M64
do many guys like fat chicks?
July 20 2009
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your language could be why you don't find them! Nice sentiments contained in your post but your heading sucks! Wildly avoiding
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RHP User
15 years ago
Completely with you Tassie. There are alot of BBW out there, but do you really think they will turn out for someone who has just called them "fat chicks". My partner loves my curves but if he ever described me as the before mentioned "fat chick", he would get a little more than a stern talking to!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
A BBW with plenty confidence can be very hard to beat, I agree! Those other words used, can cause alot of harm tho. I'd put it down to a poor choice in words, not here to knock you. I love all shapes & sizes, I was interested in the responces.
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RHP User
15 years ago
this style of trolling question is bereft of thoughtul consideration. It makes me wonder whether you are just being grumpy, flaccid and looking for attention... Or genuine about your sentiments but thick on the coms skills. If I give you the benefit of doubt, I'm guessing the latter.... In which case, I like women who know what they like and aren't too shy to let me know in no uncertain terms what needs doing. If that's a BBW then great. I love Rubens' sirens. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
SHORT MEN..... Seriously you have more luck finding a needle in a haystack with those words!! For the record I love short men...women...hey my nic is shorty :) Was just trying to get my point across..
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RHP User
15 years ago
i loooove curvaceous, shapely women! there should be more of them! c'mon sisters!
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RHP User
15 years ago
No interest in perth though :( :( hehehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
Could your subject title be any more crass? Using words like that, its no wonder you are finding it difficult to find what you are looking for. A lot more tact would go a long way to your finding a BBW, fuller figured lady, larger woman etc. There are plenty of other nicer words that can be used.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just doesn't do much for me. Oh and you are fucking kidding when you say they are hard to find, right ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Charming fucking charming Yes we are around...Im happy in my own skin...yes all of it but we deserve some sort of respect....We are still normal people and much into pleasing as well as being pleased With a title like that no wonder some of us have self confidence issues
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RHP User
15 years ago
i'll be there - just let me know when and where sexy, xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love fuller figured women but I would never, ever call them fat. I agree with others that if you use that word your chances of repsonses are extremely limited.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't like to be labelled. I don't like to be called a BBW. It's like I'm a a particular model or brand of car. So if your looking at a woman from that perspective But for the record, BBW's are categorized as ladies who are larger than a size 18. Some woman who call themselves BBW's are not, and really should try to have a healthier self image. Probably sounds funny coming from me, but seriously, there are women out there that are calling themselves fat and really look lovely.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Soon you may be lucky enough to realise just how beautiful they are. BBWs are probably my favourite sexual partners. the ones I have been with have certainly been beautiful and amazing in bed. to me there is nothing more sensual and attractive than a womans curves
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RHP User
15 years ago
Their are MANY different words to use NOT FAT Curvy Shapely Some padding MANY Many more to choose from just NOT that 1 REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES ISN'T THAT RIGHT LADIES Dont know about any one eles but i like my women with Curves Not skin and bone Or Plastic
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gothegrowl
15 years ago
larger ladies have bigger hearts and are definitely better value for money. Skinny chicks have less surface area, therefore have fewer places to nuzzle
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RHP User
15 years ago
whats wrong with calling a spade a spade. if your fat your fat over size larger curvy. if we keep trying to make everything sound so nice and not offend people. people will just keep liveing there unhealthy lives. i have nothing against slighty larger women but it dose have it limits. what gets me most is all the bigger women at work get refered to as nice lovely persons. but the skinner ones as the ones all the boys want to fuck. then there girl friends turn at the pub or where ever and they are ladies of a larger size. but people do need to watch what they eat and look after then selfs not as much for looks but for there health we shouldnt be the second fattest country in the world!!! and we have to set good examples for a kids fat mums and dads make for fat kids kids do what mum and dad do thats my 2 cents worth now t wait for the abuse lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Rolls eyes - some of us curvaceous beauties who are confident, comfortable with the padding, and sensual would laugh at the term "fat chick" and the man silly enough to use that term and expect anything other than contempt. One of the reasons that a lot of women have self esteem issues with their bodies comes directly from comments such as this. Look beyond the packaging in all cases.
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RHP User
15 years ago
rofl, yep a perfect example of the falling standard of education. As the old saying goes, don't judge a man 'til you walk a mile in his shoes. Hugs Da Mrs
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wish to apologise on my last post. I didnt wish to offend anyone and now agree that i shouldnt have used a poor choice of words. I do sincerely apologise and wish to withdraw my bad choice of words. I had no idea that it would cause so many issues. I understand the issues that some larger people have as i am also trying to lose some weight but its like a merry go round for me at the moment. I wish i could take everything i said back. Please everyone accept my humble apologies. I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOO SORRY Thankyou for reading this
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RHP User
15 years ago
so so sexy all shapes and sizes, the person inside makes the woman the packaging is beautiful no matter what shape or size. Ladies you all look great just the way you are, dont give in to marketing on the ideal shape. There isnt one. As long as your healthy. I find you all sexy and beautiful
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RHP User
15 years ago
Im a fat chick ..... happy to be one I agree with macca why beat around the bush the man asked a question......in which in return he wanted a simple answer instead he copped abuse about the way he spoke. Each person has a differnt view on how things are said or seen by their eyes..... Im not entirely sure why people keep categorising other people but its something that has been around for every and will not change... as for the comment about we have to set a good example for our kids.... if your kid is reading this post then im sorry thats wrong to start with...... We all need to face the facts everyone is different and we all have different tastes......... so hows bout we stop abusing each other and answer the question the man asked.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I like to to think of myself as a fuller figured woman - not a fat chick !!!! Lets unite - that is a crass heading and you aren't making any friends with your heading. There are alot of fuller figured women out there that are beautiful and confident in themselves, rethink your idea of "fat chick" and maybe you may find a woman who you are wanting to meet and get to know????? My 2 cents worth anyways :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am really pleased you have seen the error of your words. So we girls don't all fit into the "model" stereotype but then do all you guys fall under the umbrella of "Greek God" ?? It shouldnt be just about the amount there is from the outside .. it should be about the unwrapping to find whats on the inside and the real person. You could be quite surprised. If we all looked for the same qualities and features in the opposite sex there wouldn't be any need for sites such as this one.
