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does cock size matter?
August 08 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, I really don't think so at all. If two men can use it equally well, I would be going for the guy I find most attractive, or that I have the most fun with. Sometimes a very large one can be a pain in the arse (pun intended) as well as being so much more effort to give a headjob to etc. Why are men so obsessed with the size of their willies? My partner thinks that I chose one of my lovers because of the size of his appendage... nope, not even close. First came visual attraction through his pic, then physical attraction through meeting and also emotional? attraction as he is a nice guy. Thats my opinion anyway.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im not a girl, butttttt I rekon as long as its not too big or small its in the way the operator operates it.IE If its on the hugeish side it may cause too much fricton and push the uterus too far up into the heart lung region.On the flip side if its on the smallish side then it may not cause enough friction or even fail to touch both sides of the vaginal walls at the same time.My theory with women and penis size is that the size is more of a mental/visual stimulation than a physical one, that, and or the vaginal cavity has been stretched wayy out of all proportion by age, babies and over sized dildos, you know those ones that can double as draught excluders for the bottoms of doors in the winter. :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
In your scenario, the bigger one is definitely better, but a lot of guys who are average or on the smaller side usually nake up for it with tongue nd fingers. Doesnt bother me that much as long as a guy can please doesn't matter how it is done
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RHP User
12 years ago
last time i checked.. 2+2=4? and now im embarassed to say... i was here seeking the true answer to what mrs k always says to apease me.." its ok baby.. its how you use it that matters.. now GO AND FUCKING LEARN!!"
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me in my mind it doesnt. However because I am not the smallest and I have a big bud its not so great with a very small penis. It just doesnt reach deep enough in my vagina. Again a too big one hurts me. But the question is what can you do when you fall in love with a person and he has one or the other????? you just enjoy the person isnt it. Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
im going bigger , to answer your question if they both perform the same, but having said that have had some amazing average sized ones that have just blown my mind. oh and lets keep it different , if they were all the same it would be boring...... oh have had a small one.....about 4 inches and he did nothing for me. nothing worse than lying there asking myself ...are we there yet
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RHP User
12 years ago
choose,I would choose the one who is intelligent,funny and kind.It's not the dick,it's who is on the end of the dick.I don't want a dick with a dickx Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
It doesn't matter wat size as long as u no how to use it, Men with a wee man no how to make up for that with diff other things ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well for some reason I don't get, my Cock does my thinking for me when it comes to being really attracted to a woman. I can think, "WOW, she's lovely". An my Cock will say "Nahh".. I'm even more confused about it's ability to really really like someone I'm not that interested in.. On occasion, after arguing with it for a few weeks, I've managed to change it's mind about someone. I was at one of these times, when the moon was still young, that this conversation occurred.Camera pulls back, Gentle panting becomes normal breathing..."Hun, the sex has been lovely over the last months"."Thanks sweet. It's nice to be my self again"."Oh hun, all that soft willy sex was still fun. It's got nothing to do with how big you are (grins). The best sex I've ever had was with a bloke with really tiny dick".."Ummm..""Hey hun, was that your Ego running out the door screaming?"..Actually the last line is made up... The stuff we blokes have to hear in the name of learning.. ~sheesh~
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you misunderstood the question...for the average woman I think:anything under 4in length and 4in girth isn't going to be much fun even if the guy is a cocksmith.anything over about 8-9in+ length and 6-7in+ girth would be a bit painful at full penetration, especially over a durationobviously there are exceptions;a larger woman or one with a deep / wide set vagina will obviously prefer a longer/thicker penisvice versaa smaller woman or one with tighter/smaller vagina/shorter pelvic floor(not sure if that's the right term) will prefer an average sized penis, much bigger will just hit the pelvic bone or something else unpleasant and can often make a girl sickanything over 5in length and 4in girth, you are good to go. often find guys on the smaller side fuck like animals in some kind of lieu to make up for their subconscious size issuefrom my research I would think the ideal penis size would be around 8in length and 6in girth - would accommodate most types of vaginas and be the most pleasurable to the average womanjust remember, the Kamasutra says its about matching yourself correctlyEQUALMENWOMENHareDeerBullMareHorseElephant
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RHP User
12 years ago
mh... like a big one... but if the guy is nice ... does not matter.met the perfect guy... second date I discovered he was just too smalll!!! shit !!! but we have being together for two months and sex is great!!!so.... the men is not only his penis if a good lover caring and sexy and can put you in the right mood....yummy..in the other hand , in one of my dates I went for the size... big nice one... foreplay ok, no great, then penetration and two minutes later was gone....NO GOOD.after that he said he was going to sleep because he have to get up early...ok .. no prob.I really wanted him out of my bed ASAP.. fall sleep, and was woken up by the most horrible noise ever !!! the snoring was so freaking bad I coulnot sleep all night .LESSON ... I rather have my small beautiful boyfriend penis, that I can have fully in my mouth and enjoy for hours and wake up feeling refresh and happy... big smile in my face and a glow in my skin... I am getting horny now... OH YES THE TOPIC WAS ?? YES SIZE yes and no... NOT REALLY ... not for me. play long keep it hard... thats more important...
