who is asking for advice. As older experienced women we are trying to help her. Also please note plenty of men are offering support as well. No vitriol in that just letting her know she is worthy of more. The mechanics of sex are taught at school but not the heart and soul and emotion involved. There is nothing taught about foreplay and pleasure. The other side of this is teaching people how we want to be treated. Young guys watching a lot of porn may not know about foreplay. But isn't it better that we teach each other how to have better more satisfying sex. Painful sex is traumatic for women. I guess the only comparison is if you as a man would be entered anally with force and dry. How would that make you feel? How would that change your future feelings about sex? Also typo in my first post I meant the bad experiences have taught me to be more discerning.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love giving. I luv receiving but prefer giving esp once they get wet and start to move. I luv to get a face full I use the line i always finish second - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
He's a dickhead for not going down on you first to be honest. That dumbfounds me. But I cannot get over the gum. Who chews gum when you're getting down to business? WTF is this the Beverly Hillbillies?
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'swinger007' Well this post proves my point. I have commented on some forums on here about how when a bloke puts up a post only similar type subjects he gets torn to shreds by some extremely nasty vitriol. If a bloke had written how he always goes down and eats pussy 1st but doesn't get a blow job in return i can only imagine the 'advice' he would have received. Well if she had of spat gum out on your floor i think we would have stuck up for him.But the thing is, men are more often than not in control of proceedings. Generalising a bit yes. If the guy puts out he will usually have a great return. Ie orgasm.Women need bit more input than a guy for an orgasm or have you missed that bit of trivia?So Mr Swinger, beat that drum all you like, guys think they are the superior gender, they should lead like it instead of just thinking of getting the dick wet.
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Slow down ? Once a man relaxes into being blown, it's very easy for him to sit back and enjoy the ride... Try giving him a quick 30 second tease then let him know there's more of that to come after he reciprocates.. That should do it...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Play later. Did you meet this guy before getting to it? It’s a good way to suss them out first.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Must say you have met the wrong guys. Am sure guys love to go down too - maybe select better guys next time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe he wasn't into you but what an asshole spitting the gum and the dummy hope you find better next time. Don't understand the return the favour thing. You either enjoy it as I do and you do it well without expectation of reciprocation. But return the favour reminds me of doing out of obligation which I would presume turns out to be rather uninteresting and non climactic. Communication (and hopefully honest) and in person just for eats or drinks is the way to go
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
So elegantly trolled. What flavour gum do you chew whilst having sex? That new flavour, Bitter Righteousness?
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teejaylongsword
7 years ago
A guy who at the very least doesn't try any foreplay with a woman is surely a massive wanker. Please OP, never reward this jerk again with more of your time. You gave him ten minutes of oral! You sound like a wonderful lover but you deserve a wonderful lover yourself. As others have said, spend more time getting to know a lover before you get busy. Just because they seem good looking (I'm guessing here) over confident and horny doesn't mean they will be worth your generosity. As you can tell from previous responses, a good male lover knows to go down on the woman before the woman goes down on him. It's from the book 'Fucking for idiots'. It is good manners and obviously helps with being wet enough for penetration later on (although penetration should not be assumed). But guess what? Going down on a woman is fantastic fun (and you said you were fresh). It is a bot like kissing for me and I can do it for quite a while. Seeing a woman's face while she feels really good is a great turn on. While my head is down, my other end is high in the air rocking away and I get very hard indeed. It isn't your weight, your looks or anything (you look just fine) - you chose a dud. You deserved your orgasm (although I get this is not necessarily the goal) and you should have had it before him. It might be a little unromantic, but sometimes I will put a towel under the bottom of my lover - the first thing on my mind is to get those juices flowing. It literally makes me salivate - I love it