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muzz1982
15 years ago
Quoting 'perthcurvygirl'No interest in perth though :( :( hehehe im interested perthcurvygirl, curves are definitelty hotter
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RHP_Editor
15 years ago
Hey gang! Well this thread has stirred the waters quite a bit and the RHP office has been aflutter with conversation about the whole weight debate as well! We were also interested to read the results of a recent online survey which revealed that 44% of Australian blokes would leave their partners if they put on weight. Talking with friends and colleagues about this subject, the recurring issue is the double standards involved here. Women have always been expected to adhere to the stereotypical body shape to be considered attractive, but what about the guys? Why is there less pressure on the lads to keep their waist lines under control? Well as French President, Nicolas Sarkozy can attest, the ladies are taking some control over their gents and their weight. Zarkozy recently had a dizzy spell while jogging which many close to the president attribute to the strict diet and exercise regime his former supermodel wife has put him on. One particularly insightful friend of the Pie team suggested that the ladies start a movement called LAFF – Ladies Against Fat Fellas… What do you all think? Who wants to turn the tables and have a bit of fun with the LAFF movement? RHP Editor
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RHP User
15 years ago
The figures are bogus.... The divorce rate is around 44%.. i.e. 44% of married men will get divorced, no matter what.... Therefore you could also say 44% of men will divorce their wifes for having earwax. Ladies against fat fellas.... well, the health system should also be against fat fellas too. Frankly gym membership should be tax deductable.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I seem to remember quite some time ago a survey done by Cleo or Cosmo where men were shown a series of photos of naked women and ask the question which do they find most sexy. The result was a busty size 14. It was a clear winner in the sexy stakes. The photo were over a very wide range. Now why the obsession with pencil thin women? From my perspective the answer is twofold. Firstly Men do not necessarily prefer to have sex with pencil thin women they simply like to be seen with them. Men are in my opinion just as, if not more vein than women. I call it and a lot of people call it trophy sex. The second aspect is that women are more fashion conscious and bitchier than men. They will talk about someone being fat or wearing super out of date cloths and they will be nasty about this. So in order to comply with peer pressure they modify things. Women want to be seen as thin which is fashionable. Lets’ be realistic about a few things very thin and very over weight are both unhealthy. Being super thin is just as problematic as being overweight. When you are underweight you have less ability to fight off infections and less body mass to even fight off the cold. Karen Carpenter who was a super attractive lady died from being under weight. I was recently sent an email 30 years of playboy. The thing I have noticed in that is that women got skinner and pubic hair has disappeared. I applauded the latter and lament the former. I would love RHP to put up a series of photos across a weight and shape range (lets’ face it a size 14 hour glass and a size 14 pear look different) and ask the following questions: Who looks the most attractive? Who looks the sexiest? Who do you think would be better/more fun in bed? Get the age of the respondents as well to see if that is a factor. Sorry for such a long post I hope it gets the approval. LoveCurvie
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hmm...some would call me a "fat chick"some would say...curvysome would say...voluptuoussome would say...overweightAll of these would be accurate.Myself...I call myself a chick with a fat ass.I haven't the time to worry about other people's attitudes to my appearance.You either like me or ya don't....but I might either like you or I don't.....so meh...move on.Words change their meaning depending on the manner in which they are used.The people that know me and love me do so because of WHO I am....NOT what size clothes I wear.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Firstly.. I love MissBJ, you are so gorgeous, beautiful and sexy and yummy and all the good things people need to be in their lives babes. Seriously you make coming into Redhotpie so much better. I can have a shitty day and I can meet you in chat and I am in fits of laughter and tears cause of our chats. Love you babes xxxxxxx Secondly.. LAFF pmsl ohhh I love that one. Guys can be so critical about women, lets turn the tables on men. We don't like you fat men either, or skinny men with bad attitudes. What do you want? One of those ZOO weekly models with no meat on their bones and basketballs for tits and no personality? Funny thing is guys, most of them would never look twice at you all, let alone once. Time to face reality and get yourself a decent woman and if that means she has some 'meat" on her bones then harden up and accept that, don't aim to have someone out of your league just for the sake of having a supermodel on your arms. It just won't happen! My best friend had an issue with weight, she gained it through depression and a medical issue. She met a guy on here, the guy who supposedly "was soo in love with her" and called her his soulmate dumped her as soon as he found out she wasn't a size 8. Since then she has lost that weight and she is still the fantastic person she always was. Thank god she got rid of him when she did, the guy is a serious loser. But yeah, don't judge a woman on weight or you might miss out on the best women ever. Even if I was a size 16 or larger I know my husband would still love me cause he is A DECENT MAN. The world need more decent men :) Kaito x
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RHP User
15 years ago
miss bj id call you absolutely scrumptious give me a natural built lady anytime a skinny girl scares me i think i might break them i could spend hours and hours exploring your lovely body geoff
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mullmoon
15 years ago
i would like to say that miss bj is the nicest kindest person online here so to all the other people that label people all i can say to them is have a good look inside yourself first cause you might not like what you'd find (shallow).
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RHP User
15 years ago
fat chicks is just a bad heading to put The cuddlier lady is in my opinion a lot more fun to be with... alot more comfortable with themselves and alot of those ladies r well presented and enjoy themselves just as much as anybody else and anyways its all about the fun isnt it regardless of what u look like :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
but big(ish) pot bellies trouble me..and while i'm at it.. have an upright thumb missBJ.. you made me giggle..LRE (chuckles)
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RHP User
15 years ago
you seem to lable us is there anything wrong with a bbw just because we dont look like super models does that mean we are no good bigger girls are hotter and hornier than skinny girls we just keep going you say you cant find one well dont lable us as fat chicks
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RHP User
15 years ago
nothing wrong with voluptuous women, just means more 'cushion when your pushin'the only thing i have a problem with, is if an overweight woman thinks she's all that...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Average woman is size 14 I call myself fat and I am a size 12. Ladies be comfortable with our bodies beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I wear what I am comfy in and what I like to wear now I realise I'm comfy in my body. Its my body and I will look after it I love my curves that what make me feminne, I love my big boobs because they make me a woman. I'm proud to say I'm 44 and a size 12 make the best of what we got and enjoy it we may not have it one day.
