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Why is sex a race for so many men?
August 17 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now I cant speak from experience but I have thought many times that women will tend to opt for a bi or lesbian arrangement purely because they are more likey to have a more sensual long drawn out erotic encounter
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Miss beneath That seems to be an increasing phenomenon.... .... women not prepared to settle for average heterosexual sex, enjoying bi experiences. Clearly, in that case guys only Have themselves to blame. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come on. If a woman is bi she will have bi experiences. If a woman is straight I hardly think bad sex will turn her to women. Surely! And I am sure there are just as many starfish boring women out there as well. Do those guys run of to the nearest gay spa to have their cock sucked by other men..... Well. Now that you mention it. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ms Beneath & DG, that's crap. Women are as much to blame if that is true.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being a mere male I cant speak for females but I can't understand why anybody would let somebody use their body, abuse their sexual needs and emotions for selfish gratification without telling them what an arse they are or denying them the prize. If the obliging person is no good then be honest, upfront and let them know, you might be doing them someone else and yourself a favour. As for men just wanting to spray their load and move on, perhaps weeding the honest ones out from the wankers is a good start with a bit of good old tease and time. Nothing wrong with exercising the mind with a bit of sexual anticipation, after all the journey can and should be as titillating as the encounter or the experience.Shoot me down if you must but my wife and I joke all the time about a quickie taking a few hours, I love it when my emotions are on speed, my anticipation and desires are peaking and the pre cum flows. I suppose a lot of personal satisfaction comes from respect and gratification that you can give to your partner, it's supposed to be a parallel experience.Anyway shoot away.... P.S love these little faces they add colour and texture to words.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awsome lol! Will keep that in mind :)
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f15eagle
11 years ago
I have a theory: a person will always show his or her true colour in the bedroom. A selfish and impatient person is inevitably a selfish and impatient lover. If all a man cares about is his orgasm, then he will race to reach it and couldn't care less about the woman. His loss, really. He will never experience the ecstasy of slow, sensual and caring sex that has no beginning and no end because time doesn't exist anymore.
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f15eagle
11 years ago
Just to clarify: I don't mean only slow, sensual sex is good sex. There is a place for an intense slam fuck too, as long as that's what the man and woman both enjoy and both want.
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Plain
11 years ago
Well I would say you got a bull shitter, if a guy writes it up he will never deliver be able to deliver no matter what. This issue highlights a problem I answered in another post, that is how many people have poor sexual skills and have no clue about pleasure passion etc, and all that is involved. I have had a similar experience from a lady who told me afterwards all her partners were of the jack rabbit variety she treated the same way, mind you that was 3 men in her life(early forties) and she now knows better and we have become good friends.The vetting of encounters is incredibly subjective and the racer, player, jack rabbit call him what you like is the male narcissist, who does not care, so long as he is satisfied, will say and do anything to break down your perceived or imagined defence mechanisms.
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RHP User
11 years ago
OK I havent turned to women but I agree with OP men are not often into the sexual experience as a whole as women tend to be. Women enjoy each touch sensation long foreplay extended play...mmmm... these sessions are few and far between. Men to have their eyes on the prize and often forget to hold off their orgasm to enjoy the journey. Once they cum their done nap and satisfied. Its only that it just appears more and more to me women are choosing a different lifestyle and I am stating it as I have seen it in recent years. Women leaving marraiges that were loveless and opting for lesbian relationships.....its totally possible that they were in denial for ever but also possible that they longed for only the attention a female can give. Men tending to be less emotive and wanting. In saying women are as much to blame yes Meeks both people are to blame. Life sometimes gives you lemons.Just my jilted view
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only way to tell is from the first touch ? If there touch is soft n lingering then it's good sign if its ropy then it might b an alarm bell ??
