M43
age is just a number...
July 30 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
With some popcorn.
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aussian43
9 years ago
This topic seems to reoccur on a regular basis. After posting a travel plan, I connected on here with a lady 10 years my senior. She was outside of the range I typically search for, but I didn't have anything to lose and we met for dinner. Had a great time. I was lucky enough to be back in Brisbane for a few days the following week and we had an amazing time together. The age difference was irrelevant. The only problem was her broken leg! ;) Now I have widened my range. It is more about compatibility than looking for someone who happened to be born in a certain date range.
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me sexually, there can be too young or too old. Too old is the physical side of what Im not attracted to.Too young is the mental side of things for me. Too close to my kids age and Im not comfortable. And yes I went there and proved it for myself. Mind you, I still like looking at them!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Would you go out with a 16 year old girl? (Legal age of consent)
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
Gawd I dislike this comment. The times I hear it are generally from 20-30- early 40 somethings who dont know how to accept a No thanks, not remotely interested. I seem to get along famously with all age groups in a social situation, just not at all sexually interested in those young enough to be a child of mine. I think willowtree_2 said it very well.
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RHP User
9 years ago
29 or 49, its the mutual attraction that counts as far as Im concerned. If I like the guy, we can have a good conversation and are attracted to each other, game on. No one elses business......
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precious142
9 years ago
How's about you grab a bottle of bubbles and come sit between Koko and myself????? We have lots to talk about..........and its not the sterotypes!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mekka100, I was not meaning to that extreme but do see what you are saying. I am not looking to chase early 20's or in your 60's but that does not mean if we did speak a spark would not ignite..As for maturity like I said, some young cats often may surprise you..
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like you positive attitude and line of thinking koko..we seem to always be on the same page??
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me that is physical age, mental age and perceived age. I'm rarely attracted to a guy who looks or acts a lot younger or older than my "ideal", nor could I sleep with a man who reminds me of, say, my younger brother or my dad, no matter what his calendar age is.
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RHP User
9 years ago
One:One primarily deals with strong will, positivity, pure energy. The number One reflectsnew beginnings, and purity. Two:The symbolic meaning of number Two is kindness, balance, tact, equalization, and duality. Three:The spiritual meaning of number Three deals withmagic, intuition, fecundity, and advantage. Four:The symbolic meaning of number Four deals with stability and invokes the grounded nature of all things. Five:The spiritual meaning of number Five deals with travel, adventure, and motion. Six: The symbolism behind number Six is legend. Seven: Sevens, like Threes, deal with magical forces. Sevens deal with esoteric, scholarly aspects of magic. Eight:The symbolism backing number Eight deals largely with business, success, and wealth. Nine:The spiritual meaning of number Nine brings us to the very height of vibrational frequencies in this number sequence. Mix it up any which way possible but biological instinct overrules any the chance or the possibility for correctness. Thus the fear to be judged based on the number is directly proportional to the amount of fun or momentum one might gain. Chemistry is also a singular number that adds value to correctness.
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RHP User
9 years ago
When Ive been to a venue or a private party, ive never once asked a guy/couple what their age was, that never comes up in conversation. But I will still be selective in my perception of too young or too old for me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Although contacted by many young guys I automatically say no. I don't feel comfortable being with someone young enough to be my son. I've thought about it, briefly, but can't see myself with them at all. As for older, that's not as big an issue. But I wouldn't be with anyone the same age as my dad!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I prefer older. Topics are less self-indulged, it's much harder to shock someone wiser than you, social media and selfys don't interrupt the night and I find someone that's lived more than me, interesting. This goes for friendship too.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I experience a lot of initial 'discrimination' at work because of my age. I use discrimination loosely, but there is an inherent bias towards me when I am in meetings just because of my age. I work with insurance and superannuation - the initial 10 mins with an accountant I haven't seen before is always an uphill battle. Financial planners are even worse. I've had people threaten me when I tell them they are wrong (when they are wrong) and I've had one person walk out of the meeting after seeing me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Gawd I dislike this comment. It's such a tired, overused, cliche line. I also see it quite a bit from older men who are trying to attract young women. Fact is, age is not just a number. It represents the number of years you have lived. Like it or not, age does have an influence on a number of characteristics...physical, emotional, and mental. Yes, there is a lot of variation in how people age and no we can't make assumptions about a person we don't know based on their age alone. But for me, yes age is definitely a consideration, and I make absolutely no apologies for that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is more than a number but it shouldn't define who you are,or other people's perception of you...there are many people in their early twenties who are extremely interesting and mature in their view of the world and conversely many people over fifty who are not...I have had much younger lovers over the years..but then older men just aren't interested in me..unless they are married or attached xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Gawd I dislike this comment. The times I hear it are generally from 20-30- early 40 somethings who dont know how to accept a No thanks, not remotely interested. Though where the twenty-somethings will try to assure me they are very mature, it's often the guys between 50-60 who will berate me for being so narrow-minded. Go figure?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Generation gaps are the worst. I hope I never have to hear a guy ask me what a Bueller is ever again.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' Is more than a number but it shouldn't define who you are,or other people's perception of you... Hence why I said there is a lot of variation in how people age and assumptions can't be made about people you don't know based on age alone. However, pretending that age doesn't mean anything at all is disingenuous.
