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Why is sex a race for so many men?
August 17 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe he missed out on that fable about the tortoise and the hare.Diametrically opposed to that scenario I'm afraid.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep absolutely. They are called NEXT!! That's why I don't enjoy doing random dudes from online... They are all about chasing the next Fuck before they have even finished fucking you. I don't think these guys know that they are bad in bed because women never tell them. They just never bother seeing them again, and it might also be partly because the guy doesn't care and he doesn't think a casual hookup deserves more consideration. It's just ordinary ordinary ordinary!!!! Beware the men who go on and on about their special powers. Those that really have them don't have to advertise so hard.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Yep absolutely. They are called NEXT!! That's why I don't enjoy doing random dudes from online... They are all about chasing the next Fuck before they have even finished fucking you. I don't think these guys know that they are bad in bed because women never tell them. They just never bother seeing them again, and it might also be partly because the guy doesn't care and he doesn't think a casual hookup deserves more consideration. It's just ordinary ordinary ordinary!!!! Beware the men who go on and on about their special powers. Those that really have them don't have to advertise so hard. Good luck. SF
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe they have never had a girlfriend to show them what passionate sex is about? Or they have been married for years and their poor wives didn't know any better?? They watch too much porn in you tube and think sex is supposed to finish in less than 5 minutes? . . . Although I think its probably a mixture of they don't respect the woman, they are not that into you and they have already decided that they are not going to see you again so why put in the effort.... Too cynical??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now that you mention it Meeka it is true when you say" Beware the men who go on and on about their special powers. Those that really have them don't have to advertise so hard". Some of the best lovers Ive had have never promised a thing yet More than delivered!! Oh well ....... NEXT!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
they can't believe their luck and hurry,just in case you change your mind
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Maybe they have never had a girlfriend to show them what passionate sex is about? Or they have been married for years and their poor wives didn't know any better?? They watch too much porn in you tube and think sex is supposed to finish in less than 5 minutes? . . . Although I think its probably a mixture of they don't respect the woman, they are not that into you and they have already decided that they are not going to see you again so why put in the effort.... Too cynical?? I thought the same thing as far as they don't bother putting in the effort because its a one off casual. Which is really disappointing , I like to make the most of any encounter and leave a lasting memory ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
What's with the men that change positions every minute? Just as you are getting into it they yell out change!! Now I know I am flexible but a guy going hammer and tongs on top of me while my legs are wrapped around my head isn't as pleasant as it looks. Surprisingly. LMAO!! ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'What's with the men that change positions every minute? Just as you are getting into it they yell out change!! Now I know I am flexible but a guy going hammer and tongs on top of me while my legs are wrapped around my head isn't as pleasant as it looks. Surprisingly. LMAO!! ;-) or they are going at it so hard and fast they are either pushing your head into the headboard or pushing you off the side of the bed so then they stop , grab you by the hips and pull you back into position and then continue, I keep waiting for the club to come out and wack me over the head!! I guess there are some guys out there that may have come across a female gorilla at times, would love to hear their thoughts And Freya.......Luv it
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
My view...... Perhaps you need to figure out how to screen a bit better. I've read and heard a LOT of comments where women say that the guy who talks a big game, rarely delivers. It seems that a lot of guys are just looking for a hole to get off inside..... they are using women as a masturbation pocket. Perhaps some assistance in this topic from women on how to identify these types would be if great benefit. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
He got what he came for did he not?? So in my mind....his technique worked.....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'My view...... Perhaps you need to figure out how to screen a bit better. I've read and heard a LOT of comments where women say that the guy who talks a big game, rarely delivers. It seems that a lot of guys are just looking for a hole to get off inside..... they are using women as a masturbation pocket. Perhaps some assistance in this topic from women on how to identify these types would be if great benefit. DG- Posted from rhpmobile Is that an offer of assistance DG Problem also is that they talk such a good game at times and get you so worked up that you just have to go there!! Ah wish I wasn't such a sucker for dirty talk
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks DG! But I prefer to have a whinge... cause its fun. Lol. I don't bother with the tools so.... Maybe if woman didn't have sex on the first date or meet, it would sort out some of them?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seduction, and sensuality. For that reason it take a LOT to impress me, and a lot of synergy before I relax and show even tiny hints of being impressive myself. I put men into 4 categories sexually, no fucking idea, jack rabbits, pleasant and gods of seduction. In my experience there's a direct correlation between the quality of conversation (on all manner of things) and how men behave sexually. By quality I don't mean intellect (though I find that very attractive) I mean the depth of their answers to questions, the quality of their questions, the way they talk about people, whether they're naturally positive, whether they reveal any tenderness, patience, humour in their words, and so on. I've found that men who fixate on sex in conversations seem desperate and I assume they'll have little control in person. Note I said fixate, not just talk about. I believe in letting the quality of your work speak for itself. Braggers are usually just full of hot air.