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is one of the reasons I prefer couples ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'snuggle__pot' If it's bad sex, why the hell not just get up, get dressed, and leave. Women burnt their bras for a reason, way back when :) they had burnt the metaphorical "bra" rather than the support garment they were wearing at the time
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RHP User
11 years ago
HUH? WT??I am a straight woman and no way have I wanted or considered turning BI, because of one bad case of Jack-Rabbitting or a bad relationship!If anything I have to thank that person, it's made me more FUSSY and Choosy when selecting.If anything, I went through a stage for a while "Men piss me off"...Didn't last long thanks to quite a few GOOD MEN who actually knew what they were doing, knew how to stimulate my MIND, body and soul.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'AQUA_bumps' A wise women from RHP once said just because you might be sitting on a gold mine doesn't mean you always find gold. Cheers, Aqua Gotta watch out for Dem....FOOLS GOLD!!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
some men never get it, that's for sure! I've just written a piece in the 'are you good in bed' thread that you will probably connect with, if you want to go and have a look. patience, sensitivity and composure are the three things every man should adhere too during foreplay. unfortunately, some don't even know what that is.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i feel good about myself..u really weren't kidding when u said not many guys are like loool morganafata09
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was the only sensual passionate guy the one from your work that no longer wants you but teases you by having lunch together knowing how you feel about him?.Install a multinova in the vicinity of your butt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'My view...... Perhaps you need to figure out how to screen a bit better. I've read and heard a LOT of comments where women say that the guy who talks a big game, rarely delivers. It seems that a lot of guys are just looking for a hole to get off inside..... they are using women as a masturbation pocket. Perhaps some assistance in this topic from women on how to identify these types would be if great benefit. DG- Posted from rhpmobile Is that an offer of assistance DG Problem also is that they talk such a good game at times and get you so worked up that you just have to go there!! Ah wish I wasn't such a sucker for dirty talk try looking for someone with a quiet confidence, rather than a man who keeps telling you what they will do all the time. if they keep referring to themselves ("i'm going to do this, i'm going to do that...") they are centreing on themselves all the time and tend not to leave you with a sense of intrigue about what is to come. if they are just doing it for their own gratification, you're already in trouble , and this is one sign of that. there is no hard and fast rule, of course, but considering we are all honest enough here to take what we want and realize that no one person can satisfy all our needs, you also need to acknowledge that the reason we do is because we miss the mystery and the unknown...and our heat beating faster. someone who tells you all about the book you are about to read before you've even opened the page is counter-productive to what you are looking for
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know a few women who have chosen to have a relationship with a woman after coming out of abusive relationships with men. I think sexuality is a continuum ,not fixed and that it does inform our lifestyle choices.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because hetero and gay men are handicapped shadows of humanity. They play their sex like they play their footy. Sitting in-front of a screen. They have no clue but pride them selves on post match analysis.
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madotara69
11 years ago
But I reckon the worse you are in bed the better.The Jack Rabbit will be fine, if you do the harmonica practice through the whole range of Tempos.I call it "the harmonica blow" du nuna dun nu.. .. du nuna du nu.. .. Oh baby let me blow you a tune .. .. mmmmm mm mmMado
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Ahhhhh Got to love stereotypes, huh LOL DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
All this stuff about vetting a guy, yada yada yadaYou can talk to them till your blue in the face, you can text you can message, you can linger over coffee.butwhen your naked and they are on you then they are at the summit and some don't give a flying fuck, they just empty some without intention. Some have the good grace to stay for a second round.to tell the truth I have never had a problem with any guy with the exception of one. the irony was he ask when can I see you again?But I have seen how guys can find a vulnerable easy woman who gives it up just because she is getting some attention.Some guys just empty into a womans mouth without even taking their clothes off. Its not happened to me but I hear it all the time.why you might ask?because to many women try to please the guy first. That is a huge fucking mistake, please yourself first by holding him back, you do not need to show your deep throat skills five seconds after you meet a guyhow can they help doing what they do if your going to let them keep on doing it.I feel sorry for these guys to tell the truth. They will never know what is like to please a woman and all the joys that come with that.I do not take shit from any guy but I did when I was younger and not so sure of myself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan'All this stuff about vetting a guy, yada yada yada You can talk to them till your blue in the face, you can text you can message, you can linger over coffee. but when your naked and they are on you then they are at the summit and some don't give a flying fuck, they just empty some without intention. Some have the good