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RHP User
15 years ago
After spending the past two weekends out with friends, I have made a series of observations about being a bigger chick in social situations. 1. Men do not see or choose not to see the larger ladies in social situations when there are slimmer, more attractive woman around. I did something for someone over the weekend and my thinner friend got thanked for doing the favour when she had nothing to do with it. 2. When alcohol is involved, men really do become arseholes. 3. Men don't take larger chicks seriously. We can be passionate, gentle, awesome lovers, but if you get caught up in size matters, men miss out of the beautiful person. 4. Larger chicks can always lose weight, if encouraged and supported. Men who are arseholes can change as well with the support of someone willing to tell them they are being an arsehole. Women who are dead roots can always try new things and seek partners who match their sexual libido. 5. There is just too much judgement in the world. I so wish people would take the time to get to know other people. Physical attractiveness is not the ONLY way to see someone. just a few thoughts
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hmm.....One of my besties is quite thin.....and she has as many issues with her bodyshape as I have with mine!!Show me a woman who is completely happy with her body....and I'll show you a liar!!But....we are both very happy because we love WHO WE ARE AS PEOPLE!!!!If you can't like someone because they are overweight, underweight, short, tall, whatever...then the problem is not with them...but with you. Time to take a good hard look in the mirror methinks!!Flowers4u....thanks for your comment....but why do your pics look exactly like my friends' pics?????Mullmoon....thanks hon....I try my best!!!!LRE....... *winks and does the chk chk noise while slipping in a little head sway to the side*and Bendoverkitten.....while i agree with your sentiments....saying "bigger girls are hotter and hornier than skinny girls" is just as bigoted as saying skinny chicks are hotter! We are all hot in our own way.....never forget that!Mr Luva Luva....whats wrong with a curvy girl thinking shes all that?? Everyone else can...so why not us??And of course Kaito.....love ya guts, honey!!!..xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxAnd just remember.....Marilyn Monroe was a size 16-18..and by today's standards...would be classed as LARGECan't see many blokes knocking her back!!!Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
why on earth wud u want to hav sex with a fat person in my opinion it tells u that they dont take pride in ther appearance and body I cud never let myself get big !
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RHP User
15 years ago
HotasIce, even as a bigger girl, I actually take great pride in my appearance. I'm not a size ten stick figure, I never will be, but that doesn't mean I don't have pride in who I am, my achievements, how I look when I walk out the door. I put on my weight after a very bad car accident, got addicted to painkillers and all the anti inflammatory drugs they put me on to deal with the fractures and associated injuries in my back and spine. I spent a year in a hazy stupor and a very bad relationship. It became a depression issue for me after I finally recovered, and on being told I was extremely lucky to be walking, I became scared of doing things that would re-injure my spine. I stopped doing all the things I really loved, ate myself stupid and retreated into a shell of protecting my ability to walk and move. I'm lucky. It's taken me 4 years, counselling and some serious lifestyle changes, including an operation in 6 weeks time to realise that I am worth more than the nasty negative things other people can say about me. I'm the first to admit I have bad internal self talk issues, as will most of the chat room, a place that can be extremely nasty at times when people are putting on a brave face to hide their own problems, they take their own personal stuff out on other people in the room. But you're judging people based on their appearance, not actually knowing them, who they are, what they stand for, I actually find that rather sad for you. You'r as much stuck in a rut as I was or am in some respects. You'll live your life meeting only one type of person, and miss out on all the other really fabulous people there are out there. Big, thin, intelligent smart, street smart, white, black, based on religion, belief, world views. We are all worth knowing. We are all worth loving. I sometimes look at the women's profiles and wish I looked like some of the photos I see. You get the men, you get the attention. You seem to have it all when it comes to this particular situation on line on a "sexual dating sex site". I looked at your profile and thought how beautiful you where. Now I see your mindset, I don't find you all that attractive at all. Thats my opinion. I go into hospital for weight loss surgery in just over 6 weeks. I'm going to lose my weight and start living my real life again. I'm going to be able to wear the clothes I like, be more confident than I already am, and know that a guy likes me for me. A bit of a dicotomy since I just waxed lyrical about being happy whatever your size, but I'm going to get to about a size 14 to 16 and be totally happy there. I'm going to celebrate my curves, show them off, channel Marilyn Monroe, as MissBJ so aptly puts it, and take on everything I can. I am going to show off my beautifully toned body thats come about through careful gym work and the enjoyment of who I am. I'm going to have my cake, eat it at times, and at other times use it for other pleasures :0 I'm going to be strong, healthy and happy. In my own way. I certainly won't be judging other people based on what they look like.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry I shud hav been more specific...there are alot of reasons and factors that can attribute to ppl being overweight like u said with ur accident and that that is totally understandable...I was more pointing out to the ppl that cudnt give 2 shits wen they walk out the door ...and I guess I wudnt rlly know wat it feels like 2 be looked upon as a bigger person but I knwo myself wen ive noticed ive gained a cpl of kilos I get down to the gym straight away thats how paranoid i get haha but yeh ther are so many other things that can contribute to ppl being overweight and I did not mean2 offend those ppl...good 2 hear ur getting ur life back on track anywayz
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playfulminx
15 years ago
I don't think I would be too harsh with people who have put on weight for health/medical reasons but is there any merit in being way overweight? I am talking about being size 22+ and of average height. I think women who are size 16 - 18 still look great and womanly but beyond that... nevermind the superficial aspect of this debate but surely it isn't very healthy. Naturally that isn't to say that a really skinny person is healthy either but at the end of the day, obesity = a body that is susceptible to a lot of health issues.Having had two kids, I am sympathetic to other women vis-a-vis the weight issue but I can't say I am attracted to massive beer guts on guys. Do guys really have an excuse to be fat? I'd rather a guy have a bit of meat on them than completely lean but come on!
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RHP User
15 years ago
1. I prefer 'normal' size girls and i mean prefer. 2. I admit it. 3. Having read most of blokes comments here i think iam gonna vomit. What a load of shit! I am pretty sure that you dont pay any attention to larger girls while night clubbing etc. Trying to sound nice and sensitive...
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RHP User
15 years ago
ahhh....the debate continuesOK...im size 26 on the bottom...and size 18 on the top....and im 173 cm tall.Although I do take pride in my appearance....I realise that I need to lose some weight.But dont for one minute think that i am less of a person because my ass is big.And dont for one minute think that my weight issues are solely from eating.Walk a mile in my shoes....deal with all the shit ive had to deal with....then tell me im worth less than the skinny girl.And for the record...i have normal blood pressure....blood sugars....cholesterol levels....the whole gamut.the exception being....i have a big bum.OH....and ive seen some pretty trashy lookin skinny folk walking out their door without checkin the mirror first...it aint just a fat thing.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with u there!! but I guess in sum cases..ppl who are in those sizes 16-22 ande cannot committ themselves to a healthier eating plan or daily exersize thats wen they grow in size I guess it wud be kind of hard to loose weight from being a big size...and same goes for rlly skinny girls they dont look good either but any weight problem is always a mental problem aswell its not as easy as switching a light on...u hav to rlly commit urself...I myself used 2 hav an eating problem but I hav overcome it and hav learnt to control wat i eat and i stick 2 regular exersize now I dont think about food anymore bcoz its become a habbit...but yeh very hard 2 do I must say!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Panda, you are very right. Some guys just don't see fat women as attractive. I also think a lot of guys may well be attracted to bigger chicks in the privacy of their home behind a computer screen, but once they are out in a social situation, with mates, in the boy's club, they are so worried about what their mates think, they will pass up a nice looking bigger girl with a great smile and an awesome personality for a skinnier chick because it's expected. I got that yesterday, a guy came up to me, said hi, we started to talk, then his mates came up and started making fun of him right in front of me. Don't ask me why, we were just talking about the weather and how nice it was to have a sunday afternoon drink. Granted, these guys where pissed as farts.... but still he wasn't cracking on to me, we were just talking. I think men get really involved in what their mates think, and forget about what they want out of life. Panda.... you can be attracted to whom you like, I don't begrudge anyone having their own particular attraction. I guess all I'm saying is that when your out in a social situation, just talking to someone who is fat isn't gonna kill anyone. As an aside.... I, like MissBJ, am actually extremely healthy. And the bigger a person is, the harder it is to begin. Peoples attitudes towards fat people doesn't help. We deserve encouragement, not being belittled. One a bigger person loses weight, it doesn't just stop there. If thinner people could take a walk in a fat person's shoes, they might be a tad more accepting of what we go through on a daily basis.