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RHP User
9 years ago
To make it clear before somebody inevitably jumps all over me....I'm not talking about personal preferences here. Obviously people vary in the extent to which they take age into account when looking for a partner, and that's entirely up to them. I am simply talking about the objective fact that age is more than ''just'' a number.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm enjoying being with an older lady that in the past that I don't know if I would've entertained. But we both seem to be on the same page and moving together so I'm running with it..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Youve just given this mature lady a numerical hot flush............
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
When you are out and meet someone, you never ask the age till it comes up in conversation much later. You are either attracted or not. In here, it one of the first things you consider and means you may be missing out on some great people that if you met out you would be attracted to. And when people in here subtract 10 years and have old photos, thats when we become jaded by the numbers
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Insomnian
9 years ago
I believe most people after you have spent some time with, you get a feeling as to their age. Certain traits, the way they act etc, so most of the time, you can ascertain a persons age within 5 years. Is age just a number? As many have sad no, but it does usual define their characters and who they are.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is half your age plus 7 isn't it. So if you apply that SweetCheeks your range would be 23 to 52. don't shoot me everyone - I didn't make up this rule. Look it up.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' In here, it one of the first things you consider and means you may be missing out on some great people that if you met out you would be attracted to. When meeting someone in real life you focus on perceived age. If I'm attracted to someone's looks and personality, that won't change if they turn out to be 51, instead of the 44 I thought they were. Personally I would recommend becoming a paid member when looking for people in a different age range. There have been guys I would have immediately rejected because of their age if they had sent me a flirt. However because of the content of their messages I changed my mind about viewing them as too young or two old for me. I once met a 22 year-old who was more like 35 when it came to his looks, mental age and sexual experience. Lucky for me he had taken out a membership or I definitely would have missed out.
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Hottie1
9 years ago
I love the maths ...I have a thing 😉 for thirty something's ... And it's acceptable! Who cares if it wasn't anyway, what two consenting adults do, is fine with me :) Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Is half your age plus 7 isn't it. So if you apply that SweetCheeks your range would be 23 to 52. don't shoot me everyone - I didn't make up this rule. Look it up. For the upper age range, did you subtract 7 from the Op's age and then double it? That would mean my age range is 28 - 70. Ehhh, no, thank you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' (...) viewing them as too young or two old for me. Too* old.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Is half your age plus 7 isn't it. So if you apply that SweetCheeks your range would be 23 to 52. don't shoot me everyone - I didn't make up this rule. Look it up. Makes sweetcheeks and I a good match then . However I am not venturing into the upper ranges of this calculation...there's too few men, in my experience, who look after themselves once they hit 55 plus.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've had a few flirts/messages recently from men around half my age and I'm currently chatting with a few that have, to me, a more mature open outlook on life. This has been an interesting experience for me as my son is half my age but when I thought about it I know his attitudes, his morals and how he acts and he's a brilliant young man. So why can't someone else have raised men with similar attributes and open minds? That they have introduced themselves to me is to my benefit as I love to view the world through another's eyes/mind/actions and I may learn something from it as life is an adventure to make the most of.
