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Why don’t they return the favour?
February 16 2018
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MrNatural77
5 years ago
For me there is nothing more intimate than a woman opening her legs for you to pleasure her orally. When she orgasms, she's at her most vulnerable, breathless and pliable state that makes the sex that follows amazing.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Speaking only for myself. I love going down on women, and always return the favour. As I see it It’s not expecting too much. Hope you find some better partners and have better experiences in future 😊
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RHP User
5 years ago
I couldn’t believe what I was reading from the OP! Personally I love going down on a beautiful pussy. In fact, over time in relationships I’ve found the reverse has actually been the case! 🤷🏻♂️
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RHP User
5 years ago
Your choosing the wrong guys.......... tell them what you like in your conversations before you meet 🙂
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MsFlirt
5 years ago
It’s very interesting to me that sometimes the guys who talk the most about pleasuring women are the least effective at it. And yet for others, it’s as natural as breathing. I write erotic stories and I have had two long term lovers who for whatever reason I’ve never written about. But I should. Because one of them would just literally feast on my pussy and make me feel like the sexiest woman alive. Not only that, but he would write to me about it afterwards in explicit, raw and animalistic language telling me exactly how I tasted, how I felt, how I looked, how I smelt, how I moved. And also what he wanted to do to me next time. And then the other, a far more conservative man sexually, would just surprise me. One time we met with the sole intention of me giving him a blowjob in the car. Not something I normally do and it was for a very specific reason and I was just wanting to totally spoil him and blow his mind. And it was going so well, until abruptly he shoved my seat back, ripped my skirt up, shoved my legs apart and roughly pushed my panties to the side, telling me he just had to taste me. And he did. Over and over. Fuck! I actually had to shove him away so I could get on with having my wicked way with him! Maybe because of my weight, my personal body issues, the fact I have multiple scars from fertility treatments and childbearing, wobbly bits, pubic hair that just does its own thing these days (one of the joys of aging they don’t tell you about), stretch marks and so on I find it very confronting to let myself be so vulnerable, and in fact have sometimes pushed away from a partner’s advances in eating me out. But then I meet an amazing lover who just accepts all of me and who can’t get enough of me, someone who is as generous and attentive as I like to think I am. If I really click with someone it wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me if they didn’t pleasure me orally. But if they made me feel bad about myself, made me feel dirty for wanting it or were a selfish lover in any other way then buh bye baby .... I’m out of there!
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carl_louis
5 years ago
Giving oral and 69'ing are the most fun things to do. It shouldn't matter what has happened previously. The pleasure of the other person is pretty well the thing that makes sex fun. Unreciprocated gratification leaves you feeling empty.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Sorry to hear you have been let down by some selfish arse. Not all guys are wired to ignore the desires of a lady. I love a woman sitting on my face, sounds like the blokes you've had are very selfish and only care about them selves. On behave of the guys who love to make a lady cum with the use of their tongue, I would like to say not all of us would let a lady get away without first giving her a good licking and fingering. I hope you find better blokes who are willing to satisfy your desires.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Disappointing you’ve had such poor experiences WildRide99. I rarely miss a chance to give oral! Women taste delicious. Love giving pleasure! Any arsehole that cracks the shits and spits their gum out because they’re crap in or around the bed, is a poor excuse for a human being.
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RHP User
5 years ago
absolutely love to give oral to a woman, whole of my mouth over her, using my tongue in different directions, fast/slow and also at the same time use toys or fingers.... Mmmmm, give me more.
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RHP User
5 years ago
69 are you kidding me? Do people still do that? Focus on one at a time, because you both deserve it. 69 is the worst sex position for me anyway. Neither person gets full satisfaction from it and you can't get close enough etc because of height difference and all of that is distracting. If you think the woman is satisfied with that, I would suggest most wouldn't be
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Mask_007
5 years ago
Op. I must say is extremely rude in his behalf... I don't believe is ok what he did. I have seen some girls going out with some guys just because of they looks and the not often get satisfied. And some go out with guys not so good looking and have the best time ever... I don't know. Definitely couldn't say.
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Mask_007
5 years ago
I definitely can say about me. I would, sex without eating a girl is not sex...