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RHP User
15 years ago
As much as people seem to be attacking each other on here for their opinions... they are just that... opinions. Everyone has tastes for different things, whether it be for a particular race, a particular size, or a particular build. Whether someone says it bluntly or skirts around what their preferences are, they still need to be respected.
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conroyke56
15 years ago
I just thought I would say a few things about my experiance with weight. First of all. Growing up I was always a larger kid. Not overweight, but big. Through school I was picked on etc. For being slow. At 15. I decided to change all that. I had always played sports. But I began training alot. At 16 I was 70 kg fit. Playing first grad soccer and high lvel athletics. At the ag of 17 and 18. I played firsts rugby. I was still one of the fittes people on the field. Could runthe hundred in under 13 secs and weighed in at just over 80kg. In ourast game at 18. I seriously injured my shoulder and coller bone, it was a LoNG time coming. But after this, I went from a intense fitnest schedule to nothing. However my eati g habbits remained the same. Within 12 months I was 134 kgs. And had a broken heart. I had healed but there was no way I could play elite rugby. In this way I can feel for frack as it was an injury that started the downhill ride. I think also alot of people don't understand wat it's like to excersise when your larger. At the gym, it feels lime your the only one there that is overweight. Walking in the street you think people Re laughing at you., and often the pain can be unbearable. Also people don't often understand how the body works. The body doesn't like sudden changes. If you drasticLly change your eating habbits or activeness, your body goes into survival mode Ne your body ceases to function at it's optimum. Of course there's ways to work around all this. And I can happily say that after a month. I hav lost a heap of weight. And I am looking forward to getting back I to top level sport In The next 12 months! I am lucky I am still young enough to tacle this head on Sorry if it dragged, but just so u know, itsnot only girls that have esteem issues.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Genetics play a big factor in things. Eating healthily doesnt always work, its genetics and you cant change that. Perhaps one day when you have kids, your body will change beyond your control, and you could get THAT big. So live it up while you can, coz u never know what is around the corner
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RHP User
15 years ago
U said it everyone is different and everyone has ther own taste and opinions its like asking someone wat do u prefer a blonde or brunette...boobs or ass etc
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ive always been big, Ive never been anything different, alot of ppl that i know think i have done this to myself, that i was a small child/teen, but i have never known anything different but this. Im a size 18 to 24 and im 182cm tall, I eat healthy food, and I go to the gym, but I hardly change my weight. I always dress nice/smart. I cant understand why alot of women dont, its not like there isnt much choice out there for them. It is very hard in so many different ways. I just try and be myself and keep tryin to move forward with my life. I never get the time of day from men, And it does hurt alot. Im as active as a normal person, same sexual habits etc etc, But they can never get past my size. I personally love big guys, and its not just cuz of my size, i would like them even if i was small. But women dont get the same attention. Ive learnt to deal with it so far. but i just thought i would say my story.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi there, going to have to put in my comment..... I hear women men every day complain about their weight and I just want to scream...I don't know why no one has............Very loaded voice :0 the whole worlds obesity epidemic would be wiped out if every one ate the Zone diet and no it's not a diet, it would also get rid of diabetes, just one other epidemic, because it controls blood sugar levels, from the first meal, hunger will go, stopping all those sugar cravings too...if any one is serious about losing weight, for health as well as looks...........look it up on the net, or under Dr Murray, once you get your head around it, its easy and works and the benefits are amazing,we would put the medico industry outa business, by all helping ourselves, my man put me on it and he has been on it for 8yrs. Each to there own though if you are big and happy, awesome
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RHP User
15 years ago
is that through media, most people in this "white, westernized" society have been conditioned to think that large is "unattractive". In African countries, the larger you are as a woman, the more beautiful, it means your wealthy and a good provider for your family... Shit...I'm moving to Africa....anyone got a spear I can borrow to keep all the men away from me with..... Kombya...... my friends....kombya
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with KATIO comments just because some people are larger doesn't mean there not great people. From a personal point of view, I find a greater proportion or skinny woman are very shallow and the 1st to be judgmental of a person body size. I love a lady with some meat on her bones and in the end it doesn't matter if your fat or skinny if your tosser of a person it doesn't matter what body size you are your still a tosser.So in the end I believe its more about the persons personality not there size. So many people find larger woman attractive, like i do. have also found larger woman are a lot better in bed that skinny woman. So in the end if u don't larger woman fair enough and the same goes for if you do like larger woman. So i treat all people they way I like to be treated and i don't judge them on there body size but on what type of person they are. In the end we are all different and that is what makes it so enjoyable to meet new people and make friends and if things go further from there AWESOME. Grav P.S love and accept people for who they are not what there body size is.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ive seen profiles on RHO advertising the tagline...wait for it... "Ever fucked a fat chick".So perhaps some of the self admitted "fat chicks" have some answering to do.Like it was some gimmick.I guess it all depends on the person. If they want to call themselves FAT, then so be it...I wouldnt go around labelling women fat tho..But as someone mentioned previously, lets not get caught up in the debate over political correctness and sensitivity issues.The author of the thread was VERY flattering to voluptuous women in the body of his message, perhaps a little wreckless in his title, but nevertheless hes pro curvy women. Im sure he never meant to offend anyone. Why do so many people seem to want to jump on the bandwagon and have a whinge over a technicality?Sometimes I think people just want to have a justification to have a whinge.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not often in the forums but felt obliged to add my two cents worth. I believe that men do indeed enjoy the pleasure of flesh, and enough to hold onto. But a slimmer frame is perhaps visually more appealing? I havent had complaints...... rather the opposite. If you have never tried ..... then hell! I know some hot men who just don't cut it in the bedroom. Not an inch of fat on their toned bodies. Perhaps the problem stems with someone failing to be honest and upfront? I make it clear in my profile and when a conversation is initiated as I don't care for someone concerned about size. Simply human nature.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i would love to handle a bbw lady in perththey apperciate it more then just a flingan i am in perth
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RHP User
15 years ago
An excellent topic (despite the unfortunate heading).... I believe that it's about feeling sexy.....if you feel good about yourself then the other stuff shouldnt matter as much.... I have had fun with bigger girls, average girls and some women with amazing figures....for me it's about experiences....you see someone and if the spark is there and they exude a sexyness that is on your level...then it's game on.... If I'm watching porn or playig in a group scene I think I prefer petite women but then, I'm Dominant and a big fella and I get off on smaller women where I can use my strength.... Curvy girls are lovely but it's aout sexiness....not so much shape....I have met "hot" girls who are NOT sexy because they might be rude or arrogant etc.... Dog Xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
i was in a BBW group ,.and yes they are butiful plz .....if you think different get your head out of the sandi love forplay with then they are azmazing w/ curves that will make you stand up and begg for more lovly soft supple skin to touch and play with i have had one's that are self consie still when i play w/ those curves butt that's what is sexy about them it is up to the inderviual