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have meet some awesome people on here, one guy I meet on here was seriously the best I’ve ever had (and i’ve actually shared gum while having sex with that person, it’s actually quite sexy and fun when both people are aware of it) I know it’s a roll of the dice when it comes to meeting people online, but I just can’t believe a 30 something year old guy would act the way he did. And the small amount of ‘sex’ we had hurt, because I was dry and I’m still sore now. This guy told me “I love to eat pussy”. If a girl said “I love anal” Then wouldn’t follow through with it, that would be frustrating as fuck! Like why bother saying that if your not going to do it!? It’s false advertising! I love giving oral to guys, I love the taste, the sensation in my mouth and the sound they make as I’m doing it but I never see it as a “chore” or “burden” I want to do it for the guy I’m with, because recieving oral sex is amazing (Duh!) and I want them to have a good time. My original question was “am I in the wrong to expect them to return the favour?” It’s like if a guy was on top for a while, I would give him a break and I would hop on top. I don’t expect the guy to do all the work, but I don’t want to do all the work either? It takes two to tango, the effort should be split in my book And at the end of the day, if the lady had a good time, she’ll probably want to do it again! That means more sex for you! (Ta-dah! Lol) The people who have done it for me are definitely hearing from me again because I enjoyed the whole experience I’m not saying sex without it completely sucks, but foreplay is very important for woman - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hope my babies play nicely in the big red sandpit for the rest of today, because I'm not going to be able to sort their shit out. Just got home from work and half way through a glass of wine, so I can't go back on to site 😁
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RHP User
7 years ago
Posted in the wrong thread. Soz. Too much wine already 😂
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Loves2Play2016
7 years ago
If your not going to focus on you playmates needs in the oral department then it’s gonna fail in my book, Hubby always pays special attention to my needs and the needs of his playmates always full stop. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Have we run out? Surely not. I'm sure we had shit loads....
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Rlee552
7 years ago
The great thing about this site is you can be honest in what makes you hard or wet. The risk though is people say what they think you need to hear in order to have sex with you. So, first off that guy was a dick, albeit not a hard dick. Secondly, I wouldn’t think of it as returning a favour. It’s not a ledger to be balanced off or a chore - instead it is frigging amazing to be between a ladies legs pleasuring her. It should be something he enjoys ... if he doesn’t, but has lied to you about it, then again he is a dick. Third, and I think this will now be clear from the responses, there is a large number of guys who think giving oral sex is hot. You may have had a run of bad luck, but you will find more who love this act. If it is mentioned in his profile, ask him what he likes about it. You may tell from his response whether he is being truthful. If it is not in his profile, ask him some general questions to see what he is into. If you ask straight away whether he likes giving oral sex, I bet 99% of the men would say yes regardless of whether that was truthful.
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sweet_cherry69
7 years ago
Hun from all the previous comments on here and definitely from older men in their late 30s-40s etc it’s a given that you cum first!! I’ve found most men in their 20s think they know better but really have no idea on how to give pleasure to women. We women have to stick together and be forthright in what we want in our sexual escapades 😈💋😝🍒 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
7 years ago
I am sorry you had this totally crap experience. Like to think there's more good eggs than bad. Personally I believe oral should be incorporated into one's repertoire of play activities, or if (for some unknown reason) a person finds it gross be upfront. Not wrong to expect reciprocation in my opinion, if you discussed it prior. Having checked your profile I reckon this guy not only a disrespecting arse hat for spitting on your floor and trying dry penetration, I reckon he messed up a good thing. I hope you mend soon and keep being wonderful please I feel like to offer you oral without reciprocation or other sex just to make up for the asshat and I like to give. But well, we dont know each other and I might be just out of your age range.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
I'm still baffled why you'd allow him to start fucking you if you were not wet? Let alone just continue on like a jolly good sport. You really need to be more assertive and confident enough to use your voice. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Swingingnudist
7 years ago
Anniewhichway READ what i have written. I stated that if a guy had written that a female didn't return the favour he would have received all sorts of abuse and vitriol. NOTHING about what this particular guy did was right or wrong. I know from reading these posts that you are a serial of male posters on here so you are 1 of the people i was referring to.