grace to stay for a second round. to tell the truth I have never had a problem with any guy with the exception of one. the irony was he ask when can I see you again? But I have seen how guys can find a vulnerable easy woman who gives it up just because she is getting some attention. Some guys just empty into a womans mouth without even taking their clothes off. Its not happened to me but I hear it all the time. why you might ask? because to many women try to please the guy first. That is a huge fucking mistake, please yourself first by holding him back, you do not need to show your deep throat skills five seconds after you meet a guy how can they help doing what they do if your going to let them keep on doing it. I feel sorry for these guys to tell the truth. They will never know what is like to please a woman and all the joys that come with that. I do not take shit from any guy but I did when I was younger and not so sure of myself. very well said but that time when you were younger and not sure of yourself was, i'm sure, well worth the trade off for what you know now
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RHP User
11 years ago
mmm...We do have a sex appetite today. Go figure... you'd think these young blokes would want to lingure, they have time on there side, wher'e us older blokes should be the ones jack rabbiting before our cock turn to far to the left and shrivels up like a prune... Com on girls what is it about this pursuit of younger men... and don't give that crap about how you have older blokes too. Your just as bad, you want extended foreplay, and that sensual moment but really.... flick the switch and you start jack rabbiting like the rest of us.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'knots' mmm...We do have a sex appetite today. Go figure... you'd think these young blokes would want to lingure, they have time on there side, wher'e us older blokes should be the ones jack rabbiting before our cock turn to far to the left and shrivels up like a prune... Com on girls what is it about this pursuit of younger men... and don't give that crap about how you have older blokes too. Your just as bad, you want extended foreplay, and that sensual moment but really.... flick the switch and you start jack rabbiting like the rest of us. I wear cotton tails. I have an older bloke, well he is younger but in his mid fifties my hubby
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have not meet a woman that just wants to take it slow and sensual , sure you can power on but what s the point sex is fun and you should not race a great thing . I hate it when things are starting to heat up you get "are you finished yet or from one of my Irish FWB have you let go yet," I find it hard to finish when you are on a schedule, like I have to pick up the my kids in an hour feel like a quickie.. If you are in a playful mood what's the point, my last FWB said I needed two women that will speed you up. I just wish to meet one that likes to play...
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Still stirring I see Jay Jay? Sorry I can't be there to help with the screening as I may not be coming back ...absolutely love it over here !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Racers have a few motives/reasons:1) They are selfish... they just want to get off and move on.2) They don't know any better. Sex Ed in school wasn't all it is cracked up to be so the lesson is here... If I'm doing the wrong thing in bed (too fast/slow, soft/hard etc etc) slap me up the back of the head and tell me what you want (we aren't mind readers all the time).3) They think they are gods gift to the bedroom. Have a friend who was a classic Jack Rabbit and every woman he had gloated about being good with has said the opposite when he is out of hearing (just ask my ex wife!).Don't know if I'm a racer (has been a very very looong time between drinks) but would like to think that if a person gives the consideration of an intimate session then that session should be made as positively memorable as possible... for BOTH parties (otherwise whats the point?)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013'Still stirring I see Jay Jay? Sorry I can't be there to help with the screening as I may not be coming back ...absolutely love it over here ! Do I know you?
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madotara69
11 years ago
we all raced once in our life.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' we all raced once in our life. But only when the fun police were knocking at the airplane toilet door
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75'Racers have a few motives/reasons: 1) They are selfish... they just want to get off and move on. 2) They don't know any better. Sex Ed in school wasn't all it is cracked up to be so the lesson is here... If I'm doing the wrong thing in bed (too fast/slow, soft/hard etc etc) slap me up the back of the head and tell me what you want (we aren't mind readers all the time). 3) They think they are gods gift to the bedroom. Have a friend who was a classic Jack Rabbit and every woman he had gloated about being good with has said the opposite when he is out of hearing (just ask my ex wife!). Don't know if I'm a racer (has been a very very looong time between drinks) but would like to think that if a person gives the consideration of an intimate session then that session should be made as positively memorable as possible... for BOTH parties (otherwise whats the point?)I told him how I enjoyed it and to slow down, and he did........for about 2 strokes.....then he was straight back at full speed.......after about the 3rd time I just gave up and prayed for the end!!! And anyone that knows me knows how much I enjoy sex,long drawn out sex, so for me to want it to be over it has to be pretty bad .
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RHP User
11 years ago
It makes you wonder why some guys just have to, "Whip it out, Whip it in and Wipe it" when they're more than likely between gigs. Isn't it best to savour the taste of a nice meal than to gorge yourselves, then run?