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RHP User
15 years ago
Only yesterday, I was admiring a BBW sitting at the next table at a cafe. What a sweet beautiful face she had, though she was extremely large. The first thing that went through my mind was wondering what her personality is like, is she sweet and nice as her face suggests, or is she sadly burdened by lots of baggage? Next I ponder the logistics of getting to know her, and if so, can we ultimately do the act in bed. Unfortunately by this stage the lady was feeling uncomfortable and fled the cafe, probably thinking I was unhinged. This is where RPH has an advantage. Ladies out there willing to meet suitable guys. But sadly, the factor that has deterred me in recent times is the number of greedy gals, who can't settle for one bloke, but are determined to sample the lot. Not that the guys aren't doing the same. Then one lady I was particularly fond of had a drug addled son, who it was dangerous to be around. So I agree with the sentiments of 'letsunite' though understand the reaction to the title. It's like walking on egg shells, in these politically correct days when you can't call a spade a shovel.
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RHP User
15 years ago
deff alot of better choice of words to describe bbw the one that i use is volutuous
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RHP User
15 years ago
we can only hope little panda that there a perfict woman out there for your perfict look and outlook on others likes
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RHP User
15 years ago
Best of luck for the future Frack_Me. Read what you had to say with great interest... and sounds like you're a top chick. You're still a young'un compared to me, so there's still a lot of living to do. If there's not an after life for all the good people who've have a bad time... then there's not much justice. So I guess we've got to make the most of the life we've got. It sounds like you're determined to conquer all these pesky obstacles... and by following what you say... I'm sure you will.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Want some fast action in the bed room with lots of possition changing n throwing the girl around (nicely of cors)., with larger ladies this is harder n for technique all ya really get is worken the angles., bit boring.. Go the fit athletic build 4 me anyday :)
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Loveknot
15 years ago
I’ve said it before and im gonna say it again, what is it with this “skinny” shit, why do people think its ok to go around calling women skinny?? I am so sick of this label, oh yeah the skinny chick, bag of bones, surfboard, anna..rexic, the twig, stick insect the list goes on, then Bendoverkitten says “bigger girls are hotter and hornier than skinny girls”!!! Well heaven forbid I should call anyone “a tub of lard, a “wide load” or a “dead root”! No that would be mean wouldn’t it. That would be commenting on someone’s shape or size, can’t do that…..unless of course it’s a skinny girl!!! Let me tell you something people “skinny” girls have feelings too! Women who are slender don’t like being labeled either. I am a size 10 and happy with my body, all of it, even the cellulite, I couldn’t give a rat’s arse! Im not buying into media, im not trying to be anything other than me and that just happens to be a tall, slim woman! Oh and Lovecurvie, Karen Carpenter had anorexia, a serious eating disorder, that’s what killed her. Just because women are slim doesn’t mean they are sick or have eating disorders or are trying to fit into media images. Maybe they were born that way! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nothing like some cushion for the pushin'. But the last full figured woman (FFW) I was with wished I had a bigger dick and so did I.FFW's are quite hot.IS there a "do many gals like fat guys" topic in Girls Ask
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey everyone,Im a big girl,on the larger side of life, cuddly,well rounded,volumptous,curvy and very sexy inside and out!Im a size 16dd above the waist and 18-20 below the waist and yes with a tummy thats soft and squishy.I have met many men over my 18 months online who adore my body and which in turn makes me wonder if its me that keeps me single and hides behind the "its easy just to have FB's" rather than commit to a relationship.(my own hangup with myself)Anyway id just like to say it doesnt matter if your larger,thin,big boobed, little nipples ,blonde or brunette.If you believe your sexy, you will feel sexy and therefore people will see you are sexy and enjoy being around your confidence..
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RHP User
15 years ago
"A lot more tact would go a long way to your finding a BBW, fuller figured lady, larger woman etc. There are plenty of other nicer words that can be used." WTF is wrong with calling a Fat chick a " Fat chick " and as for hard to find.. you must be joking.. try finding a slim one on here... Personally I can't stand fat people.. Mr...
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RHP User
15 years ago
"I go into hospital for weight loss surgery in just over 6 weeks. I'm going to lose my weight and start living my real life again" See .. even Fat chicks don't like fat chicks..... :) Mr...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'tickledmink' Anyway id just like to say it doesnt matter if your larger,thin,big boobed, little nipples ,blonde or brunette.If you believe your sexy, you will feel sexy and therefore people will see you are sexy and enjoy being around your confidence.. Its an interesting topic, and I dont think its limited to large women per say, I think the whole "DOES SIZE MATTER" debate slips into the fray as well...How important is physique to people? It appears that for the most part be it 70-80% of respondents said that it wasnt about size and that they found larger, voluptuous women attractive.Yet are there any limitations to this?If your body isnt very flexible, does this make several sexual positions impossible or impractical?Have any of the larger women found it difficult to find some deep penetration?One reason I ask is that, TickledMink was taking the view that size wasnt important. However in her profile she made special note that her partners had to be ENDOWED with 8+ inches. It appeared an apparent contradiction or hypocritical stance, and I was wondering if in fact it was more of a practical nature.I was wondering whether that has anything to do with limited or restricted ENTRY based on her own physique or whether it was just her personal preference for a good sized cock.Without sounding too eccentric here...taking the natural history perspective, some larger animals, like whales, elephants etc... Would find intercourse challenging if they werent endowed with long penises, simply because of the actual size of their mates and how difficult penetration is otherwise. With prolly 80% of their penises not even venturing inside the vagina. How many larger women have found intercourse LIMITED due to awkward entry points.Or is this a negligible point? Is penetration drastically limited or ineffective for larger women because of their size?Is there really a PRACTICAL consideration to SEX for larger women?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Frack_me.. you go girl...you tell whats its like to go through that crap.its been the same experence for me like deja vufor me when i read what you had said.I'd been over weight for many years at one stage i was a size 22.and going down.I was determind to get myself fit n healthy for my two young teens as i didnt want them to go through the same crap i did ni didnt want them to be embarrassed by ppls comments.Once i got to where i am now,they ( kids ) notice how differently i wasbeing treated,n the wolf whistles n such at times i thought that attention was for someone else i forgot i was blonde instead ofbeing a red head...lol so a total change in appearance..I might now have a touch lose skin on my stomach..But i say not badgoing for a 51 young at heart,mother of 3 beautiful n healthy happy kids along with others if people dont accept us warts n althey're not worth our time n energy to care about..kick em to the curb...Hence people judge us weather curvy or slim only the comments differ.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Guys be honest here. I am not meaning to start the whole debate again, but I know as well as alot of women and men that are reading this post, Men only want heavier women because they think we are going to be more hornier and willing to do more in bed because it could be while until we get laid again. So of course they will think we are going to be wild or fire crackers in bed.I have over heard guys talking in clubs as well I have many brothers and alot of male friends who tell me the truth about what men think of women, what they prefer in a woman and what size they would like their women to be. Men prefer size 8 to 12 any woman bigger then that they aren't expecting to hang around for long. To even prove this just take a look on rhp hot pic or red hot pics and tell me what woman has won that is a size 14 or larger. Yes there are some men out there that do honestly prefer curvier women but they are few and far between.