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ajaussie
9 years ago
I think +10 /- 15 is good .......too much younger ...not for me...But would love to have a older lady.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Might depend on what you are looking for. I am at a different stage in life than a 25 year old so a long term relationship probably isn't going to be successful. But a hookup in a club. Sure why not. I wouldn't meet them one on one though. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I to socially get along with all ages isn't there a rule halve your age then plus seven , then no lower that number , I rarely meet women my own age or older not by choice just happens that way . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' When you are out and meet someone, you never ask the age till it comes up in conversation much later. You are either attracted or not. In here, it one of the first things you consider and means you may be missing out on some great people that if you met out you would be attracted to. There are always going to be big differences between meeting people online and in real life. It's just not practical or feasible for me to meet up with every guy that contacts me on here, and I need to use certain criteria to help make my decisions about who I will meet. Yep, sure, that means I might miss out on meeting someone I would've really clicked with, but that's the risk I take in this online environment and I'm quite comfortable with that.
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NawtyNNice777
9 years ago
ruby_blossum said, socially I get on fine with all age groups. Sexually is a different kettle of fish... If you're older than my dad, I'm not interested. Never been there, because it just feels all kinds of weird/awkward/wrong... As for younger men, I find that most (admittedly not all) who are younger than about 28 still have a lot of maturing to do. Nothing wrong with that in itself, I just prefer someone who knows where they are in life. My 5c worth ;) NN xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Age is such a subjective topic, I don't think there can be an encompassing rule for all. Taking myself as an example, I'm 51 (yes I know I'm a big fat fibber on my profile. But I'm not looking at the moment 😉) I have never had any sort of relationship long or short term with a man older than myself. Of the long term relationships (in excess of 7 years each and up to 15 years) my partners have been 7, 13 & 10 years younger than me. All of them have had a similar maturity level to myself. I am simply not attracted to men older than me. And yes I have tried dating my own age group. We just have a different mindset. And are sexually poles apart. One exception is my ex husband, we married when I was 19 & he was 21. Another consideration into the mix here is that we had children when I was very young. They are now adults in their 30's. Which narrows the age group of potential relationship or sexual partners significantly for me, to what I am comfortable with to about a 12 -13 year split. 35 - 47ish is where I look. Have I gone younger, yes. And I more than likely will again if the chemistry & friendship components are there. (Which is a whole other discussion) I've often wondered if the attraction to people outside of what could be considered to be morally and socially acceptable be genetic. My grandfather was 25 years older than my grandmother. My step dad is 8 years younger than my mum. And my dad's wife is 13 years younger than me. Or I could just be a DOW 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
just chronologically gifted.
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TrymeonForsize
9 years ago
Does age factor in your choices of playmates? 😈
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chevtrek
9 years ago
I focused on dating my age and even texted in forumsabout love with a woman 35.When approached at a swingers party by girls evenyounger--I said to myself, fun is fun.Since then I have 5 aged 21 to 40 who love meand we go on sexual adventures.Though not much at moment, to bloody cold---LMAO.
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RHP User
9 years ago
5 Chev? So you have added to your stable of 3 then. Awesome.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not how old it is...it's how you use it ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wasn't implying that age doesn't mean anything,but the number of years one has lived on the planet should not define us.It is simply my opinion,I hardly think that my saying that is disingenuous ...
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jedi_knight
9 years ago
At parties I have played with ladies younger and older.... Not fussed really but it all comes down to having a mental connection, I like to meet new people socially too so always happy to chat even if it does not go further than that.... Too many interesting folks out there, so I always say hi
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've been reading through most the responses here and can never fathom why so many get their kickers in a knot over another persons age. ? As far as I'm concerned l see a person first and foremost and I'm not about to judge a person based on a hang up. If I like someone , I like them because of who they are , no matter young or older.. Being younger or older doesn't make a person any less attractive if I like what I see and the chemistry is there I roll with whatever. I usually attract younger and never think of them as anything but a person I just meet and was attracted too.. but that could also be said of older ... As far as the saying " age is just a number " being repeated, I'm over it... When I read the OPs post , my eyes rolled... I just wish everyone stopped worrying about age and roll with whoever they are attracted to.?