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RHP User
12 years ago
nice answer hesione, but like i said given everything equal, both guys are charming, good looking and possess similar attributes. But one is average and the other guy is bigger than average. Whom would you choose? :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
and it often depends on the girl if you get my drift. Eg. If the other guy is massive, I'd choose the smaller of the two XXX
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think that with the array of toys and vibrators out there that most women are picking a man based on the size of his penis i think they are looking for the physical connection and perhaps a mental one . A good pair of hands lips and tongue will bet a penis any day, truth hurts doesn't it !! Mr2n2
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good mixed response from everyone. Very informative....:) cheers everyone for dropping a line and expressing your view. Appreciate that. The question came to my mind when i read in an academic paper that most girls dont care about size. So thought about doing my own research here...:) From my experience as a big guy (I know i'm big cause the threesomes or gang bangs I have been, I rarely saw someone as big as me or bigger.) My size doesn't make me a good lover. Its how I do it. Size is just a bonus. I reckon it just makes me feel good and confident about myself and entertain some girls with the view of it. But when it comes to sex I think body and mind work as one complete unit. Some guys can use it well, some guys cant.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good mixed response from everyone. Very informative....:) cheers everyone for dropping a line and expressing your view. Appreciate that. The question came to my mind when i read in an academic paper that most girls dont care about size. So thought about doing my own research here...:) Don't misunderstand my question. I'm not trying to showoff or trying to say size matters and the bigger the better. I'm just trying to find out the truth from girls with experience of being with guys that are average/small and guys that are big and what they think about it. Thats all.From my experience as a big guy (I know i'm big cause the threesomes or gang bangs I have been, I rarely saw someone as big as me or bigger.) my size doesn't make me a good lover. Its how I do it. Size is just a bonus. I reckon it just makes me feel good and confident about myself and entertain some girls with the view of it. But when it comes to sex I think body and mind work as one complete unit. Some guys can use it well, some guys cant.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It depends what sizes you are comparing .Would I choose 7 inches over 4 inches yes,would I choose 10 inches over 7inches no. However that is only if all other attributes are equal.....including kissing.that is more important to me than penis size. x Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
An average sized penis is just fine. Anything ridiculously small is probably a little let down, and anything over the top can be difficult. Someone else also mentioned a fine pair of hands or lips, yep, after all you can only do so much with your cock. Did someone mention 4 inch girth?? Jesus, is it just me or is that a pretty fat cock?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Depends on how the girth is measured. I believe it is supposed to be circumference, the distance around the cock back to the same spot, not the distance across (this is width).Hope that helps those wondering on Girth.
