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does cock size matter?
August 08 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
OMG love your pix hunni. Yes cock size does matter I wont have sex with anyone under 8-9 inches
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'muscleshaper'OMG love your pix hunni. Yes cock size does matter I wont have sex with anyone under 8-9 inches All I can say is I love women who love big and find it somewhat difficult with women who like smaller.......
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't I have a nice little list of women to throw in the same basket as those who ask about size?? This topic never ceases to bring out those who want to grandstand themselves behind a "genuine question facade." and those that wish to advertise their willingness to put blinkers on in addition to their narrow minded ways. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
You have what you have, and there's no point in trying to change it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
OP - is this a trick question? I'm sorry but I'm going to be brutally honestly. Small cocks do not turn me on at all. I love nothing more than discovering a man has a big beautiful rock hard cock in his jocks......yum! I don't care how good you are at oral etc, if you don't have a nice big cock I don't want to know.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh I totally agree with you. Maybe us girls have different sized vaginas to fit different sized cocks? Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Savvy Girl'... if you don't have a nice big cock I don't want to know. So whats your plan if you discover, at that point of no return, that he's less than you expect.Tuck, roll, and run?!Or..... what if he disrobed you and you knew he was thinking.... "Oh no... I was hoping her tits would be bigger/pussy would be prettier/tighter/(whatever other variation here)"?DG Exactly DG wait for the screeches of "Oh you bastard!!! how dare you criticise the size of my anything"Come on girls ffs........you aren't just talking about a piece of meat, you are belittling a man for something he cannot change.(those who have done the head wobble and said, "uh uh , you better get that skinny ass dick away from me sunshine")imagine for one second you are standing naked (in his shoes) and all of a sudden he gives your pussy the once over and tells you , " Ohhh honey, I can't work with that" .Exactly!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
As I said maybe us girls have different sized vaginas. I have talked to girlfriends & I know quite a few girls who want nothing bigger than 6 inch cause they find it painful for intercourse or intimidating for a blow job. Most men have certain physical types & limits to what turns them on, we are just as entitled to do the same. Yes of course you can't help size just as we cant help certain physical features of our own.
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RHP User
12 years ago
......Mischeviouslad if my honesty offends. Perhaps I should just lie like some women do and say 'no, size doesn't matter. I think your three inch cock is just wonderful'. Whilst I have only come across a few small cocks - I did not 'tuck, roll and run'. I simply did not re-visit. Some men like a woman with small tits, some women like men with tattoos, some men prefer brunettes, some women like men with six pack abs. I like a well endowed man.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No Need to get offensive. everyone has their right to say what they like. Have some respect and don't make things personal. don't criticize others preference. We all like different things.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's is my point exactly - we DO all like different things. Yes Mischieviouslad, I did answer your question. I said I would not re-visit.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Trying to drum up business?, you advertise yourself as a bull, which in the cuckold world means you see yourself as a stud. Bulls are supposed to humiliate the smaller cocked husbands of unsatisfied wives when they pull out their big cocks and give the wife what both the cuck and bull perceive to be what she really wants, as the lesser man looks on, am I not right?.I first heard of cuckolding a couple of years ago when a link was pasted on here and it was mind blowing to read that there are men out there who get off on the humiliation of standing by as an onlooker while a "better" man satisfies his wife. I find the whole thing a touch tragic to be honest, with the "bull" suffering just as many emotional issues as the weaker "cuck", measuring your self worth in comparison to your penis size says a lot about a persons character be it bull or cuckold.You know which answer you want to hear, so please tell me if it has helped you to feel more emasculated seeing the confirmation in writing or has it perhaps given you an insight into how shallow you appear to actually be?.
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RHP User
12 years ago
haha u started doing a research on cuckold and bull!!lol. get a life dude. Haters gonna hate and potatoes gonna potate. And regarding my business? it has always been good! And it will always be. And you know that, perhaps thats why a bit jealous hey?;) dont worry. Im sure you are good at something. We all have our natural talents!