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Baysidecouple214
9 years ago
I agree with you Freya. Age is simply a calculation of time between one date and the next. It doesn't define your maturity level, and it shouldn't mandate your choices, experiences and interests. I feel sorry for people when they comment "oh i'm too old to do that". Since when was there laws put in place that stop people from enjoying what they once loved doing? Life is too short to spend worrying about what one can and can't do simply due to their age. Enjoy it while it lasts
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madotara69
9 years ago
We are getting on a bit and playing up in the game of the Naughty Forties, nicely settled into MFM threesomes. It ain't so easy finding a young bloke that even knows what edging is, at a guess it's at the side of the road where the Vulva parks. Wouldn't hesitant the thought most if not more of the young ladies aren't getting much in that department either, it's a shared thing and takes ages, hour after hour with taking each other too intense heights in euphoric state of mind, ultimately leading too a bloke blowing the ropes and a woman, sorry the woman, sorry this woman anyhow, into an unknown dimension, gone, outa here, off with the fairies, whilst bouncing about all quivering with sparks firing off all throughout uncontrollable full body orgasmic muscle spasms running their course, exhausted and when she returns everything her body makes, I swear it is the look of a mother's love with a new born child. (eyes) Clayton's baby perhaps, :) Science has a theory that, that place Tara goes is into her brain and as it shuts down her body, emotions, feelings, the control points that send out the sparks through the nervical cord too all her muscles shuts down, everything outside in herself and hard line direct connection too the babies brain and together in spirit just mother and child tough it out until they meet eye too eye and saturated in stuff made that is pure love, instinctively bonded and why there has to be mother in mother nature. So it's a real intimate and passionate connection with edging and if there is any doubts, trust issues, pretty much anything outside of respect a woman, sorry, Tara would never share the time, nor her very spirit with such passion and inhibitions uninhibited or it ain't gonna happen. Finding a bloke for us too share, as three become one with edging? Seems it's an event with the wisdom of elders are the only edgers we know. Reckon they should knock off commerce in the high school system and teach edgication and more people would live in happy lasting relationships. Edge on! Mado Mado Tara xx :)~~~
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RHP User
9 years ago
my profile States 25 to 45 I have meet someone 26 and I have meet someone 56 it's all about sexual attraction , connection but the 56 is so hot young at heart and looks after himself , age doesn't come into it ... Sally - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
My "babies" are 22 and 25, and although they can be shy I love their innocence and enthusiasm. Another favourite couple are mid fifties, we spend hours in bed in the throes of pure ecstasy! Sexual connection does not have age limitations, if you have an open mind.
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CumOnRound
9 years ago
With women I prefer close to my age or older, purely because I feel I wouldn't have much to talk about (and I feel like an old mumma sometimes!) Hubby is 13 years older than me, and I find that I hesitate to look at guys around my own age let alone younger! I don't discount them, just start looking older. I am sure the more people we meet the more this will change. When we got together I was 18 so perhaps I just remember how much more mature he was back then compared to guys my age... surly they are more mature now......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' I wasn't implying that age doesn't mean anything,but the number of years one has lived on the planet should not define us.It is simply my opinion,I hardly think that my saying that is disingenuous ... I know what you meant, I know it was your opinion, and I wasn't referring to you with the disingenuous comment. And once again, my original comment did not imply that age should define us. Let's leave it there. As for some of the others who seem to think that their particular personal bedroom preferences are the only 'correct' ones, how about you start showing some respect for other adults' rights to make those decisions for themselves. You would all be the first people whining and wailing if someone tried to tell you who you should be down to fuck, so I'm not sure why you think you have some sort of mandate to righteously impose your preferences on others, and to tell them who they should be attracted to. It's the height of arrogance to do so.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'unicorn99' Another favourite couple are mid fifties, we spend hours in bed in the throes of pure ecstasy! Sexual connection does not have age limitations, if you have an open mind. but my pussy has a mind of its own and it just isn't attracted to people in their mid 50s. I believe it's this funny thing called personal preference, and it allows people to like different things and be attracted to different people. Amazing concept I know!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
That statement is such an oxymoron! You state that your pussy won't be attracted to people in their mid fifties, but will your open mind be open to considering them??