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RHP User
12 years ago
....lol....fair play to you mate
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think size seems to matter much more to the boys then it does to most women. But I am not a size queen though.Meeka xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well thats just dumb!!! So much harder to mentally calculate than going straight across from one point to to an opposite point... How many guys are getting out their tape measures tonight thinking yahoo I'm 4inch girth not 2.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Youngnmuscular:) Thanks for the Topic in a different way...Honestly from my observation and Interest from Guys the only ones really Interested in cock Size is the Guys..The only time a Female would be involved is if they were either end of the range size thickness wise..But if they're smmart that will be sorted long before they got to the bedroom.. If 2 Guys do have differing sizes then the 1 that fits best penetrates her the other Pleasures the Female as he does. she can then suck his cock or at the same time as the other Guys is doing her.. The other way is if 1 or both are either Bi or Bio curious .Then the Guy who fits well Penetrates her and the larger cock Guy Penetrates him since guys are focused on size ha!ha! warped SOH here.. For me I would be involved in all of the above.plus it's vital for me to have a Strong Connection on every level mind, Emotions,Soul, celebrate it with our bodies..Personality plays a big part too rarely do both be absolute equal Lovers..Bring it on I say ..I test it and get back to you ..ha!ha! Cheers LU :) NB Guys stop focusing on Penis size and focus on your Lover otherwise you may just be left Holding your Cock not Holding your lover as you both orgasm together..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like big cocks , I like the visual , the feeling of it in my hands when I put them down his pants , I like the size while giving head and I LOVE the feeling if being full while fucked! I have a husband whom I love passionately, should his cock fall off, he is still my man, my love , my life. I would never take his penis over his self , his cock makes zero difference to how amazing he is as a man in my life ........................... HOWEVER when swinging , for fun , given the choice of a plaything for a night - giddeeee up big boys!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
NO! Size does not matter. The guy with the small penis can be just as much fun as the guy with the big penis. Having a cock in your pussy is not the be all and end all of a sexual encounter. Besides, you don't need a penis to stimulate my brain and that is the most important thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
,If it,s a concern to the person it belongs to. if its no big deal to the giver and receiver, then theres no problem.. Experinced one 9" once, as much as i enjoyed it , i still like the feel of my mans 7" more. i find the bigger the penis, the bigger the ego.. That can be off putting... I love unwrapping presents, so if i dont know whats inside the undies, its a nice surprise... But if you insist in telling me, the surprise is spoilt.. Mrs jj
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RHP User
12 years ago
For the ladies .... Q : What's the useless bit of skin at the end of a mans penis ?? A : His body I will be honest, and there arent many guys outt here that would be, but im not the biggest knife in the block, I'm more like a paring knife, smaller articulate, take my time and in the right hands always get the job done ! ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
can you tie tie your dick in a knot?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im not taking about granny knots lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
No size doesnt matter to me either. Ive found with guys 7" under seem to be more sensual, enjoy the foreplay, teasing, tasting every inch of my body, they have found other ways of pleasing me... more in tune with my body if you like... Where as guys 8" over (not all) seem to think that most of the hard work is done because they have a big cock. Sometimes larger cocks can feel uncomfortable, especially when you are both horny as all hell, and just want to fuck like rabbits, but find yourself pulling away because its just so bloody uncomfortable.Atleast with an average sized cock we can fuck all night as hard and as rough as we want and still walk normally the next day ;)Tigesx
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RHP User
12 years ago
To me size doesnt matter...As long its not the size of a pin i can work with it..It also comes back to who driving that dick..A guy may have a smaller dick that someone else but know how to use it better...Ive been with both and i must say i enjoyed them all..Size doesnt matter as long as they can get me over the line ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Reading this forum you'd think people ran around here with a measuring tape all day.And we're metric people. You can be a 7 or a 175. Your choice ~laughs~
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seems most girls on this site prefer average over a bigger cock. Thats good
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RHP User
12 years ago