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Beachlover1999
11 years ago
Great post and something that has gone through my head and ummm body on occasion...... How do you screen these guys to prevent it from re occurring!!! Such a waste of time and negative energy, never mind frustration!!!!! Sooo We need to develop a full proof screening tool, evidenced based of course...... Need to develop standard Q's that will ensure vanilla marathon types from slipping into the net!!!!! How personal can the Q's be without being a turn off, ie how long does it take you to cum and THEN how long before your ready to go again - I'm hot and need you to keep going as well as perform as per previous dialogue!!!! Think could either be effective or fun!!!! ;))))
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it's bad sex, why the hell not just get up, get dressed, and leave. Women burnt their bras for a reason, way back when :)
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
I don't think that you will actually get any guys that will admit to be 'racers' for fear of being left out in the cold with the rest of the girls on site here. I don't of course know the extent of your experience with your 'racers', but may I suggest that most may be younger guys ? As Meeka and Freya have put forward, some of course probably don't believe their luck, and get in'n'out before you have the chance to change your mind. Also, I would suggest that as guys start their pubescence they are instinctively in a hurry for the 'next' gal, and some guys don't get out of that rut as they get older. Also, as has been put forward, it could perhaps have been poor experiences with a former lover and they may be afraid to offend you by taking too long ? As I don't fit into your "racer' category, I can't speak from experience, and I'm sure there could be a million other excuses from the guys concerned. Personally I have always found it much more pleasurable to take the time to satisfy the gal, because when she is really satisfied you are rewarded many times over, and you both feel you have had an experience worth having. With that said, I just find it very gratifying to please a gal just to see the multiple expressions of pleasure that spread across her face and the sounds of her pleasure as she climaxes. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't engage with any guy that has NSA on their profile, to me that translates to No Satisfaction at All... Except for him.
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Beachlover1999
11 years ago
Big call!!!! Soooo that's a Q in itself how many girls have sex on the first date? Even if un-intended, happened to me recently, no real intention....then 15 hrs of amazing funnnnnn!!!!!!!!
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flimac
11 years ago
I have fairly good screening but sometimes I'm just wrong Record performance of 2 minutes, of course I didn't time it, but I'm probably giving him the benefit of the doubt with 2!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I don't engage with any guy that has NSA on their profile, to me that translates to No Satisfaction at All... Except for him. I just removed the NSA from my profile
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Couldn't agree with you more hun. If you're on this site the intentions are obvious, so why hide info ? Sure, there will be some info you might want to keep until a possible meeting, but there are some things that don't really hurt to tell others here for clarity.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I don't engage with any guy that has NSA on their profile, to me that translates to No Satisfaction at All... Except for him. I thought that meant No Spooning Afterwards? Sorry that happened to you Jay Jay, but you're not alone! I'm all for not sleeping with a guy on the first date, but even that's no guarantee. Next!
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RHP User
11 years ago
POUND POUND POUND POUND POUND POUND!! The guys only has one speed ....Friggin TURBO!!If you ever watched Sex and the City, when Charlotte and Harry get married. Carrie has sex with the best man (night before the wedding).. She meets her gay best-friend at the church and referees to why she is clutching her vagina.. "It was Jack Rabbit Sex...POUND POUND POUND POUND!!!" Look up "Sex and the city: Jack Rabbit sex" on you-tube...funny as!! FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
When you do the Jack-Rabbit Sex with a woman..We do not like our heads continuously jack-hammered into a wooden bed head.It really really hurts ya know. FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
OMG Foxy!! I just watched that and I cannot stop laughing!!! Exactly how it was!!!
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
See Jay Jay - that is the problem when you have sex with a guy around the same height as yourself. If you had sex with a much taller guy, it would be HIM banging his head on the headboard, and you would escape scott free. Same as goin' over the side of the bed - it would be him first going overboard. Just gotta learn to screen the right guys and you can avoid these types of pitfalls. Of course, I don't have anyone particularly in mind ............ Cheers, Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Beachlover1999'Big call!!!! Soooo that's a Q in itself how many girls have sex on the first date? Even if un-intended, happened to me recently, no real intention....then 15 hrs of amazing funnnnnn!!!!!!!! then yes I will have sex on the first date,The way I look at it you can talk for weeks have coffee/drinks multiple times and think you are great together then finally after weeks have sex and find you are not sexually compatable. You either are or you aren't no amount of pre dating is going to change that, mind you that's just my opinion. And as my life and comittments don't allow me a great deal of time to myself I have to take the opportunity when I can And can I just clarify, there was no issue with self control on his part ( unfortunately) I actually started thinking FFS just cum and get off me hahah!!