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a psychologist I am indifferent, not jealous nor piteous, the question you initially posed was coupled with follow up comments betraying the need to desperately to tell the world you were, in your opinion a "big boy", this however betrays your intentions, which was to create a thread where you hope to advertise your appendage. Your suggestion that I am jealous somehow only goes on to confirm my initial comments regarding the emotional state of men who are willing to describe themselves as "bulls" and place their self worth on correlation to the size of their penis. The description you make of yourself as a "bull" is a term only used in cuckold fetish scenarios, where the inferior husband gets a thrill from watching a physically larger man (bull) service his partner while he revels in his own humiliation. The fact you use the term bull to refer to yourself suggests that you seek to humiliate or impress the other male present, which from a psychological standpoint infers you have a repressed need to appear dominant for whatever reason.The last line of your reply regarding talent once again re visits your perception that having a large penis is some sort of skill in itself, perhaps you should apply some introspection and assess whether the cuckold/bull role play is affecting your outlook on people in the real world, it would be prudent to remember that only a very small group of people are involved in this fetish and ask yourself whether you are allowing the role play to creep into your dealings with normal everyday people.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'nameisinuse' As a psychologist I am indifferent, not jealous nor piteous, the question you initially posed was coupled with follow up comments betraying the need to desperately to tell the world you were, in your opinion a "big boy", this however betrays your intentions, which was to create a thread where you hope to advertise your appendage. Your suggestion that I am jealous somehow only goes on to confirm my initial comments regarding the emotional state of men who are willing to describe themselves as "bulls" and place their self worth on correlation to the size of their penis. The description you make of yourself as a "bull" is a term only used in cuckold fetish scenarios, where the inferior husband gets a thrill from watching a physically larger man (bull) service his partner while he revels in his own humiliation. The fact you use the term bull to refer to yourself suggests that you seek to humiliate or impress the other male present, which from a psychological standpoint infers you have a repressed need to appear dominant for whatever reason.The last line of your reply regarding talent once again re visits your perception that having a large penis is some sort of skill in itself, perhaps you should apply some introspection and assess whether the cuckold/bull role play is affecting your outlook on people in the real world, it would be prudent to remember that only a very small group of people are involved in this fetish and ask yourself whether you are allowing the role play to creep into your dealings with normal everyday people. well well OP nameisinuse has just OWNED you fuck me brains are sexy
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RHP User
12 years ago
dude im not getting offensive with anyone for expressing their opinions on the question. But if someone attacks me or anyone else personally then you will hear back from me. Why the fuck someone has to bring me or someone else into the response to the question. What the fuck is that?!!! I'm not talking about anybody.if you dont like the question then dont look at this thread. its that simple.And mr psychiatrist, You sound like someone from out of this world, doing my psychometric analysis based on whats written on my profile on an adult dating site!! lol. talking with u is a waste of my time. So I will stop here. And dont start analyzing what I have written line by line!!lol.I'm sure you have other better things to do with your time. If not then ........ no comments
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secure2
12 years ago
The age old question, but in the vain you have posed it then. Not so much to do with the length but the girth, more is better vaginally, anally then medium is great, combine the 2 together at same time then Bliss. Mrs Secure
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CrackUp
12 years ago