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm open-minded, and I can't be sexually attracted to guys shorter than me no matter how hard I try. Same thing to me personally. Unicorn, are you open-minded enough to have sex with a man or woman over 200 kilos? Dismissing someone over a preconceived notion is very different than not feeling an attraction in my view.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can't find the oxymoron in what LD wrote, unless her post was clearly confusing? ;-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Meander , wouldn't you feel better if you were able to accept a man for who is he is rather than his height. ? Seems very closed mind to me..? One of my most memorable sessions was with a woman I would have once thought was not my type.... silly me...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would be open to the possibility!
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RHP User
9 years ago
who broke sweetestofcheeks? That was a brief stint
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precious142
9 years ago
Quoting 'HennaJay' who broke sweetestofcheeks? That was a brief stint He's busy with the DOW's of Perth....
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RHP User
9 years ago
A person's height, age and other physical attributes are just as much a part of 'who they are' as their personality and character. I know from past experience (and at 48 I have a fair amount of experience), that I don't find men who are more than a few years older than me or who are shorter than me sexually attractive, no matter how wonderful their personality may be. I do keep an open mind and will meet someone older/shorter, but the chances that I'm going to want to get naked with them is minimal. I don't understand why it's so frowned upon to have preferences? As Luck Dragon said, my pussy wants what it wants and there's no escaping that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I haven't acted on it mostly, so I couldn't give any opinion outside the fact that my attraction does span a huge range but due to society, I largely kept to within 10 years or so either side of my age when I used to be active with hubby on RHP. Largely.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes of course we all have preferences, but I do think it's closed minded to rule someone out simply because they are not what we would usually go for physically. That is a choice that I respect, and it makes sense to engage with people who we have the most chance of being sexually attracted to. My point is that if you completely close your mind off to certain ages, heights, races, genders, body types etc, you will definitely miss the opportunity to meet many amazing people! And even if the sexual chemistry is not there, what's not to say a great friendship may develop? Being open minded is being just that, open. Open to all walks of life, not just those you are most likely to be sexually attracted to.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' Meander , wouldn't you feel better if you were able to accept a man for who is he is rather than his height. ? Seems very closed mind to me..? How does "I don't want to have sex with a guy because I don't find him physically attractive" equal "I don't accept him"? Would you be "accepting" an 80 year-old toothless granny between your legs, Jay? Actually, let's pretend that was a rhetorical question.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Totally agree with you. Which is why (as per my post) I do meet up with people who don't meet my exact preference, so I don't miss the opportunity of making a new friend. But equally I'm realistic about what turns me on sexually. And right now, that's younger men :). Yep, I'm another DOW lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Welcome to the DOW club. xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Astrild' Totally agree with you. Which is why (as per my post) I do meet up with people who don't meet my exact preference, so I don't miss the opportunity of making a new friend. But equally I'm realistic about what turns me on sexually. And right now, that's younger men :). Yep, I'm another DOW lol. Yay!! haha, There is still hope for the Male 30 somethings :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
You're only looking for age up to 50... 4 years below yours. Peachy ;-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Jay_me' Meander , wouldn't you feel better if you were able to accept a man for who is he is rather than his height. ? Seems very closed mind to me..? How does "I don't want to have sex with a guy because I don't find him physically attractive" equal "I don't accept him"? Would you be "accepting" an 80 year-old toothless granny between your legs, Jay? Actually, let's pretend that was a rhetorical question. OK... Past experience taught me to open my mind to possibilities I once thought was out of bounds.. Passing that on is not a bad thing , You can take it or leave it. I know I'm a better person for being more accepting.. you cant knock that ? Yes ; it was a rhetorical question.. How do you think a 80 year old granny would feel reading that ? Probally slip her teeth back in and make a nice cup of tea a jam scone.. and watch days of our lives...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Youre accepting there are men who are worthwhile to talk to but not for sex.. Thats your choice of course, but you might just be surprised what your missing out on... OK about me.. like you ' I'm in charge of who I sleep with.. I just keep a open mind of other possibilities and never say never...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Dont believe all you read... usually its under 50 but if Im attracted it coud be 55 or more.. I dont place too many limitations on myself..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Saying never is half the fun !