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MessYourSheets
11 years ago
If I need to hurry I can, but otherwise I want to enjoy it as long as I can... Who knows when the next one is coming? Lol :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Some women when they get on top think there in the Kentucky derby instead of rhythm and ride.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' Quoting 'Amicus75'Racers have a few motives/reasons: 1) They are selfish... they just want to get off and move on. 2) They don't know any better. Sex Ed in school wasn't all it is cracked up to be so the lesson is here... If I'm doing the wrong thing in bed (too fast/slow, soft/hard etc etc) slap me up the back of the head and tell me what you want (we aren't mind readers all the time). 3) They think they are gods gift to the bedroom. Have a friend who was a classic Jack Rabbit and every woman he had gloated about being good with has said the opposite when he is out of hearing (just ask my ex wife!). Don't know if I'm a racer (has been a very very looong time between drinks) but would like to think that if a person gives the consideration of an intimate session then that session should be made as positively memorable as possible... for BOTH parties (otherwise whats the point?)I told him how I enjoyed it and to slow down, and he did........for about 2 strokes.....then he was straight back at full speed.......after about the 3rd time I just gave up and prayed for the end!!! And anyone that knows me knows how much I enjoy sex,long drawn out sex, so for me to want it to be over it has to be pretty bad . Wow... that is just rude and sad... guys like that give the rest of us a bad name.Added to the Auto-Next list then?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Some women when they get on top think there in the Kentucky derby instead of rhythm and ride. So you've met my ex wife then?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69' It makes you wonder why some guys just have to, "Whip it out, Whip it in and Wipe it" when they're more than likely between gigs. Isn't it best to savour the taste of a nice meal than to gorge yourselves, then run? Prefer the wine analogy... a couple of good bottles of red... start savoring the taste from the first sip, eventually feel giddy and overly relaxed by bottle (hour) 3... then fall asleep at 5am feeling overly content.hmmmm both horny and thirsty now
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RHP User
11 years ago
If only they had a whip to flog you with at the same time! Giddy up horsey!!
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Which women chevthe 18-25's?the 26-39s?the 40=s? DG
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MrJingles
11 years ago
I go all out the first time - I want to impress to make sure there is 2nd date :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'If only they had a whip to flog you with at the same time! Giddy up horsey!! you last picture was better. made you look like a 25 year old hornbag you've been on my list alongside jessica rabbit
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi! Jay Jay:) I read your Topic and a couple of things came to mind especially since this seems a regular occurrence for you ... 1. Communicate with them longer hold back on sexual teasing ,innuendoes. Focus on it being a Possible Friendship between you. Keep reminding them that's how you do things.. This will either make the impatient inept Guy give up move on.. or attract a Guy who'll treat you with respect and Interest as you get to know more about each other. Keep the 1st Meet as a Social Occasion,Just that Enjoy time together in Person over a drink with no pressure or Expectations . You'll soon know If they're considerate Lovers as you'll see it in their Manner and feel their vibes more Intensely and if you have Chemistry... You Decide after that if you wish too Continue or Part ways . Nothing lost so much more to gain.. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well - the question of screening men that you refer to as "racing" just to fuck and nothing more - maybe they are employing a secret tactic how to get just what they want. Most men do not mature until at least their early to mid 30's (trust me I've been there myself), and are looking for the thrill and adventure of a quick hot fuck - often that is exactly what a woman wants, so why not? Employ simple rules - first meeting in public, just for a chat - if you have chemistry you can drive off to your pace right there and then, but if you're not 100% you just let him go - screening worked. ANother important thing - I'm always putting friendship first, sex is a bonus...