but somewhere in the middle! As long as it's rock hard and attached to a man with a tireless tongue... aahhh bliss!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personally I LOVE them big. Hubby is 7.5" long and 6" girth, which fits me just perfect. Think anything over that might be too big especially over a long period. I can feel hubby for days afterwards in particular if we've gone at it hard. That said though, I love my husband more than I love his cock. He loves me, treats me with respect and is kind & caring, passionate and loyal. That's what counts for me in a long term partner more than the size of his equipment. As for the swinging aspect of things, we girls are here for fun & pleasure as much as the guys, so I would tend to chose a cpl or sgl guy based on how good his physique is and the size of the male endowment (nothing smaller than hubby). Although traits like confidence, hygiene, being a considerate lover, treating the lady with respect AND treating their own lady with respect are important. We've no interest in guys who are on here playing around on their wives or gf's or who pressurise their partners into swinging no matter how enormous his cock is. So that's my two cents worth.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
This subject has been done to death... and it's always the same... The guy who has the big dick starts the post probally as a way of bringing attention to himself.. Predictably ' a hand full of girls dont mind big, but the majority really dont give a cuss either way.. When you think about it' most are the same. So is it really worth all the attention ? I dont think it is... Mrs JJ
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avidmale
12 years ago
They love big fat cocks that will tear their insides to shreds bro.. Im sure youve got what it takes!Please... A post about cock size..(Insert Wonka meme)Please tell me how original you are. (sorry for the crowd who has no idea what I'm talking about with the meme) I think your answer could easily been answered by a google search.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok I'm too lazy to read all the comments above. But I'll be honest with you YES IT MATTERS!!!! If you're tiny and we can feel it then don't waste my time. If you're huge and think ramming it in till it comes out my throat then go away or you'll get a riding crop shoved up your arse. If you're average and know what you're doing, hard, soft, rough then hang around and make my day.....stop with the dumb size questions and learn how to use what you have.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
A pussy can only take so much cock, so if its too big, it's not that enjoyable at all. Preference, an average sized one, that's fat. And believe in the saying, " It's not the length of the prick that does the trick, but the throb of the knob that does the job"!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MRK_N_MRSK' last time i checked.. 2+2=4? and now im embarassed to say... i was here seeking the true answer to what mrs k always says to apease me.." its ok baby.. its how you use it that matters.. now GO AND FUCKING LEARN!!"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perfect answer Roxy.....question answered :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree. I have a saying. It's not the size of your cock that counts, it's how you use tongue!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Only two types of men give it a second thought - those that are very small and those that are very big. The rest of us just enjoy what we have without much thought other than how can we enjoy what we have more often. On RHP the question only ever comes from the large dudes doing some advertising.A better question would be - "does asking about cock size when I'm obviously huge tip off the ladies that all I have to offer is my large cock?"Mr C
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think Saskia hit the nail on the head. Pun definitely intended. I honestly don't think women are too concerned with penis size, unless of course it is something they place a value on. Some ladies are size queens, and I'm sure that really doesn't do much for a man who is anxious about the size of his penis. That said, you really can't say "All women love big dicks", or even "All women don't mind the size of a guy" because it's going to vary, and you're going to have difficulty placing any girl in a particular category. So, and I speak cautiously, I think generally women will focus more on a man's emotional and mental intelligence than his cock-size. When it comes down to it, if you have everything she desires, minus the package, I think you're going to do fine- and if not, did youw ant to be with someone who places such an emphasis on something so...small?
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RHP User
12 years ago
For relationships yes I agree cock size is irrelevant to a mans integrity , inner self etc, however in the swinging scene - parties, small events, saunts and sinners , or just couples inviting men over - 9 times out of 10 the choice is based not only on looks but on cock size!! .............................I have never been to a big event or party with invited single men who have small or average cocks. The invited men are always huge and always very popular, the more hung , the more the women love them !.................. Some married women here will not say their preference if their husband is small or average , and so they shouldn't , I wouldn't either as I wouldn't want to wound my husband . Same for some single women possibly chatting and dating/ texting men who are average or small...........monster cocks aside , a nice far cock is ( mostly) always a very pleasant surprise !!! If push comes to shove, great lovers, nice men, great looking etc most women in an unbiased anonymous poll would choose a bigger fatter cock . I do not consider myself a size queen but I sure do like men who have big cocka to play with :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol so many gender confused people on this site!!!The question was asked to the girls. Who the fuck wants to know what guys think. I know what we guys think an how obsessed we are about size.... I wanted to know what girls think. and not just any girl but girls with experience of having a big one and average/small ones and how they felt. read the question before answering!!