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RHP User
15 years ago
As a BBW I can say it has nothing to do with it what size a store says you are, if you feel sexy and your partner makes you feel sexy , if you are sexually confident, then who cares about the lumpy bits. I would rather be larger (which means big tits....LOL) then lie in bed like a stuned mullet when someone comes near you and have no personality. BBW make up for the pysical difference (to supermodels withsharp lumpy bits - bones) with zest, humour, and a bloody good time in bed. If you haven't tried a bbw then you should.........
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotazIce' why on earth wud u want to hav sex with a fat person in my opinion it tells u that they dont take pride in ther appearance and body I cud never let myself get big !Hotazice .... Omg what a horrible thing to say rolls eyes.Frack I like your writing...well done, particularly "me again"
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amoureuX
15 years ago
We are not talking about FAT here we are talking about ugly. Couldnt care less if you are built like a sexbot barbie from the stepford wives, if you are a judgemental nasty facile little twit...id rather shag the cat. Beauty is always subjective in the real world, there are a lot of thin/ugly fat/disgusting waifelike/wonderful large/amazing people out there, essentially we all need to get over ourselves. The people we choose to be friends with and share our bodies with are those that make us feel good about ourselves. Having said that how often in a couples situation do you find the women go to so much effort, nice clothes, underwear, smelling amazing yet the guys wear the trackies and a tshirt with an arrow pointed to their dick!!! We only have sex with attractive people...its our only rule...we have to be attracted to them. Some of the most beautiful people we know are thin and some are not we love them because they make us laugh and feel good about ourselves, isnt that what this is all about.xxxxxxxxxxA
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RHP User
15 years ago
HotazIce... U shit me. Yes Im a bigger woman, and I have my bad days when I think "fuck Im fat", but when all is said and done, Im happy, I dont eat to excess, I exercise and do everything any other woman does. Everyone has there reasons for being o/weight and I think its bullshit that u feel u can judge us on ur preconceived ideas about what "fat ppl" are like, what we do in our time, and that we dont make THE BEST FUCKING FUCKERS IN THE WORLD!!! Any one who has had sex with a bigger person knows that bcos of how some society members see us, they think we are lousy lays but I can tell u that we're not. Come to Melb and join hubs and me and Ill prove it! xxCarNorxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I only consider Thin, Slender, Athletic or Average body size simply because larger bodies are not a turn on to me. Many female friends are larger size but I do not consider them for anything more than that. Similarly most slender female friends I do not consider as sexual partners for various reasons - smoking, in relationships, not attractive to me, incompatible personalities. The ones I am attracted but have never progressed probably have issues with me - too old, too focussed on work, too nice, not nice enough, too wealthy, not wealthy enough, too good a dancer, not good enough, too arrogant, not confident enough, too tall, too short, too many muscles, not enough. Some I have just never pushed the envelope since I value the relationship I have too much to complicate it. Many things about me cannot be changed - I cannot get younger, I cannot grow taller, I cannot change race. Many things I can change - I control what I eat, what I do, where I go, what I wear, what I say, how I say it.I do not always get to the gym as often as I would like, I sometimes eat too much of what I like, I sometimes don't consider what I look like before I rush out of the house, I sometimes say the wrong thing the wrong way. The great thing is I can do better next time. I can make an extra effort to exercise, I can skip the wrong thing and avoid developing poor eating habits. I can apologise for doing the wrong thing. I can learn how to improve my skills. I can improve my attitude and take action. These things are within my power. Just because I failed to do the right thing yesterday does not mean I cannot do it tomorrow. The issue is that bad habits need to be replaced with good ones. I know the hollowness of my own excuses. The key is to be true to myself and be happy with who I am. The things I do not like about myself and cannot change I must accept. If it can be changed then it up to me to make it happen.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have spent some time reading through all the responses up on this subject and so much of what I wanted to say has been said already. I was going to make reference to points already made by so many on here but I think i will just type and see what comes out. I have been both big (size 24+) and now smaller(size 8-10) and I've done that a few times and its amazing how many issues arise from being at each end of the spectrum. Unfortunately some people do treat you differently depending on the size you are and its not always a good thing to be smaller let me assure you. I have found that some treat you in a negative way and I'm still not sure why but can only imagine its jealousy, yet others now really take the time to talk to me more as I'm not more asthetically easy on the eye, when in reality I am still the SAME PERSON. I have always considered myself a nice person and continue to think so and wouldn't it be a lovely world where everyone is NICE and it doesn't matter what size, colour, creed, male or female we could all be treated the same, but unfortunately its never going to happen. I have always considered myself sexy and have had many others also tell me that, even though I may not have always felt it. Even after reaching my goal weight I struggle sometimes when I look at pictures and think gee I still look fat yet in others I like what I see. The reality is, sometimes we do look bad in pictures and it doesn't matter what size we are. Sexy is definately a State of Mind....not a dress size !!! So many assume that overweight people eat too much and that was really part of why I had the weight issues in the first place. I actually hardly ate at all and when I did it was not always the best thing for me or the right portion size. I now have a healthy attitude to food and eat at least 6 times a day but much smaller portions and I also allow myself to have some of that cake or whatever it is without feeling the guilt of eating it. I strive in my life to be a lot of things and non judgemental is one of them and I have decided to live my life by 2 moto's or rules 1. Those that MATTER don't MIND and Those that MIND don't MATTER 2. Only God can Judge Me (insert Higher Being or whatever in the case of God) In my opinion.... Live life to the fullest. Barbie xx
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coastcpl
15 years ago
Mr Coast here with my 2 cents worth.... The problem is these days is that "Fat, Ample, Cuddly" call it what you like is considered the "norm" I'm talking about men and women.....it cant all be blamed on genetics or some mystery illness...ffs.....and I am well aware that some of the weight problems stem from this and more. But lets face it most of it comes from not giving a shit and then making all the excusses under the sun as to why they can't loose weight....lets face it most of the weight you put on was by eating crapp ! so it can be taken off You just have to have the will to do it. Just have a look around it seems just about 2 out of every 3 people are fat...whats with that...just go to Macca's or HJ's and have a look they seem to congregate these places scoffing down 5 burgers and I'll have fries with that....lol great example for their kids...... But if your happy with the way you look thats great.......oh and just because you are a size 8 or ten doesn't mean you are skinny its got to do with height to weight ratio....have alook at this chart to see where you stand. http://www.mydr.com.au/tools/IdealWeightCalculator