MMMM I think size does matter. That time...when I was drowning in the bathtub... and I had my big yellow duckie..instead of my little one, OH yeah.. I thought I was a goner.. until that big ol' fella just sailed on past and I grabbed a hold. Of course, unless you are planning on using your appendage as a life saving device.. I guess... it's really, all a matter of the variety of life . Enjoy what you have...and don't give a flying fig about the guy next door at the urinal, he's probably pissing razor blades as we speak.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'curves21'Now I do agree that every woman is anatomically different & maybe my high school boyfriend (shy tall guy with big dick) spoiled me for choice but I really do need a nice big one, like 7-8 inches, any bigger & ouch. Thickness is def important too. I know ( like samantha on sex & the city) that a small one just isn't gonna do it for me especially physically to look at as well as the rest Tooooo true, neva ouch 4 me
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RHP User
12 years ago
as someone thats had a bit of experience in this area (mr here) figured id chime in with my own story as "small" as it may be... haha.for those that say you have what you are given, deal with it... nothing is impossiblei started off with a somewhat below average sized penis, always been a grower not a shower - erect length about 5.5in not sure of girth... but through various daily exercises (not going to detail here as everyone's body differs, my routine wont work for everyone), supplements and diet, now my lil feller stands around 7.5in erect length and 4.5in girth (now have changed from length exercises to concentrate on girth now... aiming for 8x6 end goal)other benefits found other than obvious size increase are longer stronger erections due to increased blood flow / capacity and an extra hardness/strength to it from the increased skeletal muscle / scarification (i'm no expert i think this is the right terms)..not something for anyone to just jump into, requires a bit of researching so you don't harm yourself and takes time, commitment and patience... but the results speak for themselves :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
i think its fair to say that size DOES matter. iF its too small whats the point especially if u cant feel it?if its way too big , that can cause alot of damage. I prefer a medium size cock as long as its nice n thick....I have used big dildos before, which stretch out my vag... but i cant take them too deep - that shit sucks! people who think and say it doesn't matter clearly have a partner with a small one or has a small one themselves. For the most part, if u do have a small or extra large one, i think you should just be fucking awesome with your hands and mouth! eLLE XX
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RHP User
12 years ago
A dick has to perform a function... A massive flaccid dick, not as useful as an average, but fiery one... I think u have to find what are the best positions for what u have... I have a well endowed partner, which means that anal sex is OUT OF THE QUESTION, we have tried and I bleed for a week, I freaked out, so he is off limits on that entrance.... Whereas I have had partners with smallish (even tiny) willies with whom anal sex was a pleasure, but vaginal intercourse not so much (are we there yet? Or are u in yet?)... If a dick is big enough to sorta enjoy most positions, then u do not need any more... At that point the man itself is who makes a difference in sexual performance (I am all for endurance and hardness! Size comes after these two things... One has to keep it up until I am done with him!) Esime
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RHP User
12 years ago
Those who say it doesn't make any difference and that size does't matter, have maybe never tried hoe a nice thick and hard penis makes you feel like! (big dildoes are damn painful, I stopped using them too... :-) I now have a "skin like" 7 inches one which is very pleasant... E
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi not import net if you no ha to youse
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have this argument with my boyfriend all the time because he is under the impression that every girl wants a 9 inch penis. I have had a 9 inch penis and I could not have sex in my favorite position without it hurting and found when our spark died so did our sex life as it was uncomfortable. My partner always makes sure I am completely satisfied by tongue/finger way before his penis comes near me and I squirt like a "gully gusher" as he calls it, and who couldever complain about that??. Love being able perform in all positions and still be able to come during sex as well... Average for me is a winner...
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inspirit
12 years ago
it depends on if i feel like gagging or not
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RHP User
12 years ago
...there would be enough head-cases here on RHP to keep you gamefully employed from now untill, ...well forever. If you're not, nice shot at youngnmuscular anyway (hehehe). As to dick size, if it's too small to clear your fly and you always piss down the front of your daks, you have a problem, if not, all good.