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Honestly - I get disappointed if the cock size isn't much to the imagination.... But if he can't use his big cock then I'm disappointed again.... But give me a big cock over a small one Anyday - that's just my opinion! Just like some guys prefer big boobs or big bums over small ones!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' I sure do like men who have big cocka to play with :) I'm not overly well endowed naturally.
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LemonDance
12 years ago
Nothing more dissapointing than when you meet up with a nice, big, tall, strong looking guy, who has big hands and huge feet but when it comes to that moment, when you slip your hands into his pants... only to discover has nothing but a little dinner roll tucked away down there... such false advertising! Size does matter, but hardness matters much more I think!
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RHP User
12 years ago
To me. I prefer fat ones to skinny, they don't have to be overly long ( that can be painful) but girth gives me more satisfaction. Having said this, I enjoy most of them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my experience most woman want quality not quantity. No point being big if you cant use it right ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im a definate size queen. The bigger the better. I am extremly disappointed when I see profiles (or meet men) who say theyre 7-8inches and they are no where near that size. I prefer them 8 inches plus. I am a paid member and can see the pics and yes I look. Its part of what I am looking for here. I have been to GBs where the larger guys are shunned by other women there but I happily take them on. I have never had one hurt me, never had one touch my cervix and I know I am 'lucky' in that regard. If I cant feel it then its not going to do anything for me. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
The answer is, yes and no. All else being equal I prefer big breasts. But since things are never equal, If you give me the choice between a playful, fun woman with small breasts and a woman with larger breasts who is reserved and doesn't like to play much I'll take the former every time. Ie. breast size is nice but there are more important things. I imagine, though I may be wrong as I am a mere male, that women in general have the same attitude towards cocks. Some prefer bigger, some not so big, but ultimately for most, I doubt it is anywhere near the most important thing.
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LemonDance
12 years ago
Actually Mischeviouslad, the average woman's vagina is about 7.5 cm across the front wall and approx 9 cm across the posterior wall AND when arroused will expand in both width and length, making room for any size cock!! The cervix, well that actually retracts, out of the way when a woman is arroused, so if you're doing your job properly you should never be able to feel it during intercourse! Something very amazing though, during a woman's orgasm, the cervix will "dip" down towards the ejaculated sperm pool!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'LemonDance'Actually Mischeviouslad, the average woman's vagina is about 7.5 cm across the front wall and approx 9 cm across the posterior wall AND when arroused will expand in both width and length, making room for any size cock!! The cervix, well that actually retracts, out of the way when a woman is arroused, so if you're doing your job properly you should never be able to feel it during intercourse! Something very amazing though, during a woman's orgasm, the cervix will "dip" down towards the ejaculated sperm pool! What can I say hungry little cervixes! LOL. I love these forums it can be so educational!
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LemonDance
12 years ago
Balloon? You must be kidding me right? I don't think I can agree with that terminology at all sorry! "Inevitably bring the cervix forward"? Only if the woman is suffering from a cervical prolapse (she should get that seen to!!). DG, I think it's time for some human biology refresher classes!! We are talking facts not fantasy here right?:o)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why is it important to you to just to get the females point of view ? A few will always say yes because thats what they prefer, but the majority couldnt give a bugga either way... and thats coming from the female sector.. If you post a subject and expect only females to reply and only tell you what you want to hear, think again..? This is a forum.. anybody is entitled to reply to any subject as long as its not derogatory, and I dont think anybody has done that...My only question is' why is it always the guy who has the big dick that starts these posts.. ? My guess it is only done to bring attention to themself...Tried one 9 + once, enjoyed the look and the thought, but it was too tense for me to relax and enjoy... Always preferred thick and about 7 ' After all' sex is about enjoyment, nothing else...