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Mischeviouslad
5 years ago
Mask..... that’s such a bizarre thing to say. The comparative looks of two people do not automatically correlate to their sexual comparability Who someone chooses to be with is a complex set of preferences and emotions and for you to assume or establish their sexual satisfaction on the basis of looks, and above all other factors in their decision to be together.... is just wrong
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Dionysus3002
5 years ago
Crack the whip and get them down on you first, some of us just can’t contain our excitement 😂 Seriously though, what’s not to love about a girl squirming uncontrollably as she cums in your face? 🤤
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Bikenut
5 years ago
Nothing nicer than the feel of a woman coming on your face. Sounds like you have not met the right men
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hotsexy2
5 years ago
That’s when u say we r doing 69 no excuses and stay sitting on his face til he can’t breath lol
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RHP User
5 years ago
Aim higher girl friend 😛
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RHP User
5 years ago
Man should always tr(eat) her girl right!!
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ITEOTWAWKI
5 years ago
I think the appropriate term for these guys who don't return the favour is that they are selfish. I can think of nothing worse than receiving oral sex from someone and then not reciprocating.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Wildride Seems you pick the wrong guys. I absolutely love to go down on a woman. Prefer it to a bj any day
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non_such
5 years ago
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/8qwyz5/why-some-men-wont-eat-pussy https://www.vice.com/en_au/article/qkg785/men-explain-in-great-detail-why-they-dont-eat-pussy
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RHP User
5 years ago
I personally enjoy giving women oral, i aim to please, but i prefer giving over recieving. You might be looking in the wrong places. Or just picking up a single type of male.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’ve stopped giving it first - solves all my problems now 😂 Yes i’m amazing at it and after guys read my validations that’s all they want when they meet me.... but if my needs don’t get met they’re not getting it. Plain and simple :)
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Marzy
5 years ago
first its kissing and touching then you move on to removing clothing then you start kissing the lady everywhere then slowly work your way to the honey pot and then start with soft figure 8's around the clit then push your tongue in ....i think you know the rest
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Mischeviouslad
5 years ago
Script? Really?? If you're following the same “script” with every woman..... I’d say you're not being present with any of them by thinking your script is better than her feedback Think about it.
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IamwhoIam
5 years ago
Whenever I read or hear stories along the lines of WildRide's encounter I genuinely feel embarrassed to be a male although I have to concede, somewhat ashamedly, that back when I was 'just a lad' I probably didn't afford a lot of consideration to what a girl wanted or even if she was enjoying it As I matured I did however 'wake up to myself' and, perhaps subconsciously, try to make up for my early failings to the stage where I really don't enjoy sex unless my partner is also. For whatever reason I also find that, even if the sexiest woman in the world walked into my house, stripped and spread her legs in front of me, its just not going to happen. I need to spend a little time getting to know her first. For me, there is nothing more erotic than a woman's aural feedback as I caress and tease with fingers or tongue or those little shudders you elicit from her when you get it 'just right' and not to mention the intoxicating feel and aroma of her juices flowing freely I used to be a little uncomfortable with a woman sucking my dick because I had a perception it was somewhat demeaning to a woman but, provided she genuinely enjoys doing it, I can now enjoy it immensely. As for the gum....nothing to say except the obvious...bloody disgusting!!
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ladylover
5 years ago
Boring!
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blix_and_queen
5 years ago
Set your expectations higher and ask for what you want. Personally a woman should always be pleasured well before the man is, in my opinion.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I love giving back!! For me the feeling of pulling her underwear to one side and sliding my tongue in is just the best feeling running my nails down her inner thigh and feeling her gasp and quiver, I prefer it!! Hope you find some quality out there soon disappointing to hear team male are not stepping up to the plate
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ItalianVoice
5 years ago
If I see that my partner is clean (that's my only real concern about the topic...) I'm all for eat! I am a very realistic person... Men could have problems, issues, they could be good, there could be an "unfit" penetration (like our genitals don't like each other 🤣) etc... So I always start trying to give my partner an orgasm with my mouth, or my hands... Or both... I mean... After I come I can relax, I can be too tired or whatever... And leaving my partner unsatisfied is very bad... ... And the pleasure in feeling her moaning, leaded by my mouth... It's unbelievable!