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I have one word for you Kimmy... Taoist thrusting DG
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Huh?! Autocorrect sux "bastardising"
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am no expert. Perhaps that is the exception rather than the rule. Or maybe I need time to warm up to a person before sex? For me most of my "fucks on the first date" rarely translate into a second date. Also my fault too, I need to wait for really good sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' He got what he came for did he not?? So in my mind....his technique worked.....- Posted from rhpmobile Yep his technique worked. Probably is he is so busy running after the next girl that he fails to realise that he isn't getting many call backs. And probably no woman tells him that he is inconsiderate and selfish in bed and quite frankly no one would bother going back for seconds. Don't these guys care that they are shithouse? That always puzzles me. At the moment all he cares about is getting as many notches on his bed post... but one day he will slow down long enough to realise that he doesn't really know the first thing about sex or women. In my opinion. They have no respect! Although if you do pick them up on it, it's the standard line... its you! It's your fault as you got me so hot and turned on I couldn't help myself. What ever dude!
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madotara69
11 years ago
But what is so bad about having a good fuck now and then.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well, the guy that you are having passionate sensual sex with...... bet he his a friend as well as lover. Am I right? So no strings as in no romantic strings but there is a genuine caring there. So for me, and it's a personal thing obviously, if a guy says NSA I just can't help but feel that he is just after the sex without any of the personal stuff that goes along with being friends or lovers. That sort of thing doesn't work for me. Certianly not on a one on one sexual encounter.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I love your new picture by the way!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Once they have finished Jack-rabbitiing, there is NO time to tell them they are shit-house, inconsiderate and selfish in bed!!Gosh I wouldn't want them hanging around nor would I want to even have a conversation..RUN RABBIT RUNFMD!! Surely they must have some idea??FOXYPS-So I am going to say it....I reckon It's not just men either, some women would be like Jack-Rabbit as too??
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can undress myself in under two minutes.......and if I need to, be dressed enough to get out the door in lees then twenty seconds.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' If a guy says NSA I just can't help but feel that he is just after the sex without any of the personal stuff that goes along with being friends or lovers. That sort of thing doesn't work for me. Certianly not on a one on one sexual encounter. NSA means just that (to me as well) and that's all it is...just sex and nothing more!Doesn't work for me either. FOXY
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usnow
11 years ago
Are these guys the "big dick brigade " that think because they have one that is all that's needed or are they married and hoping to get in and out before they get caught ? Mrs Swingnew .
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RHP User
11 years ago
jj..it is the journey, not the destination. Keep looking until you find one who enjoys exploring all the different roads....
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RHP User
11 years ago
chased me around a swingers club. It ended up in a wrestle, because I don't put up with that shit (and wrestling is fun. )
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erotictouch4u
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Maybe if woman didn't have sex on the first date or meet, it would sort out some of them? Have to agree with you Meeka, why rush something if it promises to be so good ? Get to know more about each other, be comfortable with each other and become better friends then the promised great sex will be even better. ET xox
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have you ever seen one of those videos with the sperm in the great race to be the first one to achieve the ultimate goal... of fertilising the egg. Is this where I ask who came first?... the chicken or the egg? Sorry I can't help more with your question really
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't put out necessarily, or whatever the hell you call it, on the first date. I put out when it's warranted, and I respect those of the opposite gender who do likewise, fwiw
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
He sounds like the kind of guy who says.... "never had any complaints" No, dumbarse.... You dont.... Because you get an invite you back because you were so frikken crap lol DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPyre' Have you ever seen one of those videos with the sperm in the great race to be the first one to achieve the ultimate goal... of fertilising the egg. Is this where I ask who came first?... the chicken or the egg? Sorry I can't help more with your question really Monty Python ...
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madotara69
11 years ago
A fish rooted one of those Feathered Boas, Miss Freya has mentioned. The Feathered Boah gave birth to a chicken that layed fishchicken eggs, one of those eggs became a horny little rooster, that just loved to crow. Oh lord how that little red rooster loved to crow.So as long that we understand that the chicken cums before the rooster, go for it. he he
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RHP User
11 years ago
you have to slow them down. Do a little play before the bedroom. Take yoru time , do not let them rip your gear off. the trick is not to go down on a guy first up as that's it Bingo come in spinner its all over. Just saw that tonight with a girlfriend, I stayed down stairs in the foyer. bloody shit was done and dusted with my friend in ten minutes did not even take his shirt off. but its not his fault, if you don't be firm off course they will blow and go. they can do that after I get mine! so many guys on here a full of shit, when it comes to the long game. good luck ladies, especially the single ladies. Its a shit load harder for them than us married gals. I have no problem art all with guys trying to take the short course. I cut those fuckers off at the pass. so you guys just ask yourself,, did I please that woman? or was I just a selfish prick if you were then it soon becomes a bad habit and you are a dud root through your own lazy habits. and as they are all in a porn movie then they have to act the part, of fucking within the allotted time frame of a short porn flick. learn to have intimate sex boys, just give it a go you may just like it Its what sex is meant to look like.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Goddamn IPhones!!! "Because you DON'T get an invite back"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Good lord I wish I lasted 2 Minutes!!!!! I love my foreplay to much
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' But what is so bad about having a good fuck now and then.Mado You have failed to understand all our points Mado.... its not a good fuck. That is the whole point!! Nope definitely bad when you start looking at your watch 5 minutes in and start contemplating putting your clothes back on and making a run for it. Otherwise I would love a good fuck.......... all the time. Who wouldn't?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY' When you do the Jack-Rabbit Sex with a woman..We do not like our heads continuously jack-hammered into a wooden bed head.It really really hurts ya know.Hahaha that's when you make like a star fish and pretend you're dead.
