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age is just a number...

July 30 2015

But what is in a number?? And what does this number mean to you?? A lot of stereotypes can be applied here as everyone knows boys turn into men well after a girl becomes a woman in all cases, this is coming from the same book as women are never wrong and guys think with their member. .I can go on??? I can speak for myself but can't speak for others (hence the forum) but at the end of the day does age stamp a deal or close doors?? My back ground is educated and manage a lot of people so sometimes maturity is more a necessity but also I am probably the cheesiest person you may come across..so again with the stereo types..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'yankmychain56'I have met 'older' women (yes, older than ME), that have class and still try an hold on to their beauty, and will rip TWO guys half their age apart, put on lipstick, adjust their hair, and go out shopping until they recover for another round. I miss Tuscan too.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    9 years ago

    Gave up on that and I am now very happy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya70' On earth Meeka do you know that phrase?...it's from a sketch from Graham Kennedys In Melbourne tonight 😀xxFreya I'm not sure how I know the phrase Freya. I know it's not something that I just say. Curious. I do remember watching Blankety Blanks, my favourite was Ugly Dave Gray and Noleen Brown. They were all so naughty!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    How's the popcorn. Finished? Gone rubbery? Or have you had too much salt and now your tongue is sticking to the roof of your mouth? Lol It's a tired old topic unlike some of us spring chickens. Peck peck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Its only an issue if you let it be one,I met my mature lady when i was 24yo & she was 39yo for a bit i was just her toyboy the freind with benifits. However myself from experiance ive always been into older women,much,much older and ill be honest why. There more attractive to me physically, Know there bodies better and what they want. Don't make the assumption that a younger guy couldnt keep up mentally,physically or emotionally because I did just fine in all departments. I wouldnt want to be with anyone else without her. But she admits she gets suprised how much ive taught her too about life ect and she admits that its very intimidating how much i satisfy her in all areas. The truth is most men will lie or do anything to get in a womans pants, Where im very much of the attitude that if they woman isnt interested in me why am I gonnacrap push it, Why would I want too. Most older women are either intimidated when approached by a younger man, Or Feel they wont be up too the task in the bedroom(Utter crap) or give them the mental stimulation required, But you talk to most Older women that see younger guys and are in happy realationships there great, As long as they have picked the right guy for the task. If you as a woman think that a younger guy cannot satisfy you I think you just havent given the right one a go yet. Most of the couples like us that we know are really happy. It all comes down to is the guy with the woman for the right reasons and are they both on the same page. As far as sexually goes women that are under 30 really bore me. Most dont know what they want or like but expect me to know. As i always say....The Older The Berry The Sweeter The Juice. Id take a mid 50+yo mature woman even if shes fat and ugly with grey hair and saggy tits over any younger girl with plastic tits and thats a #DNB (#Do Nothing Bitch) who expects a man to wait on her????Older women squirt and scream. do it all. Damn..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Have I got popcorn...plain, buttered, salted, and with maple syrup. So could I tempt a pretty girl like you to sit with me and watch the rest of this show?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry mr denials. I left the show and only just returned. I think I must have fallen asleep and slid off my chair.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    we slept together

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'CJandFrets' Its only an issue if you let it be one,I met my mature lady when i was 24yo & she was 39yo for a bit i was just her toyboy the freind with benifits. However myself from experiance ive always been into older women,much,much older and ill be honest why. There more attractive to me physically, Know there bodies better and what they want. Don't make the assumption that a younger guy couldnt keep up mentally,physically or emotionally because I did just fine in all departments. I wouldnt want to be with anyone else without her. But she admits she gets suprised how much ive taught her too about life ect and she admits that its very intimidating how much i satisfy her in all areas. The truth is most men will lie or do anything to get in a womans pants, Where im very much of the attitude that if they woman isnt interested in me why am I gonnacrap push it, Why would I want too. Most older women are either intimidated when approached by a younger man, Or Feel they wont be up too the task in the bedroom(Utter crap) or give them the mental stimulation required, But you talk to most Older women that see younger guys and are in happy realationships there great, As long as they have picked the right guy for the task. If you as a woman think that a younger guy cannot satisfy you I think you just havent given the right one a go yet. Most of the couples like us that we know are really happy. It all comes down to is the guy with the woman for the right reasons and are they both on the same page. As far as sexually goes women that are under 30 really bore me. Most dont know what they want or like but expect me to know. As i always say....The Older The Berry The Sweeter The Juice. Id take a mid 50+yo mature woman even if shes fat and ugly with grey hair and saggy tits over any younger girl with plastic tits and thats a #DNB (#Do Nothing Bitch) who expects a man to wait on her????Older women squirt and scream. do it all. Damn.. Hi 'CJandFrets', I have to disagree and am a little confused... You did say that as women are older, they are more in touch with their bodies etc... I agree... I considere women come into their own in their late 30's and 40's and get better from there on (no offense to anyone of any age... just an observation and opinion based on my experience. But as for the older woman being 'not up to the task'... The general feeling is that God got it backwards, in that he gave men the 'apetite and the ability to go for it non-stop in our teens, 20's an 30's... But some men, even in their 40's tend to begin 'slow down'... JUst when the women are tearing their clothes off to get at it... (that's an exaggeration, but you get the idea. Fortunately, I can hold my own with women my age and do pretty well. But I cannot go 5 times a night lie i did when I was i my 20's. These days, I prefer and am far more capable of longer sessions, as opposed to a number of sessions. But I can pull it out of the bag if I really need to (but it's hard work if it's the third time in one night... Obviously, fitness, diet (and getting that Testosterone checked, is very important) for a man my age. Hence my confusion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    This is a 'reference' from a 46 yr old playmate that we have: "I have had several very erotic encounters with VeryEroticCouple. Very relaxed and fulfilling. Don't let the age bother you, they know how to have fun". What more is there to say?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I think that reflecting on what Meander said, often guys who are 60 and approach a woman who is 40 something thinking they are entitled to receive a "yes" and then they get offended for being politely refused, never consider how THEY would feel if a woman who is 80 approached THEM... I wander how they would handle it... Besides... A woman who is 40ish and well kept can easily sleep with a hot 35 yo man... even 30 yo... I had a similar gentlemen approaching me a few years ago, and I was 32 so he was twice my age and older than my father... Some people have no shame! Sorry, but age does matter, when the gap is absurd... As we age, it is important to have a reality check on a regular basis. I would feel ridiculous if I asked a 20 yo guy to have sex. E