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Up2Mischief
5 years ago
Absolute travisty. Reciprocation is second nature and for another to pass up on the opportunity to enjoy the arched back, the subtle moan, the tension that builds and the twisted buckling induced encountered through the pleasure of teasing the heck outta her and then pushing her over the edge..... Damn that is a requirement every MAN should know to be second nature. Nothing more satisfying than to pleasure until your begged to F@#k her. Never leave until she has been exhausted of all her appetite for the flood.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Well it takes all people to make up the world, and some of them are not me...To WildRide99 – You have every right to be angry. You were unfairly treated.I am glad that you are bold enough to call this out. Thank you, as it shows that some are less than meeting expectations. I am happy to out it out there,,,,Guys in the spirit of making good on the bad treatment of others, let the Brothers band together to say NO to this practice with positive action.I dare any male to repeat my offeringWomen, in the spirit of making good on the bad of others, If you ask me on a date/booty call/meeting etc and use the words “Revive Valentine” I will go down on you for no less than 30 minutes without any request to return the favour.Let me be clear to all you interstate women not from Perth, Sorry ladies, unless you are paying for the flight I can not help you, I do not travel interstate often enough to accommodate you.So lets prove that there are men out there willing-happy-hungry to make good on any lady who wants to “Revive Valentine”...And No you cant book me for Tuesdays and Thursdays every week of the year lol...One GIFT per person...to say sorry for past offences.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I consider myself to be very good with giving oral sex and pleasuring. I'm fairly uncomfortable receiving oral probably because it's something I'm not used to as past partners have not been into that. To me, a woman's body is a magical temple to be pampered, pleasured, and enjoyed in the most respectful, caring, kind, and uplifting way(s) possible. I would like to think women in the main feel the same way about returning that favour with me (as a guy) or with another woman, or with a couple. I've never had the opportunity to be with a couple, and none of my past partners have been interested (that I know of) in other women or other couples. I feel it's a massive honour for a beautiful woman to share oral with a man (or woman, or couple), and I go out of my way to make it very special because that's what a guy is supposed to do right? I do not like selfish attitudes to sex and intimacy.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I always reciprocate, it's just good manners. But I,m oraly fixated 😋😋😋
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RHP User
5 years ago
Can't answer why the favour isn't returned. But myself personally prefer to give than receive
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Meuner2
5 years ago
Well what can I say. I do love to eat pussy, play with boobs & butt.AND I do it most of the time as soon as I can , if you please the girl she will please you .
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RHP User
5 years ago
I would say I love it and I would definitely do my best, but I also think it is a little bit in communication. We are silly and we might think we did a good job when I might not have been enough. A keep going r even an after chat with a “you could have been there longer”, “let’s try again but longer” or even giving pointers it’s is always a great way to make sure you are fully please ;)
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RHP User
5 years ago
I would say I love it and I would definitely do my best, but I also think it is a little bit in communication. We are silly and we might think we did a good job when I might not have been enough. A keep going r even an after chat with a “you could have been there longer”, “let’s try again but longer” or even giving pointers it’s is always a great way to make sure you are fully please ;)
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RHP User
5 years ago
I have to agree with Dave and bob. I get off on making a woman orgasm and the more they do as well as the wetter they get the more I want to go down on them. Making her whole body shiver and shake with pleasure in every way I can. I’m sure the Gentleman out there will agree with me. If a guy is good in bed, he wants to give as much as he can. Find out what they guys like to do before playing with them. That’s just my opinion.
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NOR_GUY75
5 years ago
I don't understand guys who refuse to go down on their girl...it's one of life's great pleasures, the taste, the smell, the sound of a girl being brought to climax...I'd much rather be the one going down first...I find once a girl has cum she is more determined to make sure you are satisfied too, any guy who doesn't like to satisfy his girl, just isn't worth it!
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Sassyandsweet
5 years ago
No disrespect to those lovely guys that have responded with ... I ALWAYS RETURN THE FAVOUR.. and while i'm sure many of you do.. i have read many screens be it RHP App, KIK, Messenger, sms where i've read the same words and of course in the bedroom its a very different story.. not always.. and i'm not putting you all in the same box.. but just saying WILDRIDE99 has made a valid point.. Not sure if people get swept away in the words and passion and the fantasy of it all being on the other side of a screen but seldom do I experience what I've been told.. my last encounter kept going on and on about wild kisses and making love looking deep into my eyes while he makes me cum again and again and again... Yeah awesome erotic fiction.. after he cum (10 minutes into the session) .. i think he may well have forgot about the cum again and again and again not to mention eating my pussy slipped his mind as well... lol But in all my harshness I do have a few regulars who don't actually message what they are going to do to me and just come over and do it.. and to those people.. thank you xx
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RHP User
5 years ago
Wow, you definitely have a right to be pissed, that’s disgusting behaviour on any occasion. It also goes towards giving the guys on here a bad rep. In regard to not returning the favour, well I guess that just comes down to the individual. My one and only catchup I had from this site ended with the girl squirting all over my face and nearly drowning me lol. It was awesome and amazing and frankly I didn’t care in the slightest that I never got to fuck her, there was plenty of mutual pleasure given and received. On the flip side, I’m in the process of taking my profile as I’m continually frustrated by ladies saying one thing and wanting another. So I guess it goes both ways to a degree. Anyway good luck, At the end of the day talk is talk, proof is in the muff.in (or should that be pudding).