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madotara69
11 years ago
It is Ok for you ladies to talk about the hard knocks, but what about when you grab a blokes head between yer thighs and do the old crocodile roll, or the accidental knee to the side of our knoggin, or when you jump on top and test the breaking strain of our old feller, or invite the doggy position and play forcings back till we fall of the side of the bed, the accidental knee in the nuts while changing to a new possie, etc etc.It is not just a bed of roses for the blokes, it can be hard work when you get into those frenzies, to later say " I don't know what you are talking about, it all happened so quickly, how could I have done that, are you OK, Sorry, hehe"So inocent and fragile, until you get lost in the moment.No complaints from here though, it's all good. You ladies are Mado
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'madotara69' But what is so bad about having a good fuck now and then.Mado You have failed to understand all our points Mado.... its not a good fuck. That is the whole point!! Nope definitely bad when you start looking at your watch 5 minutes in and start contemplating putting your clothes back on and making a run for it. Otherwise I would love a good fuck.......... all the time. Who wouldn't? Sorry Meeka, I had no idea what the gorilla encounter meant, now I get your point. Good point at that, if I had to go flat out for five minutes, I couldn't be fucked running anywhere.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My favourite. That sounds right for one of my memories Paintme lol. I love the "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life' song in that movie too. I'm reminded that there's also the series of 'Looking Who's Talking' movies. N' the sex-ed films from my teens. ;-) . Mado, to suppose those spasms from the woman help speed the sperm along their merry way. *Mutters* It's could be worthwhile going without. It's like we're hardwired to breed. Funny that. ;-D
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPyre' My favourite. That sounds right for one of my memories Paintme lol. I love the "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life' song in that movie too. I'm reminded that there's also the series of 'Looking Who's Talking' movies. N' the sex-ed films from my teens. ;-) . Mado, to suppose those spasms from the woman help speed the sperm along their merry way. *Mutters* It's could be worthwhile going without. It's like we're hardwired to breed. Funny that. ;-D We are talking about the gorilla encounter, no wonder you would choose to go without, I don't think JJ had breeding in mind, just wanting a good fuck, who wouldn't.And I was only talking about the chicken and egg thing, because no one asks about the rooster or the fish.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' But what is so bad about having a good fuck now and then.Mado Are you talking about a slam against the wall and take me hard and fast hot and heavy fuck? The kind of thing you have with someone that you have very strong chemistry with? Well yes that is awesome sex. However the sex we are all discussing is the fact that the guy racers ahead and hasn't spent any real time on foreplay...... some times there is no kissing or almost none... and the woman is really not that turned on at all..... the whole act is almost impersonal... And the guy? Hasn't even noticed or is too inexperienced to realise or just doesn't care. I agree that it takes two to tango and the women need to speak up. I can only speak from my experience though, the few times it has happened to me I have already decided by this point that I am not going to see the guy again, so I don't bother to even say anything. Him going fast is a good thing because the quicker I can get out of there. So, as a few male friends have told me before, the guy can probably tell I am not that into him and therefore is not making much of an effort. So really it's both our faults at the end of the day and it was a mistake to even go there. If I am in that position again (hopefully not now I am older and wiser) I will try and stop things and walk out. Life is too short for bad sex. Right?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just finished reading the 3 pages of post to you question Jay jay. I have to agree with you there are some women out there with the same traits as the guy you mentioned, shame as I thought the people who took the time to join RHP would be more experienced in sex and make the effort to at least put up a genuine pic. I have since removed my pic and number after 30 odd phone calls from a person a year ago. Would love to discuss further with you if you have the time, have some very funny stories to share and a good laugh. Any one can submit a glowing profile and they usually do with strawberries and cream on top, but, you never know - until you have a test drive. Have fun, :)
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'madotara69' But what is so bad about having a good fuck now and then.Mado Are you talking about a slam against the wall and take me hard and fast hot and heavy fuck? The kind of thing you have with someone that you have very strong chemistry with? Well yes that is awesome sex. However the sex we are all discussing is the fact that the guy racers ahead and hasn't spent any real time on foreplay...... some times there is no kissing or almost none... and the woman is really not that turned on at all..... the whole act is almost impersonal... And the guy? Hasn't even noticed or is too inexperienced to realise or just doesn't care. I agree that it takes two to tango and the women need to speak up. I can only speak from my experience though, the few times it has happened to me I have already decided by this point that I am not going to see the guy again, so I don't bother to even say anything. Him going fast is a good thing because the quicker I can get out of there. So, as a few male friends have told me before, the guy can probably tell I am not that into him and therefore is not making much of an effort. So really it's both our faults at the end of the day and it was a mistake to even go there. If I am in that position again (hopefully not now I am older and wiser) I will try and stop things and walk out. Life is too short for bad sex. Right?I didn't know what the gorilla encounter was, that is fair isn't it. cos your right!