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RHP User
12 years ago
why its important for me just to get the female point of view?!! DUH!! cause I'm not gonna shove my cock up a guys ass... I aint gonna play with a guy so why the fuck I wanna know what guys think about it. Thats why i mentioned I want girls opinion in the first place.Yes I understand its a public forum
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RHP User
12 years ago
why its important for me just to get the female point of view?!! DUH!! cause I'm not gonna shove my cock up a guys ass... I aint gonna play with a guy so why the fuck I wanna know what guys think about it. Thats why i mentioned I want girls opinion in the first place.Yes I understand its a public forum and anyone can post what they want. If you feel u wanna answer the forum question answer it. if you have something for or against big cock say it in the forum. all good. but dont personally attack me. if you do you will get a nasty reply from me which wont make u feel good When it comes to me trying to get peoples attention!!hello...we are not doing a charity show here. its an adult dating site and everyone is trying to get attention isnt it? so are you. Writing tons about yourself and what you want and what you are looking for and uploading pics. We all are doing the same thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
This post was for what ppl thoughts are of a big cock ??? Not what your insecurities are' and not about what it might make you if another male put his opinion forward.. ? You did yourself no favors by threatening me btw. You are entitled to reply to what I wrote, but saying you will send a nasty reply if I am likely to disagree, isnt acceptable ...Suggest you read the RHP guidelines before threatening anyone..
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LemonDance
12 years ago
but the probably don't do refunds after a such a long period of time has passed! hehehe...:) XX
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RHP User
12 years ago
im a size queen so im deff saying never go small ive had small and it was borring and not a challenge and u cant get into some of the whacky possies i like to get into i certainly dont care how big yr nob is if yr a asshole it wont happen ,its a package deal but its a deal breaker if yr small no matter how nice u r sorry i just dont enjoy small i like deep penetration and i like to feel it hit the end and i like them fat to so yes size does matter if there were twins one had 7 one had 8 hellllo 8 i wont see under 7 and thats pushing it as i siad im a size queen i just loooooove around 8-9 inches
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RHP User
12 years ago
reading the bits on cervix and how it dips down in fact haha i mays well put my bit in the cervix tips down and contracts while orgasming so it can suk up sperm to get pregnant i know sounds silly but its a fact i didnt say it in a very technical manner but its hopefully climaxing the same time as the guy so while hes ejaculating into her the cervix is retracting and opening to suk in sperm sadly its rare u both cum on cue together but thats the reason why they do what they do so when u want to get pregnant try this is a quicker way to get pregnant easier
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RHP User
12 years ago
haha ur not even making any sense!! and who started it first?! ur the one who brought me into this. u cud just say i hate big cock for this and that. why bring me into this??You know what, im gonna completely ignore you from now. ur weird and fucked up opinion doesnt matter. I'm getting far more intelligent responses from intelligent people. u guys rock. big or small whatever u like be brave and say it out loud. cheers for the responses.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You understood perfectly.... ignorance is a lame excuse.. But yes ' please go away... no one is taking YOU serious anyway... We get this subject once every few months... same topic' different poster.... the majority are so over it..... give me a man with personality anyday...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It matters that it fits, and suits me. That probably also means it matters that I offer a good fit for said cock, as well. A two-way street :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
than the size of your cock is how you treat people,respect ,charm,kindness, humour,intelligence are far more important than a few inches of flesh..x Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Miss LD.... yes, the vagina does "balloon" during your arousal processes. Some positions will inevitably bring the cervix forward though. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'eroticpleasure12' In my experience most woman want quality not quantity. No point being big if you cant use it right ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
2 rite
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RHP User
12 years ago
been with some good looking ladies over the past few years & some have got vaginas bigger than sydney tunnel but i never complane guys fit back if ur not happy get lost u have a very big hole 2 fill
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RHP User
12 years ago
its not the length but the width is the most important
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RHP User
12 years ago
clever profile marketing strategy by "Youngnmuscular".