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SonnyX
5 years ago
Is that true.. Its 2020..normally i start with giving oral before receiving some.. I love oral play more than sex.. If the woman ask for sex in the end, im gna give her.. But if she prefers to continue with the oral play.. Im fine with it..
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Freak4u
5 years ago
Well I’m sorry that happens to you, maybe you're not picking the right guys? Me personally I love to go down town and make sure you’re well looked after before you get near my cock. I think it all comes down to what their personality is like, if they’re a greedy fuck or actually care how you feel
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RHP User
5 years ago
As a mature gent, I am not as fit as I was when I was younger. It takes me a little bit longer to recover between orgasms and I can't go all night anymore. Hence when I am with a partner I give her more than I receive. I like to go down on her first as part of our foreplay and do not come up for air until she has orgasmed. by this time she is wet, and ready for me to enter her. On every sexual encounter I ALWAYS ensure the woman orgasms more than me. At my age you have to go above and beyond what is expected, to ensure your partner or lover is satisfied and pleased.
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RHP User
5 years ago
If I buy you dinner do you owe me a fuck ? No If I open the door for you do you owe me a smile ? No If I drive you home do you owe me a snog ? No If I send you a message do you owe me a reply ? No So what’s with the outrage ?
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neverenoughfun
5 years ago
stick to doing 69. Solves all probs, everyone goes home happy.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Sorry to hear you’ve had shitty experiences with absolute assholes. Spitting gum on the floor is disgusting and trashy, I honestly can’t even comprehend it... I personally love going down on a woman, it’s such a massive turn on for me. I love receiving but far prefer giving in that sense! Hopefully you can find some nice genuine guys and turn it around! Have a great weekend xx
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tomosuh
5 years ago
Id be happy just to come over and get you oral for an hour without anything else☺️
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whatawaitsme
5 years ago
Crazy.. first thing I do. But then I love to please.
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ryan2469
5 years ago
It is entirely dependant on the care that the has gone into preventing and managing any unpleasant odours. And it swings wildly between women. A really cute 25yo with a great tidy body with a very aesthetically pleasing pussy had a quite strong smell, not infected or something, more just a very strong musk, I didn't like it, made the job hard. Another tidy 32yo was visually appealing all over and as i worked my way to having my head between her legs I was shocked at the total lack of smell, lack of taste, it was most pleasant. Talking about it after and she was well aware and very proud of it. So you can guess who got a lot more attention. Guys are the same though, especially those of us that have beanies. We are often very aware and onto keeping thighs whistle clean and expect the same. And you can imagine why a lot of guys are hesitant to get down there and have a go, they are prob scared from an experience when they were younger. I know plenty of unwashed dicks had left women wary of guys with beanies
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Newexperiences75
5 years ago
I enjoy giving it just as much as receiving it. You would have to fight me to see who goes down on who first 🤣. I think if it’s given it should be received but in saying that if I give it it’s never expected in return.
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hotqld
5 years ago
When we are with another couple now, the wife will not give oral unless the guy has proved himself giving her great oral.Took a while for her to say No with guys sticking their cock in her face expecting oral before they have given. Ladies cum first, is our style of playing.
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RHP User
5 years ago
You must had the wrong guys, text me ;-)
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RHP User
5 years ago
Well to all the replies they are awsome to read but I can say about my wife and I I love licking and fingering at the same time and sometimes if she has been a good girl I will use a toy on her while I lick and sick on her sweet pussy it’s mind blowing for the chick but it’s also mind blowing for a guy to know that they did that and plus the sex is even better once we all get our endorphins to max level but to your post I don’t under stand why guys don’t do it. COME ON MEN SHO those girls what we can accomplish you will love there response 🙂😇🤪🤩🥰😎😝😉🙃
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Fun2bhad
5 years ago
What on earth is wrong with these guys you're meeting? Spitting gum .... grub I have always found eating a woman's pussy such an arousing experience, watching as she reacts to each particular area or with different amounts of pressure. I have always considered oral sex from either side such an exploration of each others eroticism's. Nothing sexier than feeling a woman squirm and ultimately quiver on the end of my tongue. Love love love it
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paulalrkin
5 years ago
I all ways like to get my girl off before me it turns me on more feeling a women up with for play all ways its good for a tease . turns her on more get her wet then go down on her let her enjoy an orgasm before the man.