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RHP User
11 years ago
the scene that you are referring to is in Woody Allen's''Everthing You Always Wanted To Know About Sex....but were afraid to ask''.....funny,funny,film.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY' When you do the Jack-Rabbit Sex with a woman..We do not like our heads continuously jack-hammered into a wooden bed head.It really really hurts ya know.Hahaha that's when you make like a star fish and pretend you're dead. LMAO A dead star-fish knocked out into a COMA! FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll just crawl into the corner with my popcorn and sore vagina :) But thank you everyone for all your input, some really great points from everyone :) and Meeks of course hit the nail on the head with quite a few things, think we are quite similar in some ways :) I've only been single fir 6 months after 18 years so it's all new to me and at the end of the day I learnt a lesson :))- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I recall a similar scene from either "If you don't stop you'll go blind" or the sequel "Can I do it til I need glasses?" from the 70s.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Was I right or was I right? So glad you posted this gorgeous girl and got the same wisdom :). Now people what she really needs to know other than the stated (because JayJay did realise after the first kiss this was going to be BAD) is how to tactfully and delicately extricate oneself from said torture BEFORE it begins!!! Quote "Haha I so wanted to walk out the door after the first kiss but how the hell do you say " babe you fucking suck at kissing" without offending!!! When do you move Indy?" (Winking at you darling and I hope you don't mind my sharing). My response "Hmm don't mind the growling or grunting but the sloppy kissing would've seen him fail to progress to Scene 2 Act 1. Ah well only one thing left to say.......NEXT!" and then "Hmmm I would've politely disengaged myself and said "I'm sorry but I don't think I'm ready for this, pls forgive my girlish nervousness; but I'd like to take a raincheck and maybe see if it feels better next time. You're a nice guy, I just don't think I want this now." Shake hands, look remorseful and exit stage left." :). Anyone else have a suggestion? Loving this topic btw!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
The question do they care?? Well, in a word no. Why would they while their technique that gets them there works?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I don't engage with any guy that has NSA on their profile, to me that translates to No Satisfaction at All... Except for him. No Satisfaction AT ALL, that's GOLD Meeka
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'snuggle__pot'Seduction, and sensuality. For that reason it take a LOT to impress me, and a lot of synergy before I relax and show even tiny hints of being impressive myself. I put men into 4 categories sexually, no fucking idea, jack rabbits, pleasant and gods of seduction. In my experience there's a direct correlation between the quality of conversation (on all manner of things) and how men behave sexually. By quality I don't mean intellect (though I find that very attractive) I mean the depth of their answers to questions, the quality of their questions, the way they talk about people, whether they're naturally positive, whether they reveal any tenderness, patience, humour in their words, and so on. I've found that men who fixate on sex in conversations seem desperate and I assume they'll have little control in person. Note I said fixate, not just talk about. I believe in letting the quality of your work speak for itself. Braggers are usually just full of hot air. So aptly and wonderfully explained.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'the scene that you are referring to is in Woody Allen's''Everthing You Always Wanted To Know About Sex....but were afraid to ask''.....funny,funny,film. No, it's not, not for me anyhow. I checked that with the Mr lol, he remembers the movies we've watched far better than I do. Paintme is right about Monty Python (I googled it to check after guessing the movie probably was 'The Life of Brian'. :-) Haha and I googled to check the opening scenes of 'Look Who's Talking' movies too. The sperm racing to the egg is obviously popular. I can't say I've come across men in a hurry that I can remember Mado, so I was looking at the drive to breed being a reason men are in such a rush lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' I'll just crawl into the corner with my popcorn and sore vagina :) But thank you everyone for all your input, some really great points from everyone :) and Meeks of course hit the nail on the head with quite a few things, think we are quite similar in some ways :) I've only been single fir 6 months after 18 years so it's all new to me and at the end of the day I learnt a lesson :))- Posted from rhpmobile This type of topic will always open a can of worms, if you did not post the question, this conversation would never have happened. Don't you dare go and sit in a corner.The thing is JayJay, you have a sore vagina for no good reason. If you are not enjoying yourself with anyone,any one at all, then you have to believe in yourself to change those feelings. No man has the right to take control with sex, or anything you are part with, A man has the right to your invitation and must respect that. If he has manipulated you, you control the very minute you know it has shown, and If you go sit in the corner you may have another 18 years and not find the best in you.And as you see, your girlfriends won't tolerate the slightest hint, not a chance, nope. They have tidied up this place very well. Here is a place where everyone just wants to hear your thoughts. The men as well. A lot of guys do not know how to fuck, until they have been fucked by a good woman. Teach them!Good topic JayJayMado
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RHP User
11 years ago
...because Breaking Bad starts in 15 minutes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok Ok if they are a bad kisser, lots of saliva, floppy tongue (a groper fish) I can soon work out they ain't going anywhere near my pretty little vagina..So you've been on a few meet and greets and all is going well.Now if they were a great kisser which makes me week at the knees, oral maybe be good then they go Jack-Rabbitiing hammer and tongs, full on turbo throttle!!I mean whooooooooooooa it's a huge shock for a woman to experience - it comes on that quick!Sorry but I have to say something to the person..Isn't it better to say something right then and there to them rather than not saying a thing?Along the lines "That was unique and a little different?"FOXY