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
Love, some folks have said that you should make sure they do you first before you go down on them, and while that may work, I wouldn't recommend it... Why? Because that won't filter the dickheads out, and that right there is your problem. I know you said you had a few messages back and forth with these guys before meeting and I don't know what was said in those messages but I can only assume that you're a bit too young to be able to judge when a guy your messaging is full of shit because, god damn girl, I'm quite sure that every woman I have ever been with only whole life would have fucking booted me out the door if when the action started up I continued chewing gum! Sweet Jesus! - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
"Bitter righteousness" flavour gum, that's funny! - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Irony is a Christmas that keeps on giving - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Get them in to the 69er position. Ps i would love to lick your pussy :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Typical, one inconsiderate guy soiling things for the rest of us 😞😞 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawkeye_au
7 years ago
Its shit behaviour. I love eating out. I don't get what is with other guys expecting head and not returning the favour. Its probably one of the two best ways to get a woman really turned on: kissing well or giving her clit a tongue massage. Little bit of effort goes a long way.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'swinger007' Anniewhichway READ what i have written. I stated that if a guy had written that a female didn't return the favour he would have received all sorts of abuse and vitriol. NOTHING about what this particular guy did was right or wrong. I know from reading these posts that you are a serial of male posters on here so you are 1 of the people i was referring to. Really? Abuse the Woman who had invited him into her house and spat chewing gum on her floor. I would suggest you take time out from banging your drum and consider each topic on its merits.And I'll keep posting the way I do if not for this very reason.Want some gum?It's a popular flavour........l think you'll love it
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am always up front about what I want and expect. I always know what is expected of me. Sorting out the "kinks" so to speak before a meet. Not everything can run smoothly though. It depends on the man as well. His level of honesty with you. Agree with some forumites on the fact that some will say anything to get into your pants. It is your right to kick someone out if they are not what you expect or to not let them in at all. At least one meet can solve this problem before you get to the bedroom. But even in saying that you can get there and its still not right. I have always been the type of person who doesn't have to receive even though I have given. In a perfect world yes. But I love to give just for the hell of it sometimes and that is enough for me just getting someone off and sometimes I just like to receive. Being in a relationship now it is easier because as someone mentioned it is not about keeping score on who does what. It just takes the spontaneity out of it all. You do not have to feel obligated to have sex with someone if you are not turned on and I feel for you having a dry run as it is extremely unpleasant. This guy sounds like an asshole and there is plenty out there. In saying that there is also some great guys who are highly respectful and considerate. Its about doing the hard yards to get what you want and not just accepting any random guy who will tell you what you want to hear. It is pretty hard going for both sexes. Having the little conversation about expectations is worth it from both sides. I don't mean a blow by blow account just put it out there what you want. Goodluck with your experience and I hope you find some great guys who follow through.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sweetheart. Firstly, take a look in the mirror so you can see you are a princess! Secondly, take a deep breath and start filtering! What you need to remember is you have what every guy wants! Life is short and dickhead's are plenty! Thirdly, learn from your experience. People are giving great advice here because we have all been somehow here before. Lastly, Realise, a true man receives more pleasure by making you happy and completely satisfied. A true man is a both a gentleman and a protector! Good luck on your quest!🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love eating pussy more than fukin it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love eating pussy more than fukin it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Adopt the policy you don't give you don't get😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The fact that you invited him to your place is disturbing too. It's all too obvious you didn't know him very well.