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RuralBiCple
5 years ago
(Male half) I have rejected 4 offers this week of oral only on me this week as I do not enjoy receiving it, now giving oral is a whole different matter. I can lay between a woman's legs for an hour plus enjoying the taste and smell and physical sensations on my tongue and lips, so much so I learned to keep my eyes closed as girl squirt stings like a bastard when it gets in your eyes(pro tip there guys) In all my communications I am clear on what I enjoy and expect and if they are not happy with it well too bad they miss out and some one else will have the fun they miss out on. Even if you are not sure on what you want say you want to try this that or the other but you may want to stop if you are not enjoying it. After all this is a bit of sexual fun not a life time commitment.
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toast1452
5 years ago
I love to go down on women and I also love knowing that they want me to.Maybe I'm just extra giving. One-way sex simply isn't good. You both need to be truly in it.That said -- some women and men are self-conscious and find it difficult to ask for fear of appearing pushy or being rejected. Communication is the key.If a woman tells me "I want you to give me oral", then I'm going to be like "Yes please!". Obviously a man who doesn't want to do that for you isn't right for you.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I’d happily eat because I like to give pleasure. Additionally, that male is highly inappropriate. Poor form!
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gypsyo
5 years ago
mine loves it he will go down on me every morning if i let himwhilst im not a morning head job giver he starts getting me wet and off he goesand happy to share him to my girl friends to
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yumwithcum
5 years ago
I love to lick, yum. Making a lady squirm. Taste and be tasted. Mutual fun is the best
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Mischeviouslad
5 years ago
19 pages of self advertisements RHP should re label this the Classifieds section 😂
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RHP User
5 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' 19 pages of self advertisements RHP should re label this the Classifieds section 😂 That this thread has lasted so long is amazing because it's based on a spurious argument in the first place. As far I have noticed it's gone right over the top of RHP's collective heads. I shave my pubic hair and I just had a shower before he came over. I don’t understand why they say they love give Oral sex and then don’t do it!?!?
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Mischeviouslad
5 years ago
Perhaps they just didn't want to do it with you?
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RHP User
5 years ago
I dlont know whats wrong with thosae guys, im pretty much always going down first, asnd then back for 2nds, 3rds 4ths, as the night progress. Most women taste great but occasisonly there are some that arent that great and its not a hygtine thing its to do with what they eat and drink, and find the ones that dont taste great, dont drink a lot of water, dont eat much fruits, and do cdrink a lot of coffee etc.. the ones that taste great, well i dlonty generally ask but i knew one of them didnt drinmk much water but did drink a lot of bubbly and she still tasted great.. So kept hydrated and know that if you take in a lot of bitter foods and foods with very strongs tates that will come through in your bodily fluids
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nothing2serioRHP
5 years ago
It’s a shame this is an old post. So he’s full of shit. I eat pussy, I think many do. You say you are a little overweight I bet most of us are. I think it’s considerate to return the favour, mutual oral at least give it a go if that’s what you promised, implied. I would think it would be a big thing for a girl to go down on a guy on a hook up. We have regular oral andits mutual. She knows I like getting sucked and I return the favour. I enjoy it but if I’m not feeling I generally know it’s going to be expected or at least appreciated. For a girl to hook up with a guy what is more personal or less intrusive interoperability or oral. Not talking about experimenting when you are young but hooking up as an adult. She has friends who openly say they don’t like sucking guys. Personally I don’t discuss much among friends around a sexual nature. It’s no secret I think it’s ok for girl on girl action but or I like Boobs but nothing. Specific.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Your picking the wrong blokes. I prefer to eat out than receive.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Has to be one for one for me essentially, personally i don't think im the greatest at oral on a girl, but i still manage to do it, ive heard many stories about other guys not doing it, not sure what's the problem everything should be mutual right? I would feel bad if i didn't. I'd think i wouldn't be contributing to the whole experience.
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