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66'I'll just crawl into the corner with my popcorn and sore vagina :) But thank you everyone for all your input, some really great points from everyone :) and Meeks of course hit the nail on the head with quite a few things, think we are quite similar in some ways :) I've only been single fir 6 months after 18 years so it's all new to me and at the end of the day I learnt a lesson :))- Posted from rhpmobile I've only just very recently got into the forums, and have noted that yourself and Meeka do appear to be similar in a number of ways. You're both close in age, as well as stature and physique. So it stands to reason you may share some similar lines in thinking as well, being of the same generation. Maybe the two of you should get together for some 'brainstorming'. Just as an aside, I wouldn't mind meeting the two of you together, either. If Meeka stood on your shoulders, you would both be nearly my height, and we could have an interesting 3-way. Whatdya thinks. hahaha Lubs ya both. Tall.
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Coops27M
11 years ago
I actually have more times than not stopped out of exhaustion rather than due to finishing. I believe it's probably from some fixation on my partner enjoying hereself first before i think about cumming myself. Coupled maybe with nerves and eventual frustration maybe but personally i don't think it's a good thing my average is about an hr solid before i simply need a bloody breather! I definately need a partner i can be more comfortable with and learn how to make sex enjoyable for all concerned! I certainly don't want sex to be affiliated with chore in anyway. However i could do with a good hard 5 minute quickie i think at the moment, not saying that's what i'm after though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Its your fault JAY JAY. The only way these guys learn that making love is an art is to say no. You let him go on so he still does not know any better so next time say NOOOOOOO. This in a way is funny as I heard women say this about some other guys last night. On the other hand if they don't learn then I get the advantage.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka, your so funny, your pretzel post gave me a good laugh ..... wish you were a bloke lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' I've only just very recently got into the forums, and have noted that yourself and Meeka do appear to be similar in a number of ways. You're both close in age, as well as stature and physique. So it stands to reason you may share some similar lines in thinking as well, being of the same generation. Maybe the two of you should get together for some 'brainstorming'. Just as an aside, I wouldn't mind meeting the two of you together, either. If Meeka stood on your shoulders, you would both be nearly my height, and we could have an interesting 3-way. Whatdya thinks. hahaha Lubs ya both. Tall. Really? We are the same stature and physique? Are we JayJay? As for brainstorming, I think we may have done something like that once before haven't we JayJay...... but that brainstorm was 28 I believe.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' I've only just very recently got into the forums, and have noted that yourself and Meeka do appear to be similar in a number of ways. You're both close in age, as well as stature and physique. So it stands to reason you may share some similar lines in thinking as well, being of the same generation. Maybe the two of you should get together for some 'brainstorming'. Just as an aside, I wouldn't mind meeting the two of you together, either. If Meeka stood on your shoulders, you would both be nearly my height, and we could have an interesting 3-way. Whatdya thinks. hahaha Lubs ya both. Tall. Really? We are the same stature and physique? Are we JayJay? As for brainstorming, I think we may have done something like that once before haven't we JayJay...... but that brainstorm was 28 I believe. Yes I do believe we have... would Love to brainstorm again I can see it now "The Dynamic Duo" ( plus their faithful sidekick Strappy!!) fighting Jack Rabbit Fucking across the nation for the good of all women!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' The question do they care?? Well, in a word no. Why would they while their technique that gets them there works?? - Posted from rhpmobile that is what I said. They don't care, that is right. What puzzles me though is don't these "players" care if they are crap in bed? Don't they care if they can't satisfy a woman? Where is their pride? Where is the respect for themselves and others. So I agree they don't care, and unfortunately their technique still works with women that haven't come across it before. So they spend lots of time searching for gullible women to believe their spiel. You know what, I believe that even men evenutally get to a point where mindless sex gets boring. But of course, it is much harder finding a girlfriend when all the women you go out with find you selfish, boring and repetitive in bed. Agree with Chev. *gasp* it is up to the women to tell them. Not in a nasty way but to give them some constructive advice, eventually hopefully one day it will register with them and they will do something about it. I mean if a number of women told you that you were terrible in bed..... what would you do??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'hot__lips' Meeka, your so funny, your pretzel post gave me a good laugh ..... wish you were a bloke lol Oh but I am, every alternate Friday. Tell you what, wearing a strapon is bloody hard work. I need a lie down after about a minute of thrusting, I mean where do blokes find the energy to mould you into all those fabulous shapes every two seconds. But!!! See now I have just thought of something. I always go slow on the ladies...... mainly because I know damn well I could never keep up a fast tempo and they love it!! I have never had any complaints. Oh my god DG!!! Maybe I aM a selfish strapon and don't even realise it?