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SensualGuy
7 years ago
Chewing gum ? Lol - did he have his cap on backwards too - Posted from rhpmobile
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Naughty_nature
7 years ago
Definitely pick better men chewing gum? Can't comment on other men and only ever met 2 women who didn't give oral at all which I accepted but loved me to give which is great because nothing better than to have a woman orgasam as your down there don't far us all with the same brush. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Gives guys a bad rap. To be honest I like to go down first. Turns me on as much as the lady. Bad form not to at least give it a try. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Xxalex
7 years ago
I usually am the first to jump in for oral, then we tend to move straight into the horizontal dance... And I end up missing out. Happened so many times... I love giving it, but receiving it every now and then is always nice. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wow well i won't have sex with a woman unless I get to perform cunnalingus first, it's my golden rule - Posted from rhpmobile
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charliefred13
7 years ago
All can say is the guy is a dick. Sounds like just wanted head and that was sit. Perhaps could look at older men who understand what a woman wants. Maybe include 69 in your foreplay. I have been with several woman and always go down on her first getting her excited and wet. It is so much better for her. I like to make her cum first
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s brutal I know, but that’s the honest truth. Gotta have the chemistry so he wants to perform cunninlingus on you, not just be polite. Gum on your floor, yuk! So as the others say, aim higher, and don’t take em on the first date, and dispense your treats sparingly. The only chick I couldn’t go down on, had a shitty stinky arse that I could smell as she gave me fellatio! Gotta be really comfortable with sex partners, I think. It’s a very close relationship. Check them out on the forums as well as their profiles. If they sound like bitches, and nomptys in the forums, they’ll probably be that in the cot! So many people come over aggressive, inflexible and stereotypical, which sounds strange for what could be considered a liberal topic, sex. Take pubic hair for instance, everyone snootily bangs on about having their public area as bald as a badger, however most I’ve experienced or even seen, have been sparse, and tatty as an old hedge! Girls with luxuriant trimmed bushes, step this way! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Frankdtank
7 years ago
The problem being us "normal" guys dont get a chance over the so called studs. Im not huge, not sexy but i tell you what the first thing i do to a lady is go down on her. To me and probably a lot of "normal" guys, hearing a girl moaning in pleasure while im going down on her is nothing but amazing...a real turn on for me and i want her to cum before me, and after, before, after lol There is nothing wrong with your size, hygiene or anything else its just the wrong guys omg looking at your photos i would go down on you right now - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You look absolutely fantastic and I am personally looking for friends who would love to be eaten out with no return of the favour needed. It is a real shame you are experiencing this and absolute rudeness as well. Not wveryone is like this and I am sure your kuck will change soon Kepp being beautiful xxxx 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Stay positive huh... Sexual experiences like that just make us all feel like shit... Just know one thing... Not everyone is the same😉😉😉 When u find those willing to reciprocate enjoy yourself 😈😈😈 Guys who brag generally are not worth the effort... Watch out for some of the quiet types 😎😎😎 Perhaps some mature types your comfortable with may be a better match 😆😆😆
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S_Jay
7 years ago
I’m not sure why they don’t! It’s literally my favourite thing in the world to do. I generally try to get in first because I don’t like to wait ;) haha I could dine there for hours! I’m very much into that so I could do that with no reciprocation actually! I just enjoy it! I’m sorry you’ve had a bad experience with that, just have to find the right guy I think ;) Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
agree with a few posts here that guy should give first.....its the gentlemen thing to do - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
There is no way in the world that I would not return the favour, you are picking the wrong guys, I myself love giving & receiving oral. Not only would I lick your clit, I would also give G spot stimulation with my magic fingers. As for the chewing gum, that is just plain rude. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Im amazed to ready some of the comments form women in this thread.... what kind of man does LOVE going down on a woman??? It is with out doubt the most sensual and erotic gift and man can give. Personally I cannot eat a woman out for long enough!! Some of my favorite playmates are women who like for me to visit them and provide a nice long slow oral worship session, it can easily go 2 hours or more of non stop licking and rimming.... and often times we dont even fuck... i just pleasure them unselfishly until they have had enough deep and intense orgasms...lol I love to take a woman to that orgasmic plateau, then back off... keeping her agonisingly and frustratingly close to the dge with letting her go over it till I am good and ready for me, oral is its own reward... I pat very close attention ot every response and movement and I always give my best. so I am sorry to the women who get these rude and selfish pricks.... we arent all like that DSP
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RHP User
7 years ago
But I see too many people here "choosing partners" only by their pictures. I'd say focus on behaviour. How they chat online AND in person. Usually eaters lean more towards lovers than raging animals types. I can't picture a passionate guy just spitting gum in your floor... "eating" (not sure if I like this term) is just like kissing. If he is not up to kissing, don't expect much of the later. just saying. Best of luck to you! - Posted from rhpmobile
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nudeguy
7 years ago
Its a must ... and i am not selfish .. love going down on women .. trust me. If a guy doesn't go down on a lady then his intentions are clear ... Contact me ... hehe - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
One of the first things I do, is always go down on my partner. For me, It's just a normal part of my sexual routine. As much as I enjoy the favor returned, I don't expect it. I much prefer knowing my partner is satisfied, before anyrhing else. Unfortunately though, my time on RHP has yielded no encounters at all, so I haven't been able to share my passion, so to speak. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I would love to know who actually actions, what they say. 😎😝 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
These threads are always good for a laff (Not for the topic itself but for the crowd of guys jumping up and down yelling ''pick me pick me!!")