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RHP User
11 years ago
ok i need some advice here from men an dwoman alkie an dplease tell me if its me that is out of touch.. ok here goes. i recently went out on a date with a gorgoues guy i met online.i admit i was all for some fun between the sheets an ddont have an issue with a romp on the first date despite the fact that many woman are considered whores for doing so on the 1st date.. i hoped this guy was going to forfil some fantasties and there was a definate two way spark right form the go!! we meet for a drink at a jazz bar an dits all go.. im thinking great he lovely an dwe made passionate love or sex whatever you wan tot call it.. i know alot of couples who started out this way.. he calls me during the week we catch up again then randomly he contacts nme to say that he doesnt date the type of women who shag on the first date.. sorry is it my imagination or was his penis in the same room when the passion was on on that first date ???? im made to feel that i have comiiteed the sin all on my own you scarlet hussy you for enaging in sex on the first date.. i thought we had moved on from that crap years ago or are we still living in that era were men can do what they like but we ladies are still constrained by socitites views that we must not initiate sex and goodness forbid admit we enjoy and seek it out.. opinions please!!!!!!! x fiona
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RHP User
11 years ago
hi Mr Jingles when you say you go all out is that sexually also to impress your date and make her feel wanted . i feel awful about the way this guy has reacted to me for wanting sex on the first date as if im a whore or something for being a sexual being.. maybe in future i will hold backa bit.im confused do guys want a flirty spunky lady on their hands or a what??? yes friendship an dhanging out having a great time are equally important i think to a successful thing..l love men but just cant figure them out.. now i feel quite sad by my experience. maybe might stay home for a bit and not date and focus on my friends and other priorities.?? x fiona
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. The change postion thing may well be he is about to cum and is trying to slow the process down or he is trying to get every position he has read about out of the way before his luck changes 2. Blow and go, well if your gunna let him act like a gorilla and leave before you even have your pants on its your own fault, close the legs and pull a slowdown or theres a showdown routine, if you want sensual and a slow night off passion make sure he is agrreable before you let him in? 3. Some bloke just dont give a shit just your another notch in his belt 4. Other blokes actually enjoy pleasing a woman, seeing the smile on her face and glint in her eye as she lies in a sweaty exhausted mess so dont give up, there are some genuinely nice guys looking to please you and not just themselves. 5. Sometimes a key indicator is the intense chase at the beginning and lack of foreplay on arrival, dont be afraid to boot him out the door if said promises arent delivered prior to him wanting to climb on board, "foreplay boarding pass so to speak" 6. There are some women that just want wham bam and thanks again mam action, some but maybe thats just my thinking cheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. He may be just making an excuse as he has conquered and moved on, as in you seemed like a challenge but now the challenge is over Next 2. He really cant rely on the excuse that you slept together on the firsr date, as he was a willing participant, so I think refer to point 1. he is an ass
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi! Hun :) Firstly don't stress over it .Like Aussie said it's just a lame excuse.. the fact is he got what he wanted from you right off, then was bored as you had nothing more to offer him. So he fucked you and ran.. Try and hold out a little longer than the 1st meet for a couple of reasons . 1. You get to see if he's really is a jerk or someone who has enough Interest in you as an Individual rather than a Cum Bucket.. 2. Anticipation, flirting for a little while over time not all in 1 night, makes for awesome sex that tends to last longer than you had, because you've built up a connection. Instead of being fucked . and him treating you like a whore .You're not getting paid for the effort . either . Cheers Lu :)
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
So sorry about your plight with this fella. Rhetorical question for you (ie don't answer me back, just think about it) - did you meet on a 'genuine' dating site, or was it just a random 'sex' site. Could result in HIS way of looking at things afterwards. If it was a genuine dating site, then him complaining about sex on the first date is just purely hypocritical, as he obviously was a willing contributor. If it was some other random site, then he has got nothing to say about it whatsoever, and he's just being an arsehole, as per AussieBloke. Hun, you did nothing wrong and just went on instinct and enjoyed yourself, as you saw fit on the occasion. If he was really a 'conscientious objector' he would have let you know long before you both got into the sack ! Put this idiot behind you, and go forth into the world and enjoy. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am sorry about what happened.This may help you - some light reading.This was my very first Forum I put out there called "Catch 22".http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/CATCH-22-38336FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'imnotintogames' ok i need some advice here from men an dwoman alkie an dplease tell me if its me that is out of touch.. ok here goes. i recently went out on a date with a gorgoues guy i met online.i admit i was all for some fun between the sheets an ddont have an issue with a romp on the first date despite the fact that many woman are considered whores for doing so on the 1st date.. i hoped this guy was going to forfil some fantasties and there was a definate two way spark right form the go!! we meet for a drink at a jazz bar an dits all go.. im thinking great he lovely an dwe made passionate love or sex whatever you wan tot call it.. i know alot of couples who started out this way.. he calls me during the week we catch up again then randomly he contacts nme to say that he doesnt date the type of women who shag on the first date.. sorry is it my imagination or was his penis in the same room when the passion was on on that first date ???? im made to feel that i have comiiteed the sin all on my own you scarlet hussy you for enaging in sex on the first date.. i thought we had moved on from that crap years ago or are we still living in that era were men can do what they like but we ladies are still constrained by socitites views that we must not initiate sex and goodness forbid admit we enjoy and seek it out.. opinions please!!!!!!! x fiona My best friend at the time was seeing this guy for a while. He would stay at her place every weekend but rarely take her out. When I was speaking to him one day and asked when he was going to pop the question his reply floored me...." I wont marry a girl like her. The woman I marry has to be a virgin" and he was deadly serious!! I told him good luck , how do expect to find one when arseholes like you are out there fucking them all!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
This has been the case as far as I have experienced. Maybe some guys need to learn that their actions speak louder than words.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To ImNotIntoGames ... sorry to hear about your bad experience, don't take the guys comments or opinion to heart if you can, just think of him as the hypocritical bigot who judges others differently to how he judges himself.He belongs in the refuse bucket with the other men/women (can feel the flames rising) who think that women who sleep with a lot of guys is a slut/whore whereas a guy who sleeps with a lot of women is a champ/hero.IMUO...Some of us have moved well beyond the point of being such bigots, and others haven't... society still has it's flaws.Personally I wouldn't hold it against anyone if they chose the 1st meet for a first shag or the 31st meet for the first shag, as long as both are happy and comfortable with the timing and experience.(Communication is a great tool here... "How do you feel about sex on the first date?")
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RHP User
11 years ago
OMFG!!I was in this little book shop today and saw this little wind up pink bunny rabbitt!I had to buy it.I gave it to Freya.Indy was there as well!WE CRACKED UP!!tooo funny..It was so cute that I took a pic of it.Check out my profile and you will see a pic there.FOXY
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Amicus you can have one of my ex gals and no I don't want your ex. Mischievous lad it can be any age but it depends as some like to enjoy yet others race to get there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY'OMFG!!I was in this little book shop today and saw this little wind up pink bunny rabbitt!I had to buy it.I gave it to Freya.Indy was there as well!WE CRACKED UP!!tooo funny..It was so cute that I took a pic of it.Check out my profile and you will see a pic there.FOXY Haha that's priceless....bet he goes at the same speed too....flat out!!! Foxy you should come to Sydney drinks ;))
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DTE_couple
11 years ago
I guess this is why I married my man. Because he can go for as long as I need him too, some nights I have 2-4 orgasms, some nights I guess I loose count after a dozen or so. We call it making love, not just wham bam thankyou mamm. But there are times where I guess a quickie is on the cards ( 10mins or so ) There are other males out there that love the sensual long sessions. I hope you find one too. Cheers Michelle x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ladies, seriously?!?!, what are you doing?? Kitchen and bedroom activities don't require you to have access to a computer!!! C'mon, hand them over and back you all go!! Sorry, I know its a bad joke to open with when talking to feminists!! Ok, now I will be serious, I have been seeking casual sex meetings for around a year through similar sites and I'm new to RHP. Out of the dozen or so ladies that I have been involved with in that time, only one had acceptable hygiene, some were absolutely disgusting, others wanted me to perform oral(after another shower with instructions to wash properly, awkward? yes!! then no problem!!!) but after they cum they inform me that they don't return the favour(not cool!!) because they don't like a penis in their mouth (what the fuck??) now, I personally get a kick out of watching a woman orgasm and I do put the time and effort in to achive so every time with tongue, toys and hands. Although I'm more of a Lyle Lovett than a Vin Diesel, I do regularly get asked for further meetings, but when the woman is to lazy