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It doesn't mean that I don't enjoy looking at them ;-), the older party will always enjoy looking at hot young (legal) stuff, it is nature. But I guess one would need to always try to see themselves through the eyes of the younger party, and imagine themselves at that age... For example, I work with teenagers and young adults, and an 18 yo (both male and female) often refers to someone who is 30 is "old" and a 40something is "ancient" to them... Lol... Believe me, I have heard it several times. No point getting offended... E

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I understand exactly what you've said in both posts and I don't generally approach (or message) ladies who are more than 10 years younger than myself and obey their quoted age range (although, I've a little way to go till 60). But there ARE some ladies who, for whatever reason, like and maybe even prefer older men (that is men who are well out of their age bracket). I've been approached (on both this site and a Vanilla one I belong to, by women in their 30's. It doesn't always lead to something, but it has. I used to feel a little strange about being with someone (the youngest was 35 and I was 52) that young, but I had a rule at the time... I wouldn't go down to the age of my daughter... She is now 35, but was only 30 then (almost 31), so I was OK with it. Basically, it's a question of that repetitive scenario on here... preference.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My daughter has set the parameters. Any woman younger than he mean of her age and mine is not acceptable. A simple enough formula. Gordie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes, I agree, but that is a totally different case, when it is the younger part to approach the older party, obviously they are looking for exactly what the more mature person has to offer... I have in fact been with someone who was 43 when I was 27, and I was enjoying his more mature conversations, but he was so hot and well kept that I could overlook the age gap... I think it is different when someone as old as your mother or father approach you, personally it makes me feel very weird. And so I agree with you considering the age of your offspring, I think your consideration about your daughter is spot on. This 60 something yo gentlemen I was talking about DID have daughters who WERE my age (and younger by his admission).... Ewwwww... there is something twisted in that, I think. Only my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    A 20 something and a 40 something (whichever is male or female) could still make a hot couple... But I am not sure 40/60 or 50/70 would still look that good... I have a female friend who married a gentlemen who is 20 years older, and although their friends and family were raising some eyebrows, they looked very cute at 22/41... Now she is my age and they look more like father and daughter, he has started having health issues, whereas she is in the prime of her life... I don't know... Maybe I am a little prejudiced about this topic... Lol...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Gordie2650' My daughter has set the parameters. Any woman younger than he mean of her age and mine is not acceptable. A simple enough formula. Gordie Another formula

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I would like to discuss the feelings of older or younger people who use the catch cry about age ...generally it causes a feeling of being inadequate so hence they use the defense however its just a lack of understanding that not everyone is going to want you ..regardless there is someone for everybody ..just keep looking ....we have had experience with young attractive girls that were painful due to lack of brains that were upset at being knocked back and we have had older guys with the same problem ...and to be honest at no time was it age ..it was there attitude or aptitude that failed them ..because lets face it on this site generally its the look that causes the contact ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Interesting that YOUR comments have gone under the radar without a comment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka_TheEncore' Interesting that YOUR comments have gone under the radar without a comment. but I'm time crunched...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    For me attraction is attraction but I have to draw a line to the ages that could be my Son or Father. It just doesn't feel right in my mind.

  • precious142

    precious142

    9 years ago

    Yes...age does matter....As I have aged it matters to me that I spend my time wisely and I certainly have done that while being on RHP!I have had some wonderful DOW experiences.......with guys many years younger......and that's all they are - experiences!Not looking to live with any younger studs, but it is fun hanging out with them occaisionally ......after all - a shag is a shag is a shag.......and as long as we both happy and satisfied - why worry about it???????? Being called a DOW here in the Forums - well that was certainly some thing different but - myself and a few others are embracing it!!!!! In fact, we have a DOW club going on in Perth - you have a certain criteria to meet but it is do -able!!!The main criteria atm is that you are able to knit willy warmers (made to measure) of course.....for the great WA guys....with no age limit And I certainly am looking forward to my first DOW photo shoot this arvo - taking hot pics for a 30 yo - wwoohhoo!!!!

  • precious142

    precious142

    9 years ago

    When I started on (another) adult site a few years ago, I did set my age perameters within the ages of my brothers.......but the very first guy I actually met face to face was 34.......and I was 55 - and we had a blast, in fact went out on a few dates before he moved back to QLD! And not having any children makes a difference too.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Safe to say I consider myself as 1 of those younger guys chasing the older cougar, I wouldn't say that age is any sort of barrier to physical attraction. As long as there's a mutual respect to allow play dates and hangs outs to be full of laughs then age is Neva thought about 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    To those people who claim that age is irrelevant..... I say...... go have sex with a 95yo....... then come back and try to continue to argue your position LOL. Of course age is important..... The point is, we all have our own sliding scale, and some peoples are broader than others. So what?! It's an individual thing and haggling with someone over their preferences is not going to win them over.

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