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bexta1971
15 years ago
can't wait for your next topic ! women in the kitchen maybe ?! lol most ppl didn't agree with you discription, but they all knew what sort of lady you were looking for !!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm only a new member here and, because I'm soft and cuddly, I've been reading this thread with interest and really want to add my 2c worth and I'm sorry if I step on some toes. Mr Grand_dudes, it's pretty obvious you "can't stand fat chicks" if you don't see the benefit in using more tactful terms than 'fat chick' to try and get one laid. Don't worry though, with an attitude like that, I'm pretty sure 'fat chicks' wouldn't be able to stand you either! StiffInsider - I'm not quite sure how to take your comments. Are you sincerely asking those questions? I've read your profile and you seem genuine enough so I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and answer them, at least from my perspective. Physique is somewhat important to everyone from a 'physical attraction' and 'first impression' point of view, but honestly, what a guy (or girl *giggle*) looks like in their underwear or less is really irrelevant as I would already be either attracted to that person or not because of their personality and attitude. Flexibility? Why would you think that anyone larger than a size 14 we're inflexible? (I say size 14 because you seemed to be directing your curiosity TickledMinks way and she's only a size 16) Well I'm a size 18 and I can get my feet behind my head! (Ok, slight exaggeration...but I can certainly hook them up onto the headboard ;) ) I haven't found any position I've tried impossible or impractical and as far as penetration goes, from my experience, it only makes for a softer landing for the guys but doesn't limit the entry. I guess the only 'down side' and limitation would the difficulty in doing it standing up with no support and only being held up by the guy...but then I could just as easily blame the guy for lack of upper body strength then couldn't I *hehe* ;) Hope that clears a few things up for you :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Sonsie' "StiffInsider - I'm not quite sure how to take your comments. Are you sincerely asking those questions? I've read your profile and you seem genuine enough so I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and answer them, at least from my perspective. I haven't found any position I've tried impossible or impractical and as far as penetration goes, from my experience."Thanks for your input. Ive been with a few curvy women, and some positions are much more awkward, if not impractical. If the vagina is quite concealed with either a really healthy butt or larger stomach, then penetration or depth is more difficult. I am certainly not small, but because of the extra padding in some women, it is indeed more difficult to successfully achieve the penetration desired. Surely there are more peope who have encountered this.I guess it depends on where the vagina is positioned and how easy access is. Also the ability for a woman to ride effectively with so much weight can also be a problem.My comment was definitely not meant to be taken negatively. I am partial to all women large or small, and i dont base my partners on size. Just in case you got the wrong message. I would find it difficult to imagine how a larger woman could be as flexible as a woman whos smaller, more petite, lighter and athletic. Also with the more petite thin frame, and less padding, the vagina is a lot more accessible. Im sure those men who have been with larger and petite women know what im talking about. When i say larger women im prolly talking larger than size 16 i think. maybe not. I guess it depends where the woman puts most of the weight on. Ive had a women with an especially larger butt, and doggy was near impossible, yet missionary etc, from the front was a piece of cake. Whereas another who was top heavy, and bottom light, front on sex was less practical, while doggy was great.I think medics have also suggested that men who are fatter with larger bellies can tend to conceal their penis and make it seem smaller and also restrict depth of penetration. Having said all that, i think its pretty dismal when some people demand certain sizes in one gender yet gives another gender a reprieve. I dont like the inconsistency. whats good for the goose is good for the gander. As i think another person once commented on... Us guys dont demand special criteria of women with tighter or smaller vaginas. I suppose anyone who is so TIGHT with specific size criteria prolly doesnt get too much action.Anyone who is so obsessed with physical attributes, prolly doesnt have a good mindset and wont be a good sexual partner anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The other night I was out at a meet ... A guy comes over to me and we start chatting.. After pointing out to me all the different girls he had fu*ked in the past, he then went on to tell me who he planned on fu*king that night... If that wasnt enough... he then said to me "I wanna fu*k you cos fat chicks can really take a good caning".I mean c'mon.. Is this a pick up line???? lolFortunately I am not easily upset. My hubby and I had a really good laugh about it with some friends after... But seriously.. calling a girl a fat chick is hardly gonna have her drooling for you! Mind you, I think this guy had his entire pick up lines screwed up! lol Definately not someone I will be chatting to again! Majick
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RHP User
15 years ago
my wife is a bbw and i cant see anything wrong with loving a bbw. in my experience they have more respect for other ppl. and to reply to HotazIce my wife does take pride in herself and the other girls ive dated (which have all been big btw) take pride in themselves to back off and until u actually have something intelegent to say dont
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok sik of being a stick figure watching these forums it is time for me to eat some real meals it seems to me that the real size girls are having way more fun than me. I have spent my whole life trying to be what men wanted now i am starting to realise that it is more than looks. apparently it is attitude and i envy bbw you have the abbilityy to say f***** you. I spend my life trying to be what people expect me to be and not living up to it, you girls find real men that dont have unrealistic expectations I ENVY YOU XXXX
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RHP User
15 years ago
Isnt it just a personal choice?? I myself dont find larger women attractive but that doesnt make me not like them and i dont think anyone is saying that either. Its a topic that could be related to many body types or features ..I read on here No bald men, no hairy men, its a personal choice plain and simple. You cant help what grabs your attention and everyone has thier own turn on's & turn off
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with your comments 100%. STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOUR WEIGHT. If you are overweight, you are unhealthy and therefore at risk of diabetes, cardiovascular disease, strokes etc, etc. As a society we all eat way more than we need to, in order to survive. We are becoming an obese population and this will have serious consequences in the future. I speak from experience, having been a nurse and still working in the health industry. I have also suffered a back injury from lifting you selfish overweight people (most of which suffered strokes)!! Fat is NOT attractive. Curves are fine and a little extra padding may be ok too, but not excessive weight. I am a size 14 and consider that Iam somewhat overweight and that I need to keep control of my weight as I refuse to put on any more, but to lose some. I know that I can me slimmer with some effort. It's not rocket science 'Less in - more out'. I am also bi-sexual and love shapely women, but I am simply not attracted to fat chicks. Stop being PC people and get real. S