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RHP User
7 years ago
If I may make a suggestion... Type out a resume listing all of your pussy-licking skills in great detail, including at least three verifiable and contactable references. Also include any pussy-licking courses you've completed and awards you've received. Send your resume to the OP with a cover letter outlining why you think you are the best man for the job. Wait and see if you're shortlisted for an interview!
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RHP User
7 years ago
From a personal point of view I love going down on a woman... I love it when she starts playing with my hair, and arching her back! Personally prefer giving than receiving, but 69 is amazing! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I would love to know who actually actions, what they say. 😎😝 Ms Foxy Foxy..... Haven't you read enough *ads* in this topic already? LOL DG
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ummm we both do Foxy 😈😈😈
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Descending into adverts from the guys "I can lick pussy for hours....."
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not all guy do this tho so i hope you find the one you looking for - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Must admit, it is the biggest turn on for me to give oral to be women!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MrMeSeeksYou
7 years ago
What a tool. I personally love going down on a woman. Hmu ;P - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Providing they are very clean, count me in. You should try Mature men as they appreciate a woman more. - Posted from rhpmobile
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fundamentallaw
7 years ago
The OP (rightly) complained about reciprocity. The problem lies in the expectation of reciprocity, "tit for tat". Any gentleman worth his salt as a lover understands that his (joyous) task is to have his partner reach such a state of arousal that she is more or less begging for (his) cock. This goes wrong in many ways. 1. The man is ignorant. 2. The man is clumsy. 3. The man is selfish. We have experienced all 3, unfortunately sometimes in combination. The simplest approach, often the best approach, is to say "I want, I need" and be explicit. Absent clear direction, especially with a new/unfamiliar lover, the lady is likely to have a less-than-terrific experience. There is some good news. Men might not be educable, but they are largely trainable. Given that they want pussy, they will follow instructions. ("I have the pussy, I make the rules.") Now for the best news. Some men actually learn. They become expert at reading their partners, respond to those needs, and become quite expert at pushing their lady partners to ever higher states of arousal. Two things follow. (1) They are invited back. (2) Ladies speak among themselves. As a result, they tend to be in demand.