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RHP User
12 years ago
does matter very much, unless it doesn't work very well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
fellow that we couldn't go further than the kissing and caressing we were already doing because I had my period after I had coped a feel of his little fella. I mean little, he was no bigger than my thumb. Honestly I just wanted to save us both the embarrassment that would come had we continued. Maybe it was me being too loose not him being too small, either way it wouldn't have worked well. And I know I would have been so uncomfortable and embarrassed. On the other end of the size spectrum, another fellow accused me of being too tight, he was annoyed as though I was intentionally making things difficult for him.The insolence of my vagina astounds me to this day. Bad kitty. I shot back at him that his cock was too big, in hindsight probably not my best insult, he didn't seem fazed in the slightest.To answer your question though, size only ever matters if it doesn't fit because it's either too small or too big..........oh wait ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my oppinion there is a line of yes and no i believe size doesnt matter as long as you know how to use it i hate huge dicks they fucking hurt!! one of my ex's dick was the size of his arm (elbow to fingertips!) and he was thick too i couldnt have sex with him it felt like i was losing my virginity all over again... my hubby is average and thick and all while it feels amazing he is a champ in bed he certainly knows how to use it!! but then i had an experince with an ex he was literally the size of a cheerio (the meat ones you get from the deli) lol and i could not feel a thing!! haha it was horrible!! so not too small but not too big just average and know how to use it!! ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have this same arguement with my partner constantly. The amount of times I have ssaid it doesn't matter, I dont give a flying fuck what size it is .... The way I see it is to big its painful it hits the pelvic floor bone and can make ubsick, to small and it does nothing! But what I have an issue with is guys who have bigger cocks make the average guy feel like crap because achording to there math if ur small u can't fuck a girl right. What you mean you dont hurt her instead u give her pleasure? Please give me a cock no bigger than 8in anyway over a 9in. The smaller or the more average a gguy is the more likely he is to have read a thing or to about how to please a woman. Instead of sticking it in and fucking till they come and thats all...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does size matter, yes it does. But the preferred size will vary with every woman you meet so worrying about it is pointless. But its not just about size, sometimes its about the size of the head, or the angle/bend in the shaft, its a variety of so many things. One thing I have found is that some guys who want to sprout they have 8/9/10inches seem to think that that alone is impressive and they are just useless in bed. As if the size alone is going to get the job done. If a guy comes to me and finds needs to tell me he is 9" and great in bed BAH, I wont even bother, chances are he is going to be useless in bed coz he thinks his size is the winner. Of course this is not to say all men are like that (before anyone wants to have a hissy fit!) but I have found a lot to be that way. Size is not impressive. If its a one night stand or just a meet for fun, yep, I am a greedy girl I would like size, its my treat and I intend to enjoy it! If its on going, then size is less important, I rather about 7" or 6" that I can suck and fuck and really enjoy totally and the person on the other end of the cock is what makes the difference. If I dont like the guy, I aint gunna be fucking him, and cock size or girth aint gunna make any difference.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In that scenario, smaller one! My husband has a massive dick (thicker than my wrist), and sometimes we can't have sex for days because he's broken me! I want him to get a penis reduction...
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my personal opinion. Size matters. You wanted HONEST, here it is. Anything under 7" I wonder if it will satisfy. (Some have surprised me). I walked away and simply couldn't try one that was under 4". I made up an excuse. Poor guy but i just couldn't. Anything over 9" I wonder if im going to get split in two and it gives me a sickly feeling as it pushes too deep.Most dildos sold in shops are between 6-8 inches. Why? I guess that's the most comfortable size for most women. Size combined with the way its used matters. If it comes down to 1" and both cocks feel the same inside, and I had to chose, it would come down to the guy with the best personality then the guy with the better looks. Failing that, I simply couldn't choose.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you suppose it was something we said?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ummm, ...you and me are on friendly terms, aren't we, namesinuse? (Please don't own me, please don't own me, please don't own me,...)
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my experience i've found that guys with a huge cock can often be one trick ponies....they seem to think that they can pull it out and we will just swoon with delight.....and that that is all it takes.... Then i've had a guy with such a small cock that it was actually hard to give him head before it was fully errect.....but boy did he take me places with his lips and tongue...... I know who left me more satisfied! Generally speaking, it's the whole package we take to bed. This includes so many other things that cock size, if it's on the list at all, is certainly not a huge consideration.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry, ...sorry. What I meant to say is that he is a sixty seven inch cock.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Size doesn't matter - but I don't see any 3" crooked vibraters on the market??
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RHP User
12 years ago
I didn't marry my husband for his personality :P
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