to wash or return the favour, I am left wondering why I didn't get a "working girl" to blow me instead of putting the effort in on a woman who is clearly not worthy. So unfortunately, its not just a gender issue, I still gag when I smell lavender (from massage oil I used on a really stinky woman that I do regret fucking) stale urine and lavender- not recommend. I think the short answer is it is modern society. No one gives a fuck about anyone else. Am I right or am I right?? Ok, now all applause…- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Custommadeorgasm ..... as mentioned in many topics posted here. It all comes down to screening for the right meet up partners. If you take the "anyone will do" approach you aren't looking for the better quality you seek or prefer. You can always walk away or say no. Coffee or drinks in a public place beforehand gives you the opportunity to assess whether you want to take things further or not. Talking to someone first and finding out what they expect from you and what you expect from them will give you a heads up if you are at odds or compatible for a fun and enjoyable encounter. Casual sex without the research is a very hit and miss approach and more often leads to disappointment. Good luck, hope the quality of your meets improves. SF
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lfun50
11 years ago
If a lady invites you into her bed why would you want to rush the fun id want to be there till I get kicked out, hopefully sometime the next day at my age you have to make the most of invites lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
well I always joke about sex being a race...first one there wins lol. Now I see all the chicks here saying need to screen better. how frikin hard do you lot already screen lol. Just because profiles aren't brillant doesn't necessarily mean the guy isn't nice or good, might just means hes initially shy or not good at talking about himself. on to the racing sex. always cracks me up hearing the stories of guys doing this an that, and yeah does sound like just people who are to self involved to worry about how its going for the other person. With the changing positions all the time, yeah hang on I need to get into a rhythm don't move just yet lol. Another one I saw was how quick some cum well sometimes they mightn't have gotten any in ages so yeah no matter how good self control is 2 mins might be a winner lol. But let reload and try again lol. And I someone said something about sex on first date. Well Ive neve seen the prob with that, if your thinking inregards to how chick are called sluts etc I don't agre with that. if you both want it its all good. ive only had a one nigh stand once and that was only cos the chick was a user not me, I thought was going to be ongoing. ive had sex on first date with 4 people and it did lead to more.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it would depend on what the guy wants - if he's only after the 'notch in the bed post', then why would he bother to listen to what you want? Personally, if I meet up with someone, I'd want it to be an ongoing thing, therefore I go with the 'under promise and over deliver' approach, rather than 'over promise and under deliver' that the guy the OP met with obviously follows.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe he thought the texting conversation was THE foreplay??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Custommadeorgasm' Ladies, seriously?!?!, what are you doing?? Kitchen and bedroom activities don't require you to have access to a computer!!! C'mon, hand them over and back you all go!! Sorry, I know its a bad joke to open with when talking to feminists!! Ok, now I will be serious, I have been seeking casual sex meetings for around a year through similar sites and I'm new to RHP. Out of the dozen or so ladies that I have been involved with in that time, only one had acceptable hygiene, some were absolutely disgusting, others wanted me to perform oral(after another shower with instructions to wash properly, awkward? yes!! then no problem!!!) but after they cum they inform me that they don't return the favour(not cool!!) because they don't like a penis in their mouth (what the fuck??) now, I personally get a kick out of watching a woman orgasm and I do put the time and effort in to achive so every time with tongue, toys and hands. Although I'm more of a Lyle Lovett than a Vin Diesel, I do regularly get asked for further meetings, but when the woman is to lazy to wash or return the favour, I am left wondering why I didn't get a "working girl" to blow me instead of putting the effort in on a woman who is clearly not worthy. So unfortunately, its not just a gender issue, I still gag when I smell lavender (from massage oil I used on a really stinky woman that I do regret fucking) stale urine and lavender- not recommend. I think the short answer is it is modern society. No one gives a fuck about anyone else. Am I right or am I right?? Ok, now all applause…- Posted from rhpmobile Im not sure what to say.........screening LOL Ok some go on about it but well I wont go into it. I wonder if your one of those men that chooses from the amazing women on here with no pic and no decent statistics.....meaning you will fuck anything. Then dont be surprised with waht you get.Sorry but even I am sure I even fall into that catagory with some of my playmates. People who dont give and only receive well that works both ways.....if you find someone who you are sexually compatable with dont loose them....lol.