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happypatch
7 years ago
This is a subject close to my heart. I have a little extra padding, but i also have a friend that this has happened to. I gave her the same advice as I give you now.... Pleasure starts at home. You don’t need to be so generous with your talents. Make them work for the great experience that you enjoy giving. It’s not a charity and sex is about everyone walking away with a smile on their faces. Be strong and resist the urge to sell yourself short. Men will work harder for sex if you are not so desperate to please them first. Not saying you are (desperate) but we do have a choice and holding out or even declining will ensure a great Sexual experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mr here 😊 given the choice of going down on a lady or having sex with her i will take oral every day i love it, perhaps because you are going down on them 1st they get so excited that all they then think about is their own pleasure. When i receive head about 60 sec in i have to ask the girl to stop because the whole time all i can think of is lucking her over and over again until she can take no more then it can be my turn - Posted from rhpmobile
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Chillymofo
7 years ago
Even in this thread, ive read so many guys - "Oh i love to reciprocate" Bullshit - here is the secret - and its really easyIf he's not going down on you first - then piss him off A real man should be taking the lead and throwing you on the bed and nuzzling you all over. If the guy your with is a little more on the submissive side - then you take over - throw HIM on the bed, and make him eat you Either way, a real gentleman will be doing you first Remember - Good guys will get the door for you and let you in first - this is no different Respect yourself enough to piss them off if they're not prepared to get you going first
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RHP User
7 years ago
She loves giving it and so does he. We are in a constant war as she always stops him doing it cos she wants him inside her. She can give head for ages but he wants to do the same in return for as long as she does. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Time to unfollow this thread. Lol. I'm out
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RHP User
7 years ago
That is a very interesting post and I am very sorry that experience left you a little bewildered, to say the least.I guess perhaps what we all should do is before we go into this wonderful sex free life that seems to be apparent with partners not understanding what deep secrets we all keep. My opinion is before entering into a sexual understanding of whoever you select for your kinky fuckery I would have hoped that they had a definite maturity of their own needs and communicated this to you before anything occurred. If you do not do that first you could possibly awaken Hitler himself (aka as we all know he was never found was he lol) back to my profound knowledge of understanding people is yes something you didn't do or perhaps did do trigger a past bad experience and his anger ignited.. now this isn't anyone's fault because .. what you don't understand or know about something, well you just don't know The above saying is hard to explain - I guess what i am trying to say is he should be more aware of his issues before his explosion or somewhat none existence of his no-show of you know what... anyway, this is his journey and don't make it your problem deal with it.. talk about it.. and move forward. that is what I have done and it works.. I must admit though the last two years is exactly what I did his reaction to a triggered event this limited my growth and altered it like a brick cement wall .. and it was the most frustrating time in my life this feeling or trigger did this many times in the last 2 and a bit years until i realised that growth and moving forward cannot occur if you don't revisit those shitty moments that you thought once you had already dealt with. Don't underestimate your powerhouse which is your MIND... it holds everything you have done and will do until you die.. to embrace yourself visit if you have to the past deal with it with the right tools and live a full beautiful life.. that is my opinion..
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can literally count on 3 fingers the number of men I've been with who have a genuine love of giving oral, and who are actually good at it. So many say they're into it, but don't deliver when it comes down to it. Consequently, I'm taking all the ads in this topic with a large pinch of salt. Except for one... you know who you are 😉
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HighlandFox
7 years ago
Seriously can't understand any guy that wouldn't make a point of pleasuring his lady first. I'd never ask nor expect to receive head before I'd given satisfaction my partner. Is it a generational thing amongst young guys? I have a feeling age brings with it more respect. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'll eat Evey part of the girl first ass clip and anything else they want seriously I love it with a passion haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Prerequisite , try older guys . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love going down on a woman for hours
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The_Phoenix
7 years ago
Wildride, you have every right to expect something in return. It’s ok to ask. Communication never hurt anyone. Except obviously the gum chewing dick who was in it for himself only. ElkeM points out the bleeding obvious. Lots of guys suddenly posting about oral and how good they are. You know what guys, I think based on the female comments there is a hell of a lot more to being a complete lover than just licking some pussy for a bit. Amazingly women have a whole body aching to be touched, teased and kissed. I find listening works really well too.... BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Irony is... The op is all about said ads without the deliverance lol 😂😂 I’m in thread giving heaven right now lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Playfulfun