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RHP User
12 years ago
From someone who is over 9 inches and thick. And get the occasional, 'OMG, I have never seen one that big up close and in person before', is an indication to take it easy on them. I have had my fair share of ladies in my life (being 47 years old), but one thing I do know is, I am not here to just pound on you. I am old enough to know mostly what ladies like and what they don't. Now I hear some ladies who posted say that larger is too big. Now unless you were with a guy who only thought of himself during sex and did it however he wanted, will you have an unpleasurable experience. That's not how experienced guys should work. At least not me. I am seductive. I use everything in my arsenal to entice and satisfy. Tongue, fingers, talking, experimenting. So for those ladies that were sore because you were pounded and don't like that feeling, maybe you should mention it to the guy who was pounding you. For those who were pounded and couldn't wait to tell your girlfriends about it in the morning, 'Your Welcome'. ;) signed, The Hulk (Just Kidding about the name, I though it might lighten up the convo).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '2n2makes4'I don't think that with the array of toys and vibrators out there that most women are picking a man based on the size of his penis i think they are looking for the physical connection and perhaps a mental one . A good pair of hands lips and tongue will bet a penis any day, truth hurts doesn't it !! Mr2n2 BINGO 2n2 - hand, tongue, lips (and for me, eyes) will ALWAYS win over the size of the penis. It IS how it is used in conjunction with everything else that makes me come the mose. That being said, if it was just a once off dirty romp, then I'd be more inclined to go for something bigger to hit the spot deeper.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Iim with you, specially the eyes bit... A talented tounge, hands and lips as you say, leaves the dick obsessed for dead.. Was the blue eyes that attracted me to Mr JJ in the first place, then i found he was talented in other ways. lol. Better a great personality with benefits, than just a penis. Btw, dont mind a big dick, but without a personaity, its just another dick.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is a certain attitude that comes with a man with a big cock. It gives them a sexy confidence. I like that. A man who knows that he has something to offer - has something to offer! Average is fine but there is no man wandering this planet with a small cock who didn't wish he had one bigger. Confidence is everything.
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RHP User
12 years ago
So it seems that all the guys in this thread just want responses. I'll throw my choice into the hat.I'm a chubby size 18 lady. I actually have size restrictions that I enforce. Anything over 6.5inches will leave me out of action for up to a week.So average size is FANTASTIC. Anyone who is 5 or 6 inches is PERFECT.I have to say as well, having met my share on men of RHP, most "upsize" their online specifications! If it's too big - I'll still find something to do with it
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thats a good observation miss galore....
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RHP User
12 years ago
and my sexperiences (based on many varieties lol)I'd say overall I've had more average sized guys than small or large and prefer average sized, so the 6in-7in-ish mark is plenty for me.In saying that though thinking more in depth about it, the average sized guys I've had versus the larger variety were far better in the sack overall. The larger guys I had seemed more focused on their cocks and the penetration side as opposed to anything else, I dunno like some sorta "Well here's my horse-sized cock aren't you so impressed, this is all you need" mentality. Whereas the average sized tended to focus on all areas.And I'm quite happy to be proved wrong, but for now I will stick with my average guys because they know how to do it for me best :DOh just to add as well, some ladies can't accomodate the larger guys comfortably, I'm one of them, which probably is a factor into my preferences lolMrsf xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well said... but dont confuse confidence with arrogance... Personally it would be a big turn off if the bearer was full of himself...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think that cock size does matter..Very much so! I wouldnt judge a guy by that.. If it goes with the whole package then you work around it! A small cock is very hard to hit the spot with but I guess thats just my experience!...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ive had a boy with a huge cock and while we had fantasic sex, it was our smaller wingman that could move me..big difference in cock size and smaller makes no differance to me...when u know what your doing..this is a few yrs ago and he still makes me as honry as hell when i think.....oh...damnit
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is nothing like the deepest stimulation which does require the right size for the right woman... the complete package also includes so much more.......a skilled attentive lover, stamina and control, visual and intellectual pleasure and connection, knowing a womans body and mind and how to use this wonderful physicality and asset to arouse both, confidence without arrogance.......but when you find the complete package....well it brings a lasting smile to my whole body for days!! Enjoy searching girls!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
in all honesty big dicks scare me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... but all this talk of cock size has taken the wind out of my sails. I'll tell you one thing though, ... he may be small but get him angry and he'll still stand up and spit at you.