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Would you go out with a 16 year old girl? (Legal age of consent) Not on your life... Not if she was the last female on earth... There's a limit to how old or younger a person will go and it's different for everyone... I've been with ladies my own age, older and much younger. (Being a musician until I was in my 30's afforded much opportunity). Alas, long gone... Now, at 56, I try to stay between 45 (if they'll have me...LOL) and 58. Having said that, there ARE and have been exceptions. It's the person, the level of attraction and whether that indefinable thing (Chemistry...? God I hate that word) that attracts... If it's there, go for it. So, in a situation such as that, I won't confine myself to my "quoted age range"... I like to think many people are the same.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Let's not forget that some people don't look their age... both younger or older. I've been surprised on a number of occasions that I've been up to 10 years out on my estimation... (That's why I always ask 25 year olds for their ID... Hehehe)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I do really wish that everybody would get over this age thing. I know that this is nominally an 'adult site'. Wouldn't it be wonderful if our posts showed that we thought and behaved like adults. Who the hell wants to find themselves screwing somebody the age of their son or daughter? (or even younger) That is a pretty clear indication that you have a serious problem. Most of the pleasure of sex is from the interplay of personality. Sure, if that is successful and follows with wonderful orgasms, that is great too, but you can have the most wonderful sex with an older person. Apart from anything else, we can provide ourselves with wonderful orgasms. It is a mystery to me that women seem to be searching for younger men while men are supposed to be searching for nubile nymphs. Forget the fantasies left over from your youth, or perhaps the pain from your past. That has gone and will never come (cum) back. Seek only the future - and remember that none of us know what the future is or the great pleasures it might hold. Age is indeed only a number. It is the person that matters. No, I do not want to be screwing a nymph of 20, 30, 40 years old. They are not mature enough to have a decent conversation. 50, 60 or somewhere in the 70s is much more interesting. I wrote a post a few days ago which quoted Shakespeare and suggested that we should "take the tide where it serves" to avoid "spending our lives in sallowness and miseries". RHP provides a tide - take it where it serves. Forget about your fantasies. Incidentally, I am still here but of somebody less than about 50 approached me, they would be politely told where to go. Gordie
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Gordie2650' No, I do not want to be screwing a nymph of 20, 30, 40 years old. They are not mature enough to have a decent conversation. 50, 60 or somewhere in the 70s is much more interesting. I'm not mature enough to have a decent conversation? I have quoted Shakespeare myself on here, along with Jaws, Aliens, Monty Python, Edgar Allen Poe, Churchill, The Princess Bride, Mae West, etc. Word.
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RHP User
9 years ago
and a jail cell is just a room
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RHP User
9 years ago
Responding to Delicious. I do not find the connotation between age being just a number and a gaol cell being a room with a number.......... Lottery tickets also have numbers and I do not think they might constrain quite as a gaol cell might.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Gordie2650' Responding to Delicious. I do not find the connotation between age being just a number and a gaol cell being a room with a number.......... Lottery tickets also have numbers and I do not think they might constrain quite as a gaol cell might. Choosing lotto numbers under 16 won't get you locked up though...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Far be it form me to peak for or interpret for someone else. However, I think the point Delicious was making is that 'age', although only being a number in many peoples minds and attitudes, we are trapped and have lived our lives up to that point and there is no way of recovering 'youth' and the advantages that come with it. Although I must add that 'age' as such, does also have it's advantages... The first I can think of is 'Freedom', so the gaol cell may well be inadequate... But I do understand the connotation, whereby we are prisoners as far as our age is concerned... and those who would discriminate (as in, simply have a preference for people who are under a certain age), can be limiting in so far as our choices are concerned and also make us feel as though we are not valued 'physically as much anymore... I get it... But have found that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages. We can be so much wiser and so much more in tune with the needs of another, having spent so many years learning, experimenting, asking and indeed experiencing...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thankyou Muso17. We are 'imprisoned' by our age both in our own minds and in the minds of others. The point I was trying to make was that some people seem, by excluding us slightly older 'others' might actually be also denying themselves wonderful experiences. Of course I am also guilty. Instead they should rise to what ever opportunity RHP might present. Carpe Diem. I fear that I might have offended Delicious. To Delicious, I do sincerely apologise. (RHP is a bit of a lottery with or without numbered tickets) Cheers, Gordie
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RHP User
9 years ago