7 years ago
I always lick first, I will bury my head between legs well before I let a lady please me, nothings more empowering than knowing that my tongue can make them wet and wild. - Posted from rhpmobile
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GoodKarma
7 years ago
If you want that, then ask for it. Otherwise I would say that just because you give head, doesn't automatically entitle you to receiving it yourself. Enjoy without expectation. But otherwise that situation you mentioned sounds shit and guy spitting the gum sounds like a dick. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
Sorry you have been upset. To answer your question however, is not a simple 'I'd lick your puss all night, omg what is wrong with that guy. Thing is we don't know you and we don't know him and in all fairness, he is given no say as to why or how he perceived the moments with you and for what went on.Don't take this personally, but recently messaging him, he's a guy in the pie ? It's happened before where the one who has been put on show has recognised a topic like this and in defense answered with quite a different version and believable. One thing, Tara gets wet giving guys head, she always has, so has it been with girls we have played with. Why were you dry if you enjoy it so much ? Just a question. Mado Mado Tara xx
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Harryau1
7 years ago
Gorgeous You are having a bad run. I love giving oral and am usually the one to jump on it first. The way a women squirms and moves when you (you - as in me) get it just right is to die for. And I mean how I feel, not the lady -sorry - but I'm assuming they're probably enjoying it as well! You've been jibbed a number of times, and that's...disappointing. You deserve amazing oral. If the boys (or girls) are doing it right, it should be amazing for them as well. And gum...WTF??? Their an immediate turn off... signals... Regards Harry
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EveryNowAndThen
7 years ago
You sound like you have a very generous nature, and from your description of the lengths you go to with providing oral sex, you are genuinely willing to please. It’s easy to understand how you're questioning your own expectations for mutual foreplay after those recent encounters. This particular encounter you describe happened even though you'd said you had a fair bit of preliminary texting, so you'd checklisted him enough to let him into your home. Aside from dealing with the eventual shock of Mr soft cock spitting his gummy dummy in utter utter utter despicable rudeness, your question relates to why wasn't the oral sex favour returned, and honesty around communicating sexual preferences. If these guys are saying that they love cunnilingus, yet during sex they don't show any evidence of that, any wonder you're confused. Some might say what they think women want to hear, some may have genuinely loved it, but for some reason didn't gift you with their prowess. Personally, I think the timing of the blowjob might be out: if you are giving great head right up front, going like a trooper for 10 mins, the guys ability to focus on you and your needs might decrease. Not everyone can come back from a great blowjob and tend to their partners needs. But those same people (maybe), if you blow them a little, and then ask them, or show them with your body, for 'your turn', or suggest a 69 in the moment, then they may well be at a stage where they'd be ravenous for pleasuring you. If they actually decline, that's an issue, a real sign they're not walking their talk, and have misled you. I think your encounters might be better if you saved your fully generous fellatio skills until a bit later in the session. It also comes to mind that you are young and may be finding that generous people can be taken for granted, even taken advantage of. Your own maturing discernment, your personal radar, will become your guide for future choices of sexual partners. Sexual etiquette is a very real thing. Everyone has the right to be treated respectfully, and taking that a bit further, most people love to feel treasured by attention and demonstrations of intent to please you. I feel it has less to do with gender etiquette (eg. a man 'should' do this or that for a woman), and more to do with just being different beings, genuinely respecting each other. I’d personally caution against setting a rigid rule or condition, such as who goes first, or an obligation for reciprocation, as there are potentially so many wonderful sexual encounters that fall outside these rules. Maybe its just a general condition, but not always. Just by enforcing rules, respect or genuine favour does not necessarily follow. Given that people (not only men) can 'say anything', all the forms of communication become important. Texting can provide a certain amount of clues about a person, phone calls provide even more: people who seem genuinely kind, warm, good listeners, all those type of things are a good indication they may be more likely to share in the bedroom. If you then go on to meet for a coffee or a drink (which can be very sexy as well, it's also a kind of foreplay), and they show signs of respect to you and the staff, demonstrations of social etiquette, listens and acknowledges to you while you speak, and most of all doesn't chew gum while talking to you...you could be well on the way to a mutually enjoyable second meeting :)
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cactusjack52
7 years ago
For me, having sex without eating pussy is, well, like eating a pie without tomato sauce.WildRide99, have you considered playing with an older gentleman?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would lick, suck and pump that big ass of yours. I bet your pussy is delightful too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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