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' I've only just very recently got into the forums, and have noted that yourself and Meeka do appear to be similar in a number of ways. You're both close in age, as well as stature and physique. So it stands to reason you may share some similar lines in thinking as well, being of the same generation. Maybe the two of you should get together for some 'brainstorming'. Just as an aside, I wouldn't mind meeting the two of you together, either. If Meeka stood on your shoulders, you would both be nearly my height, and we could have an interesting 3-way. Whatdya thinks. hahaha Lubs ya both. Tall. Really? We are the same stature and physique? Are we JayJay? As for brainstorming, I think we may have done something like that once before haven't we JayJay...... but that brainstorm was 28 I believe. Yes I do believe we have... would Love to brainstorm again I can see it now "The Dynamic Duo" ( plus their faithful sidekick Strappy!!) fighting Jack Rabbit Fucking across the nation for the good of all women!!! LOL girls - love ur sense of humour. Mind you, you may need to grow longer legs to catch that fuckin' Jack Rabbit - they tend to move sooo fast. Maybe could give you a hand with that. . Cheers, Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Good question about how to politely extricate yourself. Quickly, directly and courteously is my rule. Perhaps try "I have to be honest, I'm just not feeling the attraction. It's better it we stop this here", or something like that. Always be careful about having a man come to your house - makes it mug harder to stop things and boot him out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why rush a good thing..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I couldn't agree more. But to answer your questions....no they don't care if they're shit in bed, as I'm sure you know, it's about nothing more than getting the orgasm they arrived for. The other questions don't even cross their minds I'm sure. Then there are guys like me, who strive to be better, and end up a neurotic bowl of sploodge if its perceived - rightfully or not - that we were shit. So perhaps these race to the orgasm guys are just a balancing anomaly ??- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well, I can honestly say I don't race.....well.....except this one time. Her photos looked nothing like her and she was dressed in the tackiest lingerie a porn store could have in the bargain bin. And other contributing factors SHOULD of made me say no, but me being a stubborn prick I thought the sex might be great. WRONG. During an orgasm I was unsure whether to call an ambo or exorcist for her! That's not me bragging about my sexual prowess either, that's just me explaining the situation I was in. I was a gentleman and was not rude in any way to her, but when she text me a day later and I politely thanked her but told her I don't think I'd like to see her again...um... even though she was just horny and wanted NSA sex I was a selfish prick who just got what I wanted..... Lesson learned, when the alarm bells start to ring...just say no. I highly doubt the "racers" would be stupid enough to try defend their honour here I'm sorry dear lady.
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Coops27M
11 years ago
'Am i a selfish strap-on?' Pissing myself laughing over here :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi JayJay, OK so i have a whole bunch of questions now that this topic has caught my eye.... I have had a quick read of your profile so as to not be completely clueless. What were the main factors in you wanting to meet this guy? How would you describe the communication back and forth? How acccurately do you think their profile and communication reflected who it was you met ... ie was the person you met ... alot like the person in the profile .... nothing like the person in the profile .... somewhat like ... etc .... I have a few female friends from this site and I have discussed some of the issues confronting them in regard to trying to meet someone that suits them ... frankly looking at things from a female perspective it must be a nightmare..... I've read enough men's profiles to understand that many of them don't give you too much of an insight..... often the same can be said for a female profiles.... It can come down to 'juding a DVD by its cover' ..... nobody has a fool proof system..... however I will say coffee or a drink comes with no 'expectation' to play ..... A wise women from RHP once said just because you might be sitting on a gold mine doesn't mean you always find gold. Cheers, Aqua
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prematurely posted I never do that.... oh the shame... So anyhow....It can come down to 'juding a DVD by its cover' ..... nobody has a fool proof system..... however I will say coffee or a drink comes with no 'expectation' to play can prevent a speedy extrication. A wise woman from RHP once said: "just because you might be sitting on a gold mine, it doesn't mean you always find gold." ::::::::::::::::::: Aqua xoxoxo ::::::::::::::::::::::
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RHP User
11 years ago
I met this guy on another website, an actual dating one! We had messaged/emailed all week plus spoken on the phone a few times. We had a lot in common and conversation came really easy. There was a little flirting and suggestiveness but not over the top. Then yesterday morning he must have woken with a raging hard on because the messages changed and became very flirty with promises of what he wanted to do to me!! I started to wonder then but figured it was just coffee and I had the choice to stop it at that. When we met up there was a lot of mutual attraction and we sat and chatted for 2 hours and things felt pretty good. As far as profile matching personality , pretty accurate, but because it was a dating site and not ......well we all know what RHP is about....was nothing in profile to help me foresee or judge the type of lover he turned out to be!! Plus lets face it, we can be whoever we want in our profile, doesn't make it true. I mean its not in my profile so how are you to know that I actually have 5 nipples, false teeth and a hairy back