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thewinchester
11 years ago
Firstly, just wanting to clarify that this isn't a suggestion that women should put out more - far from it. My view is that everyone has the choice who decide who they choose to indulge their sexual desires with, at the time of their choosing.Is the racer mentality the guy for whom sex is infrequent, and the lack of discipline and patience when it comes along a sign of an outward expression of his brain going "it's been a while, let's go hell for leather".But the more pressing question is what can a women do, when she discovers she's hooked a 'racer' to help slow him down? Is it worthwhile for her to use some techniques to help slow him down.Sure, it would be nice to not take the lead - but as in life, a little extra investment might be required to prevent such an encounter from becoming a waste of both parties time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'snuggle__pot'...I put men into 4 categories sexually, no fucking idea, jack rabbits, pleasant and gods of seduction. In my experience there's a direct correlation between the quality of conversation (on all manner of things) and how men behave sexually. ...You're quite right there. However, I believe that women want to sample men from all these categories, and jump into it when horny. Not judging anyone, but you are meant to have bad experiences if you're trying to sample some spicy food but your palate is not naturally made for it.We are generally getting better with age - both men and women, and I think taking time makes us enjoy the journey more, in sex and in conversation, and in many other things... Men have the opposite problem here, but that's another story :-)
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loveprod
11 years ago
Stage fright, mixed with anticipation. The overwhelming feeling of sensualness, acceptance( or the fear of it's lack).I often worry if I'll pass out afterwards. And that scary. I fell asleep watching a movie at a mate place once. He said I didn't snore. But that I don't sound healthy.I'd need more statistics on this topic. Maybe start a questionaire.But I'm sure it also had to do with how incredibly sexually potent the women on here are.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi girls and couples. Just joined RHP again after many years. Not all men are into a race to the finish and I am one of these. Its the journey, the sites, tastes and scents along the way and not the destination that matter to me. I prefer overnite journeys.
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sungf1t
11 years ago
Hey jayjay is it a possibility that those guys had a mentality the faster they went the quicker you cum hehe or did they just have know idea??? I must ask some of my mates now to see if they fuck like this!!! Although I do believe there is a time an a place to use the gorilla method the trick is to know when ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Shaped4pleasure'Hey jayjay is it a possibility that those guys had a mentality the faster they went the quicker you cum hehe or did they just have know idea??? I must ask some of my mates now to see if they fuck like this!!! Although I do believe there is a time an a place to use the gorilla method the trick is to know when ;) I like to believe its more along the lines of what the beautiful Freya said "they can't believe their luck and hurry,just in case you change your mind
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sungf1t
11 years ago
Lol what a quote that's gold!!! Hahaha dam now I have images of a male rabbit an a women holding a stop watch...how the mind wonders
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Shaped4pleasure' Lol what a quote that's gold!!! Hahaha dam now I have images of a male rabbit an a women holding a stop watch...how the mind wonders POUND POUND POUND POUND POUND POUND!! The guys only has one speed ....Friggin TURBO!!Check this out...will give you a great image of what a woman goes through!http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8eia9hK-K0FOXYJAY JAY - LMAO I'm still laugh over that clip!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all have to experience a rabbit at least once......your time will cum girlfriend
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sungf1t
11 years ago
Superfoxy what ever happened to the phrase "practice makes perfect" or is there just no hope for sum?? Hehe the clip was funny.. I'm going to have to try it one time see what sort of reaction I get ;) an say that how the guy did it on sex in the city so I must be rite lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I dont think its a race. I never know when Im going to have sex so therefore I like to make the night go as long as I can. I wouldnt drive or expect someone to drive to my place if it was going to be over in 2 mins
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RHP User
11 years ago
So can i ask how old this guy was. I have heard and been told that a lot of younger guys are sprinters then looking for the door. Try someone a bit older i think you would be surprised at the difference. We take our time we listen we care and we are happy to stay after its all finished for a little chat if that's what is wanted. Try that's all I will say
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's the surprising thing !! He was the same age as me..47- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am not into the race thing if I am with a woman and we are playing I want to enjoy every minute of every hour because it is so much better that way nothing better than licking sucking playing touching with each other - but hey that's just me - I love giving oral . If you're in a relationship and it's done in 1 minute ok we all can have bad days or just pure raw sexual last for a loved one at times and no there isn't anything wrong with a morning / night quicky but if your hooking up for the first time who wouldn't want it to last guys or girls I think most of us would . If I can say this several years ago when I was living in Spain I hooked up with this Spanish girl and if I can say I tried to slow things down and enjoy oral more and other things but she was in the race of her life and she rode me like hell i thought fuck hold on and hope I last but she was having nothing of it she had 1 thing on her mind and that was it . No word of a lie I think by the time she was at mine and she left was like an hr in total and she was out the door . It was great raw sex but I was left a bit flat .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well you are hot but he should of been able to go again Sound like you got a bad one there If your ever over perth way look me up jayjay-66 would love to take you out for the night and then take you home for the rest of the night :)))
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