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missangelina
12 years ago
Although size has to be balanced against a whole range of other factors - a man is not just a penis, my answer to the question is I would choose the larger guy. I have discovered through experience that my g=spot is deeper down in the wall of my vagina and a thicker longer penis is needed to really stimulate it. If the guy is smaller than about 6' - he probably wont hit the spot unfortunately.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i wasnt gonna comment on this 1 youngmuscle but iv always considered being average size & i think we maybe bout same size(give or take an inch).but iv had a coupla gangs / 3ways & been dwarfed by at least 2 monster cocks. i almost retreated but sustaing an erection proved hard for 1 bloke & the 3way the female was insome pain trying 2 accomodate his girth, which he later said was regular with smaller women.neither men had ever been deep throated wholly. as jealous as i was of these trouser logs it made me happy just being 'average'.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My size is 6 inch dose it work Girth is 5 inch circumcised....?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just joined here and loved the question and the answers. I would choose a bigger size rather than small, given the hot kiss and the magic was there as well. Keeing it hard for enough time for both to enjoy agreat orgasm is pretty important. As men get a bit older, it is hard for a very large penis to keep erected, if the guy's fitness level is not great
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RHP User
12 years ago
I really liked your answer, girlfriend! Ditto!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ummmm, nice answer! Inteligent, creative, sensual and large where it matters! R U available for chatting sometime? hahaha!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Soooo... now that we have decided that cock size does matter to some and not to others... has the REAL qstn been asked.. does vaginal cavity depth, girth, inside diameter, outside diameter, circumference, moisture content, and aroma really matter? So a waterproof, tight as a fishes arsehole vag, or a wide on with a built in echo.. whats the call?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess the answer is along the lines of those with a fully blown wizard sleeve vajayjay are more likely to be a size queen just so it can brush against the sides.......and for the girls with a vagina-minor all those pencil dicks will be certainly feeling like a regular Johnny Holmes Moisture content isn't so much of a concern these days , what with all the porn spit flying around and every flavour lube under the sun readily available in all our local Woolies......now the aroma issue hmmmmmm will most likely get the same response as peeling back a foreskin to only smell fish and piss : "Im not putting THAT in my mouth".I hope this answers a few of your worries, I know it must be keeping you up all hours of the night
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RHP User
12 years ago
Howdy I think big ones are painfull and lets face it we have what we have I have tiny tits that Im self consious of but they came with mothering so I think if a guy is large and his partner not ,steady on tiger if the man is tiny and feels a bit insecure about it use toys on her unfortunatly there are too many shallow men and woman these days.My ex had a problem with his cock size drove me crazy he would waste stupid amounts of time pumping away while im yawning waiting,enjoy what you have and if the partner judges you on your cock size,move on!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well Said ! Agreed, we all have what we have and make the most of it.... and I for one LOVE small tits.... :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
well said guys. i reckon big or small is not the problem. problem is when size causes insecurity or arrogance.
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RHP User
12 years ago
from my experience i can say ive had all sizes and the best i ever had was recently. It was 6 or 7 inches and the tip bent to the left a little and may be it was becuase we where the same height but fuck it was good. had bigger 8 to 9 inches felt good but not as good as the other. think we need to match our pussy with the right cock lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now I do agree that every woman is anatomically different & maybe my high school boyfriend (shy tall guy with big dick) spoiled me for choice but I really do need a nice big one, like 7-8 inches, any bigger & ouch. Thickness is def important too. I know ( like samantha on sex & the city) that a small one just isn't gonna do it for me especially physically to look at as well as the rest
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