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RHP User
11 years ago
Long time no see Nice to see you back
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' Quoting 'Meeka100'What's with the men that change positions every minute? Just as you are getting into it they yell out change!! Now I know I am flexible but a guy going hammer and tongs on top of me while my legs are wrapped around my head isn't as pleasant as it looks. Surprisingly. LMAO!! ;-) or they are going at it so hard and fast they are either pushing your head into the headboard or pushing you off the side of the bed so then they stop , grab you by the hips and pull you back into position and then continue, I keep waiting for the club to come out and wack me over the head!! I guess there are some guys out there that may have come across a female gorilla at times, would love to hear their thoughts And Freya.......Luv it pass me a bananna
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What's with the men that change positions every minute? Just as you are getting into it they yell out change!! Now I know I am flexible but a guy going hammer and tongs on top of me while my legs are wrapped around my head isn't as pleasant as it looks. Surprisingly. LMAO!! ;-) It is only two or three possies, that is getting a bit picky, surely you can hold your breath for a minute,he he
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' I met this guy on another website, an actual dating one! We had messaged/emailed all week plus spoken on the phone a few times. We had a lot in common and conversation came really easy. There was a little flirting and suggestiveness but not over the top. Then yesterday morning he must have woken with a raging hard on because the messages changed and became very flirty with promises of what he wanted to do to me!! I started to wonder then but figured it was just coffee and I had the choice to stop it at that. When we met up there was a lot of mutual attraction and we sat and chatted for 2 hours and things felt pretty good. As far as profile matching personality , pretty accurate, but because it was a dating site and not ......well we all know what RHP is about....was nothing in profile to help me foresee or judge the type of lover he turned out to be!! Plus lets face it, we can be whoever we want in our profile, doesn't make it true. I mean its not in my profile so how are you to know that I actually have 5 nipples, false teeth and a hairy back ..... is that 5 nipples on two boobs, or five nipples on five boobs .......
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think patience is something us blokes struggle with, waiting for the right time to scale it up or down is an art. Practice makes perfect.
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BrightBubbly
11 years ago
I have a great friend that I have "met" through RHP. He didn't filter to his state and loved my profile when it came up that he has to message me anyway. We talk all the time and have a great friendship.I was telling him about the bad luck I had been having and how I keep missing things that should have been obvious in the beginning. He suggested I show him the profile. I copy and paste the info (so he can't see who it is) and so far he has been spot on with what sort of person they turn out to be.I met a few of them just to try and prove him wrong - as you do - but nope, he picks them straight away. I promised myself I wasn't going to meet anyone that didn't get a positive response from him.I also would find it difficult to walk away when we were in the naked and kissing stage. My preferred scenario is to meet for a drink at a neutral place first, see if there is any sparks and then go from there. That gives both of us the chance to walk away.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are so right and normally my bestie Wingman helps me with this process however many will know he is OS on holiday ATM so I think for the time being will be calling on my 2IC Indagine to filter :))) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have heard that early versions of caveman (ie caveman 1.1 and caveman 2.0) are not compatable with the 'sophisicated lady' operating system..... usually it gets very glitchy and loss of contact and random power surges occur.... try a more recent version of caveman such as 10.1 ..... they have done a fairly good job of debugging it and you should experience a better ride. Good luck
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'AQUA_bumps' I have heard that early versions of caveman (ie caveman 1.1 and caveman 2.0) are not compatable with the 'sophisicated lady' operating system..... usually it gets very glitchy and loss of contact and random power surges occur.... try a more recent version of caveman such as 10.1 ..... they have done a fairly good job of debugging it and you should experience a better ride. Good luck As in all modern updates, you have to try and make sure that the version you select is compatible with your hardware. Some more recent versions of caveman have had further updates to include abilities such as nearly thinking for themselves, and have also become more devious in their operating methods to make up for lack of ability. You may have to further debug some systems yourself before being confident of successful operation. Tall
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Coops27M
11 years ago
Caveman 1.1, was that the one where grunting was used to seduce the woman and the club over the back of the head to seal the deal? I'm probably due for an update myself. - Posted from rhpmobile
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