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well, I am also a larger lady (fat chick) Whatever, If people don't like the way I look then don't look, get over it already, I don't look at skinny chicks and wish I looked like them, I'm comfortable with my shape and don't have any trouble picking up, My suggestion to other bigger ladies is to not take peoples opinions on board, Don't make excuses for why you are big just except it, I have!I am the way I am and i'm not changing for no one
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RHP User
15 years ago
Alot of people seem to think that losing weight is so simple. IT IS NOT. I am about 30 kilos over my suggested weight for my height and i am not happy the way i look. It is very depressing . I wonder if ladies like larger men ? I myself like a larger figure on a lady rather than a skinny lady. No offence to anyoneFor myself losing weight is in the mind as well. I stopped smoking 8 years ago where i smoked for 23 years. I find smoking was easier to stop than trying to lose weight. I still hope i can achieve my weight loss.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Please don't assume that those of us with 'curvy' figures just don't give a shit about looking after ourselves. Could be that we're just happy and content the way we are....and therefore don't feel the need to make excuses. Oh and I can't even finish 1 burger without the fries, let alone 5! Out4FunWA...you don't seem to acknowlege that there ARE some valid reasons out there for being overweight and are quick to judge. Telling me personally to stop making excuses for my weight would be akin to telling a man with a prosthetic leg to stop making excuses as to why he can't win a marathon. letsunite...I understand what you mean - it can be a long hard road, but the fitter you get, the better you feel despite the weight. I always thought 'excersise is addictive' was a myth, but I now find myself itching to get out there and go walking and be active. I can't speak for other women, but I'm a sucker for a sweet face and if a guy has got that, then it doesn't matter what his body is like...and I never assume that you just don't give a shit. S
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RHP User
15 years ago
Out4FunWA.... Not using the term "fat" is about being nice, not about PC. It's about not making someone who might already have issues feel worse about themselves. I tend to think most people who bandy about being brutally honest just do so in order to try and make up for something thats missing in their own lives by hurting other people. Thats the difference between confidence and arrogance. grand_dukes, your a grand DICK dude At 161 centimetres tall and well over 100kgs, grand_dukes, I go into hospital to get myself mobile again after a major spinal injury. Not because I want to look hot. Not to have a better chance for a shag, not because I think being thin is more beautiful. Because getting up in the morning is painful. The extra weight makes it harder for me to do all the things that keep my life full. At least the things I can still do. But I want to be able to ride horses again. Because I lead an active lifestyle, and all the extra weight is making it harder to live that life. Of course being a good "normal" weight is healthy. No one has said that they disagree with the obvious health benefits of not being obese. What point your missing is that everyone else is happy with who they are, they can accept themselves and others. UNLIKE YOU! Your stuck meeting the same people, having the same souless conversations and doing the same things, while those people out there who can accept others for all their beauty are leading exciting and fulfilling lives. I EAT HARDLY ANYTHING. THATS WHY I'M FAT. MY METABOLISM IS SO STUFFED UP FOR FEAR OF GETTING BIGGER I JUST DON'T EAT. THE ONLY THING I GET FROM MACCA'S IS A SKINNY CHAI LATTE. OCCASSIONALLY HOTCAKES. No carbs.... protein and fresh salads and fruit, my only weakness is chocolate, but I certainly don't sit and gorge myself on 4 blocks of chocolate after the 5 burgers someone mentioned.
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RHP User
15 years ago
whats wrong with saying fat chicks? i read someones post that u are comfy in ur skin and all that so why do u care if he says fat chicks? isnt it the same when u say a guy is hot cause he has a six pack? even though his face may be shit? i think yall just need to get over it the guy said that he thinks ur beautiful and wants to fuck u? selective reading man!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i would love to run my toung all over your beauitfull curves
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RHP User
15 years ago
curvey girls are sexier and know how to please there man
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RHP User
15 years ago
think you are beauitfull and you are all woman lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'perthcurvygirl' No interest in perth though :( :( hehehe not sure i agree with you. i m from perth, checked your profile, would very much be interested in you. On topic I find bbw women to be very feminen. Nothing beats a confident bbw women who is willing to highlight her assets ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Frack_Me' is that through media, most people in this "white, westernized" society have been conditioned to think that large is "unattractive". In African countries, the larger you are as a woman, the more beautiful, it means your wealthy and a good provider for your family... Shit...I'm moving to Africa....anyone got a spear I can borrow to keep all the men away from me with..... Kombya...... my friends....kombya Move to Perth, I think your are very sexy, love your eyes
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RHP User
15 years ago
Speaking for my self I find BBW very feminin. Nature made women curvy and men not :-)Whats doesn't turns me on are obese and anaroxic women who lead a very unhealthy lifestye. That is not to say they might have a very good personality that I would be freinds with.As earlier posters have indicated there is a peer group pressure for men to be seen with non BBW (skinny) women.I was in a long term relatioship with a girl who had the most beautiful angelic face. But she was about a size 14. The amount of $hIt I used to get from my mates earlier in our relationship was very annoying. So thats my personal experienceQuoting 'Harleigh' Guys be honest here. I am not meaning to start the whole debate again, but I know as well as alot of women and men that are reading this post, Men only want heavier women because they think we are going to be more hornier and willing to do more in bed because it could be while until we get laid again. So of course they will think we are going to be wild or fire crackers in bed.I have over heard guys talking in clubs as well I have many brothers and alot of male friends who tell me the truth about what men think of women, what they prefer in a woman and what size they would like their women to be. Men prefer size 8 to 12 any woman bigger then that they aren't expecting to hang around for long. To even prove this just take a look on rhp hot pic or red hot pics and tell me what woman has won that is a size 14 or larger. Yes there are some men out there that do honestly prefer curvier women but they are few and far between.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am a healthy BBW with a 22DD bust and an 18-20 hip size. I love being me and have a healthy sexual lifestyle. So for all the men that cannot appreciate us.... well you dont know what you are missing. We are beautiful on the inside and on the outside.
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