The phrase "Age is just a number and a jail cell is just a room" is a common one, not something Precious made up. I think it has to do with statutory rape. If the adult thinks his underage conquest's age is just a number, he'll likely find out out that that's as much a lie as jail being just a room. Hope that's clearer.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I meant Delicious, not Precious.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Then why do so many get upset when others lie about their age?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thankyou Meander. I have never heard the term before. Cheers, Gordie
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' The phrase "Age is just a number and a jail cell is just a room" is a common one, not something Precious made up. I think it has to do with statutory rape. If the adult thinks his underage conquest's age is just a number, he'll likely find out out that that's as much a lie as jail being just a room. Hope that's clearer. Freudian slip there. I agree. I would have assumed it was referring to sex with an under age person..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'TactileSessions' Yay!! haha, There is still hope for the Male 30 somethings :) I don't really see men in their 30's as younguns!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'xeena' Then why do so many get upset when others lie about their age? Because if they lie about that, they are probably lying about their love making skills and have no confidence .......... so how on earth could they ever satisfy a woman! That is why.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Although TactileSessions...... I suppose it is a bit different if you still live with your Mum. Do you?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I remember a mother and daughter that used to me on here. They regularly had to check with each other in case they were bonking the same blokes. Always strange reading their contributions on head jobs, and how they loved big cocks, and things like that on here. Not something I would chat to my mother about. She would totally freak out! LOL
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RHP User
9 years ago
Xeena, this is a complicated issue. It is probably because we all have a deep fear of getting older and somehow would like to protect ourselves (psychologically) from the evidence of our accumulating years. Pointless of course because there is no way we can stop those accumulating years - but perhaps we can gain some temporary protection from our own fears of getting older. Not only is literature full of stories attending to this fear but we all play along with it ourselves. Don't you feel good when you confess your real age to be told that you don't look THAT old. Wonderful for the ego. We all do this misrepresentation, overtly, covertly and perhaps subconsciously in out normal daily communications. We fear not being accepted by the people we wish to impress.. My best suggestion to avoid these painful experiences is 'Caveat 'Emptor' The only reason why these things hurt is because we have fantasised about the person and the potential situation. But for God's sake and your own remember, the other person very unlikely to be intending to hurt you - the pain is the by-product of our own wishes and desires. Your disappointment. I hope that all of this answers your questionRHP does provide you with an excellent way of testing my hypothesis. Do blanket searches for age groups. You will find that they seem to group at about the 50 and 60 year brackets. Compare the age group with the stated information in the profiles. The worst bracket is probably women in the 60-70 age bracket. There are a huge number of women very close to or just past 60. I have not looked at the male situation. After all, I am looking for a woman!Cheers, Gordy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Meeka, Can you imagine the dinner table conversation!!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Meeka So if they tell the truth about their age, then they will be telling the truth when they say they are fantastic in bed? Yeah, nah.
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RHP User
9 years ago
To all the posters declaring that age does not in fact matter. Should RHP remove age from everyone's profile? There would be no ageism or age bias. And nobody would feel the need to lie about their age.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Age is a number, If women between 18 and 70 invites me into her bed then i'm in for the night. Why do people have a problem with age?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'xeena' Meeka So if they tell the truth about their age, then they will be telling the truth when they say they are fantastic in bed? Yeah, nah. it was a joke Joyce.
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RHP User
9 years ago
On earth Meeka do you know that phrase?...it's from a sketch from Graham Kennedys In Melbourne tonight 😀xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
We are showing our age. My fav aust. comedian. I use that phrase a bit when they don't get my sense of humour. Which is too often.
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yankmychain56
9 years ago
I had seen young, incredibly hot women who i wouldn't touch with a ten foot cattle-prod, because they have the UGLIEST personality in the world. I have met 'older' women (yes, older than ME), that have class and still try an hold on to their beauty, and will rip TWO guys half their age apart, put on lipstick, adjust their hair, and go out shopping until they recover for another round. Then there is everything in between. yes, there is a physical attraction, but when there is CHEMISTRY (no matter what age you are), everything else goes out the window. just remember, some day, you will all be an old, shriveled husk, but in YOUR MIND you are still in your 20s. Go to a retirement home, and see all the old people there, then look at the pictures they have on the wall from 'days gone by'. they were all young and ready to take on the world.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well said yankmychain.
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